
If Pakistani model Qandeel
Baloch's murder in the name of honour killing wasn't shocking enough,
what sent a chill down our spine was the accused, her brother Waseem,
confessing to the crime devoid of any remorse or regret. While women
around the world are discussing and debating feminism, equal rights and
equal pay, here, another brutal reality is staring at us in the
face. Putting honour over humanity is disgraceful. Qandeel apparently
wanted an Indian citizenship. The model had tweeted in March that she
wanted an Indian citizenship because she was disappointed with Pakistan
and had tagged PM Narendra Modi in her tweet. In an interview just days
before her death, she had said, “In Pakistan, people are not ready to
accept me. It would be much easier for me to work in India.“ Sadly,
horrifying acts of honour killing are rampant in India as well, and
various films over time have attempted to draw attention to this heinous
act. Much recently, the widely acclaimed Marathi film Sairat was based
on the same subject, though when we asked director Nagraj Manjule, he
was evasive about it.

Filmmaker Aanand L Rai strongly expressed his
views and said, “There is no comparison between India and Pakistan in
this regard. Despite so many difficulties, we Indians have our own
voice, whether it is honour killing or censorship. I know I have a voice
here. It's not that things are easy in our country, but I still have
the freedom and I am proud of my country for that. I can raise my voice
against honour killing and all other issues. When we have an issue or a
problem, we fight and try to solve it. These are two different countries,
with different mindsets.“
Sherlyn Chopra, known for her risqué avatar, says, “I've have
made some bold choices in life and I'm proud of them. Initially, my
family was surprised with my daring decisions but later on realised that
as an adult, I had every right to live my life on my terms as long as I
was ready to face the consequences. I was prepared to face backlash
after I returned from Los Angeles where I had shot for the cover of a
popular adult magazine. But surprisingly, the plaudits had outnumbered
the brickbats for the courage that I had shown. I feel that India is
tolerant in many ways inspite of being a diverse nation. I feel deeply
sorry for Qandeel, who was forced to pay a highly unreasonable price for
having lived her life audaciously. No honour is above humanity. No
nation or constitution can guarantee freedom to its citizens as long as
there are anti-social elements prevalent across the globe. Therefore,
the price of freedom is eternal vigilance.“

Director Navdeep Singh, whose film NH10 touched upon the issue, says,
“Honour killing is a horrible thing. It's shocking that a person's life
can be tied to someone else's honour, whether brother or family. No one
has the right to take anyone's life. It happens largely with women
because of the patriarchal society. Though attempts are being made to
dissuade honour killing, they don't reach the small towns and villages
where it matters. Lecturebaazi won't help. More than legal, it is a
socio-cultural issue. The threat of punishment is there for any murder,
and honour killing is no less than murder.“

Pakistani actress
Mawra Hocane, who made her Bollywood debut with Sanam Teri Kasam this
year, adds, “She died because she didn't conform to the norms of this
patriarchal society. She may be right or wrong but she wanted to live on
her own terms and everyone is entitled to do so. We, who talk about
women empowerment and equality of men and women in society, are the
pseudo-elites who just make it to the
headlines in the papers. Thousands of women like Qandeel are the ones
who truly need empowerment, education and security at so many levels. I
feel devastated and helpless as a girl living in the 21st century when
such absurd incidents happen.“
Pakistani actress Veena Malik says, “This
is not an ordinary matter. It is extremely sensitive. Nobody has the
right to kill anyone in the name of honour. Such people should be
punished to set an example. This incident is shocking and condemnable.“
Pakistani actor-singer Ali Zafar raised a valid point too. He wrote, “If
women started killing us to protect their honour, a lot of us would be
dead!“
Qandeel was called the 'Poonam Pandey of Pakistan'. Poonam says,
“I get abused for some of my comments like the time when I had said I
would strip for the Indian cricket team. I believe Qandeel made the same
offer but it wasn't meant to offend anyone. My brothers may shout at
me, but they won't kill me for the way I am or what I choose to wear.“

Pakistani actor Imran Abbas (who made his Bollywood debut with Creature)
questioned the hypocritical mindset of the society in his latest post
on social media. He wrote (excerpts), “Call me overemotional,
oversensitive, whatever but the murder of this poor girl was extremely
shocking. The brutal murder of this young girl, who ran after her dreams
to get rid of poverty, who found her own ways to get noticed through
her limited resources (although they were vulgar and not what people in
our society approve of), who unveiled the real face of so called
religious scholars was not at all justified in the name of honour. Who
are we to judge anyone because of someone's acts in public? Who knows
what others, even we are doing in the veil of darkness. Pakistan is the
nation which scored the highest in searching porn sites at Google can
only kill a woman in the name of honour, but throng of vultures who
surrounds her body are left alone because they are MEN. This girl could
have been gotten away if she was from a well-connected background and
had her own links to the people in power. But her real crime was POVERTY
which made her saw those dazzling dreams and took her to this point
where she was strangled by a so called 'gheratmand' who even took her
cell phone and little cash which was, according to this 'gheratmand
society', her 'haraam ki kamaayi' (sic).

Actress Kashmera Shah
reacts, “How can any human being get the right to judge morality? It's
all relative - this nonsense view we have about how honourable we are.
Seriously speaking, no one really cares. When you kill a beloved over a
warped sense of honour, you take yourself further from God and anything
and everything that is holy. Qandeel's death is a shame on every
brother who takes a vow to protect his sister.“
Sunny Leone says,
“I'm upset about this and have not figured out my emotions from my
thoughts to my opinion on it. I am sad to read this.“ In the past, the
actress had spoken about how her relatives had disowned her appearance
in Bigg Boss. Actress Mahira Khan retweeted, “Honour killing is such a
false term to describe a beyghairat committing cold-blooded murder.“
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