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My friends have made me an agony aunt-Mouni Roy

Mouni Roy: My friends have made me an agony aunt

Ready to give her vishesh tipni to lovers facing relationship turmoils, Mouni Roy discusses her role on Temptation Island
Letty Mariam Abraham (MID-DAY; November 7, 2023)

From Naagin to Brahmastra, Mouni Roy has shone in fantasy offerings. But now, the actor is trading the fantasy world for one that is driven by love, fidelity and temptations. Roy will be seen as the Queen of Hearts on her first digital reality show, Temptation Island. The Jio Cinema show is an adaptation of its international version of the same name. In conversation with mid-day, the actor talks about relationships, marriage and how her non-judgmental nature makes her perfect to play an advisor on the show.

Edited excerpts from the interview.

Why did you take up Temptation Island?
I have a good understanding of people’s emotions and relationships. Since I was a little girl, my friends or relatives would always seek my advice. They probably thought I had an unbiased opinion. Even now, I get late-night calls from my friends when they need my perspective. I have seen the international format of the show. It’s a social experiment to see how [couples] deal with [temptation]. When I was asked to be the Queen Of Hearts, I had no reason to [turn it down]. I was initially nervous. But now that I have shot for two weeks, I’ve found my feet.

Relationships are hard, why complicate it by involving a third party?
[Tempters] are a format of the show. Most couples who come to the show are in some sort of [conflict]; either the relationship is not going anywhere or they’ve been together for 11 years and don’t know if they wish to be together or not. On the show, you get to see if the relationship is strong enough. I believe when the relationship is strong, there is no space for a third person.

Isn’t it better to consult a relationship counsellor?
That choice lies with the people participating. When Jio Cinema [bought the rights] to the format, there were so many couples who wanted to [participate]. That itself shows their preference.

At any point in those two weeks, did you feel let down by trivial disputes?
Relationships are complicated. I am non-judgmental, that is why I find myself being a good fit in the mix. Everyone comes from a different background, their upbringing is different, so I can’t be talking to everyone uniformly. My first day of shooting was nerve-wracking because I didn’t know them at all. I handled it well eventually.

Did you have a script to follow?
The show cannot be scripted. You don’t know how they will behave or what they will say.

Would you call yourself an agony aunt?
I think I am one [laughs]. My friends have made me one over the years.

How do you resolve a conflict?
When I was younger, I used to be very emotional. With a lot of meditation and self-work, I’ve reached a place where if there is a problem, I try to find a solution. Of course, I have arguments with my husband, but we talk it out. I think after marriage, something changes; you know you have to be with this person for the rest of your life, so there is no point fighting. It’s easy to move on after a fight [once you are married]. If you hold on to it, I have realised that you hurt yourself more than the other person.

Given the opportunity, would you be part of the show?
I cannot be part of the show because I am married. It’s a prerequisite for the participants to be dating.

Do you think Brahmastra changed the way the industry looked at you?
It gave me a lot of respect. People knew that I could act, but when they saw me play Junoon, they appreciated it. My character wasn’t shouting or screaming, I was wearing an outlandish garb and I was a bit nervous because my dialogues were in shudh Hindi. So, I didn’t know how people would react. The audience’s acceptance and love overwhelmed me.

We make many women centric films today; some of the biggest global superstars are Indian women-Mouni Roy


Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; October 24, 2023)

This is one festival that Mouni Roy eagerly awaits, however, this year the actress has missed most of the celebrations due to her shooting schedule. Amid work, she managed to make a quick visit to a pandal for pujo. Bombay Times captured her at Kumar Sanu’s MBCA Durga Puja in Mumbai. In a conversation with BT, she spoke about celebrating the power of women on Dussehra and her childhood memories of the festival. Excerpts:

Among the festive days of Durga puja, what makes Dashami (Dussehra) special for you?
The two most important days for me during pujo are the Maha Ashtami day and the Bijoya Dashami (Dussehra). On these two days, the celebrations and the energies are at their peak. It’s a mixed feeling on Dussehra because you prepare for Durga pujo for months, and then, on this day you bid Durga maa goodbye. As kids, I remember we used to wake up early, get ready in our white and red saris and head for sindoor khela. We would see women putting sindoor on each other’s foreheads, cheeks and their shakha pola (white and red bangles that married Bengali women wear).

Dusshera symbolizes conquering good over evil. Women have to overcome various battles at every stage – be it gender bias (at home and workplace), eve teasing or lack of equal opportunities. What are your thoughts about women constantly looking within them and finding the power to fight against these?
It’s sad that women face these evils even today, but I think we are moving towards a world where women can command and demand equality. I come from a small town (Cooch Behar, West Bengal) and I have studied in Delhi. So, I have seen everything very closely, and I feel it is important that all men have the knowledge and wisdom to treat women as equals with respect in our day-to-day life and even at workspaces. In terms of our (movie) industry, times have changed a lot. We make many women-centric films today, and some of the biggest global superstars are Indian women. It’s moving in the right direction. But many things come into play when you talk about equality at work, like the films that are mounted on male superstars or heroes… I think everything is equivalent to the number of days that you work and what’s your part in the film. So, there are a lot of metrics at play. I hope and pray to see equality soon, but I don’t see that happening in the near future, but we are definitely taking the right steps.

The festival celebrates the power of women. Who are the women in your life who have been a source of strength and inspiration?
I could go on and on about this because I am surrounded by women. My mom, aunts and other women are supremely intelligent… some of them are doctors, engineers and teachers. I grew up in a household that’s academically oriented, and we were always taught to be independent and to stand on our own feet. To have your individuality and be emotionally and financially independent is something I have been taught by my father and all the women around me. Now that I am working in Mumbai, I see my manager, stylists, and other team members around me, who are all hardworking women.

‘Sindoor Khela is about women celebrating each other’s strength’
Since I’ve been married, I have always worked on Dussehra. So, I haven’t really been able to participate in sindoor khela. I believe that it signifies power, purity, courage and strength. Red is a very strong colour. Sindoor khela is where women celebrate each other’s strength and happiness. I hope I get to be a part of it next year. Suraj (Nambiar, her husband) is equally involved in the festivities. Last year, he came to Mumbai, and we did the puja and ate bhog together. Unfortunately, this year, he is not in the country.

One day, Mouni Roy gave me an ultimatum, and I realized that if I didn’t marry her, I would lose her-Suraj Nambiar

Mouni Roy Was Missing Husband Suraj Nambiar, So She Posted This

Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; February 14, 2023)

Mouni Roy and her husband, Dubai-based businessman Suraj Nambiar, were dating for three years before they decided to take the plunge and tie the knot. The couple exchanged wedding vows last year on January 27. Mouni and Suraj, who come from completely different worlds, in an exclusive interview with Bombay Times on Valentine’s Day, for the first time, talk about how their romance blossomed and what it is that makes their marriage special. Read on…

After three years of courtship and one year of marriage, has the essence of Valentine’s Day changed for both of you? Can you recall any special moments spent on this day?
MOUNI: For the first few years, Valentine’s Day was all about surprising each other with gifts. Now, it is about spending more time with each other. Though, I must say getting gifts for Suraj is quite a task as he doesn’t like any presents and constantly gets them exchanged. So, it is best I ask him to choose and pick things for himself. We celebrated our first Valentine's Day just a month and a half after we started dating. He gifted me something precious at an open-air theatre where they played one of my favourite classic movies.

Both of you come from completely different worlds and when you met, you were living in different places (Mouni was in Mumbai, while Suraj lived in Dubai). How did this relationship unfold?
SURAJ: Having lived out of India for over 12 years, I wasn’t aware that Mouni was an actress. We met at a New Year’s bash in 2018 in Dubai. I went to the bar to get my drink and saw this bunch of girls and that’s where we exchanged a few glances.
MOUNI: I was in Dubai with nine couples, who were my friends. I was the only single one, so my best friend said that she would help me find someone at the party, and there she found him. That evening we didn’t talk much, but later I ended up going to Dubai frequently and we kept meeting; that’s how it all started.

When it came to taking the relationship to the next level and talking about marriage, who made the first move? How sure were both of you about taking the plunge?
SURAJ: For a long time, I was against the idea of getting married. However, having experienced it for a year, I must say it is quite peaceful, and I would recommend it. Mouni was quite clear that she wanted to get married very early on. After a couple of years of dating, she clearly said it was either this way (getting married) or the highway. I just kept buying time. Then one day, she gave me an ultimatum, and I realized that if I didn’t marry her, I would lose her. That’s when I realized we should get married as I knew that my life would be better with her.
MOUNI: What works for us is the fact that we both are very occupied in our professional lives. So, the moments we get to spend with each other, we make the most of them. There’s a conscious effort to utilize this time positively. We have grown a lot in this relationship. It has been quite a journey. We have had our fair share of arguments. But today, we are at a stage where we can be with each other without complaining, and just be ourselves and be happy.
SURAJ: I also had a lot of apprehension about partially moving to Mumbai. I thought it would be tough, but I saw Mouni putting in a lot of effort to make me feel comfortable here. Now, her friends are my friends and vice versa. It’s been a journey of growth. We’ve always enjoyed doing things together, soon we are partnering over work, too.

For someone who comes from a completely different field, Suraj, how does it feel to be married to a celebrity and deal with all the media attention?
SURAJ: In the early phase of our relationship, Mouni and I met in Dubai and places abroad. So, it wasn’t like she was constantly surrounded by fans and paps. It was only during my initial visits to Mumbai that I saw fans asking for her selfies and paps waiting to click her… that’s when it really hit me. Honestly, I wasn’t sure if I wanted everything that came with it (dating an actor). I realized that being married to Mouni would mean that I would have to live in the public eye. It’s part of the deal, and with time, I am getting used to it.

In this day and age, where relationships and marriages fail to stand the test of time, you have managed to stay together despite the constant travelling between Mumbai and Dubai. How do you manage that?
SURAJ: It’s all about prioritizing. One person can’t have all the qualities. So, you have to ask yourself what are the three qualities that you absolutely need in a partner and then find that person. This is the longest relationship I have been in, and a big part of that is because I let go of a lot of unnecessary expectations (from my partner).
MOUNI: At the beginning of a relationship, you will never know if the person is right for you. All you can do is, give them a lot of love and respect. Also, give the person space, and like Suraj said, don’t have unnecessary expectations. If you treat your relationship with respect every single day, you will see it flourish, and the rest, of course, is destiny.

Madhuri Dixit, Remo D’Souza, and Karan Johar sir were graceful during my season of Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa-Mouni Roy


The actress is all set to return to the small screen after five years as a judge on a dance reality show
Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; January 16, 2022)

Rumours of Mouni Roy’s impending wedding with businessman Suraj Nambiar have been doing the rounds. The actress is likely to tie the knot on January 27 in Goa. However, known to be guarded about her personal life, this time, too, Mouni chooses to remain tight-lipped about it. In a chat with Bombay Times, she says, “I don’t like to talk about my personal life.”

While her lips are sealed about developments in her personal life, she is excited about the progress she is making on the professional front. Last seen in the film Velle, she is looking forward to the release of Brahmastra, which stars Amitabh Bachchan, Alia Bhatt and Ranbir Kapoor. She says, “I am working on interesting projects, and hopefully, they will be announced one after the other. I am looking forward to 2022.”

Interestingly, Mouni is also set to return to the small screen after five years as a judge on Dance India Dance Li’l Masters Season 5. The actress started her acting career with TV shows like Kyunki...Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi and Devon Ke Dev...Mahadev and catapulted to fame with the supernatural thriller, Naagin. Talking about her new role as a judge, she shares, “I am excited and nervous because this is my maiden outing as a judge on a reality show. When I was offered Dance India Dance Li’l Masters, the first thing that crossed my mind was how graceful Madhuri Dixit ma’am, Remo D’Souza sir, and Karan Johar sir were during my season of Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa. We would listen to them and follow their suggestions. So, I suddenly feel the responsibility, as I assume this new role and am
extremely grateful for this opportunity.”

Mouni insists that she hasn’t quit TV. “I am a very proud TV actor. I didn’t quit TV, but it was just a matter of commitment. As an actor, I aspire to play versatile characters. However, a project on TV translates into a commitment for a year or two. Now, that’s something I had alienated myself from for a while. But becoming a part of this show feels just right. I love dancing and kids. When an opportunity like that comes your way, you don’t ask questions… you take it up (smiles),” she concludes.

Brahmastra is a humongous project. It takes time to create something of that magnitude-Mouni Roy


Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 31, 2021)

Before the second wave of the pandemic hit the world, Mouni Roy flew to the UAE. The actor, who had spent a few months in Dubai last year as well, says her stay in the city proved to be a much-needed break. “The Coronavirus cases were pretty much nil and the restrictions were minimum. So, it was great to be able to go outdoors,” she shares.

Roy came back to India after the second lockdown was lifted. Happy to resume work, she believes the pandemic helped her appreciate her craft even more. She says, “I love acting and find it difficult to stay away from the camera. During the pandemic, not being able to do a thing that I have grown to love so much over the years, was tough. I tried to keep myself busy with other things.”

The shoot of Brahmastra, co-starring Ranbir Kapoor and Alia Bhatt, began in February 2018. The project which has suffered several delays received a further setback due to the pandemic. But Roy remains unfazed as she says, “It’s a humongous project. It takes time to create something of that magnitude. I am sure the wait will be worth it for everyone.”

What has helped the Made In China (2019) actor be stable through the past one year is spirituality. While in Dubai, she took virtual Bhagawad Gita classes. “I always had a fascination for it. But I never quite managed to get the time to read it. The pandemic was the perfect opportunity as I had free time,” she adds.

I was overwhelmed to meet my family after such a long time-Mouni Roy


Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; April 14, 2021)

While they might be separated yet again, Mouni Roy feels lucky that she could reunite with her mother and brother right in time before the Coronavirus cases increased. Last month, the actress met her family after a gap of over one year, and they had a week-long family vacay in Madurai.

On the trip, the Gold actress took the opportunity to visit a place that was on her wish list for a very long time — the Meenakshi Temple (Arulmigu Meenakshi Sundareshwarar Temple). Talking about the reunion, Mouni told BT, “I missed my family a lot and was overwhelmed to meet them after such a long time. My mom got me a lot of goodies from our hometown, Cooch Behar (West Bengal). It was fun chilling with my brother, too, after a long time. Earlier, he was like a child to me, but now that he’s a grown-up, we have become more like friends. The trip was all about reminiscing childhood days and gorging on lip-smacking South Indian food.”

The actress says that this trip turned out to be nothing short of a culinary delight. She adds, “I literally drowned myself in pongal and munched daily on crunchy papadums. I also loved the delicious avakkai pickle, and a must have for me was the lip-smacking podi, which is gunpowder mixed with ghee. In Madurai, it was quite a calorie fest and we ate our hearts out without any regrets.”

My brother surprised me with a guitar during one Bhai Dooj celebration-Mouni Roy


Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; November 16, 2020)

After spending eight months away from Mumbai, Mouni Roy returned to the city recently. However, the actress couldn’t participate in Diwali festivities as work kept her busy, and she will also have to settle for a virtual Bhai Dooj ceremony with her younger brother Mukhar Roy, who is currently in their hometown Cooch Behar, West Bengal.

Mouni says, “I have so many fond memories of celebrating Bhai Dooj with Mukhar. As kids, our parents dressed both of us as Lord Krishna during one of the Bhai Dooj ceremonies. Actually, they dressed him as Krishna and maine bhi zidd kardi that even I want to be dressed like that (laughs!).”

Recalling fond memories of the festival, Mouni further adds, “During our puja, we would never use water, instead, we used to add dew drops to the kumkum or chandan (sandalwood). Being the kid of the house, my brother would be asleep, while we sisters would wake up early and go to collect dew drops around the greens near our home in Bengal. Festivities at our home called for good food and lots of mithai like nariyal laddoos, rosogolla, payesh (kheer), nolen gurer sondesh (a traditional Bengali sweet), etc. My family is into music, so we used to have beautiful musical sessions, too.”

About the equation the brother-sister share, Mouni elaborates, “My brother is over 10 years younger than me, so earlier on, we had that typical relation where we used to fight a lot. But as we grew up, we started loving and respecting each other a lot more. Through my journey from my hometown to Mumbai, and in my endeavour to become an actress, he has been a silent supporter. He has always encouraged me with my art. At one point of time, I wanted to learn to play the guitar. I saw my brother learning it by watching online videos. He learnt it fast and very well. On realising that I have a good ear for music, he surprised me with a guitar during one Bhai Dooj celebration. I am going to miss celebrating the festival with my brother this year.”

I won’t be celebrating Durga Puja this year-Mouni Roy

Kavita Awaasthi (HINDUSTAN TIMES; October 22, 2020)

This year, the festive season isn’t what many of us have been experiencing over the years. Restrictions due to the pandemic have led to festivals being celebrated in a low-key manner or at a personal level and not in public. Celebrating Durga Puja every year is a must for Mouni Roy but due to the pandemic, she knows the celebrations in 2020 won’t be as usual. “I won’t be celebrating Durga Puja this year. It feels strange as it will be the first time that I won’t be. But it’s the need of the hour. I will have a small puja at home as I believe that Maa lives in all of us. Considering the current times, it would be better not to go to pandals this year or mingle in big crowds as it wouldn’t be safe. Hopefully, if everything clears up next year, we will celebrate the festival with double gusto,” says the London Confidential actor, who will return to India soon.

Roy admits that she will majorly miss the Anjali, the bhog, all the planning about each puja day, discussion on which pandals to visit and spending time with family. She recalls, “There is a gondho (smell) of pujo in West Bengal that I will miss the most. When the preps are going on, huge trucks carry the Durga murtis in different roops and pass by your home during all hours of the day and there is a scent in the air which is indescribable. I love the pujo food, especially khichadi and labra, wearing lovely saris and meeting extended family and friends.”

The actor has been away from Mumbai since March this year and has been living in UAE. She describes the experience of staying away from her country a new one. “I had never been away for so long at a stretch before and never thought of doing so either. It is what life is about which can surprise and shock you but is full of experiences,” she shares.

Travelling during a pandemic can be quite a task and after multiple flights that Roy has been on in the past few months, she says you sometimes have to embrace uncertainties and move ahead. She went to London to shoot for a digital film and later to Maldives to celebrate her birthday. “I went to UAE in March and back then there was no lockdown though there were Covid-19 cases, so the travel was as usual. Later, flying from Abu Dhabi to London and back was a bit fearful. Empty airports, sceptical people, nervous energy all over, but that is bound to happen as these are trying times. I guess all is well that ends well. I took every precaution every step of the way. And now I am 8 or 9 swab tests down since I left Abu Dhabi. Traveling is painful and uneasy but I wanted to do it as I wanted to work. I wanted to be back on a set and in hindsight, I am glad I took that decision and went to London to shoot.”.

My nose & throat have been swabbed 7 times-Mouni Roy

Picture Courtesy: Official Instagram Account/Mouni Roy
Mouni Roy on being tested for Covid-19 while travelling across three countries, UAE, UK and more recently Maldives, over the last seven months
Akash Bhatnagar (MUMBAI MIRROR; October 13, 2020)

When Mouni Roy left India for UAE in March to spend time with her sister and her family, she’d never imagined that the brief visit would last for more than seven months. While she was in Abu Dhabi, her mother and brother were in Cooch Behar. “We talk on video calls every day. That keeps me going,” says the actress.

She hasn’t returned to India yet, despite travel restrictions being eased, because she had a shoot in the UK and work commitments in Dubai. “Before I knew it, it was my birthday and I flew to Maldives to bring it in with three of my friends. Besides, Cooch Behar is far safer than Mumbai at the moment, so my brother and mother aren’t willing to return home yet. But I’ll be back in October for sure,” Mouni promises.

During the ongoing Coronavirus-triggered pandemic, when people are cooped up at home, the actress has travelled across three countries—UAE, United Kingdom and Maldives. She points out that while Dubai and UK are similar in their approach to the pandemic, Abu Dhabi is way stricter. “If we need to step out of my sister’s home and go only as far as Dubai, we need to get a swab test done at the border. Unless it’s negative, you can’t enter,” she shares.

They opted for Maldives as it has zero Covid cases. “As soon as you reach, they ask you to change and a doctor arrives to do a test. Results come the next morning and only then are you allowed to walk freely on the island, even without masks,” she recounts.

Quiz her on her shoot in the UK and Mouni says it went off smoothly despite first-day jitters. “Nobody knew what to expect, but everyone followed the rules with only one department present on set at a time. If the lights team was working, the direction team wasn’t there. There were separate holding areas, so not many people were together at one place. Plus, there were compulsory swab tests every week,” she rattles off, adding, “In the last seven months, my nose and throat have been swabbed around seven times, it’s uncomfortable and painful, but necessary. Luckily, no one fell ill on our set.”

Ask Mouni on her lockdown experience and she reveals that since her sister, Anisha, has two kids aged four and seven, and lives with her in-laws who are 75 and 69, they weren’t allowed out for the first two-and-a-half months. “But very early on, I decided not to be a couch potato. I’d wake up early, mediate, help with chores and my nephews’ homework. I also started painting, took Gita classes and did lots of yoga,” she shares, adding that her cooking skills have also improved. “I hated going into the kitchen, now I try recipes shared by my mother, aunts and even my friends’ mothers-in-law,” she laughs.

Mouni has found solace in her art which, for her, has been the most fulfilling way to channel her energy. “I made a lot of Shivji and Krishna Radha paintings, along with a girl dancing, people reading in meadows and on top of trees and a moonrise,” she informs, quick to add that she isn’t ready for an exhibition yet. “But since it brings happiness, I won’t stop painting.”

Meanwhile, the actress is waiting to reunite with the rest of her family but it will be difficult staying away from her nephews now. “Every morning, they run into my room, hold my face in their beautiful little hands and say ‘Mouni maasi, we’ll miss you.’ I think I’ll miss them more,” she signs off emotionally.

The industry is kind to talented and persistent people-Mouni Roy

Picture Courtesy: Official Instagram Account/Mouni Roy
Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; September 26, 2020)

It’s been long since Mouni Roy has parked herself abroad. While Mumbai was in a lockdown, she was in Abu Dhabi, then she went to London for a shoot and currently, she is holidaying in Dubai. The actress is busy planning her birthday celebrations with her friends there. Just as she is set to turn a year older, Mouni looks back at her journey in Bollywood, an industry which is currently trapped in several controversies! Just like her late contemporary Sushant Singh Rajput, Mouni, too, was a popular face on television and made a successful transition into movies. In a conversation with us, she recalls her journey — from the time when her father was not happy with her career choice, to feeling misplaced in showbiz and finally, finding solace in the industry.

You shot for a film in London, how was the whole experience of shooting in a foreign country in the times of the Coronavirus pandemic?
I have to admit that the first few days of the shoot were a bit unnerving for everyone on the set, as we all needed to get used to the new ways of working. The government rules and regulations were very tight, which everybody followed. Whether it was social distancing, wearing masks, gloves, face shields or using disinfectants regularly, we did it all. There was a different rehearsal space for actors and the director, as only one unit could be on the set at a time. So, every department had a different holding area. And the rule was, only one department was allowed at one time on the set. Also, we had to do mandatory swab tests every week. So, overall, I ended up undergoing six tests! I must admit, it’s not fun at all, but it does give you the relief of working fearlessly. The best part was, not one single person in the unit fell sick because we all followed the protocols. I guess this is the new normal and we all will have to follow it to continue doing what we love to do.

After Sushant Singh Rajput’s demise, the alleged dark side of Bollywood has become a talking point. Like Sushant, you too, came from the ‘outside’ and made a successful transition from television to movies. Can you relate to the ongoing conversation on insiders and outsiders?
I was studying in Delhi University when I came to know that auditions for a TV show were underway. I went in for the auditions and a few days later, got a call saying that I have been zeroed down for the part. I was all set to play Krishna Tulsi in Kyunki... Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi. My father wasn’t very happy with my decision to become an actor. He wanted me to become an IAS Officer. So, it took some convincing. Soon after, I flew to Mumbai and started shooting. I realised that it was a very different space and place to be in. I didn’t know anyone there. There were tough days, as I didn’t know what I was doing, but soon, my parents, and my friends Roopali Kadyan and Anisha Varma, became my biggest support system. I also found a guide and mentor in Ekta Kapoor ma’am, Nandini Shrikent, Ayan Mukerji, Dinesh Vijan, Vanessa and Bunty Walia, Reema ma’am, Ritesh sir and Mukesh Chhabra sir, who called me to audition for all the roles that I’ve done so far. They continued to be my biggest strength even when I transitioned into films. Also, my audience keeps motivating me to do better.

So, you never felt like an ‘outsider’ in the industry?
The insider-outsider debate is not new. It is true that star kids get their first projects easily, but I would like to reiterate that your talent is your biggest weapon. The industry is extremely kind to talented and persistent people. It is important to hold your ground and have perseverance. You might have to wait for that one big breakthrough, but it is worth the wait.

There is a lot being spoken about supposed high-profile drug parties in Bollywood, and how celebrities are allegedly part of a drug mafia. Have you come across any such scenes in your journey?
Many believe that networking, socialising and attending parties are mandatory if you want to remain visible. But to each, his own. As for me, I believe that if I work hard, my career will achieve a kind of longevity. My goal is to keep getting better at my craft and so, I keep working on my acting and dancing.

You said that your father never wanted you to get into showbiz. Did you ever reach a point where you regretted the career choice you made?
I had my share of tough days, but never, for once, did I question my decision to join the entertainment business. Looking back, I think it is one of the best decisions that I ever made, and I cherish every bit of my journey.

Your birthday is around the corner (September 28). You are away from your folks, in Dubai. What are your plans this year?
Planning is still underway, but mostly, I shall celebrate it with my friends here. I will also pray, chant, read and eat at someplace nice with my close ones.

Whether I’m in the country or not I feel close to our roots-Mouni Roy


Kavita Awaasthi (HINDUSTAN TIMES; August 15, 2020)

Mouni Roy has been away from Mumbai since the Coronavirus lockdown. She was stationed in UAE till last month when she flew to London, United Kingdom, to shoot for an upcoming film. The actor says she is missing her home and her country especially since it is Independence Day. “What I miss most on Independence Day every year are my school days. The flag hoisting, singing patriotic songs and dancing to them — it was such joy. Whether I am in the country or not, I feel very close to our roots and culture. It’s my only sense of belonging. I love my country,” she states hoping, we get “independence from negativity, negative thoughts, influences, people, and other stuff that doesn’t matter at all but still bother us”.

On August 15, 2018, her debut film Gold, co-starring Akshay Kumar had released. Roy feels grateful for the opportunities she got in these two years. She has had two releases since then — Romeo Akbar Walter and Made In China (both 2019) and is working on Brahmastra next. Talking about her debut she says, “As a journey, Gold has been invigorating as well as a roller coaster ride. There have been moments where I have felt lost at times in an attempt to figure out what lies next. But, in the end you have to live in the present and count your blessings every single day. I am happy and grateful that I am getting to do what I love.”

Roy, who has been shooting in the last couple of weeks in the new normal, says she didn’t know what to expect. “The experience has been different but fulfilling. It’s different to speak with everyone with masks and face shields on and rehearsing while maintaining distance. What’s nice to see is that everyone is aware and is following protocols. I am extremely grateful to have resumed work and be on a set,” she says.

With most movies releasing on OTT right now, the box office barometer of a film’s success is absent. Ask her how it will affect an actor’s standing in the industry as a movie’s box office success impacts careers, and she says, “That’s an interesting question. A movie’s box-office success is just going to be replaced with other metrics like online engagement, number of OTT platforms carrying the movie, how long these movies stay on the OTT platforms etc. Social media engagement and traction will also be a part of it, I think. Moreover, we have only just stepped into a new world. We need to wait and see how it goes,” she concludes.

Mouni Roy flies to London for film shoot, admits being ‘nervous’


Kavita Awaasthi (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 16, 2020)

After being stuck in the UAE for about four months, actor Mouni Roy has finally gone to London, UK, for the shoot of a film, details of which she says “will be revealed by the makers soon”.

Sharing her experience of taking a flight for the first time after the Coronavirus lockdown, Roy admits that it was quite “unnerving”. She tells us, “We are calling it the new normal while waiting for the new world, but it’s not just as much fun as it used to be. I used to look forward to long flights as I like reading and watching movies and sleeping in between. But the experience was not like that at all. Guess it will take some time getting used to this manner of travel.”

The actor will now be stationed in London for a month, as the makers plan to do some prep this week before commencing the shoot. Asserting that she isn’t yet sure about when she’ll be able to return to Mumbai, Roy, 34, says, “I don’t really know how the situation would be. I will be able to decide a week prior to the shoot’s end, depending on international flights and the situation in Mumbai, and then I’ll take a call.”

While she is excited to resume her work, the actor does have some concerns about shooting amid the pandemic. “I am quite petrified and nervous as actors are the only people on a set who can’t wear any masks or gloves while shooting. But I was dying to work and be on the set, so we kind of have to get used to the new normal,” the actor shares.

Indeed, hoping for the best and planning to take it one day at a time, she adds, “I’ll know and understand better as we start shooting. I have been promised that all safety measures would be taken and social distancing would be practised on the set.”

I am missing my mom and am dying to come back to India-Mouni Roy


The actress, who has been staying in Abu Dhabi for the past three months, talks about missing home and how she has used this time for self-introspection
Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; July 8, 2020)

For over three months now, actress Mouni Roy has been staying with her best friend in Abu Dhabi. While she misses her family back home in India, she is happy to spend quality time with her childhood buddy. Mouni tells us, “I am enjoying my stay here, in the company of my friend, who I grew up with, and her family. However, I am missing my mother and brother, who are in Cooch Behar (West Bengal). I am dying to come back to India, but I haven’t finalised a return date yet.”

Though she has been in the UAE for so long, the actress says that she hasn’t ventured out at all. “My friend’s parents stay with her and also, she has two little boys. I don’t want to take any risks as far as their health is concerned, and prefer staying at home. I have stepped out only a couple of times, and that too, to buy groceries,” she shares.

So, how does she spend her time? “I am learning to cook from my mother, and have been asking her for traditional Bengali recipes. There was a time when I hated entering the kitchen, but today, I am an expert cook. I can make Bengali egg curry, begun poshto, phool kopir dalna and Bengali soya bean. I have also taken to baking and made marble cake and banana bread,” she replies.

Mouni is also indulging in food for the soul. “My friend is taking online Bhagavad Gita classes and I have enrolled in it, too. I have read the Gita multiple times as a child, but back then, I couldn’t grasp its meaning. I am glad that I have taken it up again. Spirituality, for me, is travelling inwards and establishing that connection with my real self. There’s so much negativity around us, this is the best time to do some self-introspection. I hope I can continue on this path and not get carried away, once things get back to normal,” she signs off.

Mouni Roy to help those affected by Cyclone Amphan


Kavita Awaasthi (HINDUSTAN TIMES; June 8, 2020)

Apart from the ongoing Coronavirus pandemic, our country has been dealing with a number of other problems and disasters including Cyclone Amphan, that wreaked havoc in West Bengal and Odisha. In a bid to help people affected by the cyclone, actor Mouni Roy will auction six paintings made by her to raise funds. The proceeds of the sale will go to the NGO Goonj, which has been working to help people in the affected areas.

Roy says, “The damage caused by Amphan was a lot, and Bengal is still dealing with the aftermath of the cyclone. From my end, this is a small attempt to help. It’s the first time that I am auctioning my paintings and I hope people bid well and are kind enough to contribute. All of us are in this together and have to help each other.”

Roy’s mother and brother live in the city of Cooch Behar in West Bengal, and the cyclone worried the actor a lot, as she is not in the country currently. “It rained quite a lot there, but thankfully, my city was not affected. My family is safe, thank God,” she exclaims.

The Made In China (2019) actor has been homebound since “over two and a half months”, and admits that she is surprisingly “quite okay about it”. She says, “I have had days of feeling restless, useless and anxious, but you have to remind yourself that it is not just you and everyone is going through this. At a time like this, the whole world is taking a breather. The lockdown feels like we are all on pause. One has to feel gratitude for what you have and be thankful for everything, including the basic necessities that one has. During this time, what I have learnt is that life can be simple and beautiful. We don’t need as much as we think we do.”

It’s difficult to live without family. I miss them. I’ve my bouts of crying-Mouni Roy


Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; April 20, 2020)

“We’re living in the scariest of times, but we’re in it together,” says actor Mouni Roy who believes that the Coronavirus health crisis will give everyone a reality check and teach them to not take the nature for granted. She explains, “We had to slow down as that’s what nature wanted. I hope that we don’t go back to our old ways, and enter the new world as changed individuals.”

Roy is making most of the lockdown and has got back to her hobbies that were a major part of her growing up years. “There’s so much time, so I picked up a brush. I started with doing my seven and four-year-old nephews’ crafts homework. I’m also learning new recipes,” she shares.

Film shoots have been postponed indefinitely but Roy is calm. She urges everyone “to not think too much about the future”. “It’s not the right time to think of our upcoming projects. The world economy is in crisis. I hope we come out stronger,” she says.

The actor says though she has been living away from her family for a while now, the lockdown is making her homesick. “It’s difficult to live without family. I miss them. I’ve my bouts of crying. We speak on phone calls and video calls. Thankfully, Cooch Behar (West Bengal) is still safe,” she says. 

I wanted to become an IAS officer-Mouni Roy


Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; February 3, 2020)

Mouni Roy started her acting career more than a decade ago with Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi. The actor who has now transitioned to films, looks back at the time when she casually went in for an audition and landed the television show. She says, “I gave an audition for the show which was held right next to my university. Then I got a call from them and I thought that I would go to Mumbai for a summer job and come back to Delhi. But I never came back. I used to do street theatre and I was part of the choreography society at my college in Delhi, and so, all I knew was that I love to act.”

Giving a glimpse into her first few months in Mumbai, she elaborates, “When I came to Mumbai, I didn’t know what was happening in the first year. Only when you start reading a book do you come to know if you’re enjoying it. The same thing happened when I would go on the sets and read my lines. I enjoyed being in front of the camera and I liked rehearsing. But the moments in between the shots when I wasn’t doing anything were the times when I used to feel lost.”

Mouni confides that she had aimed to become an IAS officer back in the day. “I did my under-graduation in English and pursued a post-graduation degree in Mass Communication from Delhi. I did my dissertation on Habib Tanvir (late theatre actor-director) and Indian street theatre. I was following an out-and-out academic path,” she says, adding, “My father thought that I would go to London (UK) for my M Phil and PhD. All of this sounds so bizarre to me now. He was a bit upset that after so much education, I’m giving it all up. He just couldn’t wrap his head around with the detour that I took. That’s how most Bengali parents are (laughs).”

Coming from an academically inclined family, she reveals that her father wasn’t too happy with her decision to step into tinsel town. “I remember Baba being very angry and he didn’t want me to go to Haridwar (for the shoot). He told me to come home for my summer holidays because my ticket was already booked. I told him about the show and he didn’t talk to me properly for two-and-a-half months. Then when we started talking, he kept asking me to go back to Delhi. I also had planned on going back to Delhi but one thing led to another and I stayed back in Mumbai,” the Made In China (2019) actor says. 

I used to be a hopeless romantic-Mouni Roy


Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; December 16, 2019)

Mouni Roy, who was last seen in Made In China alongside Rajkummar Rao, has a dream that not many know of. A book lover, she always had plans of penning a book. She reveals that she had already started writing one but she eventually put the plan on the back-burner. “I wrote 10 chapters, and they were really bad. It was a love story. But the dream is still there. I would definitely want to write in the future, maybe a script or a compilation of short stories. I want to do it properly by giving it ample time, hard work and concentration,” she shares.

Mouni says that the reason behind scrapping her first book was her changed perspective on the idea of love. “I used to be a hopeless romantic, but I’m more of a realist now. It happens with time, age and experience,” elaborates the 34-year-old actor.

Mouni is bombarded with questions on her love life and relationship status on social media all the time. Talking about it, she says, “I’m single, and there’s no plan of settling down anytime soon. You can’t force things like a marriage or a relationship. For these things to happen, the unity of time, space and action has to come together. They’ll happen when they’re meant to happen.”

Shedding some more light on her social media life, Mouni says that she has learnt to turn a deaf ear to people who trolled her for getting a lip job done. “Initially, I used to feel very hurt. I had gotten my lips done but nobody saw that I undid it. People talk rubbish irrespective of whether you’ve done something or not. Now, I know that trolls are ghosts who sit behind ghost screens and write ill about others. They’re pitiful. Thinking too much about them is a wastage of time,” explains the actor, who has just wrapped up hosting a podcast on Audible Suno .

Apart from that, Mouni is also looking forward to playing an antagonist in the Ranbir Kapoor and Alia Bhatt-starrer Brahmastra.

I had to just look at Akshay Kumar and smile, but I couldn’t get it right-Mouni Roy


As told to Himesh Mankad (MUMBAI MIRROR; November 21, 2019)

After becoming a household name on TV with shows like Naagin and Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa, I waited to move to films, knowing it would happen only if something substantial came my way. When the casting director of Gold called me for the audition, though I was keen, the timing clashed with my schedule. However, since they were close by, she suggested I dash over during lunch break.

I went to audition draped in my mother’s cotton saree. It went well but I didn’t hear from them for the next two months. Then all of a sudden, I was called to meet Reema ma’am (Reema Kagti, director). I was so excited at the prospect of meeting an intelligent woman like her that I pushed the shoot of my show even though there was no guarantee that I would land the role.

After a brief chat, she took me to Akshay sir’s (Akshay Kumar) office. Imagine my surprise when together they chortled, “Welcome to Gold.” I was later told that I was playing a Bengali girl, Monobina Das, married to Akshay sir’s character Tapan. Being a Bengali helped, but the challenge was to play someone who isn’t fluent in Hindi. My mom’s Hindi is terrible and that came to my rescue. Talking to her helped me perfect my bad pronunciation.

I had multiple script reading sessions but being on the set was a different experience altogether. The set-up was completely different from TV. A lot of time went into setting up a scene. On the first day, I had to shoot for the song “Monobina” with Akshay sir and the entire hockey team. I was thrilled, excited and very nervous. I had met Akshay sir only once before and was quite starstruck. For my first shot, I had to just look at him and smile, but I couldn’t get it right. It was like my jaw was stuck!

Being a real gentleman, he came to my rescue, going out of his way to make me comfortable. After a while, my nervousness subsided and I was on the way…

I don’t waste my time thinking about who is trolling me-Mouni Roy


Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; October 17, 2019)

Small screen actors stepping into the Bollywood arena for brighter career prospects is not a new phenomenon. Some have survived the test of time, while others have faded into oblivion. However, not everyone’s transition has been as smooth as Mouni Roy’s. The actress is best known for playing naagin on TV. After sharing screen space with Akshay Kumar in Gold and John Abraham in RAW, she will now be seen opposite Rajkummar Rao in Made In China. Also on the cards is the Ranbir Kapoor and Alia Bhatt-starrer Brahmastra and she is reportedly a part of Mogul, too.

When BT met Mouni for a chat, she stressed on the fact that the projects she has featured in so far, have chosen her. “I have given my 100 per cent to every role that I have played. I listen to my directors and follow their instructions to the best of my abilities. To me, the story is paramount and then comes my character. I know after reading the first few pages of a script whether I want to be a part of the project. If you have to force yourself to do something, often, it doesn’t turn out well. I have always been slow but steady, and that’s alright. I believe that everything has its own due time and every delay is due to a reason,” she says.

‘IT’S A GOOD SIGN THAT THE LINES BETWEEN TV AND FILM INDUSTRIES ARE BLURRING’
When we point out that not many TV actors’ transition has been like hers, Mouni asserts that she doesn’t think along those lines and is grateful for the kind of work she has done in both the industries.

She says, “I am glad that TV actors like Mrunal (Thakur) and Radhika (Madan) are doing well in films. It’s a good sign that the lines are blurring, and makers are choosing the actors and not the medium. However, there is still a long way to go. There are many talented actors on TV, who work hard for the love of their craft. Actors have to wait for the right scripts, and also destiny plays a part in getting those opportunities. Of course, one needs a bit of tweaking, and the learning never stops. There are only a few gifted actors like Rajkummar Rao, who don’t have to go through that process. He is unimaginably spontaneous. For the rest of us, we have to constantly learn and unlearn (laughs!). Every scene with him has been a learning process for me.”

‘GREAT ACTORS ENHANCE YOUR PERFORMANCE’
Sharing screen space with powerhouse performers like Boman Irani, Paresh Rawal, Manoj Joshi and Gajraj Rao can be daunting for any actor, but working with them has been an enriching experience for Mouni. “Initially, you are intimidated, but then you realise that they are extremely giving and always put the script and the film before themselves. I have received help on the set starting with my director Mikhil Musale sir and Rajkummar to other co-actors. Great actors enhance your performance. It’s my good fortune that I am getting to work with them so early on in my career. You get to learn so much from the best in the industry,” the actress explains.

‘MADE IN CHINA IS A RELATABLE FILM WITH A STRONG MESSAGE’
Talking about Made In China and her role in it, Mouni tells us it is a rags-to-riches story of a middle-class man — Raghu (played by Rajkummar Rao) — and his wife Rukmini (Mouni). “Becoming a part of Made In China was a no-brainer for me. It’s a relatable film with a strong message. Rukmini has lived in a metro city and was very ambitious at one point. She falls in love with Raghu and shifts to Ahmedabad. She is still ambitious, albeit, differently. Now, she is ambitious for her family and wants Raghu to do well. The film showcases Raghu’s journey from rags to riches and how Rukmini supports him all along. Of course, the narrative is laced with interesting twists and turns,” says Mouni.

While the film chronicles Raghu’s journey and his struggles to become a successful businessman before he strikes gold by getting into sexual-stimulant business; the film is not a sex comedy. Talking about an important message that the film imparts, Mouni shares, “Sex education is extremely important and should be a part of our curriculum. If you have a fever, cough or cold, you go to a doctor, similarly, if you have a sex-related issue, you should be comfortable with consulting a sexologist as well. Both men and women should be educated about it. It’s important for men to be aware of everything to get over any awkwardness while growing up, and to understand the difference between wooing a women and scaring her. If women are educated, it gives us the power of negation. Having said that, this is just a small part of our film, which is fun and entertaining.”

‘MY JOURNEY SO FAR HAS BEEN A CHARMING ROLLER COASTER’
Not one to worry about the business of films or box-office success, Mouni says that she doesn’t understand the number game. She says, “I consider myself lucky that I don’t understand the business of movies too much. I was never worried about the ratings of my TV shows. I love what I do and give my heart and soul to it. Once it’s done, I don’t worry about what’s not in my hands. Being in the present is the most important thing. If you are stuck in your past, you will always be anxious, and if you keep thinking about the future, you will always be scared. There is no other place to be than being in the present.”

Following the mantra ‘the harder you work, the luckier you get’, Mouni believes hard work and destiny go hand-in-hand. Though her life hasn’t really been a typical rags-to-riches tale, like the film, she believes the audience will relate to it. The actress, who comes from a middleclass background, calls her journey in showbiz a “charming roller coaster.”

Mouni is happy that she has worked with actors like Akshay Kumar, John Abraham and Rajkummar. “They have their own approach to the roles that they portray. I am not in a position to comment on them, but the one thing that’s common between them is that they are brilliant at comedy, in their own way,” she observes.

While TV is said to be a woman's medium, the film industry is largely male dominated. Lack of pay parity has been talked about a lot over the past couple of years. Actresses undergo a lot more scrutiny in terms of their fashion sense and looks, too. Many have been accused of going under the knife, and her name has also featured on the list. She has also faced her share of trolling and has been bodyshamed. “About fashion sense, trolling or being body-shamed and the scrutiny, I think either they are ghostwriters, hiding behind their screens and writing rubbish about you or they simply lack compassion. I don’t waste my time thinking about trolls.”

On the personal front, she is single. She says, “I don’t like to talk about my personal life, as it takes the focus away from work. I am single and concentrating on my work currently,” she signs off.

I need to focus more on my craft, not worry about box office outcome-Mouni Roy


Mouni Roy on her priorities as an actor and working with Rajkummar Rao
Akash Bhatnagar (MUMBAI MIRROR; October 16, 2019)

Mouni Roy, TV’s Naagin, graduated to the big screen last year with the sports-drama Gold which featured her as Akshay Kumar’s Bengali biwi. The actress is now gearing up for a Diwali dhamaka with the quirky comedy, Made In China. The film is the journey of a struggling Gujarati businessman, Raghu, towards becoming a successful entrepreneur, with Mouni as Rajkummar Rao’s wife. She insists this character has nothing in common to her debut role.

What made her gamble with such an unusual subject so early in her career? “I have to thank Dinoo (Dinesh Vijan, producer) for that. They called me for a meeting and narrated the role to me. It was a complete no-brainer. Such roles and such stories don’t come every day,” she asserts, adding that since she doesn’t have many Gujarati friends, she took her cues from director Mikhil Musale, and writers Karan Vyas and Niren Bhatt.

Has any friend discussed sexual problems with her? “Not yet, but if anyone does, I’ll tell them what Raghu and Dr Vardi advise in the film, ‘For cough and cold, you go to a doctor, so for sexual problems you should see one as well,’” she laughs.

She admits she’s lucky to have worked with established actors like Akshay (Gold) and John Abraham (Romeo Akbar Walter). “You get to learn a lot from them. You see how they work and realise why they are where they are. Initially I was a little nervous with Rajkummar, but now I realise it will only make me a better actor,” she avers. Point out that neither of the two above mentioned films lived up to expectations and she retorts, “I don’t dwell on these things. My job is to act, and this is my first year. To get ahead, I need to focus more on my craft, not worry about box-office outcome.”

Having come from TV, where she was a huge name, there were expectations from her here too. Is she content with the reception she has got? “I have no complaints. I am a greedy actor and I want to be part of good stories. I am also a grateful and proud TV actor. I was very happy doing television and I am very happy making movies now,” Mouni avers.

Any collaboration on the cards with Ekta Kapoor who launched her in TV? “If she has a role for me, she will come to me and I’ll be happy to go back to her production house,” she beams. What about a TV comeback? “Not right now. TV requires a lot of time and commitment and presently my focus is films,” Mouni signs off.