Showing posts with label Sunita Kapoor. Show all posts
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Every bride must feel like they are going on the red carpet-Rhea Kapoor


Shivika Manchanda (BOMBAY TIMES; September 16, 2024)

Ahead of the wedding season, brides-to-be in the capital were treated to a styling masterclass at Frontier Raas with celebrity stylist and film producer Rhea Kapoor. "Delhi is my soul place. From Aisha that was based in Delhi, Sonam’s character in Khoobsurat to Kareena’s character in Crew, all my films have some connection with Delhi," said Rhea, as she began her first such masterclass.

The beginning of Rhea's styling journey
"Sonam and I were raised in a conservative Punjabi setup. Even though my father (Anil Kapoor) was an actor, my mother (Sunita Kapoor) made sure we didn't go to his sets or attend Bollywood parties or to have cine magazines in the house," shared Rhea on being kept away from her dad's stardom throughout their childhood.

She added, "When I returned to Mumbai after my college and Sonam had become a heroine, being a celebrity stylist was not a job that existed. I was dressing up Sonam anyway. In the 2000s, the idea of a girl expressing herself with fashion was hardly there. For Sonam, fashion was a way to do her own thing and we did it together."

Here's a round up of the masterclass

Ensemble
- Opt for clothes that make you feel the most comfortable.
- There’s no point following a trend that doesn’t suit you.
- Invest in good innerwear, it can help you to look neat. It even affects your posture, how clothes fit and fall on you
- Red can be overwhelming for young brides. Hot pink is a versatile colour for Indian skin. Brides can also go for pastels to experiment Understand the undertone of your skin.
- Choosing an ensemble that’s a shade deeper than your skin’s undertone will enhance your look. So a person with a pink undertone should wear pink
- Hunt for real zari borders, add it to a fabric and use them as second drapes on your wedding ensemble. It adds a sense of drama and balances the silhouette

Jewellery
- Choose a one-of-a-kind highlight piece and let it become the focus
- Mix metals and jewellery types like gold, silver, uncut or cut polki, rose gold, as it gives the jewellery a lot of character
- Dig into your lockers to find the old pieces of jewellery that haven’t been worn in a long time - Weddings are a perfect occasion to embrace heirloom jewellery
- To make sure that the attention is on the face, keep the jewellery balanced

Hair
- Hair style must be decided on the basis of your jewellery.
- Open hair can look really good with a bridal look
- Chotis with parandis will look great on brides who opt for traditional looks
- Avoid a messy front. If the neck appears too busy with heavy jewels, pull back the hair from the front and leave it open at the back

'Celebrate your heritage in your wedding silhouette’
Suggesting that brides and their family members embrace their heritage for weddings, Rhea says, “If you are confused about what to wear for your big day, start talking to your grandparents, parents, aunts and uncles. Ask them about your ancestors and the region they belong to. Research and discover the crafts and embroideries that come from those regions. Your features are aligned to your roots, so if you opt to wear something that’s a part of your heritage, you’ll look the best in that attire.”

One can also mix and match two crafts from the same region, like bandhani and patola from Gujarat, which will go well with each other, she said at the event held at the ethnicwear brand's South-ex store. "Go timeless for weddings. Choose things that are going to be cool forever, she added.

"I did not buy a single thing for my wedding day. I wore what was comfortable and meaningful to me, like my mom’s uncut pearls set. You will always remember what you carry on your big day," mentioned Rhea.
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Every girl must feel like they are going on the red carpet. You may be more of a behind-the-scenes person, but it is important to feel great and enjoy (your wedding). Do all that makes you feel like the Madhuri Dixit of your moment

Harsh Varrdhan and I have major fights. We had a fight last night also... a big fight-Anil Kapoor


An animated, cinematic chat with Anil Kapoor and Harsh Varrdhan Kapoor
Anshul Chaturvedi (BOMBAY TIMES; July 22, 2023)

Stepping into the midst of an animated discussion between Harsh Varrdhan and Anil Kapoor is reminiscent of a scene from Shakti or perhaps Trishul; the edginess that, despite being very palpable, never gets hostile, the firmness of views held – with the younger generation holding them more firmly – and the familiarity that comes from the two parties being frequent sparring partners. It is interesting, even fun, to be the fly on the wall, sometimes engaging and questioning, sometimes just watching. Here’s what you take away:

Harsh and Anil have a, shall we say, divergent, take on how Harsh has charted, and is charting, his career in cinema. Anil would perhaps like the son to be a little flexible in a few things, but that is the one thing Harsh isn’t comfortable being. “I am very particular about the things I like and dislike,” he tells you emphatically.

“I am very clear about my tastes in all aspects of my life – whether it’s movies, the way I dress, the way I look at my life, and it’s all very clear to me. I have very strong instincts, and I really, really listen to those instincts. The worst thing that you can do is betray those instincts, I feel because in the long run, you know, then you have regrets. When things go wrong, I don’t blame anyone. I don’t say that it was this person’s fault or that person’s fault. There is a complete, 100% accountability, and I am kind of ready to live and die by those choices.”

Anil is watching, expressionless, his face not giving away his take on this “live and die by those choices” sentiment. Is it a challenge as a parent, sometimes, to get across a divergent viewpoint in the face of such strong views? Anil, after all, has seen the ups and downs of the industry and navigated it fairly successfully, staying relevant for over forty years now, still going strong, doing more projects than his son. How does he share a point with Harsh which may differ from Harsh’s own?

“There are times when we have these discussions, and it’s okay... I sometimes suggest, as Sunita said – a ‘come halfway’ kind of situation (referring to an Insta post from her after Ray released). But then, what makes me happy is not the thought that he becomes the biggest star in the country; that’s not my ambition. My ambition is that he is respected, and he’s happy doing what he is doing. And automatically, if you work hard, you do things, you make those choices – and if that is the way bigger success comes, I think that will be much more solid.”

“That’s sweeter and long-lasting,” adds Harsh.

Are you comparing him with his compatriots professionally, because that’s what we do in India, right? Sharma ji ka beta and all that – does that happen? “Obviously, it’s very, very natural.” And do you say it to him?

“I do, but in a very positive way. There are a lot of ways to tell. Not pumping him up unnecessary or inflating his ego... not in a way that it sounds like I am trying to, you know… (pause) if I do it also, he is so sharp, he knows (if I’m praising him excessively) – ‘why are you trying? I can see through you’ (laughs). So I have to be very real with him, and keep on giving a reality check.”

Does Harsh believe in the idea of coming halfway? “I don’t understand the halfway thing. This whole process is not supposed to be about somebody else coming and giving me advice. I mean, one has to identify one’s taste, right? Be clear about that taste and be in pursuit of that. And through that process, make your own learnings and then further continue to apply them. That’s what being an artist is about. Over a period of time, if you keep pursuing your individuality and through that you find excellence, then you create something of your own.”

'WE HAVE MAJOR FIGHTS...'

Have there been difficult moments in working on projects, like, where Harsh has a very strong divergence of take from his father’s? “Ya. Everyday. That’s a daily thing.” And how does that go? Does anybody get angry?

Harsh doesn’t choose the politically correct route here, either: “He (Anil) can’t sit down and talk. He just gets anxious. I am saying, just sit down and talk about it calmly, and you’ll feel better, but then I think we all have different ways of dealing with things. I just like to talk; I like to sit down and talk about it. I really like to get into details of why. Because I think the why is very telling. Do you not like something because you feel that creatively it doesn’t work with the rest of the film? Or do you not like it in isolation because it’s a little abstract? Or it’s not something which you are used to seeing? That sheds so much light on where that point of view is coming from. It’s about the movie, finally; it’s not about him and it’s not about me. I am not here to do vanity projects. For me, it is always about the movie.”

We turn back to Anil, who is today playing the strong, silent type. Is it that simple? If your son is disagreeing with you on a creative element, and you have been in this space, this industry, for a very long while, you are his professional senior, is it easy to have your point of view put aside? “We have major fights. We had a fight last night also... a big fight.”

That wasn’t tough to guess. But there is always a softer tone when Kapoor senior is making his point. “See, obviously, being an insider... I’ve been very... how do I put it, there is a certain way of (pauses) – of always finding a way which is slightly out of the box, but still a little safe. And the fact is that I have more years than he does, he has fewer responsibilities and I have got more responsibilities, so obviously there are times when I make decisions and I react because of the kind of responsibilities and priorities that I am answerable for – and he has fewer, you know, things to be responsible for.”

Harsh doesn’t quite agree. “But I also think that I have lot at stake. Because ultimately, if I make a decision and it doesn’t work out in my favour, I have to bear the consequences. If I decide to go against the grain, and if I really believe in something and I push it and it doesn’t work, ultimately, he’s going to move on, right? He’s gonna have other work. But it’s me, na? I am not trying to self-sabotage and be regretful later. I am just trying to kind of bring to life what I really feel is exciting. So I think everybody has responsibilities and everybody involved has things at stake, and it’s just different, you know?”

‘... BUT I’LL BACK HIM TILL THE END’
Anil has been talking about reinventing himself for a decade or more. Isn’t Harsh, in a way, talking about the same – not wanting to do what is stereotyped?

“Not just the last decade. I have been doing this all my life, my entire 40 years. I would, every once in a while, do what the industry wanted me to do and what was the right thing to do according to what the current market was. And then one project, I would do what I felt like. I always did that. I started my career with Mani Ratnam, Baapu saab and M S Sathyu, and all those kind of films. So it wasn’t difficult for me to reinvent myself, over and over. To a certain extent, I guess somewhere this trait of mine is there in him (laughs).”

Harsh joins back in the conversation. “He balanced that work with very commercial films that made him a household name. But what I’m saying is what if today somebody became a household name by doing something that is not expected? There are so many tags – action or comedy or romantic hero. I don’t want those tags. That’s not who I am, so I won’t be able to sustain it. I won’t be able to be happy. You want to keep doing this for 10/15/20/25 years. I don’t want to have one good weekend or two good weekends, and then be like that’s not who I am, and now they expect this from me, and I am stuck!”

“What I tell him is that take a step, do something which is slightly mainstream,” Anil counters. “Then you will be able to do your kind of films, even more of them. It won’t be so difficult to make your kind of films (as it is right now)...Gaps itne bade nahin honge. Like, for example, he can do more work. He is doing relatively less work now.”

Harsh: But it’s like running a boutique as opposed to a shopping centre.

Anil (patiently): “Don’t become a... (pauses, leaves it unfinished) thoda beech mein aake dekho, then you will be able to do slightly more work, enjoy more work and will spend more time being on set. To a certain extent, jo doosre spaces bhi hain, initially, these studios came and these platforms came, they were still encouraging. Abhi unn pe bhi pressure hai to give results – more subscribers. So they are also, to a certain extent, wanting things which are a little more, you know, simplistic. The pressure is for everybody. I’m moving around and meeting people, so I know. That’s why there’s lesser work (in sticking to specific genres). You can do more work, that’s what I am saying. There are exceptions, lekin India mein waise options kam hain. And that’s why I keep on telling him – thoda aadha raaste aa.. Main toh itna nahi bolta, Sunita bolti hai …”

There’s a small pause before he basically overturns everything he’s said so far, and ends this with a simple “But I’m ready to back him till the end.”

His tastes and social likes and dislikes are very different from mine: Anil on how different he and Harsh are

‘NOT EASY TO HAVE THESE CONVERSATIONS WITH PARENTS'
Harsh moved out of his parents’ Juhu home one day, a decision about which he informed – rather than consulted – them. It was not the easiest task to convince them. “I started the process of moving out without telling anybody”, he recalls. “I started going and looking for homes because sometimes you have to just do it as opposed to sitting down, having a conversation, getting approval.”

And how did your dad take it? “He was like, why don’t you wait for some more time? But... I just think that tomorrow never comes. Just got to jump into and take a leap, if you feel like. Don’t betray your instincts. Even on a personal note, even though at that time it was hard to imagine, but I think moving out, living by myself, has been better for me, and for them as well, because I feel like they also need the space, they just didn’t want to admit it.”

How does Anil respond to that? “We are happier.”

That’s not what I was expecting. Then he continues. “Yes it was difficult; Sonam got married, she left, then Rhea got married, and she left. Rhea and Harsh going together at the same time – toh uss waqt thoda sa, we felt it’s too…(long pause) difficult. And then, at that time, everybody outside was reacting much more than Sunita and I were reacting. Now, it is like actually, he’s right, we feel we too are happy, I guess. We meet each other, but we also definitely need that space sometimes. It’s a good balance now. Obviously, there’s some worry always because he is living alone. But it’s very close by…”

“I am also not a very outgoing person”, Harsh adds. “I kind of always just like quiet and alone time really. There are people that use their place, maybe, to entertain a lot. I don’t. It was also about having my own space physically, just have some separation, while you’re still living just 25 minutes away.”

Is it slightly difficult for young Indians to sometimes explain to their elders that wanting space is not disrespect? “Absolutely”, says Harsh. “I have a lot of my friends and acquaintances who feel almost trapped in a way where they feel like they want to break out and have a space of their own, but they are not able to have that kind of conversation with their parents because they don’t think that their parents will understand.”

What does he advise them? “It’s like you have one life, and you are going to be young just once, so you have to fight for that. At least for me, I need my space to just think and to exist. I don’t think I would have been able to do the work that I have done if I was still living here (in the parental home), honestly. It pushes you, right? It pushes you to be more responsible for yourself.”

'THE THINK TANK WE HAVE IN OUR FAMILY IS ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIC'
How headstrong were you Anil, at his age? “At his age, I was very naïve, vulnerable, gullible. Main thoda sa bewakoof tha,” Anil smiles. Do you ever wish you could have fought a little bit more like he can fight today? “Yeah, I wish…”

Is that why you sort of back what he fights for, finally, even when you don’t agree with him? “No... ya, of course. At least, he should do what I couldn’t do to a certain extent.”

We see the divergence in cinematic choices, but it is a reflection of father and son being very different personalities, right? “Yes, it's not only cinema. I think his tastes and social likes and dislikes are very different from mine. Except for a few things, which are random… but for most things - like the way he has done his house, his passion for the kind of clothes that he wears, the kind of places that he wants to visit, the kind of friends that he has, the kind of games he likes. Kya kya cheezein hoti hain. I am more external in my emotions, and he is more internal. He might be much more sensible than I am. Mera sensitivity nazar aata hai, iska nazar nahi aata. He might be, andar se, shayad mere se zyada (sensitive) hoga. Mera emotion nazar aa jata hai- ‘kitna achha aadmi hai Anil yaar’ - lekin shayad ye mere se better aadmi hai.”

He's clearly very sentimental about his son. “Aisa nahi hai… every father is.”

Have your parents been indulgent or lenient, we ask Harsh. “In the middle somewhere. Not very strict at all, but not very...”

“I toh have been very lenient,” Anil is emphatic.

Harsh laughs and confirms that. “Yeah, he is very lenient. But also very honestly, I am not into alcohol and I’m not into drugs and I don’t like to party. I don’t like to smoke up. What are my interests - health and fitness, fashion in the last 4-5 years, and always making movies. That’s it. I am not really coming here and saying that let's have a party with 200 people and spend a ridiculous amount of money, buy me a first-class ticket. I barely travel also.”

Last year, in response to a query on whether he would be a doting grandparent, Anil had said, “I don’t know, I was never a doting parent.” But everything that one has seen in this interaction goes against that – he sounds and acts like a very doting parent.

The ostensibly ‘not-doting’ parent takes a moment to think it over. “That’s what my wife also feels, actually. But I don’t know. I don’t know.”

Is this just a demonstration of how Indian fathers find it difficult to be expressive? Is Anil reticent, or, in reverse, very demonstrative about defending Harsh?

“I’m not very physical, and I am not very expressive, even with people or ideas… What I want him to do is to that he should do more, interact more, meet more people… In any case, it is not as if I am his guide. I have gained more from Harsh and Rhea than they have gained from me in my career, in life, in so many things.”

How is that? “In my choice of films, in my thought process – jab kabhi atak jata hoon, I turn to them. I’ll ask Rhea ki yaar, is film ko kaise market karoon? And she’s like - just keep quiet. Baat hi mat karo (laughs)! You know what I'm saying? Things like that. Wherever actors or fashion is concerned or where marketing is concerned. I get different perspectives (from Rhea and Harsh). They bring newcomers to our projects, people I wouldn’t know. Anurag, Vikram (Vikramaditya Motwane) and some other filmmakers that I am working with – they connected to me via my children. The think tank that we have in our family is absolutely terrific.”

I enjoyed calling Anil ‘nanaji’, he said grandfather sounds cooler-Sanjay Kapoor

Sanjay Kapoor, Anil Kapoor

Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; August 23, 2022)

Sonam Kapoor and Anand Ahuja have been blessed with a baby boy. Soon after the announcement, Sonam’s father, Anil Kapoor posted a heartfelt note on his Instagram page. The post read, “We are delighted to announce, on the 20th of August 2022, the arrival of the newest member of our family. Sonam and Anand have been blessed with a healthy baby boy and we couldn’t be more elated. Our hearts are bursting with pride and love for the new parents and their beautiful angel. Doting grandparents Harish & Priya, Anil & Sunita. Excited aunties and uncles Rhea & Karan, Anant & Harshvardhan (sic).”

Now, Sanjay Kapoor (Anil’s brother and Sonam’s uncle), too, has spoken about the arrival of the new member of the family. In an exclusive chat with BT, he said, “It’s absolutely exciting. We were waiting for this day.”

Sanjay said, “It’s a double bonanza for me because Sonam’s baby boy shares his birthday with my mother-in-law. A few days ago, we went to meet the beautiful baby, his parents and grandparents — Anil and Sunita. It was nice to meet Anil and tell him, ‘Finally, you are a grandfather’ (laughs!). I enjoyed calling him nanaji. He laughed and said grandfather sounds cooler.”

He added, “Sonam and Anand are ecstatic. My mother has become a great-grandmother once again. In a span of one year, she has become great-grandmother to three babies. My nephews, Mohit Marwah and Akshay Marwah, became proud fathers to baby girls. Mohit was blessed with a girl last year, Akshay had a daughter a few months ago, and now, it is Sonam. So, yes, it’s raining babies in the Kapoor family!”

When asked whether the family has started discussing names, he replied, “I am sure the couple must have zeroed in on the name, but I am not aware of it. We will know very soon. Right now, the only thing we were focused on was seeing the baby. When I met them, Sonam was happy and laughing, and Anand was over the moon. They are such a warm and lovable couple.”

Sanjay believes that occasions like these bring families even closer. “The Kapoors have always been family-oriented and close-knit. It’s good that our family is expanding and the bond is becoming stronger. Such occasions also turn out to be great opportunities for families to come together. Mohit had a baby shower, and Sonam, too, had planned one. However, she had to cancel it at the last minute keeping the COVID scare in mind,” he said, adding, “The celebrations have begun and it’s a joyous moment for our family.”

Being a grandfather is a role I cannot prepare for-Anil Kapoor

‘Being a grandfather is a role  I cannot  prepare for’

Anil Kapoor shares he is eagerly waiting for the arrival of his first grandchild
Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 14, 2022)

In the 39 years of his profession, he has prepared for and taken on numerous roles. But the upcoming one — becoming a grandfather — has got actor Anil Kapoor the most excited. His daughter, actor Sonam Kapoor Ahuja, is expecting her first child with her husband, businessman Anand Ahuja. It’s also been reported that there will be a lavish baby shower for Sonam in Mumbai. 

The to-be grandpa laughs, “I think this is a role I can’t prepare for. I have to be very spontaneous about it.” He is looking forward to the arrival of the baby. “I really want D-Day to happen, and then I’ll tell you how I feel about it. My wife, Sunita (Kapoor), is preparing, but I have done no prep,” adds Kapoor. 

While he waits for this special occasion, on the professional front, he continues to bag one meaty role after the other.

Kapoor, who was recently seen in JugJugg Jeeyo, has Animal with actor Ranbir Kapoor and Fighter with actors Hrithik Roshan and Deepika Padukone in hand.

When asked what he thinks he has accomplished or done well in relation to his contemporaries — which makes him possibly the only actor of his generation who is still in demand — the 65-year-old says, “Talking about others is very wrong. Everybody has their own journey, with ups and downs. I can only talk about myself. I have been very fortunate and blessed. People know who I am. You are an actor and a star also, and today everybody wants to be known as that. But you are an actor first. And then, you get good roles.”

Lastly, the actor reflects that life has come full circle: “I recently completed 39 years in the industry. In my first film as a leading man, Woh Saat Din, I played Prem Patiala, who comes to Mumbai, and in Jugjugg..., too, I am from Patiala!”

I won’t do a comedy with a new director or writer-Anil Kapoor

Anil Kapoor: Won’t do a comedy with a new director

Stating that he is picky about laugh riots, Anil on how Jugjugg Jeeyo tackles subject of divorce with humour and sensitivity
Uma Ramasubramanian (MID-DAY; June 23, 2022)

What’s the first thing that drew Anil Kapoor to JugJugg Jeeyo? The fact that the film employed comedy to give a significant message about marriage, falling out of love and divorce, while being mindful of not undermining the gravity of the subjects. “It’s not a family drama, but a family comedy. I wouldn’t say yes to a typical family drama; I have done them earlier. This story has [novelty],” begins Anil, who leads Raj Mehta’s directorial venture. Joining him are Neetu Kapoor, Varun Dhawan and Kiara Advani.

Comedies are among the most difficult genres to crack, but the senior actor has almost always got them right — be it the iconic Mr India (1987), or the charming Dil Dhadakne Do (2015). Has he been plain lucky with them? Far from that. He asserts that when a laugh riot comes his way, he scrutinises it intensely. “With comedies, I am sensitive about whom I am working with. The director is paramount. I have worked with the best of directors — from Basu Chatterjee to Hrishikesh Mukherjee — on this genre. I won’t do a comedy with a new director or writer. I have to see his work, his take on the genre, and he has to prove himself.”

Assured as he was of Mehta’s vision on those counts, the actor was happier to bring the story alive with Neetu. “She has been friends with Sunita [wife], and we had a common circle of friends. So, I knew her well. There is a certain excitement when two actors work for the first time.”

The June 24 release sees Dhawan and Advani as a young couple who are contemplating divorce. But the tables are turned on them, when Dhawan’s character realises that his parents — played by Anil and Neetu — are headed down the same road. In telling the story of the two couples, the film tries to remove the stigma around divorce.

“It’s always better if one is loyal to their partner, but there are times when [extra-marital] relationships happen. I wouldn’t judge a person [for it]. Couples have their [own reasons] to part ways. If they don’t get along and feel it’s better to be separated, they should do it. Why suffer, and torture themselves? Sometimes, people stick together for the sake of their kids, but it’s a difficult place to be in.”

Like every parent, Sunita and I miss our kids and we worry about them constantly-Anil Kapoor


With his daughter in London, Anil Kapoor is a worried father
Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 6, 2021)

The past year and a half has been hard on everyone. But while some got to sail through it with their family, others had to stay apart, making things even more difficult. Being in the latter category, actor Anil Kapoor also feels the pinch.

With his daughter, Sonam Kapoor aka Sonam K Ahuja, living in London with husband Anand Ahuja, Kapoor is a worried father. “Like every parent, Sunita (his wife) and I miss our kids, and we worry about them constantly. But we recognise that we’re fortunate to live in the age of technology that enables us to see them and speak with them whenever we get anxious,” he tells us.

The 64-year-old feels that this upheaval of normal life — where even meeting near and dear ones has become a task — will take time to settle. “It is hard to say what the post-Covid world will look like. All I can do is hope and pray that we emerge stronger, wiser and more connected at the end of this ordeal,” adds Kapoor.

While things are taking time to get back on track on the personal front, the work front, too, seems to be in limbo since the second wave of Coronavirus. We ask Kapoor, who is set to star in films such as JugJugg Jeeyo and Animal, whether he feels theatres will overcome the OTT supremacy. He muses, “It feels wrong to speculate on the future of businesses at a time when life itself hangs in the balance. But as an actor, I love the experience of the big screen and would love to see it thrive if conditions allow.”

Saroj Khan made me look like a dancer on screen-Anil Kapoor

Sridevi, Anil Kapoor and Saroj Khan on the set of Mr India
As told to Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; July 4, 2020)

My association with Saroj ji started in the late ’80s, on the sets of Karma. Subhash ji (producer-director Subhash Ghai) and she shared a great tuning, which was evident when she choreographed songs like “De Daru”. We were simultaneously working on the Mr India songs, like “Karte Hain Hum Pyaar Mr India Se”, “Zindagi Ki Yahi Reet Hai” and the unforgettable “Kaate Nahin Kat Te”. In the ’70s and the ’80s, our songs were overshadowed by the action; Saroj ji, a fan of yesteryear actresses like Vyjayanthimala ji and Madhubala ji, brought old-world charm and grace back into filmi naach-gaana. In “Kaate Nahin Kat Te”, we tried to recreate Kishore Kumar and Madhubala’s chemistry.

A year after Mr India, Tezaab released. Madhuri (Dixit) was still a relative newcomer when we handed her over to Saroj ji. After two weeks of rehearsal, she called Chandra (director N Chandra) and me to Satyam Hall and Madhuri performed to “Ek Do Teen” for us. I was blown over by the moves and the energy. We shot the song in Mehboob Studio and watching it, I was like, “Oh God, what do I do!” I got them to shoot a male version with me which was not there in the script in front of where Shah Rukh’s (Khan) bungalow stands today.

Subsequently, Saroj ji directed me in several other chartbusters, including Ram Lakhan’s “My Name is Lakhan” and “O Ramji”, “Dhak Dhak Karne Laga” in Beta and Taal’s “Ramta Jogi” to name a few. They were all a team effort, with huge contributions from the directors, the composers, the lyricists, and of course, the cinematographers. Ashok Mehta and Baba Azmi lit up the screen beautifully in the close-ups and framed the long shots beautifully, thereby enhancing Saroj ji’s choreography.

My leading ladies, including Sridevi, Madhuri, or Aishwarya (Rai) were fabulous dancers while I’m technically not a dancer-dancer. So, I’m grateful to Saroj ji that on screen I did not come across as any less. She was aware that my style came from within and knew what I was capable of. She played to my strengths and presented me in a way that I looked both romantic and macho.

When I was in acting school, I’d learned that in Bollywood choreography, we have pure dance and playback choreography. She excelled in both, her mastery over the latter helping me tremendously. Thank God for Saroj ji, who made me look like a dancer on screen. Her contribution to my career was immense. She was a genius and couldn’t work with anyone mediocre. She had great leadership qualities, evident in the way she dealt with the dancers, filmmakers, and artistes. I will always remember her beautiful smile.
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Despite having two left feet, Anil Kapoor says Saroj Khan made him feel like a dancer
As told to Upala KBR (MID-DAY; July 4, 2020)

Saroj ji [Khan] was meant to give several more years to Bollywood. Her contribution to cinema is something no choreographer can match in one lifetime. She changed the craft by bringing back the old-world charm.

Subhash Ghai and Saroj ji were magical and often chose to work together. We were introduced during the filming of Mr India with Sri [Sridevi] and Tezaab [with Madhuri Dixit-Nene]. Madhuri was just starting her career when she recorded the song Ek do teen by Laxmikant-Pyarelal. Saroj ji had choreographed [the number]; N Chandra [director-producer] and I had gone to Satyanarayan hall to catch a glimpse of it. Like a proud guru, Saroj ji asked Madhuri to perform the entire song in front of us. Considering Madhuri had rehearsed extensively, she aced the entire number in one shot. I gained tremendously from her as these songs [have now] become iconic, which invariably lead to the success of the film. [There were times], when I'd be on set to watch, admire and appreciate them even if I was not required for the shoot.

Cinematographer Baba Azmi and Saroj ji were a lethal combination. Once they took over, the directors had to take a backseat. Kaate nahin kat te from Mr India and Dhak dhak from Beta were the fruits of their effort. While shooting for [the song] Dhak dhak, our aim was to make it as appealing and passionate as the song Kaate nahin kat te, which is one of my favourite numbers.

Saroj ji always maintained a beautiful element in her choreography; she would ensure to produce sensual numbers with dignity and aesthetics. [There was a notion] that make male actors required a male choreographer, but she gave me some iconic numbers like Ae ji o ji [Ram Lakhan], Ramta jogi [Taal], Karte hum pyar Mr India se [Mr India], which was originally inspired from Kishore Kumar and Madhubala's film [Chalti Ka Naam Gaadi, 1958]. After Kaate nahin kat te, my favourite choreography includes Hawa hawai, Ek do teen, Ae ji O ji, Humko aaj kal hai [Sailaab]. During a song shoot, when the original choreographer couldn't make it, Saroj ji promptly responded, came on set, choreographed the number by morning and we were ready to shoot by afternoon.

I remember shooting a song for Jamai Raja [1990] on the train in Ooty and Sunita [wife] had accompanied us. When I expressed my desire to give Saroj ji gurudakshina, Sunita explored all the vintage shops and bought a beautiful necklace for her. It was such a simple gesture, but Saroj ji was so emotional and moved by it. That was her innocence. She would translate her beautiful smile and twinkle in the eyes through us on screen.

I never felt short-changed when I was paired opposite Madhuri or Aishwarya [Rai Bachchan]. Saroj ji brought out the masculinity with the gait and dance. She knew me and where my capabilities lay. She was aware that I was not a dancer, but brought out the best in me despite my two left feet. I am eternally grateful to her.


Staying at home is the price we have to pay to overcome the pandemic-Anil Kapoor


Actor Anil Kapoor talks about adapting to the current scenario and working virtually
Radhika Bhirani (HINDUSTAN TIMES; May 23, 2020)

As working from home becomes the ‘new normal’ for most people across industries, even actors are keeping up with the times, and trying their best to ensure that at least a bit of the behind-the-scenes work goes on. Actor Anil Kapoor, last seen on screen in Mohit Suri’s Malang, has also made a work station of sorts at his home.

“Staying at home is the price we have to pay to overcome the pandemic. I’m researching for my upcoming projects and my meetings are happening over video calls. I’m working virtually for now,” he tells us. We’ve also learnt that Kapoor has become quite tech-savvy, and he is also reading scripts at home. Amid all this, the 63-year-old does not forget to work out and is trying to stick to his strict fitness regime.

“Exercising is key to mental and physical health, so I encourage everyone to do it for half an hour. I work out indoors almost twice everyday and I watch my diet and plan my meals,” says the actor, whose social media feed is full of inspiring workout posts. In fact, in a recent Instagram post, Kapoor had made a pertinent point when he wrote, “The long-term solution to fighting microbes like Coronavirus is not complete isolation or endless disinfecting, but building immunity of the body and mind (sic).” For a little recreation, Kapoor also indulges in a game or two of carrom with his wife Sunita and daughter Rhea. And he says, “Those who have the privilege of staying safe at home should dedicate their time to upskilling themselves and helping those in need.”

The actor celebrated his 36th wedding anniversary on May 19, and treated fans to his heart-melting “wedding story”. He also gorged on “cakes”, but being a fitness conscious person, he exercised the calories away.

Images: Sonam Kapoor & Anand Ahuja celebrate wedding anniversary amid lockdown


Ankita Chaurasia (MUMBAI MIRROR; May 9, 2020)

Given the ongoing countrywide Coronavirus lockdown, Sonam Kapoor and Anand Ahuja’s second wedding anniversary was a low-key affair. After the actress shared their first picture together, taken four years ago, on Instagram, writing, “I’m so thrilled I get to keep you for the rest of my life,” her businessman-husband got her to recreate the moment, only this time on video.

The celebrations began with Anand’s mother, Priya, decking up their house with balloons, and the couple cutting several cakes. This was followed by a group video call with Sonam’s family back in Mumbai. Anil Kapoor, who has got the hang of video calls now that he initiates one regularly with his Malang team, got on one with wife, Sunita, daughter Rhea and her beau, Karan Boolani. “The rest of the day was spent on more video calls with friends. The duo also cooked together,” reveals a source close to the couple.

And while Anand gifted Sonam a gaming console loaded with her favourite video games, we are yet to find out what was her gift to him.

Lockdown or not, Anil Kapoor will stay fit


Sonil Dedhia (HINDUSTAN TIMES; April 7, 2020)

Anil Kapoor refuses to age. At 63, the actor remains a fitness inspiration for many. Even during the Coronavirus lockdown, he is maintaining a strict diet and workout routine to remain in good shape.

“I still follow my daily routine. My trainer Marc Mead is staying with me, so I can’t escape my workout. I am trying to be productive around the house. I make it a point that I workout twice a day and keep myself motivated. In fact, I have been keeping a keen eye on my diet. I feel staying fit is really important,” shares the ageless actor.

Kapoor is also making most of his lockdown time by creating memories with family members, talking of which, he says, “We’re just enjoying spending quality time with each other. It is something we don’t get to do a lot in the course of our normal lives, so this time is really precious. We even celebrated Sunita’s (his wife) birthday. It was an intimate family celebration and was really special and memorable in its own way.”

Kapoor, who has been a part of Bollywood for over four decades, hopes that everyone comes out safe from the pandemic. “I have always tried to stay positive and that’s what I am doing now. I do miss being on the sets, but I’m hopeful that soon we will all come out of this, stronger and healthier, and can get to doing what we love with even more passion and dedication.”

Sunita and I’ve made sure our staff and their families are taken care of in these tough times-Anil Kapoor


Shreya Mukherjee (HINDUSTAN TIMES; March 27, 2020)

Much like everyone else around the world, actor Anil Kapoor, too, is trying to keep calm in the face of the Covid-19 pandemic. Besides urging people to join #WarAgainstVirus and to stay home, the actor also feels that panic is the biggest enemy of the current crisis as it can spell doom on the whole plan of battling this situation. While acknowledging that this is indeed a “tough time for the whole world”, the 63-year-old feels that the only option right now is to “remain patient, positive, generous, kind and humble”. Excerpts:

Amid this lockdown, and quarantine becoming the way of life, how are you keeping yourself occupied?
We’re all trying to be productive, as much as possible, around the house. I make it a point to workout indoors every day and keep an eye on my diet. On a serious note though, I must give a shout-out to the health and medical authorities, not just in our country, but world over, who’re toiling endlessly to keep us safe from this deadly virus. If it wasn’t for their selfless work, we would all be doomed!

With so much panic around, how are you ensuring that people around you stay safe?
We are just trying to do our best, staying home safe and keeping a positive attitude. My family, team and I, are all aware, prepared and equipped, ensuring that we take all the necessary measures. (My wife) Sunita and I’ve been making sure our team, staff and their families are taken care of in these tough times.

You daughter Sonam Kapoor (aka Sonam K Ahuja) shared a detailed account of how she and husband Anand (S Ahuja) were screened at the airport upon their arrival from London. She lauded the effort put in by the authorities, and continues to spread awareness via social media...
Sonam is in Delhi with Anand. She and her family are staying home and safe. She’s been very vocal, brave and informative about her whole experience, which is a great. I’m sure it helped a lot of people, and has also answered their questions.

As you said you’re training at home. Would you want to share tips on how to achieve a healthy mind and body while being indoors?
I’ve been working out at home almost twice a day. I recently shared my home workout video and might share more in the future. Staying fit and moving, is very important!

Since you couldn’t travel to Germany for your wife’s birthday (March 25), how did you all celebrate the day?
Be it Germany or Mumbai, spending time together as a family is what matters at the end of the day. This year is all about holding your near and dear ones close, but in the safest way possible. So, the celebration was with immediate family, to avoid having too many people in one room, as per the protocol.

Have any of your shooting schedules also been disrupted because of the Coronavirus outbreak?
Thankfully, all my shoots ended in February. March was supposed to be a prep month for my upcoming projects. So while at home, I’m doing my research for Takht and just trying to learn more about Emperor Shah Jahan in depth and really get into the skin of the character. I really enjoy watching period dramas and have been watching a lot of them. I’m also looking at this time to reflect and synthesise for the future.

Sonam Kapoor sends birthday wishes to mom Sunita from Delhi while in self-quarantine


BOMBAY TIMES (March 26, 2020)

Sonam Kapoor aka Sonam K Ahuja and her husband Anand Ahuja, who recently returned from London, are currently in Delhi with the latter’s parents. The actress, who shared her journey of travelling during the Coronavirus outbreak, has not been able to meet her family ever since she has returned due to being in self-quarantine and now due to the countrywide lockdown.

Sonam took to Instagram to wish her mother Sunita Kapoor on her birthday on Wednesday, and penned down a note. “Happy happy birthday my mama. I miss you so so much. I wish I was there while you cut your cake and I wish I could get your hugs. I love you and I’ll see you soon,” read the post. The Neerja actress also shared a throwback picture with her mother in which the two of them can be seen twinning in black outfits.


Sonam K Ahuja, who is self-quarantining wished her mom with these adorable #WaybackWednesday pictures

My role in Malang has shades of grey-Anil Kapoor

Anil Kapoor: My role in Malang has shades of grey
A series of good-boy characters later, Mohit Suri's romantic thriller Malang to present Anil Kapoor as 'extremely quirky and mad'
Upala KBR (MID-DAY; May 20, 2019)

After a conventional over-the-top act in Total Dhamaal, and a nuanced performance in Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga, Anil Kapoor's upcoming romantic thriller, Malang sees him essay a part with shades of grey. Referring to his character as "extremely quirky", a trade source tells mid-day, "Malang showcases the point of view of four people - among them, Anil being one - about an occurring that has taken place over a night. All the characters are grey. Anil's role is extremely quirky and mad.

One can't define what he plays, because his character's [personality] keeps changing. He has a dark humour with heroic shades. He is the oddball in the group; doesn't conform to society and does things on his own. It's a character off Quentin Tarantino's films." The source adds that even though the actor's look is yet to be arrived at, he has been exchanging notes with the creative team regularly.

Though tight-lipped about his character, Kapoor tells mid-day that the "black and white" role is far distanced from that in Aneez Bazmee's Pagalpanti, implying that he is set to offer two films with distinct character-play in the near future. "I start filming on June 8. We have a good team and director in Mohit [Suri]. It is a very well-written script, and the music is terrific," says Kapoor, excited to share the screen with the younger crop, including Aditya Roy Kapur, Disha Patani and Kunal Kemmu.

Interestingly, despite his 35th wedding anniversary yesterday calling for celebration, the actor was busy filming for Bazmee's John Abraham starrer. "Even on the day that I got married, I went for an event to Dahanu the same evening. I was the guest of honour, and had to stay there overnight. I have noticed that I want to remove myself from the commitment of a birthday or anniversary. Sunita always asks me why I work on such days," he jokes.

People like Sridevi are difficult to forget-Anil Kapoor

Boney Kapoor, family joined by Ajith, Gauri Shinde on the actress’s first death anniversary in Chennai
Avinash Lohana (MUMBAI MIRROR; February 15, 2019)

On February 24 2018, Sridevi breathed her last in Dubai, after attending the wedding ceremony of Mohit Marwah and Antara Motiwala in Al Jazirah Al Hamrah.

A year on, her filmmaker husband Boney Kapoor and children, Janhvi and Khushi, arrived in Chennai, her hometown, to mark the day with a pooja on Thursday. Joining the trio at Sridevi’s maternal home, in the Mylapore neighbourhood of the Tamil Nadu capital, were Anil and Sunita Kapoor, Tamil actor Ajith Kumar and Sridevi’s English Vinglish director Gauri Shinde, who was accompanied by her filmmaker-husband R Balki.

Boney confirmed that Thursday was Sridevi’s death anniversary according to the “tithi” but didn’t wish to speak further on the subject.

“She was my brother’s wife, and my wife’s friend as they connected really well. Whenever we met there was always fun, laughter and humour. People like Sri ji are difficult to forget. Her body of work is fabulous and inspiring. Her films are still being seen and pictures still being published everywhere. She will always be missed,” Anil had told Mirror recently.

I think someone went and filled Aamir Khan's ears-Anil Kapoor

Anil Kapoor decoded in an exclusive interview with mid-day
The indefatigable Anil Kapoor talks about his endless energy, refusing Chandni because he had to sit in a wheelchair, feeling gutted that he didn't do more endorsements and, of course, the Mr. India sequel!
Mayank Shekhar (MID-DAY; August 10, 2018)

Suzie, we're told, is a popular, heavily priced cocaine doing the rounds of Juhu - the effects of which include indefatigable energy levels that last you for every second that you're up and still snorting. The high seems natural. The party never stops, and life seems positive, and happy, and fun, all the time. Which is pretty much the state that has defined the public profile of actor-superstar Anil Kapoor, 61, for decades that he's entertained millions at a stretch. And continues to. What keeps him going? He hasn't tried Suzie, he tells us. Well, just for fun, we checked:

Have you ever done drugs?
I've had hash - ganja. Nahi, charas bolte hain. This was when I was in college, just finished school. Once I had hash, a few times, actually. I've had grass [ganja/marijuana] also. That's it.

But those are [usually] downers. You're on a constant upper!
To be honest, because they were downers, I didn't like them - they made me feel low, sleepy. I said I don't need this.

Were you much of a drinker though?
I've had beers, and [other] drinks; but never done anything excessive.

I'm only trying to get at what drives you (and if there's an external substance that we could recommend to readers!).
This is the way I naturally am. It's just the profession, the whole entertainment business, or show-business - cameras, films, ADs, working with the director, writers, actors, actresses, producers; interacting with media, doing different roles… Everything surrounding me makes me feel positive, gives me energy. It's exciting, pulsating, also edgy - because you're not sure what's going to happen. You're insecure. You do your best; feel it's not the best. But people say it is! I'm just so happy that I don't do a 9-to-5 desk-job.

Which you never have.
Never. I can sit down for half-hour, or an hour; not longer. I have to be standing, walking, running; or sleeping, so that I'm fresh again!

And you've been working like this for 40 years?
I think so. I [recently] called up my producer-director Umesh Mehra to ask, "When did we start the film [Humare Tumhare]?" It released in 1979. Think we would have started [shoot] two years before. So, if I started my acting career in '77, it's been 40 years [plus]. He [Mehra] is also trying to find out exactly which date we started. The film had Sanjeev Kumar, Rakhee. There were 10-12 children in it. I was one of them.

Was that the one where you played the young Shashi Kapoor?
No, that was in 1973 [for the shelved film Tu Payal Mein Sangeet]. I was in the seventh standard. That was the first time I faced the camera, but only as a child actor. By Humare Tumhare, I had done my acting course. And then I did [M S] Sathyu's Kahan Kahan Se Guzar Gaya [1981], [Lekh Tandon's] Ek Baar Kaho [1980]...

A lot of people don't know that you were also the lead in Mani Ratnam's directorial debut.
Pallavi Anu Pallavi [1983; in Kannada], yes, his first film. Balu Mahendra was the cameraman, the visuals were stunning. I was in Bangalore recently, and people still remember the film. Ilaiyaraaja's music in it had become very popular.

All of this before Woh 7 Din (where you first got majorly noticed)
Yes, I started working on Woh 7 Din in 1982. I was not getting any work in Mumbai as an actor - besides bit roles. I thought I was cut out for bigger things. So I said, let me start helping out my brother [Boney] with production in Chennai. He was taking over dad's work in Hum Paanch. Being the eldest, he was looking after finance, while I did all the odd jobs. I would also stand-in for actors while the scenes were being set up. Bapu saab was the director. I would show him how good I could give a shot. He would observe. That's when he offered me the Telugu film [Vamsa Vruksham]. And then he directed my first [Hindi] film [as lead], Woh 7 Din, with the script written by K Bhagyaraj.

Anil Kapoor

Your early stories are actually all about astounding persistence. You could stand around [hoping to get noticed] for hours (at a stretch).
Yes, I've stood behind the camera on Subhash Ghai's sets a lot, hoping, "Abhi dekhega shayad," and that as soon as his [Ghai's] eyes meet [mine], I'll go, and meet him. Then I'd get to know that he's at Holiday Inn. So I would stand in the lobby. Then I'd think, "Why lobby? Let me just go up." So then I would be there in the corridor. I wouldn't have the guts to go and chat with him though. I've sat around at Rajshri Productions office [in Prabhadevi] a lot. It was very tough to meet the Barjatyas, so I became friendly with the production guys - Mr Gupta, Mr Zaki... Suddenly Gupta tells me Zaki wants to make a film. I say, why not cast me? Before I could meet the Barjatyas, the production guy was making a film called Prerna with me, which got stuck. But, I was the leading man. Likewise, while I was trying to meet Subhash Ghai, one of his assistants, Kukoo Khanna, Usha Khanna's brother, pointed me towards a small film. So I sat in David Dhawan's Vespa, went over, and signed up for a film called Rachna, which ran for one-day, one-show, in the theatre!

Did you have a Plan B?
After about four or five years, I did think of a Plan B, but, in films - like writing scripts, or doing anything else to be in the films.

Well, you are from a film family; if I'm not mistaken your father was an AD on Mughal-e-Azam. He also managed Geeta Dutt's work, thereafter Shammi Kapoor's.
He was a very honest, decent, introverted kind of good man - not one of those pushy, aggressive, filmy ones. And he once clearly told me that he cannot do anything for me. I never expected him to either. From that day, I felt, instinctively, it's time for me to go out into the battlefield, and fight.

If the battlefield means sitting around hoping for someone to notice you, it would get quite tiring, right?
It was exhausting, frustrating. I looked and felt my worst in those days - sitting with friends having rum.

Could you channel that eventually in your work; a film like Awaargi [1990], for instance?
Yes, [Mahesh Bhatt's] Awaargi, and even before that, [Subhash Ghai's] Mashaal. Then there was [Bhatt's] Thikana, where I play an alcoholic. This is when Mahesh Bhatt was trying to find himself; it was a pleasure and fun working with him. Both Awaargi and Thikana turned out to be disasters though.

But you basically ended up with a 40-plus years' career, without a sabbatical. Ever thought of taking one?
I did, once. I spoke to Amit ji [Amitabh Bachchan], while we were shooting for Armaan [2003]. He had taken a break for five years. His advice was: Whatever you do, keep on working.

Also, since you began in the '80s, which was all about over-the-top performances, that you cracked, to decades later, when the kind of films being made are vastly different, you would've had to constantly reinvent yourself too?
When I started my career, they used to tell me I'm an English actor. First they used to say, "Zara loud bol. Underline it. Punch de usko. Punch de!" I'd be like, 'What punch are you talking about? I'm just being myself, real. But the sound-recordist would tell me it doesn't work. That I had to start pitching - so you're not speaking, or making conversation. You're talking at them [the audience]. But, obviously, working with good directors, films becoming successful, you get the confidence. Initially, I was not that comfortable, to be honest with you.

You were not always the 'jhakaas' guy?
No, I was not. In fact at the time [of the release of Yudh, 1985], 'jhakaas' didn't become that popular. The film was an average success. They said that I was the best thing in it, and wished there was more of me. The film was more about Jackie [Shroff's character]. That 'jhakaas'; and my character stood out. People were talking about it. But I didn't take it seriously enough to cash in on it.

Anil Kapoor's makeup man gets him ready before the chat

Would you say that 'jhakaas' image was more a Subhash Ghai creation; with a Ram-Lakhan [1989]: One two ka four, four to ka one stuff?
No, I did Tezaab [1988], before Ram Lakhan. And of course, I had done [Yash Chopra's] Mashaal [written by Javed Akhtar], where there was realism, and a star-quality [to the character] - a combination that you notice in Salim-Javed scripts. The foundation got laid in Mashaal [1984].


If we go back to your entire body of work, a lot of people would say Mr India was a perfect 10. Would you agree?
I feel the first half of Mr India was much more organic, human, beautiful. In the second half, I felt, there were certain portions that seemed really forced. You could say we did this to make it massy. The casting of the children, the scenes were picture-perfect, yes. The same was the case with Ram Lakhan. The first half was brilliant.

Lamhe [1991]?
Well, Lamhe, people liked the second half better. The first half, I found to be unnecessarily slow. A film must hold you from the beginning to the end. People say climax theek nahi tha. I feel it was ahead of its time. And Sridevi was magnificent in both Mr India and Lamhe. She was beyond perfect in Mr India. Or, for that matter, even Judaai, if you've see her in the film, she is exceptional.

Speaking of Sridevi, the tragedy earlier this year was heartbreaking. How did you deal with it?
It is one of the most unfortunate things to have ever happened. Every night, my wife and I talk about her. There's not a single day when we don't miss her. [Pause]

Going back to Lamhe, while it didn't do well in India, it actually opened up a whole diaspora market for Bollywood, isn't it?
Both [Yash Chopra's] Lamhe and [Vidhu Vinod Chopra's] 1942: A Love Story [1994] were game-changers [for me]. I signed both the films simultaneously. I'd had an accident, and was bedridden, nursing my leg, for two-and-half months. It was a turning point in my life. I was running fast, but going nowhere. I just wanted films, one after other - doing films that I didn't care much for.

You've spoken about how you've done a few films like an Andaaz or say Mr Azaad purely for the signing amount.
No, not the signing amount; for the whole thing - advance mein. But the past is past. Why should I say now, why I did them? But 1942 and Lamhe were the kind of exciting films that were not being made [back then]. Yash ji wanted to do something post-Chandni, since it was a success.

And I hear you'd said no to Chandni. Why?
I had said no to Chandni, because I didn't want to sit in a wheelchair.

It would be hard to contain you in a wheelchair!
I was just not in a frame of mind to sit in a wheelchair through an entire film. I was, in fact, one of the first people to call Yash ji and tell him, "Picture hit hai!" He couldn't believe it. I had done two films [Mashaal, Vijay] with him, and both hadn't done well.

So post-accident, you became more conscious of the scripts you'd pick up?
Conscious, yes; but I also started getting offered more films of the sort that I wanted to do. Certain films I did for the kitchen, family, children…

Do you have a clear distinction between a film for kitchen, and craft?
I do.

So when you do a Race 3, for instance...
There are other reasons as well. I have to like my role. And who is producing it, acting in it.

Going back to what makes you special, besides being around for 40 years; you're also a rare Bollywood superstar with a moustache. No?
No, there was Raj Kapoor, Charlie Chaplin, and Shatrughan Sinha.

Exactly, that's it. Did Manmohan Desai ever say that a man with a moustache can never be a hero?
I read it in an interview. He called me up after Eeshwar [1989], and said, "I thought you'd never become a star. You are just an actor." He said he wanted me to do his films. He had said Jackie Shroff is a star, and I am just an actor.

The actor obliges his fans with autographs

You've had a lot of such stuff thrown at you, isn't it?
I was lambasted, even when there was no social media. But I've always looked at the marathon, the longer run. I didn't go for the 100 metre dash. Well, I did in the '80s, and then I came back. Because the 100 metre dash is too tiring and exhausting. I knew I'd burn myself out.

And was doing television, with 24, probably a marathon thing to do?
Yes, it gave me a role away from the cinemas. And it wasn't the role of a reality-show judge. It gave me creative satisfaction, to work on a great story.

Did you also see LA as a longer-run thing to do? How serious were you about pursuing that as a career option?
Yes, it was a longer run thing: [looking at] legacy, learning, education, meeting different people, creative people, business minds. I was reliving my struggling days. I used to actually go, and audition. I auditioned for David O Russell, Sacha Baron [Cohen], for fun. Whenever I audition, I don't get selected. Everything I did happened without audition! We are not cut out for auditions. It is also an art. We have to work towards it.

How serious are you still about pursuing Hollywood though?
I am at a certain age and time, as far as family is concerned, when I can't pursue it aggressively. If it comes, good; but I can't move base. If I get an offer for which I have to leave for a year, obviously I will have to say no. It has to be on my terms and conditions.

Well, there's so much for you to do here. Could you be the Dev Anand of this generation?
No one can be him. I am so glad I could meet him. I still see his songs, and they make me so happy.

(Speaking of which], you are a singer yourself; even cut an album [with Salma Agha that many people may not know about).
It was horrible. People like to see, and not hear us sing. I used to do ghazals, nazms. So, I sang in Chameli Ki Shaadi [1986]. And then that album [Welcome; 1989]. After which, I decided, 35 years back, that I won't ever sing!

The new lot in showbiz, in fact, juggles multiple things, while they also act in movies. Their main income might well come from endorsements. Why did you never do ads through most of your career?
Raj Kapoor, Dilip Kumar, Amitabh Bachchan never did ads. We were brought up [with the thought] ki, "Main actor hoon. Salesman nahin". This is until my children grew up, and Sonam started doing ads. The standard of ads also got better. But by that time, I had already missed out on the best ones. Now I feel terrible about it!

Audience: It's clear that you are getting younger by the day. Can you share some thoughts on fitness with us?
It's all about intake, and outtake; and also workouts. To give you an example: 1,000 calories a day is, say, your intake. So you should work out for six days a week, to make sure you maintain a balance. There shouldn't be far more calorie intake than what you have really burnt out. If you want to indulge on a particular day, you should see to it that for the next two to three days, you balance it out. Don't let loose, and say that for the next three months, I'm just going to keep eating. Then it becomes difficult to bounce back. Also, you can do different kinds of exercises, depending on what makes you happy. Keep changing it. If you find any exercise boring, don't do it. Find something that you can have fun with. And I don't feel that's difficult.

At which point of time in your career did you particularly start focusing on your health, fitness?
I think it was during 1942 A Love Story. I didn't want to do the film as usual.

Is saying no your instant response to an offer?
Yes. I told Vidhu [Vinod Chopra]: "Tu pagal ho gaya hai kya? You are making me a romantic hero. I am a father of three kids! Aamir ko le le tu." I told him I'll call Aamir. But he said, "Aamir phone pe hi nahi aa raha hai." [Laughs]. So then I suggested he should take Bobby Deol, since he was coming up. He met Bobby as well. Then Vidhu's brother, Vir Chopra, made me hear all the songs, and I really loved them. There is a scene in the film, inspired from Romeo and Juliet, where we [the hero and the heroine] are in a balcony. I was working with Manisha Koirala, who was, I guess, 20 years younger to me. And I had done all 'tapori' and 'mawaali' roles until then. Suddenly I was playing this [suave] character. That is the time I started paying attention to fitness. And after that, I didn't stop.

Audience: Anil sir, last year Boney Kapoor announced that he wants to make the sequel to Mr India. Has it ever been discussed with you?
It's a tough film to make. Obviously we have discussed it. But being the kind of people we are, it has to be something really special. So whenever it has to happen, it will. Boney and I are really positive people.

She called you Anil sir, do you like being called sir at all?
You can call me anything. Kuch bhi bolo yaar. I never react.

Another unique thing to mention: You actually don't have a popular nickname, unlike most of your contemporaries who've been around for decades -Amitabh Bachchan is Big B, Shahenshah; Shah Rukh Khan is Badshah, King Khan; Salman Khan is Sallu; Sanjay Dutt is Sanju, or Baba, Jackie Shroff is Jaggu Dada...
Find a nickname for me. It's never too late. Never give up. Main bhi ek nickname launga. Let's have a poll! A lot of people call me AK, including my staff, manager, and many friends. At least Rhea doesn't refer to me as dad. For a daughter to call [the father by his initials] isn't common. But there are too many AKs in the industry.

Audience: Parinda [1989] had some stalwart performers like Nana Patekar, Jackie Shroff and Anupam Kher. Did you feel the need to come up with the best performance, or do anything different for the film?
I was doing five films at that point in time. I was at my busiest, running from one film to another - Parinda, Ram Lakhan, Tezaab, Eeshwar…. Obviously I was trying to do my best in every film. But how much can you do? Everybody else was doing less work back then, and I was doing the maximum, just running from one studio to the other.

I think she wants to know if you're an insecure actor.
I had to be competitive. You have to be, and why should you not? I feel a person who isn't competitive, can't be in the business. And whoever says that they aren't, is lying.

As a result of which there is far more politics in show business? Would that be correct to say?
I try to stay away from it as much as possible. Ignorance is bliss - pataa hi nahi kya ho raha hai. Especially my wife, she doesn't know anything; so that's great fun. When she comes home, people call up to say, "Your husband has signed a film," and then she asks me, "Baby you have signed this film?" [Laughs].

Anil Kapoor

It has to be said that even at the peak years of gossip press in the '80s, '90s, we heard absolutely nothing that was gossipy about you, unless there was, and we've forgotten, which is even better. But there is one incident that relates to Filmfare Awards, 1993. The Best Actor needed to be given out. Dimple Kapadia went up on stage. She refused to open the envelope, almost as a signal to the audience that this is possibly rigged. She announced your name for Beta. Aamir Khan has never attended a Bollywood award show ever since. Take us through that moment?
Let me be very honest. If you see my interviews from back then, when people asked me who will win Best Actor, I had always said Aamir Khan for Jo Jeeta Wohi Sikandar, because it was really a different kind of film, out-of-the-box, and I could make out that everyone had worked really hard. I saw the film at Gaiety, and loved it. And then the Filmfare Awards happened, where I won Best Actor award, and I was surprised. I won it, because it was the biggest box-office success of that time. If you look back, it had earned more than any film that year. So there was something special about that performance. I didn't respect that performance myself, but everybody else did. I was also riding so high that everyone wanted me to lose. I also found out from Dimple that it [me getting the award] was taken for granted. It is not that she had anything [else] in mind [while not opening the envelope]. Usne aise hi bol diya. Then I found out from an insider regarding the [Filmfare] poll that was taken, and why there was so much controversy. I was really innocent, and frankly, Beta aur Jo Jeeta Wohi Sikandar ka koi comparision nahi tha, in terms of vote shares. And I think the jury might have taken a decision to give Anil Kapoor the award. They had no axe to grind with anyone, and they didn't do me a favour either. They never gave me an award for Ram Lakhan, or Eeshwar, when I was nominated for both [in the same year]. They had given it to Jackie Shroff [for Parinda]. They said the poll had got divided between the two films. These, I guess, are just excuses. You can't take awards seriously. It's naseeb [destiny], also luck. And do you think I would have time to do all this for an award? Mil gaya toh mil gaya; nahi mila toh nahi mila. Among all my friends and colleagues I know, I don't see anybody taking awards so seriously.

Was there bad blood between you and Aamir after that though?
I think someone went and filled his ears. Kisi ne purposely nahi kiya tha.

Did you guys speak to each other?
About this? We have never spoken. We are great friends, and this is too small a thing.

Also, I guess it happened in 1993...
No, even if it happened in 2018, I don't think it would matter. There are so many bigger things in life that you do for a film, or a performance. With Dil Dhadakne Do [2015], for instance, I heard that the film had not even reached Delhi for the National Awards. I was quite surprised. I met a few jury members who said we haven't seen the film. I called up these people [the producers], and they said that they have sent the film to Delhi. So, sometimes, the films don't even reach. It's all luck. Sometimes you get an award, when you don't expect it. But it's not as serious as you think. Some people got upset, but that was the age and the time. I won Best Actor for Tezaab and Bachchan saab didn't get it for Hum or Shehenshah, you think I deserved it? No. But it's okay.

He was also in contention in 1993 for Khuda Gawah.
Yes, and if you see the craft, and compare both our roles, then in a way, you can say his performance was better. So it doesn't mean anything. Sometimes koi actor ki film bahut zyada chal rahi hai, uska craze zyada hai, kisi ka kum hai. For Pukar, I won the National Award, but I didn't win any other awards. They gave it to Hrithik Roshan [for Kaho Naa... Pyar Hai]. Can you compare those performances? I was not even nominated! It depends on your phase of life, and career. Sometimes they feel we should reward smaller films, rather than commercial films. I think this is all over the world, and not in India alone.

Well, at the Oscars, you're supposed to [openly] lobby...
Exactly, the whole structure is like that. But we don't have it. I wish we had that structure with members voting, there would be healthy lobbying. You are only making people aware, asking them to please come and watch our film.

To end on a more positive note, we're absolutely certain you'll be around for at least 40 more years in showbiz. Is there something that still remains an ambition for you?
Everything: As an actor, producer, businessman, father, husband, citizen of this country, and being a global citizen - if there's anything I can do to contribute, something that nobody has done before, and something special; why not?

Will you ever take a break?
I don't know. You never know what happens next. Life is too short. So many of my colleagues are unfortunately… Kuch bhi ho sakta hai na aaj? Kal kya hona hai kisko malum? This year has been especially very tragic, and upsetting. So I feel I should have fun, and enjoy myself, and do as much work - be nice to people, don't fight; compromise, thoda adjust kar lo. You never know what is going to happen.

Anil Kapoor

I just wanted to be an actor, I didn’t realise when stardom happened-Anil Kapoor


Madhureeta Mukherjee (BOMBAY TIMES; August 1, 2018)

 He is a man of insatiable energy. Forever revved up and ready to roll. Even his young co-stars tell us that keeping pace with his almost rebellious enthusiasm on set is no mean feat. His greys have made him wiser and cooler, too, but in the movies, you need more than just that to be a front-runner. At 61, Anil Kapoor’s platter of films is enviable, his passion is more than a cupful, and he’s still ready to sweat it out at the marathon. His next, Fanney Khan, directed by Atul Manjrekar, which also stars Aishwarya Rai Bachchan, Rajkummar Rao and Pihu Sand, releases this week. In a frank chat with BT, the actor talks about tapping into his life’s experiences for this role, the relationship he shares with his children and how, even after decades of stardom, he remains rooted in reality. Read on…

Today, you’ve come a long way, achieved immense success and fame, but you have seen humble beginnings. In Fanney Khan, you play a cab driver. Did your experiences from your struggling days help you connect with the character? In fact, this film also has a song called Achche Din Ab Aaye Re, which resonates with the feelings and struggles of the common man in the country.
I can’t tell you how much this film gives me the feeling of reel world meeting the real world. In my career, I went through a phase of struggle between 1978-82, and those experiences really helped me connect with my character in Fanney Khan. I went from office to office trying to get work; you just name the filmmaker, and I was in his office looking for work.

From Tahir Hussain and B R Chopra to Sunil Dutt and Sanjay Dutt (to name a few), I even tried getting bit roles in movies. It came to a point where one director called me for one day’s work, only to give a shot as a dulha. He said, ‘Dialogue kuch nahin hai, bas aake dulha banna hai’. After that, I did films like Hamare Tumhare (1979), where I was one of the 8-10 people. Then, I did Ek Baar Kaho (1980), where I was one of the hero’s friends. Then I went to Dev Anand for Swami Dada (1982), but Jackie Shroff bagged the role. I always had a Plan B. So, I started doing film production work, like looking for locations, shopping for props, and waking up actors for their shoot. After that, Bapu noticed me, and offered me a Telugu and Kannada film. So, my journey started from there, and all these experiences I have gathered over the years have helped me bring in honest emotions to my character in the film.

You have always had this fighting spirit, but did you ever hit a patch where you were uncertain about yourself, had self-doubt, or questioned your stardom?
If I am sitting and giving this interview to you after being in showbiz for 35 years as a leading man, it is because I never harboured any self-doubt for more than two-three days. Even if I hit a low phase, it never lasted for too long. I looked at the other positives in my life and snapped out of it. Most actors who have had a long inning will tell you the same thing. Earlier, when we used to live as a joint family, we all were each other’s psychiatrists, bouncing boards and even a financial support system, so that helped a great deal. I believe that, even after a bad night’s sleep, one should wake up, go for a run and leave the negative thoughts behind. Of course, unless there is a physical problem, or you are dealing with the death of a close one. That is tough, but you get over that, too; it is part of life. Our family faced such a patch this year, but we moved on. We all had to. Some people move fast, and some take their time but eventually, they get going with their life.

Talking about family, you share a great relationship with your children. Being an actor, did you relate to their struggles in the film industry? In Fanney Khan, too, you play father to a girl who aspires to be a singer. Did instances from your real life help you add nuances to your character?
In a way, it did. When Sonam’s first two films released, Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s Saawariya (2007) and Rakeysh Omprakash Mehra’s Delhi-6 (2009), both didn’t do well. The onslaught of negativity was huge. I remember calling up media people and asking them, ‘Why are you doing such negative articles? What’s the reason?’ I thought it was unfair. There was constant talk about her body and she would come home and tell us that she overheard people and assistant stylists commenting on her thighs, stretch marks and all that. So, her career and struggles were a part of my real journey, too. Somewhere, I could dive into those areas. As an actor, we do some things that are spontaneous, and for some emotions we tap into experiences from our life. It could be real, imaginary, or plain observation. This film was an emotional journey.

Today, you see young actors go as far as putting on 20 kilos for a role, like Pihu Sand (who plays your daughter in Fanney Khan) and Bhumi Pednekar (in Dum Laga Ke Haisha, 2015). Earlier, actors didn’t have the scope to do that, as they would shoot for multiple films simultaneously. Do you wish you had a chance to delve so deep into a character?
I have not gone to that extent, but I put on weight for Lamhe (1991), in the part where I was playing the older guy. Cinema itself is real and reel, so sometimes you can do a combo. I have dabbled in various kinds of movies. I have done some films which were for my kitchen, some for my creative satisfaction, and there were some that I did for both — creative and commercial reasons. I never wanted to burn out, unless I decided that I wanted to do only five-six films, and then retire like Daniel Day-Lewis (laughs!). My focus has been to run the marathon, instead of doing a sprint, where there is a spurt of madness, but I could also end up burning out. As far as my health, work and money are concerned, I have always believed in enjoying it for the maximum time. If you see my entire career, my relationships and my loyalty towards people and my friends, it is for the long haul. It is for keeps. It is not like corporate culture and it is not cut and dry. My logic is… dessert khana hai toh saari zindagi khana chahta hoon. Sharaab bhi peene hai toh saari zindagi peena chahta hoon.

With so many creative heads in the family, do all of you feed off each other when it comes to work?
I am very blessed that I have great point of views from so many creative heads at home. And everyone is so fiercely independent; of course, it is taxing at times (laughs!). There is banter, too, and when someone is going wrong, and he or she is adamant, we just let it be. We discuss it and say… Let them make mistakes and learn from them. If you observe my career, the kind of directors that I worked with and some of the movies that I did in the beginning, they were radical and out of the box. I did those movies even before I became a star. Somewhere, Harsh is doing the same thing. He has made brave choices, and I feel that whatever he does has to come from within. Even I was very stubborn about my choices. I knew Shyam Benegal and Aparna Sen more than anyone else, though they didn’t offer me films. When I failed at FTII (Film and Television Institute of India), I went to Girish Karnad (who was the Principal), and explained to him that I’m not from a theatre or an intellectual background, but I am an actor. I requested him to give me a chance. That was a huge setback; I sat on my couch and cried for days. I even wanted to go to NSD (National School of Drama), but I thought ki main FTII mein fail ho gaya, toh NSD mein toh fail hi ho jaunga (laughs!). I had fire in my belly and moved on.

Do you still have that fire in your belly?
Now, I have more fire in my belly, than ever before!

Fanney Khan is a story about a father who dreams to see his daughter get a break as a singer. Parents often live their dreams through their children. Do you have any specific dreams for your children, Sonam, Rhea and Harsh?
Sunita (my wife) and I are clear that our dream is to see them happy. I never had dreams like they should be the biggest stars, or have a huge bank balance, or work with a certain filmmaker. Whatever works for them, works for us. If what they have done doesn’t work out, we are here for them. It is not like I tell Harsh… ki zabardast commercial film banate hain. He does what drives him. When Rhea produced Veere Di Wedding, some people asked me why I let her back that film. After the film released the same people said, ‘Kya picture banayi hai’. So, my dream is to see that they are looked after.

Now that Sonam is married, do you miss her being around at home?
Sonam has been working for many years, so I am used to her travelling outdoors for shoots. I got to spend a lot of time with her on the set of Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga. It just feels like she is on a long outdoor shoot and she’ll be back home soon.

In an interview you gave some time ago, you said that becoming the biggest superstar wasn’t your dream.
Absolutely! I just wanted to be an actor; and I was lucky that my characters became so popular and iconic. Suddenly, I realised that I’ve become a star. When Zoya Akhtar approached me for Dil Dhadakne Do (2015), she was wondering if I would accept the part. Farhan (Akhtar) told her, ‘Andar se woh actor hai. I know he has been a big star for so many years, but andar se woh actor hai. Woh satayega tereko, par woh karega’. So I didn’t realise when stardom happened.

Tell us about the last time you sat in a kaali-peeli, in reality, not for the movies…
I’ve done these mad things all my life. I suddenly sit in a rickshaw, and sometimes when the traffic is too much, I have stepped out of my car and walked to my destination. It sounds difficult, but it all depends on whether you want to attract attention or don’t want to. If you have that kind of connect with the audience and your fans, it is possible to manage the situation. I can travel in a fancy car, and I can even hop on to a kaali-peeli. In that sense, I still feel rooted in reality and can adapt myself to any situation.

Anil Kapoor looking forward to Season 3 of 24?

Anil Kapoor
Harshada Rege (DNA; June 30, 2018)

Anil Kapoor has had a busy year. His schedule will ease up a bit after Fanney Khan releases on August 3. That’s when the Race 3 actor will head to Los Angeles after a gap of two long years. For those who came in late, Anil was among the first actors to get noticed on the international cinema circuit post the big splash that was Slumdog Millionaire. He then went on to star in Mission: Impossible — Ghost Protocol, a special appearance in the American series 24 starring Kiefer Sutherland, and even had a stint in Family Guy.

Work Talk
At one point, the National Award winner, who has an agent in the US, made regular visits to LA for acting assignments as well as production commitments. The last two years, however, have bound him to desi shores because of his packed schedule. A source says, “He has been busy shooting for films like Dil Dhadakne Do, Mubarakan, Welcome Back, Race 3, and his dream project — the Indian version of 24. After those, he signed Fanney Khan, Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga and Total Dhamaal. That’s not all, he is also committed to doing the Abhinav Bindra biopic where he will share screen space with son Harshvardhan Kapoor, who will play the Olympic gold medal winner.” The 61-year-old stepped on Indian television with 24. After two successful seasons, he will look into its third season when he reaches LA.

Break Toh Banta Hai
On the personal front, too, a lot has happened this year. The actor and his family faced Sridevi’s untimely death earlier this year. A few months later, he and wife Sunita pulled off a dream wedding for daughter Sonam, who tied the knot with Anand S Ahuja. The source says, “Anil has been shooting non-stop and wants to take around 10 days off in September and October to travel to some places in Europe. This will be a good break for him. His wife Sunita will join him for the trip, too.”