Showing posts with label Neelam Kothari. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Neelam Kothari. Show all posts
Chunky Panday, Neelam Kothari, Anees Bazmee remember Pahlaj Nihalani as a ‘dildaar’ producer who lived for films
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Upala KBR, Priyanka Sharma (MID-DAY; June 5, 2026)
Passionate is how Pahlaj Nihalani’s collaborators and friends from the industry describe the veteran producer, who passed away on June 4, at 76. In his close to four-decade career, he not only backed several mainstream entertainers, but also gave Bollywood two stars in Govinda and Chunky Panday.
When mid-day reached out to Panday, the actor remembered how a chance meeting led Nihalani to cast him in Aag Hi Aag (1987). “We met under hilarious circumstances at a hotel bathroom in Juhu. Pahlaj ji helped me out of an awkward situation and asked me to meet him at his office the next day. Then I did two films back-to-back with him — Aag Hi Aag, and Paap Ki Duniya [1988]. I owe him a big thanks for launching my career,” he said.
To him, Nihalani was a father figure. But on set, he was always a hands-on producer first. “He made me do 32 retakes for my first shot; he wanted it perfect,” recalled the actor.
Their most memorable collaboration was Aankhen (1993). “He made it under tough circumstances. Nobody had dates available except Govinda, David Dhawan, Anees Bazmee, and I,” added Panday.
Bazmee, who wrote Aankhen and collaborated with Nihalani on several hits, also attests to this unrelenting passion.
According to the writer and director, talking films till 4 am at the producer’s house was a regular affair. “Once, he knocked at my door at 5 am. He wanted to tweak the scene we were to shoot that day. Since everyone was asleep at my house, we sat at a nearby tea stall and I wrote the changes on a tissue paper. He was a dildaar producer!”
Ilzaam’s leading lady Neelam too remembered the producer as “large-hearted and kind”. She said, “When I first met him for a narration, he told me, ‘Baby, we will do many hit films together.’ I had no idea I’d go on to have so many hits with him.”
While production brought him much success, Nihalani’s run as the chairperson of the Central Board of Film Certification was controversial. In his tenure between 2015 and 2017, he was infamous for demanding cuts in many movies, most notably in Udta Punjab (2016).
Samir Soni and I have kept Ahana away from the smartphone-Neelam Kothari
10:12 AM
She was just 15 when she made her debut in 1984. Neelam Kothari went on to become a sought-after leading lady, known for her girl-next-door charm, dancing skills and crackling chemistry with Govinda. In 2000, she stepped away from the limelight to focus on her family life and her jewellery designing business, but agreed, albeit reluctantly, to face the camera again for the reality series ‘The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives’. Mother to a teen now, Neelam spoke to Sidhi Kapoor about mom-guilt and why she allows her daughter to speak her mind
Sidhi Kapoor (THE TIMES OF INDIA; April 13, 2026)
Your daughter has entered her teens. What are some of the challenges you are facing, and how are you trying to navigate them?
To be honest, Ahana just turned 13. I have heard stories that when kids turn teenagers, things really change, but I think I’m dealing with a very sorted kid. From the other stories I have heard, my story is a little different. Ahana is still not into tank tops or make-up. She’s not interested in social media. She doesn’t like to be in the limelight. So, she hasn’t reached that phase yet. Samir (actor-director Samir Soni, her husband) and I have kept her away (from the smartphone). She’s a music lover, so she’s more into that and her books.
As of now, I am not seeing any of those teenage issues. The moods fluctuate a little bit, which I believe is absolutely normal for this age. Apart from that, she’s a good girl. I feel blessed!
How do you balance giving your daughter independence while still setting boundaries and rules?
First of all, sleepovers are a big no. That is something which is not allowed. She’s probably had one sleepover with her childhood friend, who lives in the same building. We have known their parents for years. Honestly speaking, we haven’t really put down any ground rules. It’s difficult to believe, but she’s quite responsible and a conscientious child for her age. Samir and I don’t have to really tell her much. She knows her rights and wrongs pretty well.
What are some essential life skills you’ve taught her?
Parenting when I was growing up and parenting these days is very different. Today, you have to be more of a friend to your child. Even if you say to your child that something is not allowed, you need to have a reason. Today, it’s all about reasoning and giving a logical answer behind what you say to your child. It can’t be “because I said so…”. You need to have logic behind it. Then, being respectful to elders or anyone she meets is very important. Even giving respect to the staff is equally essential. As parents, we are very strict about it. These are small things we have imbued in our daughter. It makes me very proud when people say she is such a brave, well-mannered and sensitive child.
What’s the best parenting advice you have ever received?
I don’t think I have received any advice. I have just learnt all along. Being a friend to your child is the number one thing. Also, allowing your child to speak, whatever it may be, is important. Let them speak their mind and encourage it. There’s so much happening in school, in their mind and their surroundings, so be your child’s best friend. That’s the best thing any parent can do.
As a working mother, how do you divide time between your career and family life?
I go crazy sometimes! Luckily, if I am travelling, Samir is around, and vice versa. He manages and pitches in. It’s during evening time that mom-guilt kicks in. Things become a little more challenging for working mothers. But then it is what it is. Fortunately, Ahana is very cool as she’s seen me working since her childhood. She gets it. If I have to take a long trip abroad, she will jokingly ask, “How much money are you making? As long as you are making good money, it’s fine!” But the mom-guilt will always be there, no matter how understanding the child is.
What about studies? Does she manage on her own?
That’s another thing. There were certain subjects, like math, where we knew there was no negotiating. She was hesitant, and she used to cry when she had to go to classes. Maths gets very challenging in the International Baccalaureate system. But now she’s breezing through. Samir has a finance background, so he used to teach her and help her with homework. I honestly don’t understand anything when it comes to Math. But largely, she manages her studies on her own, so we don’t really have to check on her studies and tests all the time.
What are some non-negotiables for you and Samir?
Respect for family, friends, and staff is of utmost importance to us. We believe that you have got to be around your child, talk to them, understand them, and reason with them. When I feel she’s having a bad day and there’s something going on, I just leave her alone and give her space. Then, in a day or two, she will tell me what happened and why she was upset.
How has motherhood changed you, and what have you learned about yourself through parenting?
A lot of change has happened in my approach to parenting. Earlier, I used to be the strict one. Samir was the lenient one. There are always disagreements at home about small issues like jumping on the sofa. He would be like, “She’s a child. Let her be.” And I would say, “No, it’s not okay.” Now, I think I have succumbed, and we are both on the same page. I have realized it’s not worth it. It’s also because kids of this generation mature way earlier. They are so much more aware and intelligent. Today’s kids are more empathetic, too. I think we owe it to the schools of today. Maybe it’s the new way of teaching at school, though a lot of learning comes from home too.
Any parenting regrets?
I think I have done a good job, if I may say so. I may have been strict in the beginning, but I think it has paid off. Would I do anything different if I look back? No.
All dance reality shows look the same-Jaaved Jaaferi
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The actor says talent is abundant, but originality is missing on television
Tanvi J Trivedi (MUMBAI MIRROR; December 30, 2025)
Jaaved Jaaferi believes that while dance reality shows today are brimming with talent, originality seems to be missing. According to him, many shows feel indistinguishable from one another despite evolving formats. “They all look the same. While the formats evolve, the core presentation rarely does. There’s great talent around, but when it comes to the shows, nothing really stands out,” he said.
‘Back then we didn’t have the kind of exposure dancers have today’
Comparing the current scenario with the past, Jaaved pointed out how the internet has transformed exposure for dancers. “Today, dancers watch everything online and pick up styles from all over the world. We didn’t have that kind of exposure back then,” he noted.
Reflecting on the iconic 1990s dance reality show Boogie Woogie, he added, “Our show was original. It wasn’t copied. If it ever comes back, it has to be version 2 — different and fresh.”
‘I enjoyed dancing with Meenakshi Seshadri, Madhuri Dixit and Neelam Kothari’
Known for his exceptional dancing skills, the actor also reminisced about his memorable dance collaborations with leading actresses of the time. “Meenakshi was very good. Madhuri Dixit too — I remember we had a lot of fun during 100 Days. She was so busy with other films that rehearsals were limited. There was no time to try something extra or new, but I totally enjoyed working with her. Neelam was another actress who matched my steps really well,” he shared.
‘I want to direct Meezaan someday’
On the personal front, Jaaved revealed that he would love to direct his son, Meezaan Jafri, someday. “I’ve seen him grow,” he said, adding that he understands his son’s strengths as a performer and would like to explore them creatively at the right time.
I love being known as Ananya’s dad or Bhavana’s husband-Chunky Panday
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Iti Shree Misra (BOMBAY TIMES; September 9, 2025)
From his unforgettable comic timing as Aakhri Pasta in Housefull to early hits like Tezaab, Apna Sapna Money Money and Aankhen, Chunky Panday has carved a niche in Hindi cinema with a career that has seen many turns. In Manali shooting for his upcoming film Rahu Ketu sometime back, Chunky, in an exclusive conversation with us, talked about his new project, a long-lost film that never released, his experience working on The Royals, and watching the women in his life, wife Bhavana and daughter Ananya steal the spotlight in their own ways.
‘My first film shot in Manali, based on Shashi Tharoor’s book, never got released’
Chunky spent considerable time shooting in Manali in the early monsoon for his new film Rahu Ketu. Telling us about his time spent there, the actor said that this was his second film shoot in Manali, the first one never being released.
“I came back to Manali after ages to shoot. I had done a film here 35 years ago, and I was so excited to come back here for this film. That film, based on a novel by Shashi Tharoor called Bollywood: Show Business, never released,” recalled the 62 year-old actor.
The actor also shared his experience of shooting Rahu Ketu in Manali. “Manali is beautiful, I’d love to come here in winters when it snows. The weather was perfect then in June-July. It was crowded at that time, but very beautiful. It is sad to see how badly it is affected due to floods. I hope and pray that people there are safe. They were so good to us when we were there.”
‘In Paris, a group of tourists asked me to click a picture of them with Bhavna!’
Lately, Chunky has been happily soaking in the success of the women in his life. Speaking of his wife Bhavana, who found fame after her stint in Fabulous Lives Of Bollywood Wives, he shared, “I was with Bhavana in Paris after the show released. A group foreigners stopped and wanted a photo with her. They were so excited to see her and actually handed me the camera to take a picture of them with her. I was so happy seeing that fandom for her and thought to myself that ‘this is like the ultimate moment’.”
“First I was Chunky Panday, then I became Ananya’s dad and now I’m known as Bhavana’s husband. So I’m loving it. I think I’m enjoying Ananya’s success and whatever success Bhavana is getting now more than I’ve enjoyed my own success. When I was successful, I was too busy working to enjoy it. But this is something I really enjoy. I love being known as Ananya’s father or Bhavana’s husband, it makes me so proud of these women in my life, who have an identity of their own,” said the Don actor.
‘Ananya’s tribute stunned me’
Speaking of a cherished moment that came from a tribute and not a trophy, the actor shared one of the most emotional moments during an awards function in Mumbai. “The whole theme was fan moments where actors paid tribute to someone they had always admired. Ananya came on stage, did a little number and said she wanted to pay tribute to someone who always made her laugh. I whispered to Bhavana that she’s probably going to call out SRK’s name. But she started the segment with a Neelam song, and I thought maybe it’s for Neelam. But then, she broke into my songs one after the other. I was just stunned with the realization that my daughter was paying a tribute to me,” said the actor.
‘I love to be stereotyped’
Seen in the web show The Royals, Chunky again portrayed a flirtatious comic character, one which he has often portrayed on screen. When asked if he views being typecast as limiting he said, “On the contrary, I love to be stereotyped! I’m flattered, in fact. Yes, there definitely is a comfort in playing roles that one can master well. However, I felt so nice doing The Royals. I felt like a star doing it..”
He went on to add, “When I did the character Aakhri Pasta in Housefull, everyone just wanted me to do similar roles. Similarly, when I had done a Nepali character, many people wanted to cast me as a Nepali in their film. It’s very flattering when that one thing clicks. But, I always try to break the image and give a little different taste to the audience. And that’s why in Rahu Ketu, I’m playing a villain.”
Ask if he would change anything about his career trajectory if given a chance, the Tezaab actor shared, “If I went and changed the course of my career, maybe the chances were I would not meet Bhavana, and the chances are that Ananya and Rysa wouldn’t be born. So, I would not want to change anything in my life,” he said.
‘I was a very last-moment addition to The Royals’
“I was a very last-moment addition to The Royals. They called me up and asked me two things: ‘are these dates available? And do you know horse-riding?’ And I lied about both,” he chuckled. “I was a horse rider in my first film. But it had been almost 40 years since I got onto a horse. And here I had to play polo with Ishaan Khatter, who had been practicing it for two months. I was surprised that the role fell into my lap. I hope they consider me for a second season as well. My character is a very integral part of the story,” he added.
I was a little awkward doing romantic scenes in The Royals-Chunky Panday
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Chunky Panday talks about exploring romance on screen, his wife’s reaction to it and dancing live with Ananya Panday on stage recently
Akash Bhatnagar (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 4, 2025)
Chunky Panday has had two releases in the last two months with The Royals and Detective Sherdil. In the former, he got to explore a romantic track with actor Sakshi Tanwar. The actor admits that while love stories of the senior generation are rarely made on screen, he feels glad to be a part of one.
Talking about developing chemistry with Sakshi, he says, “I was a little awkward doing romantic scenes, not that there were any love making or hot scenes. I am a fan of Sakshi and her work, and when I got this chance, I jumped at it. But there was a bit of awkwardness because romance is not my cup of tea.”
The 62-year-old adds, “I struggled a bit, but the director, DOP and even the producer were women, so there was a lot of female energy on set and they kind of got that romance out of me. But I admit I’m not good at it.”
The actor reveals that while the audience found his romance sweet, his wife, reality TV star Bhavana Pandey had an unexpected reaction: “People told me I looked sweet, but my wife was laughing when she saw me. She couldn’t imagine me being romantic. She is always critical of my work.”
Chunky got a chance to perform live on stage with daughter (actor) Ananya Panday at a recent award show as she paid a tribute to him. And it was a surprise for him. “She started talking about someone who made her laugh since she was a child. So, I thought she was talking maybe (actor) Shah Rukh Khan. Then she burst into a (actor) Neelam song from one of my films, so I thought maybe she’s doing a tribute to Neelam. Then suddenly it turned into all my songs, and I got so excited. For me that was like a lifetime achievement award,” Chunky ends.
I regret not doing Tridev-Neelam
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Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; January 16, 2025)
Neelam came back in the limelight after she appeared in the Bollywood Wives series. The actress who was quite popular in the late 80s and 90s took a break from movies in 2000s. While she’s had quite a few well-known films to her credit, during her course as an actor she regrets letting go of a few of them. One such movie being the Naseeruddin Shah, Sunny Deol starrer Tridev.
As she looks back at the “lost opportunity”, Neelam shares, “I was supposed to do a role in Tridev. The film is known for that Tirchi Topiwale. So, that’s my biggest regret! I regret not doing the film missing out being a part of that song.”
Neelam who was seen in films like Agneepath and Hum Saath Saath Hain feels that it is important to have good numbers associated with your name as an actor. She elaborates saying, “Hit songs always get carried forward from one era to another. Remember my song Aap Ke Aa Jane Se from Khudgarz it’s still so known. So, I feel Tirchi Topiwale could have been another song in my kitty. I mean just look at Saat Samundar Paar. People are still dancing on that number. Like, people from different generations, literally! I mean Chunky Panday (who featured in the song) is still doing shows on that song (laughs).”
Neelam who’s eager to take up interesting work was also seen in web shows like Masaba Masaba and Made In Heaven. In an earlier chat with us she had opened up about the reason behind quitting films.
She had said, “Back then, I left the industry because I believed my shelf life was over, and I didn’t like the films I was being offered. When I left films, I was almost 30. That was the last time people saw me on screen, and making a comeback in my 50s was a little daunting. But Karan (Johar, maker of Bollywood Wives series) and my husband Samir helped me calm down and pushed me to go for it, and here I am.”
When I go to events and see people recognizing me, it takes me back to my earlier life-Neelam Kothari
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Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; December 18, 2024)
Neelam, a popular face from the ’80s and ’90s, made her showbiz comeback with a reality show on OTT. The series Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives brought her back into the spotlight, which translated into interesting opportunities. However, instead of speeding up on the career front, Neelam says she wants to slow down. The actress, who’s married to actor Samir Soni and has a daughter, Ahana, says she is keen to strike the right balance between work and family time.
‘I feel my daughter needs her mum to be around’
Ask her why she isn’t encashing on the popularity of the show, and she replies, “See, when I first did season one of Fabulous Lives Of Bollywood Wives, I thought, ‘Well, this isn’t that bad, and I don’t mind continuing with the acting gig.’ But now, when I am getting offers and reading scripts, I have realized a few things. My daughter is 11, and she’s growing up, and I feel I’ve spread myself too thin. I’m also focussing on interiors and jewellery designing, and I feel Ahana needs her mum to be around. Earlier, I was raring to go and do web shows and films. I was all for it, but now I’ve changed my mind.”
‘The Industry has changed; it has become too demanding’
The actress says she is keen on taking up work that doesn’t include long shifts. She shares, “I am happy to do projects that won’t consume too much of my time. I enjoyed working in Made In Heaven. Today, the industry has changed so much – it has become too demanding. Earlier, a shift would be from 9 am to 6 pm or 10 am to 2 pm. I’m not used to 12-hour shifts, which also require two hours of travelling, two hours of makeup time and then the 12-hour shoot. I was left wondering where my personal life went. That was a wake-up call. My daughter is my priority right now, so the guilt seeps when I’m hardly home.”
‘Sometimes I pinch myself to believe that this is really happening’
Neelam is glad to have received so much love from the industry and the audience, especially at this point in her life.
She says, “Sometimes I pinch myself to believe that this is really happening. In the ’80s and ’90s, I did over 40 films. I was very successful. Now, to witness all the limelight once again is unbelievable, especially when it is coming back to me at this age. For an actor who started out at 16 and is now 55, to be relevant is surreal. I did this show, and things changed completely for me. It’s all thanks to Karan Johar. When I go to events now and see people recognizing me, it takes me back to my earlier life all over again.”
‘I Left the industry because I didn’t like the offers coming my way’
Neelam, who was seen in films like Love 86 (1986), Aag Hi Aag (1987), Hatya (1988), Parampara (1993) and Hum Saath Saath Hain (1999), admits that she was sceptical to make a comeback.
She says, “Back then, I left the industry because I felt my shelf life was over, and I didn’t like the films I was being offered. It was Karan (Johar) who approached me for the show. In this age of social media, I thought I’d be trolled if I returned to acting. I was conscious. When I left films, I was almost 30. That was the last time people saw me on screen, and making a comeback in my 50s was a little daunting. But Karan and my husband, Samir, helped me calm down and pushed me to go for it, and here I am.”
I don’t think anyone in India has ever come on a show and said, ‘I do fillers’-Neelam Kothari
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Actor Neelam Kothari Soni on being unperturbed by the love and hate received for Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives
Letty Mariam Abraham (MID-DAY; October 22, 2024)
Neelam Kothari Soni’s honesty has a way of shining on the screen. As she pursued her acting career in the ’80s and early ’90s, she was the quintessential girl-next-door, whose one smile was enough to break hearts. However, she quit acting early to focus on her family. Decades later, as she returned to the screen with Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives, it was her charm and her vulnerability that endeared her to audiences again. As the reality show’s third season streams on Netflix, the actor opens about how it has brought her closer to her three friends—Maheep Kapoor, Bhavana Panday, and Seema Sajdeh—her reaction to the new entrants on the show, and putting up her life for public scrutiny. Edited excerpts from the interview.
How do you feel about your journey so far on The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives?
I’m absolutely enjoying it. Doing a reality show is not easy. We’ve reached season three and are diving deeper into a person’s life and their personality. There are days where I have felt uncomfortable, but by and large, it’s a blast because I’m with my besties.
How tough is it to be vulnerable in front of the camera?
During season one, I found it very difficult. But then in the consecutive seasons, I felt that the more vulnerable you are, and the more you show your true personality, you win hearts. I think the show has done so well because each one of us has come out and spoken about our life that normally people wouldn’t talk about [as it would make them] uncomfortable. In the first season, I did my fillers. I don’t think anyone in India has ever come on a show and said, ‘I do fillers’.
How have the ups and downs in your friendship been over the three seasons?
In the first season, the actual action happened after the cameras stopped rolling. It was the first fight. These things happen between friends. We just didn’t anticipate it happening [so soon]. Maheep and I were wondering, ‘What the hell just happened?’ But that’s the nature of this show. You never know what’s coming because it’s not scripted. We don’t know what the other person is going to say or what I’m going to say. That makes it a little challenging because you don’t know what’s coming your way.
Previously, the audience only knew your characters. Now people know you as a person. How do you feel about that?
Before we started rolling for season one, I was scared because earlier, the only way people got to know anything about a star was through letters. There were hardly any interviews that happened. So, I was apprehensive because for the first time, people would see the real me, my equation with my family and my friends. But after the show dropped, I was pleasantly surprised that we all got so much love, especially me because I’ve been part of the industry.
Do you think the show has revived your acting career?
I don’t think it has [revived] my acting career, but it has definitely put me back in the spotlight.
Do you sometimes feel you have to be careful about not stepping on someone’s toes because you are more popular than the others?
That’s me as a person. Even in real life, I’m careful and cautious. That is my personality. But in season three, I’ve cut loose a little bit.
How do you handle the criticism that comes your way?
Some people will love us, some people will hate us, but they definitely can’t ignore us.
Did you feel like the new faces that came in have encroached into your space now?
I felt like that in the beginning. The four of us felt like this is our show, but having new people on board [leads to] different conversations and different scenarios. But we take this very personally. We four are the OGs.
One moment in this season that you love the most?
In every season, when I’m on holiday with the girls, I cut loose. I’m just a different person. The holidays are definitely my favourite part. We went to Mauritius this season. The best thing about the four of us is that there is no competition. There is a certain comfort that only comes from being friends for so many years.
Samir Soni is the kind of person who has no filter; sometimes I get scared-Neelam Kothari
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Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; October 10, 2024)
Her arguments on her web series with her husband Samir Soni has the audience realised that it’s quite an ‘opposite attracts’ jodi. While Neelam comes across as a social person, Samir is rather anti-social. And the actress tells us that it takes efforts to make him do things for the show.
Talking about how she convinces him every time he has to come on camera for their show Fabulous Lives Of Bollywood Wives, Neelam shares, “The first day we shot with him he walked in with his boxers and ganji. I objected and he said well, it's a reality show and this is how I am at home. I said at least wear pyjamas and a t-shirt. And he refused saying, ‘You guys want me on the show? You want to shoot with me? This is the way I am!’ Finally, somehow, I convinced him, and he at least wore track pants and a t-shirt. But then the next challenge was to make him sit up as she was lying down on the couch and wanted to talk like that on camera. He just wanted it to be real.”
At home, the other thing Neelam worries about Samir is that “he has no filter”! She elaborates saying, “Sometimes I get scared talking in front of him about anything thinking what if he spills the beans by mistake. If I'm gossiping with my friends, I make sure that he's not around because nothing stays in his stomach. He doesn't realize there's just no filter. Overall, he's just a clean soul so he doesn't realize it.”
The actress is now gearing up for the third season of her reality show – Fabulous Lives Vs Bollywood Wives. This time around there’s an addition to the cast with a bunch of new protagonists. And this change makes Neelam jealous!
In a fun way she reiterates saying, “My first reaction to the new season was, ‘Oh, we have to share screen space with other wives?; But anyway, as we started shooting it was a lot of fun. It definitely added to the track. We needed that little twist because the four (Neelam Kothari, Maheep Kapoor, Bhavna Pandey, Seema Khan) of us became very comfortable on the show so this has definitely helped.”
It would be amazing to play Ananya Panday's on screen mum-Neelam Kothari
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Vinay MR Mishra (HINDUSTAN TIMES; December 16, 2022)
It is well known by now that actor Ananya Panday will star in a long-form series titled Call Me Bae. However, from what we have heard, she will be romancing not one but four guys in that series. And one of them happens to be reality TV star Varun Sood.
A source close to the production house states, “Varun plays a gym trainer in the series. This is supposed to be Varun’s big-ticket project. Several actors auditioned for this part; however, it was Varun who landed this character. He will soon sign the dotted line.”
This won’t be Sood’s digital debut, as he was previously seen the 2017 web series in Ragini MMS Returns, and on the big screen, he starred in JugJugg Jeeyo.
While the search for the other guys continues, we have learnt that the team approached actor-jewellery designer Neelam Kothari Soni to play Panday’s on screen mother, but she apparently declined! Interestingly, Soni is close friends with Panday’s mum, Bhavana.
Meanwhile, a source clarifies: “She (Soni) didn’t say it in so many words that she doesn’t want to play a mother, but we all are assuming that is the reason. We’re currently looking for additional actors.”
And when we reached out to Soni, she had another story to share: “Things are at a very preliminary stage. I’ve not even read the script yet. All I know is that I’ve been offered to play Ananya’s mother. I’ve not accepted or denied it yet. It would be amazing to play her (on screen) mum.”
Sood, on the other hand, denied commenting on the matter.
Cameos over full fledged roles for Neelam Kothari
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Time commitment is the basis of Neelam Kothari Soni’s project choices
Syeda Eba Fatima (HINDUSTAN TIMES; September 17, 2022)
Neelam Kothari Soni is thoroughly enjoying her second innings as an actor after the success of Fabulous Lives Of Bollywood Wives and is flooded with opportunities. However, she says whenever approached for a project now, the first question she asks is, ‘How many days do you need to shoot my part?’
“My nine-year-old daughter Ahana takes up most of my time. I can’t sign a project that would require me to shoot 40-45 days and not be there for her,” shares the actor, who has done hits films like Love 86, Ilzaam (both 1986) and Khudgarz (1987).
With back-to-back shoots and promotional events, Neelam says family life ended up taking a back seat. “During this time, my daughter and my dad were unwell, and Sameer (Soni; actor-husband) was also busy with shooting. So none of us were available for Ahana. As a result, she’s giving me a cold shoulder (laughs). You know how children have strange ways of expressing emotions,” she elaborates.
That is why the actor is willing to take on cameo roles, which allow her to spend enough time with family: “Work will come and go, but these precious years with family will never return.”
Having said that, she believes “never say never”. “If something extremely interesting comes my way, I might make time,” shares Neelam, who recently wrapped up the shoot of filmmaker Zoya Akhtar’s Made In Heaven season 2, where she shares the screen with her husband.
Though she doesn’t share details about her part, Neelam says she didn’t have to think much before signing it. “I am friends with Zoya. She called me up one day and asked if I was willing to act, and I said, ‘If it’s for you then yes, 100%’,” she concludes.
There might be rivalry between actors, but it’s good, healthy rivalry-Raveena Tandon
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Raveena Tandon says there’s no harm in healthy rivalry between female actors
Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 20, 2022)
Actor Raveena Tandon is not one to believe that two women in showbiz can’t be friends. In fact, she has more than two, and is therefore quick to dispel this infamous misconception. Sharing her own experience, she tells us that when her film, KGF - Chapter 2, released, many of her contemporaries called her up. “It was so sweet. My colleagues Shilpa (Shetty Kundra, actor) and Badshah (rapper) called me. Nagarjuna (actor) called me after so many years. I spoke to him after 22 years,” Tandon says, adding, that actor Madhuri Dixit Nene praised her, too.
Veteran actor Sharmila Tagore also messaged her when Aranyak released. “When people make the effort to call and compliment you, it’s a different high,” she shares.
Tandon also recalls the past decades when female rivalries in the film industry were said to be even fiercer. While she states that she used to get along with everyone in those days, she adds that it’s not necessary to be friends with everyone. “Actors I have worked with have been friends for so long. [But] it’s not necessary to get along with everyone. You come to know who is happy for you and who is not. Those who are (happy for you) remain with you,” she elaborates.
She further says, “There might be rivalry (between actors), but it’s good, healthy rivalry. There’s no harm in it. It has always brought out the best in each one of us. Madhuri, Neelam (Kothari), I love them so much. God forbid, if anything happens to them, I know I am going to be there for them.”
Lara Dutta, Soha Ali Khan, Ruskin Bond join forces to kick off libraries across schools in Latur
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Mohar Basu (MID-DAY; February 26, 2022)
Producer Deepshikha Deshmukh has kicked off the initiative, Read Latur, to inculcate the habit of reading among the children of Latur. As part of the endeavour, she will set up libraries across the schools in the region, thus encouraging children to immerse themselves in the world of fables, adventures and fairy tales. Bollywood actors Lara Dutta Bhupathi, Soha Ali Khan, Neelam Kothari and celebrated author Ruskin Bond have lent their support to the project by donating their favourite books.
Deshmukh says the idea took shape when she noticed that children in Latur had limited access to reading material, most of it restricted to textbooks. “Stories, fables, and tales written for children are essential to give wings to their imagination. As a mother, I have seen that regular reading can improve language skills, make children more curious and confident, and shape their perceptions. I am a firm believer of the circular economy and how environmentally friendly it is to share. This is how Read Latur started,” she says.
Over the next few months, she aims to build libraries in 12 to 15 schools in the city.
Samir Soni’s latest book is based on the time when he had stopped socialising
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Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; December 1, 2021)
Samir Soni recently marked his debut as an author with My Experiments With Silence: The Diary Of An Introvert. The actor, who has been maintaining a personal diary for years now, decided to put together pages and turn it into a book.
Talking about it, he says, “About 10 to 15 years back, there was a phase in my life when I decided to not socialise, talk or go out. Being an introvert, I wrote down whatever I felt. My thoughts were a part of my personal diary and not meant to be shared with anyone.”
So, what made him turn his journal into a book? “I was extremely apprehensive first. But I realised that it’s not just about me; it’s about a lot of people dealing with their own insecurities and fears. The book addresses a much larger issue of mental health. During the pandemic, you kept hearing about anxiety, depression and suicide all around you,” he says, adding that he too was faced with questions about his inner feelings.
With the positive feedback coming his way, Soni now wants to pen “an actual memoir”. He shares, “This book is more like a teaser to what’s going to come in the future. Writing is very therapeutic for me like it is for most people who are introverts. I would like to believe that I have a little flair for putting pen to paper. The next book will be about me looking back at life from the place I’m right now at.”
The Chehre actor reveals that his wife, actor Neelam Kothari, was fairly surprised after she read the book. “I was a little scared initially about how she would react. But when started reading, she was like, ‘Wow, this is rather deep stuff.’ I’ve no idea how the rest of my family will react to it because nobody knows about this part of me!” he ends.
Little did I know that The Neelam Show I did in Kuch Kuch Hota Hai would be such a big hit-Neelam Kothari Soni
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Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; August 4, 2021)
In the 80s and 90s, Neelam Kothari Soni featured in several hit films, including Jawaani, Ilzaam and Khudgarz. The actress wowed the audience with her innocence, charm and pretty looks and enjoyed a huge fan following back in the day. Her on-screen chemistry with Govinda was much talked about, as were their dance moves. And then one day, just like that, she was done with Bollywood. In a chat with BT, Neelam gave us a sneak peek into how her life has transformed over the years and her plans for the future. Read on…
‘WHILE ACTING IN MOVIES, I MADE A CONSCIOUS EFFORT TO LEARN ABOUT MY FAMILY BUSINESS’
Today, a successful jewellery designer, Neelam has made a name for herself beyond showbiz. But the decision to quit movies and don the businesswoman’s suit, how did that happen? The actress replies, “Frankly speaking, I wasn’t too excited about taking up the kind of roles I was being offered. That’s when I thought that it was time to quit gracefully. While acting in movies, I simultaneously made a conscious effort to learn about my family business, jewellery. That was always my fallback option and something I always knew I would pursue eventually.”
Looking back at her last two big-screen outings, she says, “Kuch Kuch Hota Hai (KKHH) and Hum Saath Saath Hain (HSSH) happened after I had quit acting. Karan Johar, who is a dear friend, told me, ‘Look, you are playing yourself. It’s a cameo appearance. It will be fun’, and that was that. Little did I know that The Neelam Show I did in KKHH would be such a big hit. In fact, the younger generation knows me from KKHH. Filmmaker Sooraj Barjatya was extremely keen on having me on board for the part in HSSH.”
Neelam says, “I told him (Sooraj Barjatya) that I wasn’t doing movies anymore, but he was sweet enough to persuade me. So, I may have done 40 films, but I am recognized for my last two screen outings (smiles!). I was looking after my jewellery business, which I continue to do to date. I hadn’t expected Karan to approach me again with a web series. He has a knack for bringing me back (laughs!). It’s just been great since then.”
‘I WISH I WAS ACTING NOW’
Recalling how being an actress in the 90s was ‘just about being there’, Neelam says “When I had started, I was so young and was unfortunately stereotyped. The industry was also very different back then. Films would largely be about the hero. Today, actresses get to be the hero in their films! The kind of roles that are written and the films that are being made now are so diverse! Look at the content out there on the digital platforms, especially the homegrown ones. A large chunk of it is women-oriented. I think it’s a great time to be an actor. I wish I was acting now.”
A COMEBACK ON THE HORIZON?
The actress is particularly impressed with the kind of content being explored in the film industry today. She says, “There is great content being made, offering so much scope to an artiste to perform and explore now. I have already shot a portion of a project, which I am not at liberty to disclose yet. I was also offered another project, which I had to decline as they wanted me to shoot abroad for 45 days. I didn’t want to stay away from my family — my husband (Samir Soni) and daughter (Ahana) — for long in the middle of the pandemic. My priority and passion continue to be my family, and of course, jewellery designing. However, if something good comes my way, I will evaluate it and take it up if it piques my interest, but it’s not the be-all and end-all.”
Not having faced the camera for a long time did make her a tad nervous about going back to the shooting floors, but the encouragement she got from her recent work has given her the much-needed push. “I had apprehensions about facing the camera again because I hadn’t done it in a long time. But the feedback, love and admiration I received for the web series and an appearance on the reality show Super Dancer on social media was overwhelming. That gave me a lot of confidence and belief that there are people who still remember and love me. It’s been a real boost,” signs off the actress.
Neelam Kothari signs up for a detox wellness programme
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After undergoing Botox treatment on Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives, Neelam signs up for detox programme
Mohar Basu (MID-DAY; June 16, 2021)
Those who tuned into Netflix’s 'Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives' might remember actor-jewellery designer Neelam Kothari Soni undergoing Botox treatment on one of the episodes. The actor had backed her decision saying that she didn’t want to hide that she did a facelift to maintain her looks. Now, she has signed up for a four-week detox wellness programme at a health resort near Pune.
“Sameer [Soni, husband] came up with the suggestion as the resort has a summer camp for children. We thought it would be a wholesome experience for us as well as for Ahana [daughter] who hasn’t been able to engage in outdoor activities due to the Coronavirus pandemic,” shares Kothari.
While she looks forward to the physical benefits of the programme, the actor hopes the “mental and digital detox” will help her combat the fear and anxiety brought on by the pandemic. “Our lives have changed a lot; we can’t go out, and are scared to meet people. Being in a green and open environment will [help calm] the mind. In the process, if I manage to lose a couple of pounds, why not? That’s a win-win situation.”
On The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives, we are women who multitask, like every woman out there-Bhavana Pandey
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That's what four famous Bollywood wives with fabulous lives will have the audience believe with their new slice-of-life digital show
Aastha Atray Banan (MID-DAY; November 29, 2020)
Along with an attack on our health, this year saw an assault of another kind, equally discussed. The attack on Bollywood royalty. Superstars were "shown their place", say critics, especially on social media, as the aam junta questioned their entitlement, the power of privilege that comes with being someone important's someone.
Ironically, a new digital show that's been at the centre of much chatter, discusses and celebrates this very privilege, as it puts four wives of Bollywood stars—Neelam Kothari (married to Samir Soni), Seema Khan (Sohail Khan), Maheep Kapoor (Sanjay Kapoor) and Bhavana Pandey (Chunky Pandey; is mother to Ananya Panday)—in the spotlight. The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives promises to offer entry into filmi families, which have been at the vortex of the nepotism debate recently. "People will finally know that our lives aren't glamorous 24/7. And, that we are not perfect!" says Khan, wife to Sohail Khan, brother to Bollywood's biggest superstar Salman Khan and daughter-in-law to veteran scriptwriter Salim Khan. Kothari argues that they may look perfect, but that doesn't mean, "they don't have their insecurities".
Whatever the protagonists may say, the audiences are going to watch for a glimpse of the perfection and glamour that defines, even if erroneously, Bollywood. What is going to come as a surprise though, is the candidness with which the show is presented. Khan confesses that she is obsessed with the Kardashians, while actor Samir Soni discusses Neelam's fear of facing audience judgment with a return to screen after years. And Pandey laughs about her love of "water bras". And they all have real jobs. Kothari and Kapoor are jewellery designers; Pandey runs a fashion brand called Love Gen; Khan is a fashion designer. But as Kapoor says, their kids come before career. Pandey adds, "We will be in super important meetings, but when your child calls, it means you have to put them before anything and everything."
The show, produced by Karan Johar, is full of real, and some hilarious moments. Some of it is over the top, yes, but all of it, entertaining.
When we get on a Zoom call with the four, they seem to be a bunch not too concerned about challenging any odd perceptions you may have. Pandey, who comes across as the most grounded, says, "Honestly, this show was not intended to challenge misconceptions. We are not trying to prove anything. We are behaving the way we would ordinarily—we are women who multitask, like every woman out there." Kapoor says they are an emotional bunch. They've known each other for 20-odd years, and that's what people will see. "That's close to 25 years of relationships and friendship. I am hoping women will connect with us."
Interestingly, the four weren't very keen to put themselves out there when the idea was presented to them. Kothari says different triggers set each of them off, and all of them lost their cool at some point while shooting. But it was the kids who got them to see its relevance in perspective. As Kapoor says, "It was very nerve-racking to put ourselves out there. But our kids made us see the light—life is short, who says no to Dharmatic [Johar's Dharma Productions] and Netflix! Tell your stories. And suddenly, we all said, 'why not, we must!'"
Rapid Fire
Did you worry about being branded elitist?
Kothari: That's the misconception in any field. You have to work hard to get where you are. You will never see success if you don't work hard.
Pandey: We are privileged, and we are blessed. But, there is everything else that comes with it. We experience the emotions you do—we are happy and sad. Ours is like any other family.
Were you apprehensive about doing the show?
Kapoor: Very! Neelam was like 'hell, no!' Seema said yes, and Bhavna was thinking about it. Did we want people to judge us, and give so much access? No.
Pandey: I had been planning—okay, I will be controlled, and I will say this, and do that. But after a while, we went back to who we were. How long can you pretend?
Khan: I was fine till the shoot started. Then, when the cameras were in our house, we panicked a bit.
Kothari: I think what helped was that we had known each other for 25 years.
How are "normal" women going to relate to you?
Kapoor: We are very possessive mothers. That will resonate for sure.
Pandey: We all multistask like everyone else, especially like everyone has during the pandemic!
Which Sex and the City character are you?
Khan: Maheep is obviously Samantha, and Neelam is very much like Charlotte. I think Bhavana and I oscillate, and have a bit of both Miranda and Carrie in us.
Neelam Kothari, Bhavana Pandey, Maheep Kapoor and Seema Khan
Hema Malini’s daughter inspired Samir Soni to name his baby girl ‘Ahana’
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Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; October 18, 2020)
When Juhi Chawla named her daughter Jhanvi, she called up late Sridevi to inform her that their daughters share similar names. Now, we have come across one more actor who, too, was inspired by the name of a starkid. The actor being Samir Soni, who named his daughter Ahana, after being inspired by Hema Malini’s daughter Ahana.
Sharing the story, Samir says, “I met Ahana before I worked with her mother in Baghban (2003). Actually, Dia Mirza, Ahana and I went for the same pottery classes. So, when I met Hema- ji’s daughter, it was the first ever time I heard the name ‘Ahana’. I really liked the sound of it.” He adds, “So, when my wife, Neelam, insisted that we name our daughter with the letter ‘A’, I suggested that we call her Ahana. I didn’t know what it meant, so I looked for it and figured that it meant the first ray of the sun.”
Samir also adds that Ahana has been a fan of his wife and former actress Neelam. “Ahana would sit on her lap when she was a kid,” he recalls.
Actors speak on DIY fashion trends of the '90s that they wish never return
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In the age of personal stylists and seasoned aesthetics, Bollywood stars remember the DIY fashion of the noughties and boy, are they glad to have it behind them…
Himesh Mankad and Hiren Kotwani (MUMBAI MIRROR; November 4, 2019)
Suit-able for a circus
Suniel Shetty: Looking back at the suits that I was made to wear, I often wonder, “What was I thinking?” More than an outfit, this suit was like a circus tent; five people could get into that one suit. One didn’t even need a tailor... just make a hole in the garment and wear it. And the big shoulder pads were embarrassing!
A short(s) story
Jackie Shroff: One thing that I am glad to have left behind in the 1990s are my shorts. They were the shortest I had ever seen and not even cut straight. It was like having my jeans cut in the shape of a bikini. I used to ride bikes in those bikini shorts with ganjis. I’ve kept some of the other stuff, like denims with a weighty fabric. And I still wear heels, clogs, boots and bandhni shirts, which are among my favourites.
Hatred is permanent
Raveena Tandon: I am glad not to see permed hair. The hair was all over the place and rarely looked flattering on anyone.
House of huff and puff
Manisha Koirala: In my first film, Saudagar, I was given a hairstyle which was a composite of three patches—a wig, a fringe and a puff. We also had clothes with nets, frills and puffs on the shoulder. I’m so glad they have all disappeared.
Go big or go home?
Neelam Kothari: Back in the 1980s-’90s, shoulder pads were a big trend. So much so, that everything you wore, from dresses to shirts, had shoulder pads that made you look big on screen. I used to really hate them and I’m so glad they are gone. Another thing I’m happy hasn’t transcended time is big hair—frizzy perms and voluminous curls.
Samir Soni roped in as Shilpa Shetty Kundra's husband for her comeback film Nikamma
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Chaya Unnikrishnan (DNA; September 24, 2019)
Shilpa Shetty Kundra is making a comeback in films and will be seen on-screen after 13 years with Nikamma — her last outing was Apne (2007). Now, we have learnt that Samir Soni has been roped in opposite her in the project. The Student of The Year 2 actor will play Shilpa’s husband in the Sabir Khan directorial.
“I’ve met Shilpa on several occasions, including Ganpati at her place. She is the sweetest person I know. When I was in Bigg Boss 4, she rooted for me. She’s a good friend of Neelam (his wife) and both of us are fond of her. She is returning to films after 13 years and I have an important role in the project. I can’t divulge much, but I’m happy it is not a run-of-the-mill part,” says Samir.
The actor is currently shooting for Mumbai Saga, in which he plays a gangster and will begin Nikamma in the first week of October. “I look forward to working with Shilpa. She’s such a lively, bubbly person, it will be fun,” he says. Samir will also be seen in a cameo in Abhishek Bachchan-starrer, The Big Bull.
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