Showing posts with label Rohan Shrestha. Show all posts
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Chris Hemsworth is a freaking God to shoot with; Jason Statham is quiet & friendly, which is very cool-Rohan Shrestha


Celebrity photographer Rohan Shrestha talks about his experience of shooting Hollywood stars Chris Hemsworth and Jason Statham
Vinay MR Mishra (BOMBAY TIMES; December 8, 2024)

Celebrity photographer Rohan Shrestha, who has shot popular international celebrities such as Oprah Winfrey, Ryan Reynolds, and Lionel Messi, has added actors Chris Hemsworth and Jason Statham to his repertoire. While exclusively sharing the pictures with BT, Rohan calls the experience “easy”.

“Both were unbelievably accessible and very easy to work with. They were just the nicest guys, they were just down to earth. They give you this aura of being free around them, allowing you to also just express yourself as an artist. Manasvi Gosalia, my partner in this endeavor helped me through this entire process,” the Mumbai-based lensman shares.

'Chris Hemsworth is a dream guy to work with'
Rohan's shoot with Chris was a family affair, with the actor's wife Elsa and kids joining in on the fun. "It was a privilege to see Chris in a personal way, being a father and a husband and not playing any characters. Working with him and his family on set was a learning experience,” Rohan adds. 

Reminiscing his shoot with the Avengers star, he recalls, “We were shooting in various locations within Abu Dhabi itself. Somedays we had to shoot outdoors, and it was 48 degrees or 50 degrees, but he was just braving it all. He was an absolute trooper, keeping the crew entertained, laughing, and joking with just everybody. It was a grueling schedule, but he stood there and took photos with just about everybody - group pictures, individual selfies. He's just a dream guy to work with.”

He further talks about shooting the Avengers star in Mumbai. “Shooting Chris Hemsworth is a dream photo shoot. The guy is a freaking God to shoot with. I don't think he has a bad angle. I think if any of my photographs were bad, I would be a terrible photographer because the guy is sculpted for a shoot. I would love to shoot him on the streets of Mumbai,” he states.

As for Jason Statham, Rohan was surprised by the actor's quiet and down-to-earth nature. "He's really quiet. He doesn't say much. He just sits in a corner, and is very friendly, but he keeps to himself. And that's very cool. When a guy just sits alone on a very busy set just by himself, chilling, I find that very cool," Rohan reveals.

'I do feel like I suffer from imposter syndrome'
It is a classic pinch-me moment for Rohan, who has shot multiple Indian celebrities, but he admits to suffering from imposter syndrome. "I do sit down and think about the achievements. I feel I still want to do a lot more. But every time I do sit down, it's always gratitude. Sometimes I do feel like I suffer from imposter syndrome – how the hell did I get here? I'm still having holy shit moments. I'm living my life through holy shit moments, and I can't imagine living a better life right now,” he signs off.

Interacting with Ryan Reynolds felt like I was talking to a regular guy-Rohan Shrestha

Interacting with Ryan felt like I was talking to a regular guy: Rohan Shrestha
Akash Bhatnagar (HINDUSTAN TIMES; August 5, 2024)

Rohan Shrestha got to live his dream recently as he had the chance to shoot actor Ryan Reynolds. The photographer reveals that when he got a call to shoot Reynolds, he was at a loss of words. “I had the biggest smile on my face and it’s more special when you are a fan,” he says.

Raving the Hollywood actor’s professionalism, he says, “Ryan is a director’s actor. He will ask you what you want from him, and he will deliver that. He understood my process and was very technical about his questions. Even when he does improvs, he asks for feedback. For any technician, it’s great to work in an environment where your opinion is valued. But when he is on camera, he has this wit. His one-liners are epic. Sometimes, it’s not what he says, but how he delivers it and its timing, and then everyone is just hysterically laughing. Interacting with him felt like I was talking to a regular guy.”

A lot of Shrestha’s conversation with Reynolds revolved around an old project of the actor. “I mentioned how I loved his 1998 show Two Guys, A Girl And A Pizza Place. He was really surprised and told me that it is one of his most favourite parts. Talking to him one-on-one, on something I was a fan of 25 years ago, just made me feel fortunate about these gifts that life gives you. Sometimes, you also go through the imposter syndrome, like how the hell am I here?,” he jokes.

Earlier, the 39-year-old photographed footballer Lionel Messi, which, he says, was “my eternal goal. It felt like I had climbed Mount Everest.” Now, basketball legend Michael Jordan is next on his wishlist.

Interacting with Ryan felt like I was talking to a regular guy: Rohan Shrestha

Shah Rukh Khan is a great human being and a photographer’s dream-Rohan Shrestha

Floored by SRK’s humility

Photographer Rohan Shrestha on collaborating with the actor for a photo shoot post Jawan
Upala KBR (MID-DAY; October 15, 2023)

Photographer Rohan Shrestha has had an exceptional year, photographing Manchester United FC, the 10 captains of ICC cricket World Cup, and the soccer legend and his idol Lionel Messi. In August, he also captured Sofia Vergara’s beauty during a swift and professional ad shoot in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. Vergara’s only request was to look elegantly glamorous, a task Shrestha accomplished effortlessly, leaving her delighted with the very first shot.

“The only thing that Sofia asked me to do was make her look old-school beautiful and be blasted like a glam diva. The shoot allowed me some time for conversations about my experiences in Saudi Arabia and Asia,” shares Shrestha. However, his collaboration with Shah Rukh Khan was the highlight of this year, especially after experiencing the actor’s charm.

Admiring Khan’s professionalism, humility and emphasizing how he showed respect for the entire team, Shrestha says, “I have been working with Shah Rukh for the last few years. He is a great human being and a photographer’s dream. We share a good rapport, as I have known him since childhood, when he would shoot with my father, Rakesh Shrestha.”

The photographer caught up with the superstar after the success of Jawan but found the actor as humble as ever. “After the shoot, he hugged and shook hands with my entire team—from the AD’s to the light men, including my agent. He treats everyone with equal respect. That is why he is a superstar,” says Shrestha.

Celeb photographers pick their favourite frame-worthy moments


On World Photography Day today, celebrity photographers share with us their most special picture and tell us the story behind it
Onkar Kulkarni and Vinay MR Mishra (BOMBAY TIMES; August 19, 2023)

THIS SHOT REPRESENTED A SIGN OF HOPE POST THE PANDEMIC: AVINASH GOWARIKER
This picture is special because it was one of the first few shoots that I did post the lockdown. Mr Amitabh Bachchan himself had just recovered from COVID-19. Amidst all of this, we did a shoot. After the shoot, I requested him to pose for my #PostPackUpShot. He obliged with this million-dollar expression. But just before I posted the image, he called me, and said he was wondering whether it was appropriate to post such a happy photo when there was so much sadness and gloom everywhere. I disagreed. I said a photo like this, and that too, of him, will only bring joy and hope to everyone that things are getting better. He took a pause, and in his inimitable way said, ‘Ok then, I leave it to you’.


THIS PICTURE OF SANJAY DUTT LAUNCHED MY CAREER: DABBOO RATNANI
This image of Sanju was shot on my first ever assignment in 1993, which was for the film, Aatish: Feel The Fire (1994). I was an assistant, and I had a fanboy moment when I met Sanju here for the first time. The picture is special as it also marked my entry into the film industry. We shot this on a fishing trip in Mauritius, for which Sanju woke us up at 5 am. I had a brand-new camera with me, and I was really scared to take it along, but Sanju ensured I got my camera along and said, ‘You will get the best shots of your life’. It turned out to be a launch pad for me once the hoardings of Aatish came up and this picture was published in magazines.


AFTER MY SHOOT WITH MESSI, I WAS SO OVERWHELMED THAT I WEPT: ROHAN SHRESTHA
This shoot was beyond my wildest dreams. While clicking the pictures, my hands were trembling at the beginning. Messi was just a nonchalant guy – no airs, no tantrums, just professional. I have never used a tripod for a shoot, but for this one, I had to use it. He doesn’t speak English, so there was a translator, Jordi, who was helping us communicate. I happened to tell him that I am a massive Messi and Barcelona fan, and he insisted that I get a picture with Messi, but I was too shy to ask. After the shoot wrapped up, I went up to Messi and shook his hand and he walked away. Like a completely filmy moment, he came back and hugged me. That was my moment. After the shoot, I sat on the lawn and wept as I was overwhelmed.


THIS PIC SHOT IN 2 MINUTES TURNED OUT TO BE THE BEST IMAGE: RAHUL JHANGIANI
Tara and I shot this picture in a studio, unplanned. It was a rainy day, and the sun came out briefly, so I told her let’s shoot some interesting images. The sun came out for literally five minutes, and we manipulated the shadows by using a couple of branches and leaves to create that sort of outdoor texture. We shot this in about two minutes, yet it turned out to be the best image clicked that day.

After the shoot, Messi hugged me and I cried-Rohan Shrestha

After the shoot, Messi hugged me and I cried, says Rohan Shrestha
Vinay MR Mishra (HINDUSTAN TIMES; December 26, 2022)

Celebrity photographer Rohan Shrestha released his photo series with footballer Lionel Messi after Argentina lifted the FIFA World Cup 2022 trophy in Qatar. Shrestha, who is a huge Messi fan, recalls clicking him. “It was beyond my dreams, it was my fantasy,” says the 37-year-old. The first time Shrestha’s friend told him about a shoot with Messi, he “couldn’t even take it seriously ”. He recalls, “It was a month of sleepless nights. You are always worrying before because you always think about the worst-case scenario.”

Shrestha is the first Indian photographer to shoot Messi. The photographer says that the process of the shoot was planned so well that he even did a mock shoot with a model just a day before the main shoot with Messi happened. “Before he entered, I was very anxious. I had a double espresso, which did not help at all,” he quips, adding, “When Messi came, he wasn’t like he was a star. He was like a regular guy, so nonchalant about these (starry) things. But when he sat for my first shot, my hand was shaking. I don’t usually shoot with a tripod, but I put the camera on a tripod.”

Shrestha couldn’t speak to Messi directly, as the Argentinian footballer doesn’t speak in English. However, they shared a beautiful moment, which made Shrestha teary-eyed. “I was chatting with him with the help of a translator. But my communication was primarily around the direction of the shots. And at the end of the shoot, I just happened to tell him that I am a massive fan. I told him that I have watched him in the stadium since 2006... I didn’t know how to ask for a picture with him because I am very introverted,” recalls the lensman.

He goes on, “I think the translator happened to tell Messi the entire story [about my love for him] and when I finished the shoot, Messi shook my hand and walked away. Then, he came back and hugged me. That was my moment, that was my life, that was my everything. Then I went outside and I wept. I was like, ‘What have I done to deserve this?’ Such moments are not in your control. If anyone ever asked me in 2009, ‘Who would you like to shoot?’ I would have said, Messi. It was always Messi.”

I don’t think marriage rumours takes away the focus from my work-Shraddha Kapoor


Shraddha Kapoor doesn't feel talk about her personal life takes focus away from her work
Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; October 28, 2021)

While Shraddha Kapoor continues to be spotted by paparazzi occasionally, the actor hasn’t had a release this year, nor has she given an interview in some time or been out there too much. She laughs as she finally takes out time to talk with us. “I’m very much here. I’ve been filming for my movie with Luv (Ranjan; director) sir. I’m looking forward to it coming out next year,” shares Kapoor, who is shooting for the untitled project in Delhi.

Mention how her personal life keeps making a lot of buzz — talks about her marriage to rumoured boyfriend photographer Rohan Shrestha — and she asserts that she chooses to not comment on such topics. “I don’t think all this takes away the focus from my work as I’ve never really spoken much about my personal life anyway,” she says.

Talking about travelling amid the pandemic for work and shooting with the Covid-19 norms, the actor shares that the restrictions didn’t hamper much after a point. The happiness to be back on set eclipsed everything else as everyone got used to the new shooting environment.

“We were following all the protocols strictly, and within those, managing to shoot. It just feels so good to be back on set. I am living my dream of being an actor and doing what I love to do. To work with Luv sir, and Ranbir (Kapoor), who I adore as an actor, Dimple (Kapadia) ma’am, who I love as an actor and as a person… it has been a memorable experience,” exclaims the 34-year-old, who has the remake of Chaalbaaz (1989), Chaalbaaz in London, lined up next.

Looking forward to “things opening up again” as the pandemic gets under control, she’s thinking of “exploring new cities”. “Maybe I will plan something (a trip) for the New Year’s,” Kapoor ends.

Rohan Shrestha visits us often, but he has not asked for Shraddha Kapoor’s hand in marriage-Shakti Kapoor

Shraddha Kapoor, father Shakti Kapoor

Tanvi Trivedi (BOMBAY TIMES; September 2, 2021)

While Shakti Kapoor, like most doting fathers, is keen to see daughter Shraddha Kapoor find her life partner, he says that the actress is not planning to get married this year. There have been rumours about Shraddha tying the knot with photographer Rohan Shrestha, but Kapoor denies it. He says, “Rohan is a family friend, I have known his father for many, many years. Rohan visits us often, but he has not asked for Shraddha’s hand in marriage. And besides, today, children decide these things on their own. If Shraddha or my son, Siddhanth, tell me that they have chosen their life partner, I will readily agree. But at this point, they are focused on their careers. Marriage is an important decision, and the way people are breaking up, it bothers me sometimes. One has to be sure before making a decision like that.”

Talking about his children’s careers, he says, “I have never stopped Shraddha or Siddhanth from following their dreams. Many people ask me if I had reservations about Shraddha becoming an actress, but that is not true. I want her to shine and do well. She is such a hardworking and talented girl. I call her my ‘golden girl’. She has made it on her own in Bollywood. Siddhanth has received appreciation for Chehre with Amitabh Bachchan and Emraan Hashmi. So, I am happy for both my kids, who are doing well in their careers. I am proud of them.”

Reflecting on his children's career choices and the scripts that they are offered, he says, “When I started off in films, there were different roles etched out for a comedian, a vamp, a villain and the leads. Today, a hero could be the villain, the heroine can be doing a special dance number and the villain sometimes turns out to be the good guy in the end (smiles!). So, the lines are blurring. I am happy that both my kids are choosing different, content-oriented films.”

Why only Rohan Shrestha? I’ll have no objection to whoever Shraddha wants to marry-Shakti Kapoor


Vicky Lalwani | ETimes (BOMBAY TIMES; January 31, 2021)

Did Varun Dhawan hint in one of his recent posts that celebrity photographer Rohan Shrestha could be soon tying the knot with his rumoured girlfriend Shraddha Kapoor? Varun got married to childhood sweetheart Natasha Dalal on January 24 and his social media post acknowledging Rohan’s congratulations has set tongues wagging. In his response to Rohan’s ‘lucky guy’ comment, Varun wrote, “I truly am. Hope you are ready.”

ETimes spoke to Shraddha’s father, actor Shakti Kapoor about it and he said, “I don’t know what reports and speculations are surfacing on the internet. But I shall always stand by my daughter.” When asked to elaborate on that statement, he added, “That means I’ll stand by every decision she takes in her life, including her marriage. Why only Rohan Shrestha? I will not have any objection to whoever Shraddha wants to marry.”

Talking about Rohan, Shakti said, “He is a nice boy. He does come home, but he has been doing that even during his childhood. Shraddha has not told me about her plans to marry him. To me, they are still just childhood friends. I do not know if they are serious about each other.”

The Shresthas and Kapoors are said to be family friends. Confirming that, Shakti said, “I knew Rohan’s father, Rakesh Shrestha even before he became a photographer. I have not only done several photoshoots with him, but we’ve also gone out together for dinners and drinks. He is a good friend of mine.”

Sometime ago, didn’t Shakti say that he does not see Shraddha getting married for the next two-three years as she is busy with her work? Pat came the reply, “I maintain that, but with time, children grow and take their own decisions. Shraddha is doing well in her career and I am extremely proud of her. She is currently working with Ranbir Kapoor (in Luv Ranjan’s next), who is unarguably my favourite actor in today’s times. He is even my son, Siddhanth’s favourite actor.” He goes on to add, “Shraddha will choose her partner and the time when she wants to get married herself.”

Images: Ibrahim Ali Khan joins Bollywood celebs’ football team


Rachana Dubey (BOMBAY TIMES; January 19, 2021)

Saif Ali Khan’s son Ibrahim is the latest addition to the All Stars Football Club. After almost a year of staying off the field, team members were seen practising at a ground in Bandra on Sunday.

While Aparshakti Khurana, Vivian Dsena, Shashank Khaitan and photographer Rohan Shrestha returned to the ground to get back into action, Ibrahim made his official entry into the fold. Captain Abhishek Bachchan and vice-captain Ranbir Kapoor are currently away for professional commitments, but the team practiced hard in their absence.

The club members are gearing up for two charity matches, one in Dubai and the other in Bengaluru, in the next few weeks. To get in shape for it, they plan to meet at least once, every week for practice.

The squad also includes Arjun Kapoor, Aditya Roy Kapur, Kartik Aaryan, Dino Morea, Ishaan Khatter, Shoojit Sircar, brothers Armaan and Aadar Jain, Aditya Seal and Karan Deol among others.




Make sure the food is good at my wedding-Shraddha Kapoor


Actor Shraddha Kapoor laughs off rumours of her wedding saying, ‘let me know the details, I’ll also attend’
Juhi Chakraborty (HINDUSTAN TIMES; October 14, 2019)

Being a celebrity, it’s almost impossible to remain unscathed by rumours. Shraddha Kapoor got a taste of it recently when rumours about her marriage with rumoured boyfriend, celebrity photographer Rohan Shrestha, surfaced.

But, the 32-year-old is taking it quite well, and has chosen to “not react” to any such thing. “All I’ll say is that if you get to know more details, do let me know, I’ll also attend [the wedding]. Also, make sure that the food is good,” she says with a laugh.

When asked if she’s the marrying kind, Shraddha says, “This is something to think about, but I haven’t thought about it yet. I go with the flow and you never know where life will take you... so why not?”

The actor, basking in the glory of back-to-back successes of her films, Saaho and Chhichhore, has had a pretty busy year. She has been juggling the shoot of multiple films. But she’s not complaining and believes in, ‘the more the merrier’. “Everyone has their own rules and ways of working. I don’t know how I manage it all but I’m able to do it. Ever since Aashiqui 2 (2013), I’ve always juggled films. I kind of got used to it. It’s normal for me,” shares Shraddha.

While the actor has been busy with Bollywood projects, with Saaho starring Prabhas, she has branched out to the genre of pan India multilingual films. She says that she enjoyed being a part of a film, which blurred the lines of language and united the artists from different industries. “It provides actors the chance to entertain more people. The reach is more with such projects. It is very exciting for an actor and I would love to be part of such a film again,” she says.

My dreams are way bigger than the bumps that have come along the way-Shraddha Kapoor


Rachana Dubey (BOMBAY TIMES; August 17, 2019)

If the trailer of Saaho is anything to go by, the actress, with a petite frame, can pack quite a punch. Shraddha Kapoor, who was loved and appreciated for films like Aashiqui 2 (2013), Haider (2014), Ek Villain (2014), ABCD 2 (2015) and Baaghi (2016), experienced a downslide when a few releases didn’t click at the box office. But things turned around for her with the release of Stree (2018). She now knows how to celebrate the highs and handle the lows, and today, she’s ready to sink her teeth into roles that challenge her physically and emotionally. Excerpts from a conversation:

During the launch of Saaho’s trailer recently, you said that,‘Mera shareer dard karta hai... I have been shooting continuously.’ Would that aptly describe the last three years of your life?
(Smiles) I don’t know if it would define the last two-three years, but the truth is that I am exhausted. This year alone has been full of hard work and physically-exhausting films. It’s also been amazing because I have had a chance to be a part of some really cool films and play distinct characters. So, the exertion is totally worth it.

You are making your debut in Telugu cinema with Saaho. What was the first brush with Southern cinema like?
I met the team for a reading session in Hyderabad before the shoot commenced. That was the first time I met Prabhas. The meeting ended with all of us hanging out together over some amazing food, and that proved to be the best icebreaker. Prabhas is very kind and gentle, and he made sure I was comfortable from the word go. The rest fell into place gradually.

Saaho’s trailer offers a glimpse of the action scenes you’ve done in the film. You had expressed the desire to go all out and do some action scenes even in Baaghi, but we didn’t see any of that. Have you had your fill with this film?
(Laughs!) Yes! Honestly, the action scenes are so hard on the body. You wish you had trained for them for at least ten years before shooting. You are required to run, kick and punch, which requires a lot of strength. You can’t suddenly do these things, and make it appear like you’ve been doing it for years. It takes a lot of practice to develop that kind of strength, which makes you look sharp and comfortable while performing these scenes. With my limited prep and rehearsal time, I’ve tried my best to make it seem like going after the bad guys is a cakewalk for Amrita Nair (Shraddha’s character in Saaho).

You shot Saaho over the last two years while juggling Remo D’Souza’s next Street Dancer 3D, in which you play a dancer. Considering the fact that both the roles were physically demanding, it must have been extremely tiring? How did you cope up with it?
Oh, yes, it was! I was working on Street Dancer, which was just as physically draining as Saaho, but in a different manner. I suffered more bruises on the sets of Street Dancer than Saaho. Fingers, toes, muscles, neck, shoulder, wrists… I had injuries everywhere. There are so many rigorous dance forms, and the schedules were so demanding. The good part is that I love action and dance equally, and neither is easy. But yes, it’s rewarding when you see the end result on the big screen.

Today, being an actor is not easy. Besides facing the camera, there are various other things like promotions, social media presence, attending events, etc., that are now a part of the package. Most artistes, in different ways, have spoken about the struggle the profession entails. What have been your struggles, and how have you dealt with them?
Our profession requires a lot of effort, but people don’t get to see that. They see the final product, but not the labour that goes into it. In most cases, it’s actually more difficult for women. For instance, our call time is always before everyone else’s. It takes longer for us to get our hair, makeup and costumes done, and then to get out of it. That itself adds extra hours to our day, averaging to about 14 hours. You have to love this profession to be able to do this tirelessly day after day, and make it look easy and fun. It’s been my childhood dream to be an actor, and now that I am one, I love every bit of the work I do. In the last two years, I’ve not had much time to unwind, and I know I need to take some time off. But I am a workaholic, who loves being on a film set more than taking off on a holiday. I was exhausted on the day we wrapped up Street Dancer, and I could only think of chilling with my folks. But after three days, with not much to do, I was restless and wanted to go back to a set. You can feel all battered and tired at work, but staying away makes me realise just how much I love being in front of a camera, and how badly I miss it. Breaks are very important to improve your output as a professional, but I think that I work much better with no breaks.

There was a phase between Aashiqui 2 (2013) and Baaghi (2016) when you spent a lot of time shuttling between sets, doing everything from lead roles to special appearances, and most of it had worked. Rock On 2 (2016) flagged off a phase where your films didn’t work at the box office, until last year when Stree released. As an actor, have you wisened up?
I don’t know about that, but I would credit my father (Shakti Kapoor) for this beautiful phase that I am in right now. He is the reason Saaho came my way. The makers called my father and asked him if they could meet me. Dad urged me to do Saaho because he liked the script. He also played a big part in my decision to take up Chhichhore. I often discuss the scripts that come to me with him, and usually, take up whatever he feels will work for me because his cinema sensibilities are fantastic. Today, I feel privileged to have a varied line-up as each film has something different to offer.

During the phase when your films were not working at the box office, what kept you going?
It takes some effort not to let anything affect you. My dreams are way bigger than the bumps that have come along the way, and bigger than the hurdles that I’ve faced. People conveniently forget that I didn’t have a cushy launch pad or someone backing me when I started my career. My journey into the business has been like that of an outsider despite being an industry kid. I was rejected at auditions, and people didn’t want to work with me. That was a challenging and hard phase right at the beginning of my career, but it was worth it. I wanted to be in this profession so badly that I held on to it with all my might. After Aashiqui 2, I barely got a break. For me, 2019 has been full of challenges, too. I had dengue in September, which hit me so hard that I couldn’t even walk. When I joined the cast of Street Dancer and Saaho after it, I thought, ‘How am I going to do this?’ To my surprise, these films worked like a rehab for me; they ensured that I get better. The greatest healers are the people and things you love to be surrounded by. Being on a set is therapeutic for me, and being with my family has the same effect. Yes, it hurt me that some of my films, like Rock On 2 (2016) and Ok Jaanu (2017), didn’t work, but I loved them nonetheless.

While your sudden exit from Saina Nehwal’s biopic benefited Parineeti Chopra, Katrina Kaif’s exit from Street Dancer got you aboard the project. Are actresses really that easy to replace? And does this game of musical chairs in the casting space affect your equation with your colleagues?
Sometimes things just happen. I wanted to do the Saina Nehwal biopic, but I couldn’t resume work on it after a few days of shooting. I was unwell, and that impacted the project in a big way. When I got back on my feet, I had also become a part of Street Dancer. I wanted to do both the films, but that was not an option. It would have been unfair to make a filmmaker wait for me, so I opted out of Saina’s biopic. Parineeti and I even spoke about it and we were cool with it. Few would know that Pari was the first choice for that film. The project was meant for her and the universe just made it happen. While I haven’t spoken to or met Katrina in recent times, I feel she’s an amazing dancer and a very cool actor. I am grateful to her for Street Dancer. Whatever was her reason for exiting the film, I became a part of it because of her; I landed a chance to reunite with my ABCD 2 family. So, it’s a misconception that replacing an actor or getting replaced will mean that one of us will hold a grudge against the other. There is enough work for us to make a mark, and we all bring our distinct qualities to the characters we play. Against perception, we’re all fairly appreciative of each other’s work. People can gossip all they want, but there’s no trouble there.

While you’ve been working on one film after another, you have also consciously made the effort to spend time with your family. Your father often shares pictures from your family vacations on Instagram...
I hope I am giving them enough time. Over the years, I have realised that it’s your family you need to be with as much as possible. No matter how much time you give them, it feels like you’ve never done enough. In the last year or so, I have taken out time to be with my dad, mom (Shivangi) and brother (Siddhanth) because valuing your family is important. They are the only ones who will be with you, come what may. We will be planning another holiday soon.

There is talk that you are in a relationship with photographer Rohan Shrestha, though your dad has denied it...
I think the lesser said the better. No matter what I say, when it comes to my personal life, something different comes out. So, right now, let’s put it this way… I only have time for work and nothing else. I’m looking forward to starting Baaghi 3 next month.

Inside details from Deepika Padukone-Ranveer Singh's wedding: A perfect blend of North and South

Ranveer Singh and Deepika Padukone
Nayandeep Rakshit and Hiren Kotwani (DNA; November 16, 2018)

Bollywood’s ‘it’ couple Deepika Padukone and Ranveer Singh solemnised their relationship amidst much fanfare at The CastaDiva Resort and Spa overlooking Lake Como in Italy.

THE NORTH-INDIAN WEDDING

RANVEER DANCED ALL ALONG
For the Anand Karaj yesterday morning, the Padukones reached the venue early to welcome the groom and baaraatis. True to a North Indian-style wedding, the ceremony was a lot of fun. Ranveer and his baaraatis arrived dancing to dhol and music.

The ladkewaale made a dashing entry, grooving to Anil Kapoor and Govinda’s chartbuster tracks. Ranveer was in his element, jiving to Meri Pant Bhi Sexy, Tamma Tamma and My Name Is Lakhan playing out loud in the background.

MATCHING OUTFITS FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM
The lovebirds complemented each other and wore shades of the same colour. While DP picked a beautiful red Sabyasachi outfit for the occasion, hubby Ranveer matched her dress sporting a pinkish red Indian ensemble by the same designer. The two families were also dressed in shades of red and pink. The ladkewaale sported pink turbans. The Padmaavat actor’s friend and photographer Rohan Shrestha along with director Nitya Mehra (of Baar Baar Dekho fame) were among the 40 guests that were present at the occasion.

THE SINDHI PLATTER
The Bhavnanis planned a lavish buffet for the guests at the ceremony. The menu included popular Sindhi delicacies like dal pakwan, sindhi kadhi-chawal, sev barfi and others.

THE SOUTH-INDIAN WEDDING

KEEPING IT CLASSY
For the traditional Konkani-style wedding on November 14, which started at 8 am and concluded at 2 pm, Ranveer’s family wore white-and-ivory outfits while the groom was dressed in a mundu (a traditional outfit) in the same shades. Meanwhile, Dippy’s side sported the traditional red-and-gold combination. The actress looked resplendent in an ethnic red, white and gold sari.

As per tradition, the bride had to walk from her villa to the mandap where the rituals were being performed. “While Deepika was doing so, songstress Shubha Mudgal delivered a live performance. DP looked like a vision in her bridal attire and Shubha’s booming voice lent a surreal feel to the proceedings,” says our source.

COLOUR CODES FOR THE GUESTS
Reportedly, the couple gave their guests different colour codes for all the ceremonies. While the actress is known for her drop-dead gorgeous looks, the guests were heard saying that they hadn’t seen a more beautiful bride than Deepika. “Even though the atmosphere was of complete joy and happiness all around, there were several moments when Deepika got emotional,” adds our source.

FOR THE LOVE OF COFFEE
Like most Indian shaadis, the families took great care about what was being served on the menu. Our khabri mentions, “Deepika loves filter coffee, so she made sure packets of the same were taken from Bengaluru. The beverage was served for the guests daily during breakfast and all the ceremonies.” Even the food served at the wedding was a traditional Mangalorean affair and chefs were specially flown down from the town in Karnataka for the same. “The Padukones ensured that the guests got a taste of their culture. So, they were presented delicacies like Mangalorean gatti, jaggery payasam, and Deepika’s favourite rasam rice. It was a traditional affair comprising a sit-down lunch where the guests were served on banana leaves. Even local Italian waiters, who were hired to serve at the couple’s wedding ceremonies, were trained about the cuisines. For instance, while serving rasam or payasam, they would describe the dish to the invitees,” informs the source.

THE VENUE WAS A CLOSELY-GUARDED SECRET
Both DP and RS wanted their wedding to be an intimate affair. “The place where the mandap was built and the duo exchanged vows was in a different resort, which was a little away from the venue where the Bhavnanis and Padukones were staying. This place is a short distance away from George Clooney’s property. Even the guests weren’t aware about the actual venue. Early morning, they were transported to the resort via speed boats,” reveals our source. The Anand Karaj also took place at the same venue yesterday from 8 am onwards.

THE JODI WILL BE BACK IN THE BAY TOMORROW
Both the families stayed in a private resort that had been booked for four days. Says a source, “The CastaDiva Resort and Spa was completely booked for the wedding, from November 13 to November 17. After the wedding ceremonies, the families will celebrate and relax for the next two days, before flying back to India.”


(Clockwise): Ranveer’s family arrives at the venue for the Konkani wedding; Deepika’s father Prakash Padukone; The Padmaavat actor with his family during the ceremony; and The actress’ family

I’ve never focused on the results-Shraddha Kapoor

Shraddha Kapoor
Hiren Kotwani (DNA; September 17, 2018)

The spark in Shraddha Kapoor’s eyes is unmistakable. The actress is justifiably upbeat because she is fresh off the back of her superhit outing Stree and has Batti Gul Meter Chalu (BGMC), which releases this Friday. “For every film I do, I focus on giving it my 110 per cent and hope people will go to watch it and be entertained,’’ the light-eyed beauty says when we catch up with her for a tête-à-tête. She also tells us about her upcoming films, sweating it out for her turn as Saina Nehwal in the national badminton champ’s on-screen memoir, rumours of a link-up with photographer Rohan Shrestha, and more. Excerpts...

The success of Stree must have come as a career boost after your films last year didn’t fare too well...
I’ve never focussed on the results. Hits and misses are not in your hands. When a movie succeeds, it feels great. At the same time, I can’t be complacent about it. I have to keep working hard and do the best I can. I find it shocking yet amazing that Stree has become a blockbuster. I had hoped for it to do well, but didn’t know it would be such a huge hit.

Your next release is BGMC. What was your first reaction to the script?
My first reaction was, ‘Wow!’ The content is so special. It’s a well-written story on a prevalent issue about how power companies can affect big as well as smaller towns. This is the first time I’ve been offered something with a social connect. I had loved Shree Narayan Singh’s Toilet - Ek Prem Katha, which conveyed an important message in an entertaining manner without being preachy.

How was it working with Shahid Kapoor again after Haider?
It was a great experience — especially on something that is so different from our first film together. Haider was an adaptation of William Shakespeare’s play, while this is a socially-relevant subject. It was great to explore this genre with Shahid. Having worked with him in the past, there was a comfort level that helped us essay our parts effortlessly.

Tell us about your experience of shooting in a small town like Tehri where the comforts you’re used to are not available easily.
As a matter of fact, I don’t want things to be available easily. I also need a good dose of nature every now and then to keep me calm. Uttarakhand is such a fabulous place that you feel you’re in heaven because there are no crowds, traffic and constant honking. I didn’t want the shoot to end. I just wanted to stay there and disconnect from everything. After the shoot or on a day off, I would sit in my balcony and lose myself to nature for hours. Even as a shot would be readied, I would take off to look around. I felt I needed it.

What was your greatest takeaway from a socially-relevant film like Batti Gul Meter Chalu (BGMC)?
As an actor, I felt it was a great opportunity to be a part of a film that can stimulate Indians’ thinking about issues in the country today. If people connect with this movie, it will make a big difference.

What scope does your Lalita 'Nauti' Nautiyal have in a story that revolves around Shahid's character?
BGMC is as much the story of the two friends as it is of Shahid’s Sushil Kumar Pant and how an important issue affects one of them. Lalita has a strong conscience from the beginning, she never approves Sushil’s ways or the fact that he is a kapti lawyer. She stands for what she believes is right and wants to fight for justice for their friend.

You also have Saaho with Baahubali star Prabhas coming up...
It’s also my first bilingual project. It’s a challenging film because, after every scene in Hindi, I have to do it in Telugu, which I have never spoken before. I would spend hours mugging my lines. It’s amazing working with a director and a team who are so passionate about cinema. I haven’t done a movie or a role like this before. And, of course, working with Prabhas is a great experience.

One hasn’t heard much about the biopic on Saina Nehwal since its announcement. What’s happening on that front?
It’s going on floors this month and I’m eagerly waiting to put my best foot forward. I feel badminton is the second most difficult sport after basketball. It’s a huge challenge to play the sport professionally, like Saina. When you see her in action on the court, she is in a fast forward mode. It’s an extremely rigorous and exhausting task and I’m giving it all I can.

Usually, actors working in onscreen memoirs only focus on that project. Did prepping for this one get tougher since you had alluring subjects like Stree and BGMC?
There are no rules for prepping for a bio. Every actor has their own way of working. You know the director’s vision and you have to come up with the best possible way to do justice to it. Since last year, I’ve been practising badminton off and on. Even on days that I wasn’t shooting, I would train in the mornings.

According to the grapevine, photographer Rohan Shrestha is the man in your life. Is that true?
I’m not bothered by link-up rumours. It’s the part and parcel of being an actor. I’m happy focussing on acting. It would be a cliché to say that I’m married to my work and films. I will just say that I don’t want to speak about my personal life.

We start Saina Nehwal biopic next month-Shraddha Kapoor


Shraddha Kapoor on following the Asiad, taking badminton lessons, ghostly experiences and plans of coming up with a book someday
Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; August 28, 2018) 

Saina Nehwal created history on Monday by bagging the first individual medal for India in 36 years in women’s badminton at the ongoing Asian Games, taking home a bronze, even as fellow shuttler P V Sindhu moves into the fi nals, assuring herself of at least a silver.

Back home, Shraddha Kapoor who has two releases coming up in quick succession — the horror-comedy Stree which opens this Friday, followed by the social drama, Batti Gul Meter Chalu, on September 21 — doesn’t have the time to watch matches on TV but is clued into the score in Jakarta as badminton is a part of her life now. She plays Saina in Amole Gupte’s upcoming biopic which rolls in September.

“It’s a difficult sport, very challenging, but I’m enjoying myself. I’ve already taken 38–40 classes, but there’s still a long way to go which is why even though we start filming next month, we will shoot the badminton scenes only early next year,” informs the actress, who has already impressed her director with her sincerity and commitment.

She’s already at home in Hyderabad, thanks to her Hindi–Telugu bilingual, Saaho, admitting that working in two languages has been a novel experience for her. “We take a shot in Hindi or Telugu, then repeat it, in the other language. It’s like shooting two films simultaneously,” she shares.

For Shraddha, the fact that Telugu is not a language she is familiar with makes the job tougher. “I have been badgering the director, Sujeeth, who’s very bright, to explain the meaning of every dialogue because I don’t want to rely on placards and prompters as that breaks your chain of thought and emotions,” she says, adding, she could say her lines in her sleep so didn’t have to worry about what she was saying on the set and could focus on how she’d say it.

Quiz her on her co-star, Prabhas, and she describes him as one of the simplest people she has ever met. “It’s such a beautiful thing for someone who is such a huge star!” she exclaims, saying that it’s their simplicity and that they are so ‘real’ that sets both Prabhas and Rajkummar Rao, her Stree hero, apart from the rest.

Shraddha hasn’t met any ghosts for real but when she was a child, her building started shaking just when she was about to get into bed. “It was terrifying! Mom (Shivangi) hurried me out of the room and we all stood under a beam till the shaking stopped. Later I learnt that an earthquake had hit Mumbai,” she reminisces.

On another occasion, an old chauffeur, was at the wheel one night when he accidentally drove over a divider. “The car toppled to one side with me in the back seat. Through the window I saw people running towards it. They dragged us out. I was badly shaken but unhurt while our driver suffered a minor injury. The incident still gives me the shivers,” she shudders, fear writ large on her face. Did producer Dinesh Vijan and director Amar Kaushik frighten her on the sets? “On the contrary, they were the comedy part of the horror comedy,” she laughs. “Stree was a refreshing change from the films I’ve done in the past and the energy was very positive. Thank God they came to me with this role.”

There was talk of nightmares during the Chanderi shoot of Stree but Shraddha is quick to dismiss them, saying there were nights when she couldn’t sleep and the eerie silence of a small town which even in the day did not have the bustle of a metropolis, added to the restlessness. “That’s when your mind starts playing tricks on you, more so because you are filming a story about ghosts. I’m not sure if spirits exist but I do believe that we are surrounded by energies, good and bad. It’s best to let them be and not intrude into their space,” she says.

So, how did she deal with the jitters when in Chanderi, you wonder, and she surprises you by admitting that she would get out of bed and start writing. “I pen down snatches of poetry… Musings about life and the world around,” she admits shyly, adding that in Chanderi she often rhapsodised about the cobbled paths, the unbelievably starry nights, the bright colours of the saris and the craftsmanship. “I brought a couple of saris for myself, some for my mom, friend, aunts and even the extended family like Lata ji, Asha ji and all the Mangeshkar sisters,”she reveals. Any plans of coming out with a book someday, like Twinkle Khanna, Sonali Bendre, Divya Dutta and Shilpa Shetty, and she murmurs, “I will. I even have a title in mind, Reflections.”

Meanwhile, back in Mumbai, Shraddha has bought a place of her own but has no plans of moving in. “It’s next door to our home and a place to chill, read scripts, paint and write,” she says, happy to be back with her family and friends like photographer Rohan Shrestha. “I’ve known Rohan for the last nine years. He and I connect on a spiritual level. It’s good to spend time with the family. I love the beautiful world of films, but it’s also good to get away from this world of make-believe occasionally. I just got back from a family vacation. Hopefully, we will get to go away again in December and bring in the New Year together,” she says.

Shraddha Kapoor is my best friend; we are extraordinarily similar-Rohan Shrestha


Priya Gupta (BOMBAY TIMES; August 1, 2014)

Rohan Shrestha, 29, is sensitive, trusting of people and romanticises life to the extent of being naïve at times. Over an hourlong conversation in his Aram Nagar studio, he talks to Bombay Times about what it takes to become a photographer, life after his mother's unexpected death and why Shraddha Kapoor is his best friend. Excerpts:

Was photography the obvious career choice for you?
It was, but I didn't want the obvious choice, so I was trying other things till I was 18. I actually wanted to be a pilot. I loved photography regardless, but it comes with a price if you are the son of a person (his father is Rakesh Shrestha), who is so big in the industry in terms of the expectations. I started by shooting travel, as my parents would let me travel independently right from when I was a kid. My first trip on my own was with my cousin to Nepal at the age of 10. After Class XII, I was sitting at home and doing basically nothing. I used to play football, had no life and would just spend time with my girlfriend. All my friends had a plan, but I did not. Photography was my last choice. I had not been a Bollywood kind of kid. A lot of stars including Shah Rukh Khan and Aamir Khan came home, but I never watched Bollywood movies and never hung out with stars. I was a bit of those nerdy, geeky kids not interested and not struck by either movies or stars. So I started assisting my dad, but for one year I did not like it at all. Then my dad once took me to Dubai to shoot Celina Jaitly and due to the travel, I started liking it.

Talk about a photographer's life?
Being a photographer involves networking, creativity, spending time with oneself ideating, understand the craft in terms of lighting, it involves constant research and the ability to keep up with technology. You can't just sit back and let competition pass you by.

Talk about your father Rakesh Shrestha?
My dad is inspiring at some points, but also strict. He is precise and inflexible in his ways. He does understand my point of view now, but while growing up, it was a little more steadfast. He is very disciplined and strict with timings. He finds me to be messy, but I know that there is organisation is my mess. I love him of course, but I can't be told what to do. While I was growing up, my dad used to travel a lot. He would be out of India for months, so communication was not ideal. My mom too was an airhostess with Air India, so actually I grew up with my maternal grandparents. I used to keep calling my dad and ask him to come home. It was very difficult as I was a single kid and with both dad and mum not at home, I spent most of the time with the maid watching TV. I wanted the attention of my parents and hated it then. Today, in hindsight, I can understand what the life of a photographer entails, but, at that time, I grudged him that. My mum was a fiercely independent lady and so was my dad and that is a part of me as well and today, I cherish that. My parents had the craziest relationship when they started, as my dad did not know English and she was a Goan who did not know Hindi. Their's was a very romanticized love where even though their parents were furiously against their wedding, they somehow managed. Professionally, I am steadfast when it comes to the creative part of my job like my dad. If I have an idea, no matter who I am working with, I will go ahead with that. I have learnt that from him that in photography you need to stand by your beliefs. Bollywood is a tough place. At the end of the day, you can be replaced. If you are successful, people talk to you and are your friends but when you are not, they are not. He has taught me to be very grounded in the industry. He has given me a platform and just wants me to do quality work and make my money. While my dad was hardcore glamour, I also do other kinds of photography but anything I know about photography, I pretty much have learnt from him.

Which stars do you consider your friends?
Shraddha Kapoor is my best friend. Ranveer Singh is someone I have grown up with. She is the first person I worked with. She is unabashed and we both are extraordinarily similar. We are both scuba divers. She too is emotional, highly sensitive and is as vulnerable as me and she too had it hard like me. We have travelled together and talk almost everyday. I have known Ranveer since I was four as we both went to the same school Learner's Academy and I acted in a play in which he was the lead. I love his energy and the fact that he is very loyal. He stands by his friends and the people he works with. He almost quit a film, as they did not want his hair stylist. Ranveer is a serious loyalist.

Talk about your mother Jean?
I had been an introverted child and it is my mother who helped me become the person I am today. I loved her the most in the world and I have always been very close to only her. It's not like I was not close to my dad but with him the relationship was more man-to-man but not intense. My mom was my best friend. When I was 13, she took a 7-year sabbatical due to her health reasons which is when we became really tight like a typical mom-son. To see your mum suffering is a very hard thing on a child. You make a choice to either help or not. I got attached to her during that period when I helped her and she got out of it. And then she went back to work in 2006 and again went into the same medical condition. She had medical complications and was going back and forth healthwise, but her death in 2009 was not expected. She was 50 when she died and was beautiful. She was everything to me. At the end of it, I grudged myself more than my dad as I regretted not having spent as much time with her. I went into a shell post her dying. I was a late bloomer and did not have a social life till 22. So, it was at 24 that I started discovering things like going to clubs and other such things which is when she died. I had also been very protected as a child and would not be allowed to go out alone. But then I had a girlfriend and started going out. It was hard for her as dad was fully working. Her death jolted him massively and he quit immediately after her death. He became a completely different person and is very emotional now. Before that, he was a rock and stone-hearted. I know he was a loving father, but after 2009 he became my father and mother. I took it with a pinch of salt as no one can replace my mother for me. Today, we understand each other a lot more, but at that time I was rebellious with him and would not talk to him.

Your father has remarried post your mother's death. Have you reconciled to that?
I was not the happiest, but I reconciled to it. I am happy about the person he chose. I supported his decision as we had a very long conversation about it and respect the fact that he came and talked to me and had a one-on-one conversation before he took that decision. He said to me, 'Look Rohan, I have to do this as I am in love again. I also have to look at it from the point of view of my future as I know at some point you will move out.' Which was true as I was thinking that time of going to New York and living over there for a while. That would have anyways taken a toll on me as I would have felt guilty had I left my dad alone and gone. Even though I had wanted to study abroad earlier, I could not have as my mum had not been well. And I know at the end of the day, he has found happiness. I lived in New York for five months last year and loved it. I have just started dating someone and am looking forward to living independently .

Any regrets in life?
Had my mother been alive, she would have corrected my partying and my relationship issues. My first relationship ended as I became heavily dependent on my first girlfriend after my mom died. I did my first independent shoot on May 22, 2009. She died on July 31. My first magazine cover released exactly one day after she died.

The two most beautiful actresses I have shot are Aishwarya and Rekhaji-Rakesh Shrestha


Priya Gupta (BOMBAY TIMES; July 27, 2014)

Rakesh Shrestha has been a top film photographer, who has shot for over 600 films and every superstar in his time. He lost his wife Jean, whom he loved the most in the world in 2009, post which he has completely slowed down and now works minimally. He is emotional, but does not show it. But what he does flaunt is his health freakiness and his principles that he lives by. He always remains happy and is a fighter. Over an hour-long conversation in his son Rohan Shrestha's Aaram Nagar swanky studio, he opens up to Bombay Times about his first shoot with Neetu Singh, the knowledge able Rekha and how he considers Aishwarya Rai Bachchan the most beautiful actress that he has shot ever. Excerpts:

What made you take up photography?
We are originally from Nepal, but brought up in Mumbai. I am a Commerce graduate and so used to handle the accounts for a colour lab in my building. Seeing them process prints was really fascinating. We had a family business of trading in saffron, but I told my dad that I was not interested. My dad bought me a shop at the Oberoi, where we would take up projects for processing pictures. I used to work a lot with the consulates. On one occasion, the Arabs needed their urgent passport size pictures. I bought a camera costing just Rs 500 at Fountain and clicked them. Can you imagine way back in 1981, I charged them Rs 1000 for a passport picture and they happily paid for it? I used to rip them apart, but my service was always instant. Money was never a problem for me. I know how to make, multiply and invest money. If I am spending eight hours a day , it is my priority to ensure that I am making enough money. And that has always been my priority. Also, my relationship with each of my clients was long term. I started shooting with this cheap camera and when I saw the results, that too, without assisting anyone or without any formal training, I felt that I could do it. Oberoi was the only nightclub place in Mumbai at that time. So, seeing other glamour photographers' work, I realised that I can also do it. On Diwali day randomly, I landed on the set of the film Raj Mahal, as the producer was a Nepali, where Vinod Khanna and Neetu Singh were shooting. I hated the culture of just endlessly standing in the heat waiting to shoot the star. Later, I had shot Sharon Prabhakar for one of the magazine covers, which a film editor liked and she asked me to shoot Neetu Singh for the cover. And there started my ordeal.

Everyday I would land up on her set at Mehboob Studio and park myself there. While I did not get to shoot her, Neetuji saw me and just to get rid of me, she said, 'You come to Borivali tomorrow. I am shooting there.' I understood that she was not going to be in Borivali and just wanted me out of that place. Next day, instead of going to Borivali, I again went to Mehboob Studio and found her there. She finally felt guilty and told me, 'I will give you two minutes and then you just get out.' I had come without a camera not knowing for sure whether she was there or not. I ran back to my house, my hand shaking to bring my camera so that I would not lose the opportunity to shoot her. She gave me two minutes and I captured her different moods. Ethically I needed to show those pictures to her and offered the same, but Neetuji said, 'No, I don't want to see them.' Luckily, my picture was selected and Neetuji was on the film magazine cover. I felt that I would have to do another course to shoot filmstars, given their temperament. But after that day, I never looked back. Neetuji would call me on her set and I became her favourite photographer. Through her, I also met so many other stars. I have worked with all the stars at that time, but I really respect Neetu Singh. She is a fan tastic human being and a great soul. For me, the only thing that matters is how good a human being you are. She is very sensible and normal. She is the only one who is family-wise successful from that batch. I also have a lot of respect for Rekhaji. I love her a lot and as a photographer, I can tell you that she has great knowledge. Can you imagine she does her own makeup, styling and lighting? And then, Padmini Kolhapureji came into my life and I was really close to her.

Did you enjoy working with stars?
I have always backed underdogs. But the moment they become stars, I would say, 'Jai Ramji ki', as there are other newcomers waiting in queue. I have my own funda. I have never told anyone that I am very busy and don't have time. I always had time for the whole world. I believe that if a successful man has time for everyone in the whole world, he will never go wrong. Only people who don't value time, say, 'I have no time.' I never wear a watch, but have never been late. I was very hard-working, grounded and normal. Use me as much as you want, but don't misuse me. I make stars very comfortable while shooting, but I will not take your tantrums. As a star, you have to give me 100% just as I am giving 100%. Don't tell me that you have a hangover. I have worked with all the top stars, but would return who had not come prepared. In our film industry, the most challenging thing is how to live a simple and normal life. Stars cannot handle the success, power fame and money and that too, when it comes together. I always like to remain as a middle-class man and that is the way I am happy. It is my conscious effort to not get socially involved with film stars, as I cannot have their kind of lifestyle. And so to keep me going, I need to have different kinds of friends. With due respect, I am just a photographer. I know them all but they are not my friends. They have a lot of insecurity.

Which do you consider the most beautiful actress that you have shot in your career?
The two most beautiful stars (cosmetically) I have shot are Aishwarya and Rekhaji.

Who do you love the most in the world?
My wife Jean, who died in 2009. Her father was the Deputy Commissioner of Police and she was a Catholic. She was instrumental in my success. The whole day I used to work from 9 am to 11 at night, but she would be waiting for me endlessly. She used to love me immensely and taught me patience. We had a nice cosy family, but nazar lag gayee. She had a physical and mental problem. Emotionally as a girl, she felt insecure. Any girl would be. I would tell her, 'You beat me up, but I can't leave my work.' We used to go for holidays only to sleep for 16 hours. All the glamorous women around me did not affect me, but it affected her for sure. My romance was always hidden and so she always chased me to demonstrate my love more to her. She liked my sense of humour and the way I handled people. I wish she was alive to see my Rohan's (his son Rohan Shrestha) success. Her life revolved around him.

Talk about your son Rohan Shrestha?
I am not a strict father, but I will always tell him you cannot buy peace of mind and health at a shopping mall. You have to create it yourself. And this is where I want him to be disciplined. I tell him, 'You party, but also sleep.' Rohan is more emotional and sensitive than me though he is also not demonstrative. He will hide his day-to-day problems even though I know. As a photographer I can face read. I like that he is affectionate with people and highly car ing. I don't know whether he will be paid back emotionally, so he is vulnerable. I am . more practical. I find him messy and not as organised. Post my wife's death, he said to me, 'We will be together and live together for all our lives.' But I only told him, 'Once you have your own life, your own money, live by yourself.' We brought him up like that only. We would keep every thing outside and he would make his own breakfast and go to school. We only have the man-to-man discussions. I know that he will 100% be with me, but I know that if , I keep a distance he will be closer. I got remarried last year to Pooja. She is from Delhi, was an airhostess in Air India and is much younger to me. Before getting married, I took Rohan's consent. I may be his father, but would not take that liberty. He needs to be comfortable, otherwise I would not have got married. I am very happy and the word 'regret' does not exist in my dictionary. My life's first and only priority is Rohan's happiness. I don't want anything from him. I just want him to remain happy in life.