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Rebel with a cause, actor Deb Mukerji passes away

Ayan Mukerji’s father Deb Mukerji passes away

Bella Jaisinghani (THE TIMES OF INDIA; March 15, 2025)

Mumbai: Veteran actor Deb Mukerji passed away at age 83 at his Juhu residence Friday. He had been hospitalized after suffering an ailment recently.

His powerful performances in 'Ek Baar Mooskura Do', 'Main Tulsi Tere Aangan Ki', 'Adhikar', 'Aansoo Ban Gaye Phool' and 'Jo Jeeta Wohi Sikandar' earned him a special place among the talented Mukerji clan of film artists and directors.

Debu, as he was fondly called, was the younger son of the illustrious Sashadhar Mukherjee of Filmalaya, brother of Joy Mukherjee, and his mother Satirani was Ashok Kumar's sister. Debu's son Ayan Mukerji is a director of renown and his daughter Sunita is married to director Ashutosh Gowariker. Kajol and Rani Mukerji are his nieces.

Often cast as the misunderstood rebel and angry young man, Debu was relegated to second hero even though he had perfected each aspect of his art. His extraordinary dancing skills were evident in 'Milte hi rahenge hum, badlein sau nazaare' (Abhinetri) where he partnered Hema Malini so ably he made her husband Shashi Kapoor jealous. That acting was in Debu's blood became evident in his confrontation scenes with Nutan in 'Main Tulsi..'

As romantic hero he gave his best opposite close friend Tanuja in 'Ek Baar Mooskura Do'. The hurt in his eyes seemed to have inspired Kavi Pradeep's lyrics 'Chal akela chal akela' (Sambandh). And uncle Ashok Kumar's transformation from upright professor to criminal in 'Aansoo Ban Gaye Phool' clearly destroyed his soul.

Debu's last rites were performed at Pavan Hans crematorium in Juhu. Celebrities including Tanuja, Kajol, Jaya and Shweta Bachchan, Karan Johar, Ranbir Kapoor and Alia Bhatt arrived at son Ayan's residence to offer condolence.

Debu had taken over the mantle as main organizer of his ancestral North Bombay Sarbojanin Durga Puja which is the Mukerji family's Pujo in Juhu. He ably steered it to its 75th anniversary in 2022, where his keen oversight ensured that thousands of devotees went home happy.

Always wear new clothes on Diwali day even if it’s a T-shirt, says Kajol


Renuka Vyavahare (BOMBAY TIMES; October 31, 2024)

Kajol is a livewire, a total pataka, who has always lived life on her terms. Vibrant and sparkling with enthusiasm like the Diwali lights, it’s only apt that we celebrate the country’s most beautiful festival with our beloved Simran. In a chat with Bombay Times, the hazel-eyed beauty took a trip down the memory lane and shared her childhood memories of Diwali and what the festival means to her, today.

She reminisced, “When we were kids, my mother (veteran actress Tanuja) would wake us up early, give us a bath, apply ubtan, coconut milk. That was the Diwali tradition. I used to do that to my kids when they were small. They are too big now for me to do any of that but yes, getting up early in the morning, taking a bath, wearing new clothes is a constant. Always wear new clothes on Diwali day even if it’s a T-shirt. We don’t usually wear black in the day, maybe at night but not in the day. Something bright is preferred. As far as the traditions are concerned, I would like my children to take them forward, but I won’t force it on them.”

‘You can have mithai for breakfast, lunch and dinner’
How can one not talk about food and faraal on Diwali. Kajol added, “You can eat whatever you like on Diwali. You can have mithai for breakfast, mithai for lunch and mithai for dinner. Koi rok tok nahi hoti khaanepe because Diwali hai. It’s a time for families to come together, eat together, sit together and chat. We try not to fight, not even have mini squabbles so that we can start off the year on the right note.”

‘The excitement people feel on January 1 is what I feel on Diwali’
The festival holds a special place in her heart. The actress shares, “Diwali is a gorgeous festival of lights and it is all about family. That’s ingrained in our culture and sometimes, we just need a reason to party (smiles). Diwali is the start of a new year, new beginnings. The feeling that people get on January 1st is the feeling I get on Diwali. You forget and forgive yourself for the past year’s mistakes and move on to make new mistakes in the new year (laughs). Diwali marks a beautiful beginning, and an ending all wrapped into one.”

Gadgets may have got us closer virtually but distant physically. We live in a fairly isolated world that can get a bit gloomy. Kajol signs off, “I love festivals because they give you a reason to celebrate. We all need celebrations in our life at regular intervals. It enables us to meet people that you don’t meet on a daily basis.”

Mummy bolti hai abhi shaadi mat karo-Tanishaa Mukerji

Mummy bolti hai abhi shaadi mat karo: Tanishaa

S Farah Rizvi (HINDUSTAN TIMES; June 12, 2024)

Tanishaa Mukerji, who was recently seen in Luv You Shankar, seems to be in a happy phase of her life because “a lot is happening” and feels like she’s “on a roll”. The reason? “I am at peace and I’m enjoying the work I’m doing. Luv You Shankar got a pan-India theatrical release and we loved the response we earned,” says the actor, adding,“It has been a journey of different shades and I am an artiste who never fears taking risks in my career.”

Talking about her personal life, the 46-year-old shares that while there is no pressure from her family, she does want to get married someday. “But meri mummy (Tanuja, actor) bolti hai abhi shaadi mat karo,” she reveals, continuing, “On a serious note, I don’t want to marry for the sake of it. In fact, it should be about finding the right partner who understands me. I believe that marriage is an institution. One should not get hitched under pressure. In the long run, such marriages don’t sustain. For me, it is to take a leap in life and make a happy family. Ek baar shaadi ho gayi toh bas ho gayi. If I find someone with the same vibe, then main bhi shaadi karungi,” she asserts.

Talking about her recent projects, Mukerji shares, “People think twice about watching reality TV, but for me, it was more like a challenge that I accepted. This is the way I have lived my life and will continue to do so. I was busy with a dance reality show, Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa 11, which turned out to be like professional dance training for me. Pehle bas thoda bahut I knew about dancing but during the course [of the show] I learnt that it’s an art that changes you on the inside and outside.”

The actor is also busy shooting for her first Marathi film, the historical epic, Veer Murarbaji. She tells us, “Being a Marathi mulgi, I always wanted to do a film in this region.”

I want to be a mother and create my family; why else would I freeze my eggs?-Tanishaa Mukerji

I do want to be  a mother and  have a family,  says Tanishaa  Mukerji

Akash Wadhwa (BOMBAY TIMES; June 10, 2024)

In the city for professional reasons, actress Tanishaa Mukerji said she was in love with Lucknow and its “relaxed” vibes. Tanishaa, who recently participated in the dance reality Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa, shared about the dancing journey, her mom Tanuja, her “Tom & Jerry” relationship with sis Kajol, and more...
Excerpts...

How was your visit to Lucknow?
I have been to Lucknow before too. I shot for a film titled Rosy in Lucknow during the pandemic which was supposed to be Palak Tiwari’s debut film. I was in Lucknow then for quite a lot of days. I love the people of Lucknow. There is not only warmth in them but also a certain laidback calmness, I mean the city has a very relaxed energy. I wish today more cities could become like that as there is a lot of anxiousness in other cities. I hope this never changes. And yes, people here are also very chalaak. When I had come here at that time and gone for some chikan shopping, being a celebrity, they had charged me an exorbitant amount. Mera khoob bakra bana tha uss time since I didn’t know much about the fabric and the prices.

You were recently a part of the dance reality show Jhalak Dikhla Jaa. Tell us about the experience.
In Jhalak... I did a lot of lifts and tricks. I wasn’t quite athletic during my childhood. I was a very ladylike child. All the opposite stuff was done by Kajol.

So coming back to Jhalak..., when I first went for the rehearsals, I couldn’t rehearse for more than four hours. My whole body was in pain and I couldn’t sleep. Then later, I also did a lot of Iyengar Yoga which helped me in my journey on the show. I said yes to the show as I wanted to break certain barriers in my life. When I first did Bigg Boss I was told by Salman (Khan) that isko toh yahan aane ki zaroorat nahi hai. That’s not true. We all have that need of money and identity. I went as a kid to Bigg Boss and came back as a grownup. I was always in a very protective environment and wanted to learn to deal with different kinds of people.

Your mom, Tanuja, has been keeping unwell of late. Not being married and staying with your mom, who is aging, does it make you insecure?
Mom is amazing now! But yes, of course, it makes me insecure. I was inside the Bigg Boss house when she got this disease called diverticulitis. But now it is over after her operation in 2018. But there have been other issues because of age. In fact, when I was doing an act for my dad on Jhalak..., my mom was in the hospital. It was the worst feeling. I have lost my dad and that is the reason why I am more insecure about my mom. As far as dealing with it is concerned, my spiritual side helps me, especially my Buddhist chants. Plus, my mom has always taught me to live in the moment and not worry about the future. I enjoy every moment with her - partying, even the drama and the fighting.

Talking about fights, there is a video online where Kajol and you are having an argument and your mom is trying to calm you both...
Firstly, the Durga Puja’s our private affair and we are like a family in that space. Kajol and I have been like Tom and Jerry ever since we were kids. My dad used to call us that where I was Jerry and she was Tom. Over the years, Kajol and I are like mature Tom and Jerry (laughs) But on a serious note, Kajol is like a mother figure to me. Even Ajay (Devgn) is like a father figure to me, who has taught me to be considerate and kind to everyone while my sis has taught me to be strong and stand up for the people we love. It takes a village to raise a child and I had a beautiful village.

You have always expressed the need to find the right partner and you have frozen your eggs to be a mother. Do you still want to be a wife and mother or are you happy being single?
Yes, it is important for me to get married! It is a different kind of evolution with a partner as it teaches you a lot of tolerance. I see such a beautiful relationship between my sisters, their husbands, and their children; why would somebody not want that? And I still also want to be a mother and create my family, why else would I freeze my eggs?

Tanuja, mother of Kajol, hospitalized in Mumbai

Tanuja

THE TIMES OF INDIA (December 18, 2023)

Mumbai: Veteran Bollywood actor Tanuja was admitted to a hospital on Sunday evening due to age-related issues. A source said the 80-year-old actor is admitted to the ICU of a Juhu hospital. “She is under observation. She is doing well. There's nothing to worry about,” the source said.

She is sister of Nutan and mother of popular star Kajol. She is known for her roles in “Baharein Phir Bhi Ayengi” and “Jewel Thief”.
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THE INDIAN EXPRESS (December 18, 2023)

Veteran actor Tanuja — mother to actor Kajol and mother-in-law of actor Ajay Devgn — has been admitted to a Mumbai hospital on Sunday evening. Sources said the 80-year-old actor has been admitted due to age-related illness and is under observation at the ICU of a hospital in the city’s Juhu.

“She is under observation and is doing well. There’s nothing to worry about,” a PTI report said.

Daughter of filmmaker Kumarsen Samarth and actress Shobhna Samarth, Tanuja has worked extensively in Hindi and Bengali cinema. She married filmmaker Shomu Mukherjee; and have two daughters, actresses Kajol and Tanisha.

She started her film career with her elder sister Nutan in Hamari Beti (1950) as a child actor. As a leading lady, her first film was Hamari Yaad Aayegi (1961). She went onto star in Baharein Phir Bhi Ayengi (1966), Jewel Thief (1969), Paisa Ya Pyaar (1969), Haathi Mere Saathi (1971) and Mere Jeevan Sathi (1972).

In Bengali cinema, she worked in films such as Deya Neya (1963), Anthony-Firingee (1967), Teen Bhuvaner Parey (1969) and Rajkumari (1970), among many others.

Yesteryear’s leading ladies address the bias in the industry; ask, why are roles written for Amitabh Bachchan but not them?

‘MR BACHCHAN
STILL GETS GREAT
WORK, NOT US’
Yesteryear’s leading ladies address the bias in the industry; ask, why are roles written for him but not them?
HINDUSTAN TIMES (April 20, 2023)

Female actors in the Indian entertainment industry have had to fight tooth and nail to get to where they are today, facing ageism, unequal pay and limited roles. Although the situation has improved, it still favours male actors, claim the veteran leading ladies of yesteryear: Asha Parekh, Tanuja and Hema Malini.

Recently, Parekh, 80, pointed out that senior male actors like Amitabh Bachchan, 80, continue to get better, meatier roles while women are relegated to playing mother or sister roles:  “Today, Mr Amitabh Bachchan, at this age also, people are writing roles for him. Why aren’t people writing roles for us? We also should be getting some roles that are important to the film. That’s not there. Either we are playing mother or sister. Who’s interested?” To this, Tanuja, 79, added, “Or now we’re given grandmother roles.”

On another occasion, actor-politician Hema Malini, 74, who worked with Bachchan in several hit movies including Sholay (1975) and Baghban (2003), said the same thing to Mid-day: “Where are the opportunities today? Even today, author-backed roles are not found for actresses; they are reserved for male actors. He gets such great roles even now; they are written specially for him. But such special roles have not been written for actresses until today. If someone can write a [tailor-made] role keeping me in mind, that would be nice. I think I, too, am capable of performing well.”

The issue of unequal pay also persists for female actors. Tanuja pointed out, “Payment was always a problem — previously and even now. Men have always had a higher standing. Even Hollywood has not been able to do it.” She added, “We can’t blame the guys. We gave them the power to rule.”

Parekh and Tanuja further spoke about the lack of basic amenities when they were young and started working in movies. “We were shy to say that there are no bathrooms. We would be sitting from morning to evening, not going to the bathroom,” shared Parekh.

‘MR BACHCHAN
STILL GETS GREAT
WORK, NOT US’

I love the fact that Nysa conducts herself with dignity wherever she goes-Kajol

‘I LOVE
THE FACT
THAT NYSA
CONDUCTS
HERSELF
WITH
DIGNITY’
Kajol is proud of her daughter, who has been making heads turn with her appearances of late
Vinay MR Mishra (HINDUSTAN TIMES; March 28, 2023)

Actors Kajol and Ajay Devgn’s daughter, Nysa Devgan, is among the most popular star kids in India currently, thanks to her appearances on paparazzi’s social media pages. From partying with friends and making public appearances to dressing up for photo shoots — she has been making heads turn. Ask mum Kajol how she feels about the popularity that her daughter has earned and she says,

“I feel proud of her, of course. I love the fact that she conducts herself with dignity wherever she goes. All I can say is, she is 19 and is having fun. She has the right to do whatever she wants to do and I will always support her.”

All for her daughter’s freedom of choice, the actor goes on to talk about the principles she’s lived by in her three-decade-long journey in the film industry. While validation is integral to many actors, Kajol is quite insouciant about it: “I never worried about being a part of a group or following the trend or being at the number one spot in the rat race. I never thought about all that.”

Another principle that Kajol lives by is inclusivity and she promoted the same at a recent event. Ask what the term means to her and she says, “To not leave anyone out, regardless of their race, gender preference, abilities and disabilities.”

The Salaam Venky (2022) actor feels “we, humans, have forgotten about compassion” and if she sees discrimination of any kind, she makes it a point to not be the one discriminating. “My mum (veteran actor Tanuja) would always say, ‘You should treat others like how you would expect yourself to be treated’. Bahut maar-maar ke yeh sikhaya gaya hai. I grew up with [this idea of inclusivity],” the actor signs off.

‘I LOVE
THE FACT
THAT NYSA
CONDUCTS
HERSELF
WITH
DIGNITY’

My 2006 unreleased film Yours Emotionally helped me perform my part in Modern Love Mumbai-Pratik Gandhi

Pratik Gandhi: Yours Emotionally helped me perform this part

Fronting same-sex romance in Modern Love Mumbai, Pratik discusses how his unreleased 2006 LGBTQiA+ film formed the groundwork for the role
Uma Ramasubramanian (MID-DAY; May 9, 2022)

When Pratik Gandhi came on board Modern Love Mumbai to tell a same-sex love story, he had a singular concern — that the LGBTQiA+ romance should not take the aid of comedy to make its point, as Bollywood is wont to do. Director Hansal Mehta shared the opinion, and thus, was born their short film, Baai.

“We didn’t want to [portray] it in a caricaturish way. We never wanted to take the shield of comedy. Whenever you speak about this subject, the biggest tool that [filmmakers] use is comedy. But we didn’t want this emotion to be diluted,” begins Gandhi.

The Amazon Prime Video offering, like its American counterpart, is inspired by the New York Times column, and sees six acclaimed directors team up to tell distinct love stories rooted in Mumbai. Baai, co-written by Mehta and Ankur Pathak, sees Gandhi as Manzar Ali, who struggles to tell his truth to the person he loves the most.

“Manzar comes from a joint orthodox family with different values. He is constantly fighting fear. When everyone around rejects the truth, you question yourself and go into self-doubt. I understood his journey when I performed the part. [Otherwise] it gets difficult to understand what they go through.”

Embracing a character so far removed from his reality can be difficult. The actor turned to his 2006 film, Yours Emotionally, for reference, adding that he approached the character of Manzar with sensitivity and maturity that he probably didn’t possess 16 years earlier. “Yours Emotionally was [made] for international LGBTQiA+ film festivals, but it never got released. Back then, I didn’t have any clue about the community. When I was selected for it, I got to work with the community. That was my introduction to this world. I have come across some heart-wrenching stories since, and now, I understand what they go through. That film never led me to another movie, but after so many years, it helped me perform this part.”

The short film also stars Tanuja and Ranveer Brar. Gandhi is delighted to share screen space with the veteran. “She lights up the screen. The style of performance has changed a lot [over the decades], but even now, she is effortless.”

In real life, I didn’t have to face patriarchy-Kajol

Telling women’s story in OTT debut vehicle Tribhanga, Kajol on being raised with value of gender equality and passing on lesson to daughter
Uma Ramasubramanian (MID-DAY; January 14, 2021)

"If I don’t filter my words, Anu is 10 steps ahead of me [in that regard],” jokes Kajol, who considers her character in Tribhanga an extension of herself. But it was not just the strong-headed Anu that drew her to the script. Kajol was certain about making her digital debut with Tribhanga when she saw director Renuka Shahane’s astute understanding of her three protagonists.

“Anu feels love, hate and passion deeply — a trait I relate to. Though it was tiring to play her, it was not difficult to understand her,” says the actor, adding that shooting for the women-led film — also featuring Tanve Azmi and Mithila Palkar — was a novel experience. “The best thing about being on set with such strong women was that there was no insecurity.

The Netflix film studies the interpersonal dynamics between the three leads, belonging to three different generations, as they battle societal expectations to live a life of their choosing. Aware of how women battle judgments on a daily basis, Kajol considers herself fortunate to be raised in an environment that advocated gender equality. “My father [Shomu Mukherjee] was against me getting married at 24. He said that I should work more before I tie the knot. My mom [Tanuja] was my biggest supporter, and told me to go with my gut. I have been lucky that everybody around has always stood up for me. So, I did exactly what I wanted to do. I didn’t have to face patriarchy. Or maybe I faced it without realising, because I can be oblivious in some situations.”

 Surrounded by two strong voices — grandmother Shobhna Samarth and mother — in her growing-up years, Kajol says she has passed down the importance of being one’s own person to daughter Nysa. “My mother made me independent, and my daughter is as independent as I am. She is [liberated] in her opinions.”

My kids make me want to be a better, more fun person-Kajol


Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; May 9, 2020)

“When I became a mum, my first thought was that I just could not fail. I knew that this was one test I was going to ace… as this really was a question of life and wasted life,” says actor Kajol.

The actor believes that her kids (daughter Nysa, 16, and son Yug, 9) have positively impacted her as a person and as an actor. “My children make me want to be a better person and sometimes a more fun one. Being a mum added a lot to who I was, and it has only made me a better actor,” she says.

The 45-year-old, in her signature candour, shares why her children have not watched many of her films. “Both my kids love to watch films but haven’t seen many of mine. Firstly, because I haven’t made that many, and secondly, according to them, I cry too much and I make them cry too,” she says.

Ask her about her bond with her mother, veteran actor Tanuja, and she says, “My mum and I always had the best relationship, and it has only gone from strength to strength. We don’t discuss whether I should do a film or not. It has always been my decision from the age I was 16. My mum gave me a lot of advice, and I didn’t listen to any of it till I reached a problem. And then her advice would ring in my ears and I knew what the right thing to do was.”

Sharing a message ahead of Mother’s Day, Kajol says, “The one thing that your children will remember forever is how you loved them. All the scolding, the feeding and the care will be forgotten. So, don’t forget to make them feel loved every single day.”

Nobody discussed PMS at all on the sets of Devi-Kajol

Kajol with producer Niranjan Iyengar
Kajol with producer Niranjan Iyengar

As her first short film Devi drops online today, Kajol on the joy of working with an all-women cast
Upala KBR (MID-DAY; March 2, 2020)

Kajol has often mentioned that Shah Rukh Khan and husband Ajay Devgn are her dream co-stars. But looks like her Devi co-stars may pip them to the distinction. The short film that drops online today has her sharing screen space with eight women actors, including Neha Dhupia and Shruti Haasan.

"When the script came my way, I thought it would be so much fun working with [eight] different women," says Kajol, adding that the movie — directed by Priyanka Banerjee and made for Large Short Films — drives home a powerful message about gender equality. "I loved the statement that the film is making. Also, it's such a joy to closely collaborate with so many women. Nobody discussed PMS at all on set," she grins.

In her 28-year career in Bollywood, Kajol has consistently made a case for women empowerment — be it by challenging the unrealistic standards of beauty that the industry holds the female actors to, or by busting the myth that heroines have a short shelf life. Ask her who she considers her inspiration, and she rattles off, "My mother [Tanuja]; whatever I am today is because of her teachings. My mother-in-law [Veena Devgan] has also played a crucial role, she has supported me in so many ways. And I consider my daughter [Nysa] my third 'devi' because of the magnitude of work that I do for her," she laughs.

I am not producer material at all-Kajol


Kajol on why she’d rather stick to home banner and self-worth in the age of ‘strange definitions of a strong woman’
Ankita Chaurasia (MUMBAI MIRROR; December 24, 2019)

There’s a sense of deja-vu in seeing Kajol grin, as she lets you into a sun-lit suite of a suburban five-star, inviting you to “make yourself comfortable”. Any minute now, you expect her to spring a, “Would you like some tea and something to go with it?” in the British accent of Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham’s expat heroine, or remind you to chug, “Juice, juice” as the college-going tomboy from Kuch Kuch Hota Hai. It’s not difficult to see that there’s been a bit of Kajol in every character she has played—from the rebellious Simran of Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge to an overprotective mother in Helicopter Eela.

Settling in for a chat, Kajol underlines that her upcoming film, actorhusband Ajay Devgn’s Tanhaji: The Unsung Warrior, which is the story of an underdog, features characters with clear personality traits. “Saif (Ali Khan, co-star) is all-black (negative); you won’t see him saving a sparrow in the end to convey that he has some good within him. Tanaji and Savitri are all-white. No one is grey,” she laughs, and is refreshingly upfront about her role, in that it “isn’t very big”.

The actress is quick to add that her role is relevant to the story. “Savitribai is a loyalist and there’s a wonderful strength to her character. In today’s time, our definition of a strong woman is strange. You have to be a working woman as well as an efficient homemaker and if you are only one of the two, there’s a certain way you are looked at, even by other women. There’s immense strength in being who you are and realising your relevance,” Kajol asserts.

Is that why she does only a handful of films now? “It isn’t every day that the right director, producer and script come together. So, I’d rather sit at home and spend time with my children. I have great kids, they are cool and have a fabulous sense of humour,” the actress says with unabashed maternal pride. When asked if she would be game to attempt an all-black character again, pat comes the reply, “I’d love to do something like a Maleficent.”

Point out that Ajay had recently revealed that the film’s team is planning a franchise on other unsung warriors from India and Kajol says, “We want to mine more stories of those who fought like maniacs for their motherland,” but would personally rather stay in the fiction zone. “I am a fiction reader; nothing real lives up to that.” And what about screen adaptations of books? “If it is about adapting a book for the screen, often, it doesn’t translate well, unless you take a lot of cinematic liberties,” she argues, adding that there are some “fabulous thrillers” that would make great scripts, but she won’t name them for fear of jinxing. “I read all the time now. E-books are the best thing to happen to mankind. Back in the day, every time I went to London, I’d lug back stacks of books, squeezing them into my suitcase, hand bag and knapsack to avoid shelling out a fortune on charges.”

There was buzz that she is set to launch her own production house but Kajol shoots it down. “I am not producer material at all; it requires a strong stomach lining to deal with all the ulcers that come with the job,” she laughs, adding that she always has her husband’s company to produce films with.

With Tanhaji: The Unsung Warrior, the husband-wife duo reunites on screen 12 years after their last outing, U Me Aur Hum, but the actress insists that nothing has changed between then and now. “Even when Ajay is acting with me in a scene, he watches me like a director. If he is not happy with a shot, he will give me inputs and ask me to go for a second take. I appreciate his keen eye,” she gushes.

Speaking of aesthetics, their nine-year-old son, Yug, is gaining quite the reputation as a shutterbug, as evidenced by Kajol’s Instagram feed. “We are constantly negotiating. When I dress up, I ask him to take a pic and he says, ‘I’ll click only one, haan,’ and I’ll request him to click at least three after which he will reluctantly oblige. But those three clicks are fantastic. I am amazed at the perfect frames. By the time he was seven, he understood picture composition,” the actress raves.

Turns out, the young aesthete is not too pleased with his actress-mom’s look in the film. “Yugi made a face, saying, ‘I don’t like you in these clothes. Change! You don’t look like my mother’,” she chuckles. However, her mother, veteran actress Tanuja, couldn’t help but draw parallels between Kajol as Savitribai and her great grandmother, the late actress Rattan Bai. “Even I was amazed to see how much I resembled her. Subconsciously, I remember my great grandmother, grandmother (Shobhana Samarth) and mother wearing nauvaris and decking up in traditional jewellery for weddings. When I draped the nine yards, there was a different person staring back at me in the mirror. I felt an amazing sense of connect with my ancestors,” Kajol says.

Joining Yug in his disapproval of his mother’s taste is his elder sister, Nysa. “She thinks I have the worst Instagram account on earth. She will go, ‘Mom, you don’t know how to caption. Nobody talks like this!’ All I say is that it’s me and not someone posing to be me. At least I am laughing at my own jokes, baaki ke log hase na hase, kya fark padta hai. I know me, I have to keep it fun because if I get sick of it, you’ll see a post declaring, ‘I am signing off social media’,” she concludes with her signature chuckle.

It's eat, pray, love for Ranbir Kapoor and Alia Bhatt


Akash Bhatnagar (MUMBAI MIRROR; October 8, 2019)

Cousins Rani Mukerji and Kajol were in perfect sync in pretty pink saris as they brought in Navami on Monday at the family Durga puja celebrations at a suburban five-star. Rani drove in past 2 pm and was greeted with cheers from fans who had packed the venue. Kajol got an equally rapturous welcome. Her mother Tanuja, sister Tanishaa and cousins Ayan and Sharbani were there too, along with star guests, Ayan’s bestie Ranbir Kapoor, his ladylove and Brahmastra co-star Alia Bhatt, and Hrithik Roshan. RK arrived around 5 pm while both Hrithik and Alia visited earlier in the afternoon.

All three performed ‘anjali’, seeking Maa’s blessings but while both Hrithik and Alia left without partaking of the bhog, RK sat for the daily prasad which on the ninth day included pulao, begun bhaaja, paneer, dum aloo, chutney, kheer and another sweet. While Ayan sat for the havan, it was Rani, Kajol and Tanishaa’s day to serve bhog and the latter exulted, “Sisters who serve together, rock together.”

TV actress Sumona Chakravarti, known as Kapil Sharma’s former better half on his comedy show, was among the first guests to arrive, spreading sunshine in a yellow sari. Actor Vipin Sharma was also spotted in the crowd of revelers.

My family never put an obstacle in my way-Kajol

Kajol
Nayandeep Rakshit (DNA; October 6, 2018)

Kajol's next outing, Helicopter Eela, is less than a week away from hitting the screens. The film sees her in the protagonist’s role, which reflects the changing norm in Bollywood that doesn’t place the spotlight only on younger heroines anymore. Always known to be unabashed and unapologetic about her opinion, the actress tells us why she thinks this trend is beneficial for actresses of all ages. She also gives her take on the housewife vs working mother debate and explains how a supportive family can make the biggest difference. Over to her...

Last year, there was a debate when Mira Rajput said that she cannot be a working mother. What’s your take on it?
I think it’s a personal choice, as to when you feel ready to go back to work. I had a working mother (Tanuja) all through my life, but I don’t feel any less close to her or love her any lesser. It’s something that every woman faces and acts upon. Some choose to work while others don’t; your children would respect you equally, whether you are at home baking cookies or in office finishing assignments.

In the film, the mother gives up on her dreams. Do you have an unfulfilled desire of continuing to work?
Not really, because I have been really lucky in that respect. If I wanted to do something, I pretty much did it. My dream was to stay at home and take care of my kids and I did. When I wanted to work, I did. Yes, but I do want to travel to different places that I haven’t been able to. I want to take my children with me and I’ll make that happen as well. So, there are no desires that are unfulfilled, but there are a lot of wishes that I’ve to act upon.

Would you credit your supportive family for the same?
Yes, along with my husband Ajay (Devgn), I have my mother-in-law and mother to thank the most. My ma-in-law told me, ‘Beta, aap tension mat lo. Aap kaam pe jao. Hum hain na. Hum kis liye hain?’ Nobody put an obstacle in my way. Maybe because they also knew I’d probably overcome those hurdles. Nobody even tried, so I was lucky.

Roles being written for women today defy pre-conceived notions. Comment.
I think it’s a reflection of what our society is saying today. Films have always been and will be that. When you have a film like Wonder Woman doing so well, it’s because people now believe that a woman can also save the world. There’s a subtext in female-oriented films being made now. Suddenly, the society has started looking at the feminine gender in a different way. That’s why there have been such roles of late, whether a Tumhari Sulu (2017) or a Dum Laga Ke Haisha (2015). We’re accepting them. It’s not only a question of writing a film anymore; it’s about the movie being viewed by a wider audience and raking in money.

Do you think box-office numbers have given producers more confidence to make such films?
Absolutely! The audience has changed. They are willing to put their money where their mouth is. Finally, we have a much wider female audience that says, ‘I’ll watch it with all my girlfriends’. Maybe they didn’t have too many choices earlier. We are a service-based industry and make films for the audience. It’s not a home video meant for our personal collection.

Is there a change of perception towards married actresses as well?
We are talking about woman empowerment. Somewhere down the line, I believe we have to change the perspective we have of ourselves. Do you really believe that when you are married, everything is dead and over? If you believe that, then it will happen. We have had Meena Kumari, Saira Banu, Sharmila Tagore, my mother, Sridevi, Madhuri Dixit-Nene and Kareena Kapoor Khan, too, today. So this is a myth. It has nothing to do with whether women are married or not. It’s about the type of roles that change. Once you tie the knot, people just expect more from you, as a society. You have to take that into consideration when you are picking up a role or a film. And it’s not difficult.

That’s something you’ve done efficiently. Is there something you’d consciously stay away from?
I honestly don’t see myself doing three scenes and a song or a pointless film anymore. If I have to do just one scene, it has to be the most fantastic, amazing one ever. People should be left like, ‘Oh, my God!’ That’s what I will do. I did inconsequential stuff at one point. That was a conscious decision then. But not anymore, not in this space of things at least.

Do you think the digital revolution has also brought better projects for actors of all ages?
Most definitely. Earlier, if you joined films, there was nothing else you could do. You either succeeded at a spectacular rate or you failed miserably and couldn’t do anything with your life. With digital media, there are so many other productive things you can do rather than just being an actor. It’s given you that much security.

Are you open to doing a digital-only film or series?
I’d love to. I just want to act and not restrict myself to a particular medium. I’ve been offered web series and TV shows. But things haven’t worked out for different reasons. I hope it does at some point.

Kajol’s a pro at the balancing act; details inside

Kajol
Harshada Rege (DNA; September 26, 2018)

Kajol is striking the perfect work-life balance. The actress, who will be seen on the big screen playing a mother in Helicopter Eela, is a hands-on parent in real life, too. These days, she is juggling many responsibilities with aplomb. She is busy with media interactions in Mumbai as well as other cities for her forthcoming film. However, that hasn’t stopped the 44-year-old from ensuring that she makes time for her family.

Kajol took son Yug to their farmhouse in Lonavala to celebrate her mother Tanuja’s 75th birthday on September 23. After spending the day with her mom, she drove back to Mumbai and took off to Singapore where her daughter, Nysa, studies. The young girl was missing her parents, and since Ajay is busy shooting, the Dilwale star got on a plane to meet her girl.

Meanwhile, back home, the Shivaay actor, who is known to be a prankster, gave out a phone number asking people to get in touch with Kajol as she was out of the country. The actress sent across a ‘no entry at home’ tweet in reply to his explanation about pranks on sets being a passé and playing one on Twitter instead.

Those who succeeded in Bollywood managed to do so due to their talent, hard work-Kajol on nepotism

Kajol
MID-DAY (July 27, 2017)

Commenting on the ongoing debate on nepotism, Kajol says an artiste’s talent is what truly drives him to success.

Responding to the incident that occurred at the IIFA awards earlier this month, when filmmaker Karan Johar poked fun at actress Kangana Ranaut for criticizing him for being nepotistic, Kajol said, “I think it is a debate brought on by two personalities [referring to Johar and Ranaut] who have decided to quote-unquote each other.” Kajol added that she doesn’t see anything amiss in a child’s desire to follow in the footsteps of his or her parents. “I honestly think it’s a moot point because every child wants to grow up and be like their parents. Lawyers’ children grow up and become lawyers, and doctors’ children grow up and become doctors. And sometimes, both of their children become actors.”

Kajol, 42, who is the daughter of veteran actress Tanuja, feels it is only hard work which has made people in Bollywood successful. “It is an open world. It is a free space. Anybody can become anything they want to become. The people who have succeeded in the industry, and by example you can take any name you want, have succeeded because of their talent and sheer hard work. I don’t think all the people who have succeeded have that much to claim over their bloodline.”

Tanuja refuses to comment on daughter Kajol's beef video controversy


Sanyukta Iyer (MUMBAI MIRROR; May 5, 2017)

Veteran actress Tanuja, while promoting her upcoming TV show, Aarambh, was caught off guard when questioned about the recent beef controversy surrounding her actress-daughter Kajol. The 73-year-old matriarch started off by exclaiming, “Stop! Stop! Stop!” going on to point out that she had acted in the Rajesh Khanna-starrer, Haathi Mere Saathi, and she loved animals. “I was in love with the haathi. But don’t deviate. Stick to Aarambh.”

Last week, Kajol had unwittingly found herself in the eye of an online storm after she posted a video from her lunch date with friends, which had the chef identifying the delicacies on the table. The actress had to issue a clarification, stating that the dish that had caused the stir, was actually buffalo meat, which is legal, as opposed to beef.

Kajol to have a no-holds-barred trip down memory lane on Mickey Contractor's TV show, BFFs


The actress is set to appear on an episodic show with longtime friend, Mickey Contractor, as they embark on a no-holds-barred trip down memory lane
Sanyukta Iyer (MUMBAI MIRROR; August 17, 2016)

It's been eight months since her last film, Dilwale, opposite Shah Rukh Khan opened, and even though Kajol hasn't started on another movie yet, she did face the camera on Tuesday for an upcoming talk show, BFFs. The actress and mum-of-two joined make-up artiste and friend of 26 years, Mickey Contractor, for an hour-long episode of the series for a no-holds-barred trip down memory lane, generously peppered with irreverent humour, cuss words, conversations surrounding “what's breaking the internet“ and lesser-known nuggets from her love life before she settled down with Ajay Devgn in 1999.

Last week, Sonam Kapoor and filmmaker-celebrity photographer Atul Kasbekar teamed up for an episode at Mehboob Studios. Next in line for the Colors Infinity show are Kangana Ranaut and Deepika Padukone who will appear with their besties, and chacha-bhatija Anil and Arjun Kapoor. “Being with Mickey is great fun and hopefully will translate on the show,“ Kajol informed Mirror after wrapping up the four-hour shoot.

Sharing anecdotes, Kajol recalled how her mother, actress Tanuja, only agreed to let her sign her debut film, Bekhudi, after learning that Mickey would be doing her hair and make-up and Gautam Rajadhyaksha, the late fashion photographer was writing the film. It was Mickey who convinced everyone that Kajol should retain her distinctive unibrow.

The hour-long episode opens with a 40-question rapid-fire round, followed by challenges like “Read my lips“ and a quiz. Indo-Canadian supermodel, Kamal Sidhu will be introducing each episode.

Kajol was candid about motherhood, saying she enjoyed being a full-time, stay-at-home mom, and also opened up about Ajay, revealing that she'd asked Mickey to guess who she was getting married to. He went through the whole list of actors with her. “I was shocked when I heard it was Ajay, I never imagined them as a couple! They had done films together, but he is very different from her, I guess that's where the attraction came in,“ admitted Mickey.

Anna Hazare has a fan moment with Tanuja on the sets of his biopic


Tanishaa is a feisty journalist in this official biopic on the activist.
Sanyukta Iyer (MUMBAI MIRROR; September 10, 2015)

Social-activist Anna Hazare had a fan moment when Tanuja dropped in on the sets of the biopic being made on the 78 year-old's life. The veteran actress had decided to pay a visit to her daughter, Tanishaa Mukerji, who will be seen as a feisty journalist in the film. She was filming a sequence in Ralegan Siddhi, Anna Hazare's hometown in rural Maharashtra with Anna himself, when Tanuja dropped by, unannaounced.

"Anna admitted that he was Tanuja's fan and had watched several of her films, including Baharen Phir Bhi Aayangi, Jewel Thief and Haathi Mere Saathi, while serving in the army. He also invited the actress for a home-cooked meal, insisting she return for a traditional Maharashtrian feast," revealed a source from the sets.

Tanishaa was surprised by her mother's impromptu visit but admits it was fun. Shashank Udapurkar's directorial went on floors on Tuesday with the famous Jan Lokpal bill rally being recreated on the first day of the shoot. The as-yet-untitled film traces Anna's life from his childhood days to enlisting with the army and the return to his hometown to raise his voice against corruption.

Tanishaa, one of the participants of Bigg Boss Season 7, says that she is enjoying her long conversations with Anna, who led movements to promote rural development, increase government transparency and punish corruption in public life. "This film will be his official biopic," says the actress who plays a TV reporter.

I was too lazy to walk; so I asked for a wheelchair-Tanuja


Tanuja dismisses rumours that she is seriously ill, flies off to Iceland with daughter Kajol.
Ali Peter John (MUMBAI MIRROR; August 26, 2015)


On August 24, Tanuja took off to Iceland, a country she has always wanted to visit, with daughter Kajol for the shoot of Dilwale. Shah Rukh Khan has already tweeted a selfie taken with his father's favourite actress.

There has been talk of her being seriously ill but Tanuja laughed off the rumour, saying, "I know how it started. I was taking a flight and since, as usual, I was too lazy to walk to the aircraft, I asked for a wheelchair. Some people clicked pictures of a very sick Tanuja in the wheelchair and that was it. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with me then or now."

Bring up yesteryear memories and she waves it off, "What is the use of living a dream that cannot come true again however hard you may try to? It's a waste of time and energy. The past is finished... khallaas... life is beautiful as a content grandmother."

Tanuja was last seen in a Marathi film, Pitruroon, about a widow, Bhagirathi. She admits she's been getting several offers to play the mother or the mother-in-law in films and serials but claims they are all useless.

Pitruroon was the exception for which she even shaved off her hair. "Since then, I have turned down several similar roles and offers to play the new generation mother dressed in the best sarees and crying in the same old way," she grouses.

She played mother to son-in-law Ajay Devgn in Son Of Sardaar. Will she be seen in the sequel? "Is he making a film like that?" wonders the 71-year-old actress who shuttles between her Lonavala bungalow and Grotto Villa in Mumbai. She spearheads the 'Save Environment' campaign and is also a frontline leader of the movement to save the hill stations of Lonavala and Khandala.

Stories about her fighting those hell-bent on destroying the beauty of nature are many. Tanuja takes her role of an activist seriously but when it comes to cinema, she's more laidback. "Why do you want to take me out of my state of bliss?" she asks. "I'm happy spending time with Kajol, Ajay and their children Nysa and Yug."