Showing posts with label Rati Agnihotri. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rati Agnihotri. Show all posts

It was a surreal moment, my mother cried when she heard it's a baby girl-Tanuj Virwani

It was the most surreal experience: Tanuj Virwani on his daughter’s birth

Tanvi Trivedi (BOMBAY TIMES; September 26, 2024)

Actor Tanuj Virwani and his wife Tanya Jacob have been blessed with a baby girl on September 24. Tanuj, who is extremely happy and on cloud nine, said, "The delivery was smooth. I was with her throughout, and the entire process was incredible. Tanya was in pain but she behaved like a champ and she braved it all. The moment was surreal and witnessing the entire process in real time was incredible. No matter how much you build these happy moments and when you actually go through it you realise it's an incredible blessing."

The couple hasn't thought of any names yet. Tanuj added, "We look at the janamkundli before deciding the name. The last one year has been great. This year, last time, I wasn't even married and now I am a father so it is a beautiful start to a new chapter of our lives."

Sharing how his mom, actress Rati Agnihotri reacted, Tanuj said, "She was crying with tears in her eyes. She is completely over the moon and happy to become a grandmother."

Tanuj in an earlier interview had shared how he was excited to become a father soon. He said, "It was chat-mangni-pat-byaah and now we are on our way to starting a family. Honestly, I did not expect to become a father so soon, but I consider this gift as God's blessings. Tanya and I wanted to start a family right after our marriage in December and luckily, it happened. My parents, especially my mom (Rati Agnihotri), are ecstatic that she is going to become a grandmother. She could not believe it when we broke the news and even I was overwhelmed when Tanya told me about it. We are both hoping to have a happy, healthy child. We do not have any preferences."

On the work front, Tanuj was last seen hosting Splitsvilla 15 and he is currently seen in a web series Murshid with Kay Kay Menon.
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Navya Kharbanda (HINDUSTAN TIMES; September 26, 2024)

Actor-model Tanuj Virwani welcomed his first child, a daughter, with wife Tanya Jacob Virwani on Tuesday morning.

Confirming the news, the new dad says, “Both mother and daughter are healthy. It was a nice and smooth, normal delivery and everything went very well. We woke up at 4 am in the morning when her water broke and we rushed to the hospital. We’ve had quite a day today!”

Tanuj, who married Tanya in December last year shares that he was “nervous” initially. Ask if he felt the jitters during the birth and he replies: “It was the most incredible and surreal feeling in the world. You hear a lot of stories about both pregnancy and delivery from your friends and family, but it’s an unexplainable feeling when you actually experience it. When it happens, it’s incredible.”

The 37-year-old adds that his parents (mum, actor Rati Agnihotri and dad Anil Virwani) are with him at the hospital. “They just can’t believe they have become grandparents,” he tells us.

The actor also reveals that the mum and baby are expected to be home this week. “She would be discharged in about three days. It is just a precautionary measure to have both of them here. We will be back home soon,” he says.

Have the new mum and dad decided on a name for their little girl yet? “We are still deciding and discussing. We will take a call in the next couple of days,” the actor wraps up.

Entering the world of OTT was a last resort to prove myself-Tanuj Virwani

Tanuj Virwani: We shot test matches in 40 degrees in Pune

Kanksha Vasavada (BOMBAY TIMES; July 19, 2023)

On how he deals with pressure of being a star kid
There has always been pressure to live up to the name and legacy created by my mother, Rati Agnihotri, especially when I started my career. I have often been referred to as a 'Nepo Kid,' which I have never liked because my journey has been very different. My mother was not in the industry for a long time before I entered films, so it would be unfair to say that I had easy access to opportunities. However, I am glad that things are changing now. I am being recognised and cast based on my previous projects, not solely because I am my mother's son

On his mother being his biggest critic
My mother (Rati Agnihotri) is my biggest critic. She watches all my shows and films, and there have been instances where my character is loved by the audience, but my mother would be unhappy. She points out the tiniest elements that I might need to improve. And if she loves my performance, she appreciates it wholeheartedly. Actor-to-actor communication is very helpful, especially when she has so much experience that comes in handy for me

On his interest in writing and direction
I never envisioned myself becoming an actor. I was overweight and had a severe stammer, which led me to believe that I could excel in behind-the-scenes roles. So, I began working as an assistant director in movies and also wrote and directed short films. Even now, I hold onto the hope that someday I can unleash my untapped potential in storytelling and direction

On his shift from films to OTT
Entering the world of OTT was not a conscious decision for me; rather, it was somewhat of a last resort to prove myself. Despite having done three films—Luv U Soniyo (2013), Purani Jeans (2014), and One Night Stand (2016)—I was still not getting offered interesting roles. Then, unexpectedly, OTT emerged as a viable option. Back in 2016-17, this medium was not as significant as it is now. However, I consider myself fortunate to have secured projects like Inside Edge, Code M, and Cartel in the initial years, which helped me maintain relevance within the OTT realm. Presently, I aspire to take another leap and reintroduce myself to the film industry, aiming for a successful career in both domains. Several projects are in the pipeline, and I hope to conclude this year on a high note

On his love for experimenting with roles
Each project has its own process, sometimes you play with your physique or your voice depending on the character. I focus a lot on how my character should look, because I believe if the look is correct half of your battle is won. Experimenting with your character is most important for any actor, otherwise you can keep on doing the same kind of role and that’s not what I like to do. For instance, as Vayu in Inside Edge I have paced up my speech since the character is like that, and in Cartel as Major Bhau, I have brought the thehraav that my character needs. Moreover, it is important to enjoy the process, and if you fail during experimenting it’s fine, not every dart sticks to the board, at least 1 out of 10 will

When you're working on a film, you know it will have a theatrical release, appealing to the masses and potentially eliciting varied responses. However, in the case of OTT, each streaming platform caters to a distinct audience base. This understanding helps in choosing the right projects and bringing your character to life in a way that doesn't disappoint the viewers.

I believe in staying true to the roles I select because it's easy for the audience to detect fake acting. I learned early in my career the saying, ‘You start acting when you stop acting,’ and this realization came to me when I had the opportunity to work with actors like Kay Kay Menon and Vijay Raaz. Being as authentic as possible on screen is what the audience loves.

Om Puri’s swansong Khela Hobe gears up for a theatrical release on June 24

‘Were unable to release  film due to pandemic’
Om Puri with Rati Agnihotri and Sunil C Sinha

As Om Puri’s swansong Khela Hobe gears up for theatrical run, director says the movie was ready since 2019-end
Uma Ramasubramanian (MID-DAY; June 1, 2022)

Over five years after his demise, Om Puri’s swansong Khela Hobe is gearing up for release. Director Sunil C Sinha’s movie tapped into the late actor’s humorous streak, depicting him as a leader who contests elections for several years unsuccessfully, believing that he has the public’s support. 

Though Khela Hobe rolled in 2016, it was stuck in the cans for the past six years. Asked about the inordinate delay in the movie’s release, Sinha says, “We had completed post-production by the end of 2019. But due to the pandemic, we were unable to release the film in theatres.”

The project, also starring Rati Agnihotri and Mugdha Godse, is now slated to hit the marquee on June 24. The makers recently took the film to the Central Board of Film Certification (CBFC), which greenlit it, save for one change.

The writer-director says, “In the film, Om ji’s rival is a woman. The censors objected to a scene that saw him abusing her. We had to remove the dialogue.”

Rati Agnihotri meets son Tanuj Virwani after staying apart for 20 months in the pandemic


Rachana Dubey (BOMBAY TIMES; December 11, 2021)

When Tanuj Virwani dropped his mother, actress Rati Agnihotri, at the airport in March 2020, little did he know that he would not get to see her for well over a year-and-a-half. The actress was stationed in Poland with her sister during the Coronavirus pandemic. Rati recently returned home and celebrated her birthday with her son and husband yesterday.

“It has been two years since we celebrated mom’s birthday at home. It’s crazy! I had never thought that it would take this long to see my mother again in person. She was expected to return in August, but her pet needed a passport, which pushed things to September. Eventually, my aunt requested her to be around till Diwali. She only returned to Mumbai in the second week of November,” says Tanuj.

Rati says, “It has taken very long for us to be able to spend this time together. I had to set my emotions aside, looking at the way things were unfolding all over the world. Tanuj didn’t want me to travel until things got better in Mumbai, although I got vaccinated much earlier. I’ve never been away from my child for anything longer than two months; this was almost two years. I travel often, but this journey was hard on both of us and yet, a much smaller sacrifice in comparison to what so many suffered.”

On the day she returned to Mumbai, Tanuj landed at the airport to surprise his mother, who thought he was busy shooting. “I had a shoot scheduled in Banaras, but it was cancelled at the last minute, and I didn’t tell mom. I surprised her at the airport instead, and there we were, crying and smiling at the same time. She was looking tired and yet so happy. The house has suddenly gone from being a bachelors’ pad to a home. Her presence was missed. Although I wasn’t too well, we had an intimate celebration for my birthday also a few days ago. We had a good weekend at our farmhouse, too.”

Rati adds, “When I came out of the airport, I just wanted to go home and sleep in my bed. I saw my husband waiting outside and then, out of nowhere, Tanuj popped out. It became so dramatic! I was overwhelmed with emotions to see him. We went home and chatted till sunrise. I might have to travel again, but not immediately. I just want to be with my child.”

Talking about her birthday celebrations, she says, “I left the planning to Tanuj. I am not a party person, so that was out of the question. I like being with my family on birthdays. Tanuj had taken the day off for me and that’s the best present he could have given me.”

Ek Duuje Ke Liye is an evergreen love story, we felt it should be remade-Tanuj Virwani


Tanvi Trivedi (BOMBAY TIMES; July 9, 2021)

Ek Duuje Ke Liye was one of the biggest hits of the 80s. The film, which starred Kamal Haasan and Rati Agnihotri, catapulted its lead stars to instant fame. Interestingly, the latter’s son, actor Tanuj Virwani says that his family acquired the rights to Ek Duuje Ke Liye years ago.

Tanuj says, “Ek Duuje Ke Liye was a super hit film. It is an evergreen love story and a few years ago, we felt that it should be remade, so we bought the rights. The plan to remake it was in process, but I got busy with my OTT projects. As of now, the plan to make Ek Duuje Ke Liye 2 is on hold, but we plan to make it someday.”

Given his interest in remaking the film, it comes as a surprise when the actor says that he is not in favour of remaking cult movies. He says, “Honestly, I am not a fan of remakes. When a film becomes a big hit, it should be left alone. Unless you really have a great script, one should not tamper with it. I remember how a masterpiece like Shaukeen directed by the legendary Basu Chatterjee, which had my mother in an important role along with Mithun Chakraborty, Utpal Dutt and Ashok Kumar, was a big hit. Then it was remade (as The Shaukeens) and my mother had a cameo in it. While it was a good effort, I preferred the original film.”

Ask Tanuj if he is apprehensive about being compared to his mother and Kamal Haasan if he were to feature as a lead in the remake and he says, “Comparisons are a natural thing and bound to happen. Earlier, when I used to go for auditions, people knew me as Rati Agnihotri’s son and would compare me to my mother. If we remake the film, it is important that audiences connect with the script because content has changed a lot in the past 30 years and audiences’ tastes have changed, too.”

It’s like we’re playing musical chairs, when Poland lifts the lockdown, we (India) go into one-Tanuj Virwani


Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; May 19, 2021)

Actor Tanuj Virwani is relieved that his father has got his first dose of the Covid vaccine. However, he misses his mother, yesteryear actor Rati Agnihotri who has been in Poland since March 2020.

“I’m currently registered, but my number hasn’t come yet (for vaccination). Hopefully, it’ll happen soon. I’m really happy that my father has got the first dose. I can rest peacefully knowing he’s halfway there,” says Virwani.

Agnihotri has set up a bunch of restaurants with her sister in Poland and had travelled last year with her pet Stuart Little, but hasn’t been able to travel back to India owing to the restrictions.

The actor is somewhat relieved that she’s away from the worrisome situation in India.

However, Virwani is quick to mention, “That’s another major cause of concern, what’s happening in Poland. They keep announcing lockdown. I had taken time off from work and was going to fly to Poland via Germany in December last year. I wanted to spend time with mom and celebrate Christmas and New Year’s. But they suddenly went into this massive lockdown. It’s like we’re playing musical chairs, when they lift their lockdown, we (India) go into one.”

It has been almost 14 months since the actor and his mom have met. “Now she can’t come back, but I’m happy she’s there because I don’t want her here with the way things are in India right. It’s a worrying situation,” admits Virwani.

Noting how uncertainty and rising cases of Coronavirus in Mumbai are troubling, he adds, “It’s bad enough that I’ve to be troubled about one parent, I don’t have to worry much about both. When Poland has five to ten thousand cases in a day, they put a lockdown. It’s better to panic in this situation and be doubly careful,” concludes the Inside Edge actor.

The name of the series is The Tattoo Murders only in India; in other countries, it released as Kamathipura-Tanuj Virwani


After playing an all-black antagonist in The Tattoo Murders, Tanuj Virwani says he wants to attempt a full-fledged comedy
Letty Mariam Abraham (MID-DAY; May 18, 2021)

He is a star son, but Tanuj Virwani takes pride in having paved his own way in the big, bad world of showbiz. The actor is enjoying the reactions to two back-to-back projects in The Tattoo Murders that sees him as a ruthless baddie, and Murders Meri Jaan. In a candid chat with mid-day, Virwani talks about playing the antagonist for the first time in the Tattoo Murders and his desire to attempt comedy after a spate of serious roles.

Edited excerpts from the interview.

Why was the series’ name changed from Kamathipura?
Some sections of the society had a problem with the title. They thought we were depicting Kamathipura and the sex workers in a negative light, which is not true. To avoid controversies, Disney+ Hotstar decided to change the title to The Tattoo Murders. However, the name is only changed in India; it dropped in other countries as Kamathipura.

Is it risky to take up the role of an antagonist when you’ve yet to establish yourself as a leading man?
Digital entertainment gives you freedom to take such risks. Luckily, my line-up of projects includes hero-centric and massy projects, so I didn’t mind dabbling in this. I often attempt different characters and see how people respond to them. When you are fronting a project, there is a lot more responsibility on you. In The Tattoo Murders, the principal character is played by Meera Chopra. [The creative freedom due to lack of pressure] allowed me to give a more gutsy performance. Unlike in Inside Edge, there is a box, and I must operate within it.

What drew you to this project?
After wrapping up Code M, I was in the midst of Inside Edge 3 and was to follow it up with Cartel. With all these shows, the onus [of their success] lay on me. So, I wanted to do something different. I liked the narration of The Tattoo Murders, and where my character eventually ends up. I look up to George Clooney and Brad Pitt — they are popular because they are leading actors as well as the world’s best character actors. They will shine bright, no matter whether they are in an ensemble drama or solo project. That’s the kind of balance I want in my career.

Tell us about your other series, Murder Meri Jaan.
It’s a detective drama with a mix of rom-com. I essay the role of a serious poker-faced ACP — almost like Abhishek Bachchan from Dhoom — who is chasing a con girl who has lured over 19 men into a fake marriage, and ran away with their money. I fall in love with her without realising that she is the culprit I’ve been chasing. It was shot over a start-to-finish schedule in Bhopal.

Are you getting typecast with dark, serious roles?
Mumbai Meri Jaan is lighter in tone compared to the other projects I am doing. I see it as my holiday project where I can have fun with my character. I want to try an out-and-out comedy because I enjoy the genre and have never got the chance to attempt it. I hope I get more such opportunities in the future. My mother [Rati Agnihotri] is concerned about my dark roles. She complains, ‘People are dying or killing or using drugs in every [series]. We never did all this’. I keep telling her that I am the product of the times we live in.

Every marriage goes through problems; I am glad that my parents have resolved all their issues-Tanuj Virwani


Tanvi Trivedi (BOMBAY TIMES; April 2, 2021)

While many people have reunited with their families after getting stuck due to the Coronavirus pandemic in foreign countries, senior actress Rati Agnihotri has had no such luck and is still stuck in Poland. The actress had flown there in mid-March last year as she and her sister had opened a chain of eateries in Poland. She had taken her pet dog, Stuart Little, along with her.

Rati’s son, actor Tanuj Virwani said, “It has been a year since I saw my mother. My father and I have been living without her for a long time now. The problem is not with her travelling back, but the authorities are not allowing her pet to travel back with her. He is a small pocket dog and they are not allowing him in the hand luggage either. My mother is quite attached to her pet and does not want to return without him. Since Poland does not have many Coronavirus cases, she is busy tending to the eateries that she has set up there. But we want her to come back now. There are a new set of rules even for pets once they land in India. They have to quarantine separately and we intend to follow the rules. But, as of now, my mother will remain in Poland till we find a way for Stuart Little to travel back with her.”

Years ago, the Ek Duuje Ke Liye actress had opened up about the domestic abuse she endured in her marriage and had also filed a complaint with the police against her husband Anil Virwani. Recounting how those traumatic days are behind them, Tanuj said, “We live in a nuclear family and I grew up as a single child. Those days, I felt that there were bleak chances of my parents getting together, because I had seen everything first-hand and I knew the truth. But now, I am glad that my parents have resolved all their issues. Every marriage goes through ups and downs. I am just relieved that those things are sorted now and we are a happy family, who stay and holiday together. My mother has withdrawn her police complaint.” He added, “Whether it is your parents, siblings or children, people have to love each other in spite of anything. I am happy that my parents were able to iron out their differences. We are all much happier now.”

Rajiv Kapoor’s style reminded me of Shammi uncle-Rati Agnihotri


Zabardast, Zalzala co-star Rati Agnihotri fondly remembers “ever-smiling prankster” Rajiv Kapoor
As told to Upala KBR (MID-DAY; February 10, 2021)

I was crushed on hearing the news. I remember working with Chimpu on Zabardast (1985), which was directed by Nasir Hussain and had Aamir Khan serving as the assistant director. We were shooting by the pool at Fariyas Resort in Panchgani. Just before we were to can a scene, Chimpu threw me in the pool. My costume was soaked, and we didn’t have an alternate outfit for the sequence. Nasir saab was furious as he had to cancel the shoot. I still vividly remember how he got an earful from Nasir saab. But then, that was Chimpu — full of life! His style reminded me of Shammi uncle. 

During our Lonavala stint, he decided to spook the unit members. The house where they were staying was secluded and eerie. So, one night, Sunny Deol, Chimpu, our co-producer and I went there and frightened the crew members by making strange noises. The next day, everyone on set was discussing how the house was haunted. We couldn’t stop laughing. What lovely days they used to be!   

I will always remember Chimpu as the ever-smiling prankster. May his soul rest in peace.

Fire breaks out in Tanuj Virwani's Worli home while he and his father were away in Lonavala

Tanuj Virwani with mother Rati Agnihotri. Pic/instagram
Even though away in Lonavala, Tanuj Virwani recounts fire department's three-hour rescue operation after the blaze erupted at the family home in Worli
Mohar Basu (MID-DAY; August 27, 2020)

The fire broke out in the highrise around 12.30 am on WednesdayIt was a sleepless night for the Virwanis on Wednesday when they received frantic calls from neighbours informing them that a fire had broken out at their Worli residence. While actor Rati Agnihotri has been stationed in Poland during the Coronavirus lockdown, son Tanuj and husband Anil Virwani were in their Lonavala farmhouse when the incident took place.

Tanuj reveals that a blaze erupted in the 10th storey of the highrise in the small hours of Wednesday. "About 10 people, including some senior citizens, and two dogs were stuck in the A wing penthouse. Initially, the fire engine was only able to reach up to the eighth floor. So, the firefighters broke open our house [in the B wing] to gain access to the [adjacent] penthouse and help people evacuate. Eventually, the entire building was evacuated. Thankfully, there was no casualty and no damage to our apartment," he recounts.

The Worli fire station was alerted a little after 12.30 am and the rescue operation continued till 3.45 am. "I was in Mumbai for a shoot last week and returned to Lonavala after honouring the commitment. It was a disturbing night as sitting here, we couldn't fully understand the gravity of the situation. My father did his best to coordinate with the fire department officials and give them access to our home. He also called the building's chairman to offer assistance." He adds that Worli MLA Aaditya Thackeray rushed to the site at 2.30 am to appraise the situation.

Tanuj relayed the turn of events to mother Rati, who is spending the lockdown with her sister. "She panicked on hearing about the fire. My mother won't be able to return to India anytime soon. Though she has procured the necessary permission to travel, she hasn't got the clearance required for her pet dog to travel. My father will head to Mumbai in a few days to see if the house needs fixing."

Remembering Ashok Kumar aka Dadamoni, the man with a delightful chuckle

Dadamoni, Rati Agnihotri in a still from Shaukeen; poster of Poonam (below)
Dadamoni, Rati Agnihotri in a still from Shaukeen; poster of Poonam (below)

Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; October 11, 2018)

I met him for the first time as a wide-eyed 22-year-old trainee journalist. And even as I was stuttering over the “Sir”, he cut in to say gently, “Call me Dadamoni.” With that one word he steadied my skittish nerves and I made a friend for life. Since our birthdays were a day apart, Ashok Kumar who’d have turned 107 on October 13, would always insist that he was younger than me which, going by the twinkle in his eyes and his Puckish humour, he was.

Rati Agnihotri, the giggly PYT of Basu Chatterjee’s Shaukeen whom the three old men — Ashok Kumar, Utpal Dutt and AK Hangal — compete with each other to impress, agrees with me, saying his chuckle was the most delightful sound she’d heard. “And the hilarious anecdotes Kishore da (Kishore Kumar) and Dadamoni would narrate had us clutching our sides with uncontrollable laughter. He was tailor-made for that role, except he wasn’t lecherous, he was one of the nicest persons I’ve met,” asserts the actress.

Another co-star, Kamini Kaushal, flashbacks to one of her earlier films, Poonam, which had Dadamoni as the much older hero, mesmerised by her singing. She narrates how she’d met him for the first time when he’d come to her college, Kinnaird in Lahore, to attend a cultural programme organised for the war relief fund as the chief guest. “I was a final year honours student in English literature, spirited, fun-loving and uninhibited. After my solo dance performance, I was standing in the row right behind him, and to catch his attention, I stealthily pulled his hair from behind,” the nonagenarian actress shares.

Kamini ji adds that when they started working together in Poonam, she asked him if he remembered her from that incident, and he nodded with a laugh, “Of course I do, you naughty girl.” That set the tone of their relationship. “I was a kid and he was years older, but we were buddies,” she smiles fondly at the memory.

For Rati, Dadamoni was someone she could talk to about anything and everything. “He was learned and honest. Given how young and inexperienced I was then, his anecdotes from his life’s journey were like Aesop’s Fables for me,” she asserts.

Rati goes on to recall how during the shooting of a song for Tawaif, she had admitted to him that the 18-hour workdays, 24x7, for months on end, were taking their toll, leaving her drained and susceptible to infections. Dadamoni who had studied homeopathy, immediately prescribed some little white pills which her parents got from a pharmacy in Princess Street. “They worked miracles,” the actress marvels years later.

That wasn’t the end of his lessons. During the shooting of B R Chopra’s social drama, there were times when Rati would get a little anxious because this character with her body language and colourful vocabulary, was very out of character for the young girl. “I would nervously ask Dadamoni how to do a particular scene Chopra uncle had briefed me on. He would tell me reassuringly, ‘Beta, tum jaise kar rahi ho, sahi hai.’ This gave me the confidence to play the role naturally, without trying to force myself to become someone I wasn’t,” she says.

Today, when I look back to our conversations, I realise I got my share of Aesop’s Fables too, between chuckles, which still echo in my ears.

S P Balasubrahmanyam was our choice for Ek Duuje Ke Liye though he didn't know Hindi-Pyarelal


A still from Ek Duuje Ke Liye; Laxmikant-Pyarelal (right)

Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; June 8, 2018)

When Lata Mangeshkar and S P Balasubrahmanyam were recording “Hum Tum Donon Jab Mil Jayenge, Ek Naya Itihaas Banayenge” for K Balachander’s 1981 tragic romance Ek Duuje Ke Liye, under Laxmikant-Pyarelal’s baton, little did they know that they were on their way to creating box-office history. Even though Vasu and Sapna’s prem kahaani did not have the happily ever after ending, it still resonates in our collective memory 37 years later.

His Bollywood debut, bagged SPB his second National Award, after K Viswanath’s Sankarabharanam in 1980, and Pyarelal bhai confides that whenever the singer came home, his wife would request a song or two from the Telugu musical. Buzz is, Carnatic vocalist-musician-composer-actor M Balamuralikrishna was the first choice for the male playback given the score’s largely classical content, but composer K V Mahadevan had insisted on SPB.

Reports suggest that in the case of Ek Duuje Ke Liye too, it was Balachander who pushed for the singer despite L-P’s initial misgivings. Pyarelal bhai refutes this gossip strongly, pointing out that despite being die-hard Kishore Kumar fans, they had convinced Do Raaste’s leading man Rajesh Khanna to move away from Kishore’s voice which after Aradhana had become synonymous with his, and experiment with Mohd. Rafi’s. “And after listening to 'Yeh Reshmi Zulfen' Khanna sahab acknowledged that we’d made the right choice,” the music director reminisces, pointing out that SPB too had been their choice even though like Kamal Haasan’s character Vasu, he barely knew Hindi at the time. “He would do exactly what they told him to and his accent and pronunciation added to the credibility of the character.”

Ek Duuje Ke Liye was a remake of K Balachander’s 1978 Telugu film, Maro Charitra, and revolved around Vasu, a Tamil boy, who woos Sapna, his neighbour in Goa, with “Mere Jeevan Saathi Pyaar Kiye Jaa”, an innovative medley of Hindi film titles. The song was picturised in the cramped elevator of a five-star hotel in Chennai and Rati Agnihotri who at 16 was too young to understand the wild passion that sweeps the lovers along, simply surrendered to her director who gently steered her through the emotional highs and lows. “The only problem was that I didn’t speak a word of Tamil so when Balachander sir suddenly veered from English to Tamil while explaining a scene to me, I’d look at him blankly till Prasad ji (producer L V Prasad) took over as interpreter and guide,” Rati informs with a laugh.

There’s an interesting story behind how Anup Jalota came to sing “Solah Baras Ki Bali Umar Ko Salaam, Pyaar Teri Pehli Nazar Ko Salaam”. Pyarelal bhai recalls that while they were rehearsing, L V Prasad came into the studio and delighted with the lyrics, offered his salaam to Anand Bakshi. Smiling at their exchange the composer stepped out and found Madan Mohan’s daughter waiting with a young man whom she introduced as a good singer, Anup Jalota, who wanted to see a song being recorded and Pyarelal bhai invited them inside. The Lata melody was preceded by a two-line doha-— “Koshish kar ke dekh le dariya sare nadiya sari/ Dil ki lagi nahi bujhati, bujhati hai har chingari” — and the composers wanted a voice other than SPB’s for this prelude. “Laxmi ji suggested we record it with Anup whose father, Purshottam Das Jalota, he knew to be a respected bhajan singer,” he informs.

The film was a blockbuster and made Kamal Haasan, Rati and Madhavi, household names across the country. Rati continued her star trek, going on to feature in a number of hits, including Farz Aur Kanoon, Coolie and Tawaif. Kamal Haasan moved from strength to strength down South with films like Moondram Pirai, Nayakan, Pushpak and Thevar Magan.

“Around five-six years after Ek Duuje Ke Liye, he came to us for a film he wanted to produce. The film had great scope for music but we weren’t sure if the pan-India audience would accept a classical Indian dancer for a hero and pointed it out to him. That film was never made but Ek Duuje Ke Liye or as Sapna explains to Vasu in the film, ‘We are made for each other, samjhe?’ proved that love, like music, speaks a language of its own that’s universal and timeless,” Pyarelal bhai sums up.

Ek Duuje Ke Liye remake to go on floors in early 2017; Tanuj Virwani bags lead role

Tanuj Virwani and Rati Agnihotri
Smita Shrivastava (MID-DAY; April 26, 2016)

It has been reported that Rati Agnihotri has been trying to get her hand on the rights of Ek Duuje Ke Liye (1981) for a few years now. Finally, her deal with the Prasad group is through and the film is going to be shot early next year.

Rati Agnihotri made her debut with the 1981 cult romantic film, Ek Duuje Ke Liye where she starred opposite the south Indian superstar Kamal Haasan. The film itself was a remake of the director K Balachander’s Tamil film, Maro Charitra which also had Kamal Haasan playing the male lead.

Confirming the news, Rati’s son Tanuj Virwani, who would be stepping into Kamal’s shoes says, “This film is especially close to my mother’s heart. The movie was based on tragic love which is an eternal topic. Love is such a pure emotion that two people can fall in love with each other even if they don’t understand each other’s language. These issues still make sense as parents tend to get their children to forget their love if the caste, religion etc doesn’t match. Certain changes will be made in the script to suit today’s times. We will begin shooting either end of this year or early next year. I would like my mother to act in the film too, but a lot depends on the script which is still being written.”

I have had one-night stands while in college-Tanuj Virwani


Renuka Vyavahare (BOMBAY TIMES; April 6, 2016)

It might be easy to presume that acting is just a hobby for Tanuj Virwani. After all, the 29-year-old, who is the son of actress Rati Agnihotri, hails from an affluent background. But when you meet him, his earnest attitude and desire to succeed dispel these notions. He displays maturity as he speaks of his past failures and his parents' turbulent relationship. In a heart-to-heart chat with BT, he talks about playing peacemaker between the two and why his upcoming film One Night Stand is crucial for his career.

How difficult was it to cope with the struggles of being an actor, especially since you come from a well-to-do background?
I am a single child who has always been pampered by his parents. I have the advantage of not rushing into a decision and signing a film. But that's where it ends. The struggle is still there. I sat at home for eight months after my second film, Purani Jeans, didn't do well. I gave auditions but nothing was working out. I felt life was cruel but I had to let the dust settle. It was extremely frustrating as I am career oriented and have the hunger to do well. My mom told me that I should never sign a film for the wrong reason, no matter how long I have to wait. She said, 'You can't disown a film, so be proud of what you do'.

It's been a year since the news of your parents' alleged separation surfaced.
They haven't separated. Mom was going to file for a divorce but she didn't. My parents took some time off from their marriage to work out their differences and now, they are very much together.

Your mother had accused your father of domestic violence.
I don't want to get into details because it's a 'he said, she said' situation. As a son, I cannot say what they should or shouldn't have done. At that point, I had to be a mediator and a pillar of strength for both of them. Having said that, I cannot take credit for sorting out their differences as they are twice my age. Things are a lot better now. In fact, we went to Lonavala a few months ago to celebrate their anniversary.

Did that phase make you grow overnight?
When the news surfaced, I was away for a shoot. It was a difficult time and it affected me deeply. As a child, you are shielded by your parents from the harsh realities of life. So, when they are facing any issues, we have to take charge. It's tough because they become more rigid and childish as they grow old. I think in the past one year, I have grown a lot as an individual.

Has it changed your perception towards marriage?
All of us have to chart our individual paths in our lives. I would like to believe that whatever I have seen doesn't have a negative impact on my life. I have to stay positive.

Your upcoming film, One Night Stand, stars Sunny Leone. Do you think her presence ensures visibility to the project?
Yes, it's a big plus. You need a saleable star to draw the audience to watch the film. I make no bones about the fact that I am not a star, so if I have to piggyback on someone else's success to get noticed in a film, I don't have a problem.

The topic is morally unacceptable to many. Were you apprehensive about it?
Unless you are rubbing someone the wrong way, you are not doing your job right. You have to have a reaction to something, whether it's positive or negative. As far as the name of the film is concerned, the makers have made a smart decision. When you have a title like One Night Stand and a film that stars Sunny Leone, it will grab eyeballs. The crux of the film is what happens post a one-night stand and the damage it does to individuals and families.

Have you had one-night stands?
I have had one-night stands while in college. Personally, I have nothing against them but in the longer run, it's not the way ahead, especially if you are in a relationship or married. Priorities change. I think all of us go through this phase.

So you don't consider it to be a taboo?
Absolutely not. If it works for both parties who are we to judge.

How was it working with Sunny?
I used to call her Funny Leone on set because she has a deadpan sense of humour, which many people don't get. I found it hilarious and refreshing. We would chat and crack jokes.

Did you have a certain image of her in mind before you met her?
I was a little intimidated by her as she is a star. But she was extremely caring. I am a foodie but had to diet as I had to go shirtless for a few scenes in this film. She suggested that I should at least eat some fish.

Were you nervous during the love-making scenes?
I was a bundle of nerves. People would ask me if it was fun and I would say there are 50 people on set and a DOP is giving you instructions. It's mechanical but it has to look sensual. Sunny made me feel comfortable during the scenes. If people like me in this film, the credit should go to her and our director Jasmine Moses D'Souza.

I don't have an answer on how I balanced the top on my navel-Rati Agnihotri


Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; July 21, 2015)

When producer L.V. Prasad approached her dad for the Hindi remake of the 1978 Telugu hit, Maro Charitra, Rati Agnihotri already had lots of offers from big banners. But after watching the original, Roop Agnihotri decided Ek Duuje Ke Liye would be his daughter's Bollywood debut because even though he hadn't understood a word, he was really moved by the story of Vasu and Sapna, who overcome parental opposition, linguistic barriers and the North-South divide, but their love story still ends tragically with the couple jumping off a cliff. Also, Rati was not expected to sign a three-year or a three-film contract like other star aspirants.

Kamal Haasan and Madhavi, along with director K Balachander, singer S P Balasubrahmanyam and the rest of the team from the Telugu original were retained. The only one replaced was leading lady Saritha. “They wanted a Punjabi girl to play Sapna and I probably caught their eye because I was a rare North Indian girl doing well down South after the super success of my first Tamil film, Puthiya Vaarpugal,“ smiles Rati.

The 16-year-old schoolgirl wasn't allowed to see the original film because the makers didn't want her aping Saritha. Too young to understand passionate, rebellious love, Rati simply plunged into the shoot, not in awe of her superstar hero or her critically acclaimed director. “The only problem was that I didn't speak a word of Tamil so when Balachander sir suddenly veered from English to Tamil while explaining a scene to me, I'd look at him blankly till Prasadji stepped forward to take over as interpreter and guide,“ she reminisces with a laugh.

Shooting Mere Jeevan Saathi inside the cramped elevator of a five-star hotel in Chennai was easy. But lying on blazing sand in a beach in Visakhapatnam in 40-plus temperature while Kamal spun a top on her bare midriff and the camera moved from her giggling face to her navel, was an ordeal. “Today, when someone asks me how I balanced the top, I don't have an answer. Those days we didn't have monitors, the luxury of too many rehearsals or retakes. I did what was expected of me, telling myself it was like dramatics day in school, only instead of the stage I was facing a camera,“ she reasons.

The only time her smile slipped was when bad man Sunil Thapa turned up on the sets. “He was a nice guy but because he was mean to me in the film, I took it personally and didn't speak to him. He terrified me,“ she recalls.

He plays a librarian who rapes her at a temple where she's gone to meet Kamal who is waylaid by some goons. “The climax shoot was tough. I had to walk up the cliff and steep steps leading up to the temple, barefoot. I had blisters on my feet from the heat and cuts from the rocks. Then we had to roll around on the rocks, before jumping off the cliff. I didn't realise when shooting how devastating Vasu and Sapna's death would be for young viewers. There was a string of suicides amongst teenage lovers after the release. Tragic!“ she sighs.

Akshay Kumar is a great son, both in reel and real life-Rati Agnihotri


Rati Agnihotri (MUMBAI MIRROR; April 27, 2015)

Rati Agnihotri whose personal life made headlines following allegations of domestic abuse against her husband, Anil Virwani, sounded upbeat when Mirror caught up with her on Sunday. The actress has just returned from a two-week schedule of Singh Is Bliing in Punjab. “I was shooting every single day. The hours were long but it was a great shoot with Akshay (Kumar) and Prabhu Dheva,“ she asserts.

Rati plays Akshay Kumar's mother in the film. A Punjabi lady who, she admits, wears a lot of bling too. “She has a lot of my traits, including the bonding I share with my son Tanuj,“ she admits. But while Tanuj is 28, Akshay is 47. Rati is unperturbed, “In cinema you can take creative and cinematic liberties. Age is just one of the many factors that go into making a character sketch. As an actress I'm happy that I've got a chance to play women of different ages,“ she says diplomatically, refusing to reveal any other details, not even this beeji's name. “That's the discretion of the producer.“

When Mirror had visited her at her Worli apartment earlier, she'd been in the midst of a costume fitting and had quickly rejected fabrics that were uncomfortably stiff or would fan out when cut into Patiala salwars. The exact length of the slit of a kurta was specified and jootis, she insisted, would have to be sanded first so they didn't skid. The frames of glasses were also discussed, along with the fake jooda. A lot of thought had gone into prepping up to become Akki's mom. “I loved him in Singh is King. And though Singh Is Bliing is nothing like the earlier film, I'm sure you'll love him in this one too. The character has borrowed a lot from him. He's a great son, both in reel and real life. He's in regular touch with his mother and family even when he's away from home, shooting.“

Interestingly, cricketer Yuvraj Singh's father, Yograj Singh, who was last seen playing Farhan Akhtar's coach in Bhaag Mikha Bhaag, is playing Akshay's father and Rati's on-screen husband. “He's well cast and a hugely talented actor,“ compliments Rati. Did Yuvi drop in on the sets? “Not when I was there,“ she says.

While her beta takes off for an outdoor schedule now, Rati will wrap up an earlier commitment and hold talks on future projects before she joins the blingy Singhs again.

In her own family, mum's the word!

For all these years I hoped that Anil would change-Rati Agnihotri

Deepika Padukone may be batting for 'My Choice' but a yesteryear star discovers that it's not always an option. In her bravest interview yet Rati Agnihotri opens up on why she endured battering and abuse for 30 years of her marriage
Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; April 2, 2015)

The living room of Rati Agnihotri's Worli penthouse tastefully furnished with Christian iconography and overlooking the Arabian Sea, is marked by quiet and a sense of calm. But as the reigning star of the 80s recounts in vivid detail the turbulent years of her marriage to architect Anil Virwani, you realise how deceptive the calm is. For, this room and this house is where the actress has suffered horrific domestic abuse.

Rati, star of hit films like Ek Duuje Ke Liye, Coolie and Tawaif, was at the top of her game when she met Virwani. After a swift courtship the two were married in 1985 and Rati quit the movie business to become a homemaker and mother.

Instances of her husband losing his cool and hitting her began in the initial years of the marriage and progressively became more frequent over 30 years. Each of those instances of beating that had her running around this penthouse like a terrified animal, trying to escape her husband's blows, is etched in her mind. Blows that were always strategically aimed, never at her face or at a body part that was visible. Her own cheerful demeanour in public helped keep up the facade of the normal happy family.

But later, after the arrival of the smartphone, she recorded photographic evidence. Mementos of her wrecked marriage.

'All these years I'd hoped... prayed... that he would change'

But earlier last month, on March 7, when her son, Tanuj, was away in Pune for a film shoot, her husband's rage left her cowering behind a wooden door, fearing for her life. "I thought to myself that I am a 54-year-old woman and I will progressively grow older and weaker and then one day I will die, beaten to death." There are no tears, no drama as she relates her ordeal. Just a stoic acceptance of a life-altering night. That afternoon, she realised that there was no looking back and decided to file for a divorce.

A week, later, on March 14, she drove to the police station and filed a complaint of domestic abuse. "I was all alone. My sister is in Poland and my mother, who suffered a brain stroke last year, lies paralysed in a hospital near Pune run by nuns. My son too was away, shooting. My best friend, Shaila, was in Chennai. The two household helps were new, just two and three weeks into the job. There was no one to turn to..."

The subsequent medical examination confirmed her narrative. The police formalities were over by 7 pm but she couldn't think of returning to the apartment that had been her "home" for all these years. A helpful person had her punctured tyre fixed, brought her idlis and a soft drink. Moved by the kindness, she began to weep. And then she drove four hours to her bungalow in Lonavala.

"Why did it take me so long to take this decision?" she pre-empts the question. "Well, I had certain priorities, the biggest being my son Tanuj. He was the reason I put up with all this pain for 30 years. I also believed in the sanctity of marriage... I believed in love. Anil was the man I had married despite the fact that my parents had never liked him. And like every girl I'd dreamt of a picture-perfect life with a husband who cared and provided for me. For all these years I'd hoped... prayed... that things would change, that he would change."

As she waited for him to change, she kept up the charade. To the world he was the epitome of a successful businessman with a beautiful trophy wife who laughed and chatted and exuded positive energy. "There were times when I would tell myself I didn't have to smile so much, that it was all right to shed a tear sometimes, to frown occasionally, but I never did," she sighs, admitting that one of the things she's always longed to do was to laugh out long and loud. "Befikar laughter, without that niggling thought at the back of my head that something bad would eventually follow the happiness."

In 2000, as the money dried up, she quietly returned to work. "I've tried to live my life normally," she says, rubbishing rumours of her being a depressive. "He's the one who's shut himself up at home. I've always been accessible except for these last few weeks and that was because I needed time to think. But that doesn't give anyone reason to judge me."

In her darkest hour, her son, the reason she stayed on in the abusive relationship, and her dogs were her solace but now, at 54, she is looking at rebuilding her life with the same resilience that saw her putting in long hours on film sets when she was 16.

While still haunted by the past, she says she will be fair to the man who is her son's father, ensure that he's comfortable all his life. And then she will take a vacation to Alaska with her son, sister and friend. "Though for now, all I want is a massage. A good two-hour, de-stressing massage, for all the broken bones." 

I'm proud that I may be an example to women who may be undergoing this-Rati Agnihotri


Priya Gupta (BOMBAY TIMES; April 2, 2015)

Rati Agnihotri, 54, has completed 37 years in the film industry She recently surprised everyone when she filed a complaint of .domestic violence against her husband of over 30 years, Anil Virwani. While Rati so far chose not to speak, sitting in her plush top floor apartment in Worli, she opens up for the first time to Bombay Times to tell us her side of the story. Excerpts.

You have not spoken to any media.What makes you speak to us?
I would have sooner or later spoken about it and would have spoken to only you about it, but given the reports that have come out, I have no choice but to speak now.

You have been married for over 30 years. What made you take so long to go to the police?
I was not delaying deliberately, but was thinking of how to approach it. When I came out of the police station, I was shocked to see so many reporters there and wondered who had called them. I don't have a PR machinery. I am a single person representing myself, being my own voice, being my own strength. I did not go to the press, I just went to the police station. I know this is the price one has to pay for being a celebrity. But it's my life. I am not sitting for people to judge why now and why not then? I want my life back. Is that wrong? I know what my priorities are. I know what my priorities have been. All these years, it's not that I lacked the strength. It is just that I had the focus to not disturb my son.

Why did you choose to go away from Mumbai after filing the complaint?
I went away for a few days to Lonavala to my farmhouse. My father passed away before I got married. My mom is 80 years of age and lives in Pune. About 10 months ago, she had a brain stroke and she is in the last lap of her life. My elder sister lives in Poland past 39 years, so I have no support system here. Apart from my own home, I also look after my mother and her home. After filing the complaint with the police, I was really scared to come back here. It took me a few days to get the courage to come back and do what I have to do. And to also rethink as it's a huge decision, given my marriage of 30 years. Does marriage really mean that you are sold to a person? Is it so tough to get your life back? I wanted to take this step elegantly, but if that's not possible, then so be it.

What made you take the decision finally to make the complaint?
What made me decide to go ahead and do what I had to do was not just an event or a few events. It is due to the collective events of almost as long as my marriage, starting with small small things and I realised that this is really not going anywhere. I have made a lot of adjustments, but it was not acceptable to me anymore. It was abuse in every form, a lot of beating, a lot of mental, emotional and financial abuse. I now want to live. Don't I have the right to live happily? I want to do lots of good work. I want to change my priorities. Tanuj being my most important priority. He has always been a very good son and I do respect him in any capacity that he may wish to talk, speak or take decisions for himself given the situation. I know how unconditionally his love has been for me. The only only reason for me to have gone through this is Tanuj. I put this in the past tense as for me, it is the past tense now. He is and will always remain my son and he told me, 'Mom, get a life. Do whatever makes you happy. Don't live for me anymore.' That has just set me free. Tanuj is also having to cope with a lot of uncalled for things. It's a very small family. Just three of us live here.

Why did Tanuj not intervene three weeks back when this incident occurred?
That day and for the past many years, he has not been around when my husband has beaten me. Tanuj has either been out or been upstairs, where you can't listen to what is happening downstairs where my husband and I live. We have a pretty large home. When this incident happened three weeks back, one staff was two just weeks old and one staff was not even a month old and they were sleeping in the other end of the house. The door is shut between where the servants were and where my husband and I were. There is a planning, a thought process, and there is clearly a pattern and I don't even want to judge it anymore. I took it and the reasons were my own. Even if I say today that I took it for my child or that because I don't have any immediate family to go to. My sister had told me 20 years ago, 'Walk out'. My closest friend told me walk out, what am I doing in this sick environment, but I didn't. I had my own reasons. I have to now stop being this ever-so-responsible person.

Did you hit your husband back?
I don't have any strength left. I am older. Initially, I would be able to protect myself, but now I am not able to. I realise that age is something and I needed to take this step.

Do you love your husband now?
I used to when I got married. But not for the past many years. We have been living in two different parts of the house. He is the father of my son and I tried my best not to break up the family.

Are you both on talking terms after the complaint? Has there been any incident again?
No. How would he dare touch me now? Would I not take it up strongly with the cops then? It's not going down well with me anymore. I don't want any emotion to get the better of me now as I wasted enough of my years.

Has he apologised for that night?
There is no conversation and it is better that he does not cross my path now for the interest of everybody. It is my house. Financially, I have always been independent. Financially, I want to know who is dependent on whom?

Who is your emotional anchor?
My son Tanuj to a point. At this point, I am not letting emotions get the better of me as it is a wasted emotion. I am trying, though it's really hard.I am being practical.

Don't you have to prove domestic violence to the authorities, for instance show bruises etc. to them?
The authorities have all the proof and I know that I am not misusing it.

Your plan for the future?
Lots of good work. I am so happy to be playing Akshay Kumar's mother in Singh Is Bliing. I am so passionate about films. Slowly and surely, all this will be the past. I am looking forward to a beautiful, calm, peaceful and happy life, where I can do the things I had stopped doing last 30 years. I just want to keep myself as priority now. I had become very introverted due to this and had faced a lot of humiliation. I had started losing my self-respect, which the intelligence in my mind didn't allow.

My own mind was questioning my own actions. I have been an achiever from the age of 10. But I gave up everything to get married at 23. The world has loved me so much, why can't I love myself ? Actually, I am also very proud of myself that I could have the strength and the courage to tolerate this for 30 years. People could have run away in a month. I am a happy, gregarious person, who loves to laugh and giggle. I like to do a lot of masti and have fun.

After filing the complaint, is it not uncomfortable for you and your husband to be living in the same house?
It is very, very uncomfortable. Right now also, am I safe? I live in a home where most of the doors are glass. I have just one bedroom where I have been residing for many years, which has a wooden door. How safe am I to even exit from here and go out? I have told the authorities and the only reason that there has been a go slow is that there are certain things I need to discuss with Tanuj. It is now unacceptable for me any longer. I was giving Tanuj the space to think as he has just come back from an outdoor and there has been such a huge mess in his head. But my decision is inevitable. It is a taken decision. I look forward to living my life alone now. I have been independently running everyone's needs. Now I will be just looking after the needs of my son in the capacity of a mother, which will definitely never change. I have ample communication with him and we still have great times. Even last night till 1.30-2, we were joking and laughing sitting on my bed. He came down and I heard sounds in the kitchen and I came out and he had made the most delicious lobsters. He got his khana, sat on my bed and I was eating from his plate and it was really yummy. I am aware of everything happening in his life and he is aware of every step that I am taking and everything that is happening in my life. I have been telling him for very many years that I would go to the police and I told him even this time when I went.

Do you feel embarrassed as a celebrity since your personal issue is now public?
I don't feel embarrassed as I have not done anything wrong. In fact, I feel very proud of what I have done. I took that step and may in the future, be an example to many women who may be undergoing this. But let me just say that in this whole thing, I don't want to hurt anybody, it is my passage of extremely tough times. I just hope, pray, wish and request all of you to hold me and take me to the natural end and truth. I am in a very dark tunnel, but I know that there will be a light at the end of it.

I thought there was dignity in silence-Rati Agnihotri


Rati Agnihotri finally breaks her silence on domestic violence, and her decision to end her 30-year-old marriage to businessman Anil Virwani
Subhash K Jha (DNA; March 31, 2015)

When actress Rati Agnihotri decided to complain to the cops about the alleged violence perpetrated by her husband, she didn't expect the personal matter would leak out into the public domain. Talking about her decision to open up, she says, "I am surprised and hurt that my motives for speaking out to the law enforcement and legal machinery about my domestic problems are being questioned. Just because I chose to not speak about it, some sections of the media doubt the veracity of my claims. I've remained silent, but the fact is that that what is being said about my life is not true," she says as she resolutely announces her decision to end her marriage. "Yes, it's time for me to move one. I've taken a very long time to take the right decision. People are asking why I remained in the marriage for so long. Well firstly it's my life. I don't owe any explanations to anyone except my son Tanuj for whose sake I chose to stay on. I've taken 30 years to opt out of my marriage. I've been patient and I've borne a lot."

Rati wanted her son to understand why she needed to break away from the marriage. "That was most painful. Tanuj is the only reason I stuck on (in the marriage). He is 28 now and man enough to face the truth in his mother's life. He knew the truth ten years ago. He knows the truth now. He knows what his mother has endured. Finally he has told me. 'Mom, don't live your life for me. Live for yourself. Do what you think is right for yourself.'

Why didn't Rati discuss her marital problems with close family and friends? "I really had no one to talk to. I stuck on to the marriage for my son's sake. This is the honest truth. If the world would like to judge me otherwise, so be it. It saddens me to see the way my life is being projected in the media. Does the media know how hard it is on me to make the decision that I did after keeping quiet for 30 years? Just because I kept quiet all these years about what I was going through and finally decided to do something about it doesn't mean my motives are questionable." Pondering over her own predicament Rati asks, "Do I sound depressed to you? Do I sound desperate? One widely-read newspaper portrays me this way and I am painted poorly in numerous papers across the country. If you don't have access to me it doesn't mean my life is open to distortion."

Regarding her decision to break away from the violent marriage Rati says, "After the latest violence I couldn't stay in the same house any more. I had nowhere to go, so I drove down to my home in Lonavala. My son was shooting in Pune and he came to meet me and advised me to do what I thought was right. This (ending the marriage) was my son's decision for me. I am taking his advice. He said, 'No matter what you'll always be my mother.' Every time something of this sort happened within the four walls of my home, he's the only person I reached out to. In the past I've called him for help and he has immediately come to my rescue. I am still hurting because of the last beating. I don't have the strength to go and see my ailing mother. I've never failed as a mother. No matter what happens, Tanuj will continue to be the centre of my universe."

Cops say no headway with Rati Agnihotri 's complaint as actress shows signs of depression


Seema Sinha (BOMBAY TIMES; March 30, 2015)

It's been around two weeks since Rati Agnihotri registered a case of harassment against her husband, Anil Virwani, pressing charges under IPC sections 498A, 323 and 506 for torture, assault and report edly issuing death threats.But so far, there has been no breakthrough in the case as cops at the Worli police station claim that they have not been able to further investigate the matter due to the actress's “ill health“. “She seems to be unwell and mentally depressed. We need to meet her and take a list of witnesses from her to go any further,“ said an investigating officer. “Her husband maintains that he has not done anything wrong,“ he further added.

After the complaint was lodged, Rati is said to have been with her mother at Lonavala. When contacted this time around, Rati said, she was in a meeting and asked us to call her back in a couple of hours. Later, when we called her again, the actress said that she was driving, and asked us to send her a text message, but she never reverted to our queries.

Meanwhile, the couple's son, Tanuj, says that the incident has landed him in a strange and uncomfortable situation. “I myself was quite taken aback and shocked. I heard it from the media. We live in a duplex and I live on another floor. I'm not aware of anything. Nothing was brought to my attention, nothing ever happened in front of my eyes,“ he said, further adding, “It is their (my parents) private matter, it is between a husband and wife. I have good equations with both my parents. I'm a happy person.“