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Dilip Kumar never raised his voice, but his silence was unbearable-Saira Banu
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On their 57th wedding anniversary, Saira Banu takes us through the pages of her love story with legendary actor Dilip Kumar
Renuka Vyavahare (BOMBAY TIMES; October 11, 2023)
It's a classic real-life story of an eternal romance. Saira Banu and Dilip Kumar tied the knot on October 11, 1966, and 57 years later, she is as much in love with him as she was when they started out as a couple. India’s most eligible bachelor at the time, he initially maintained a respectful distance on and off the screen given their massive (20-year) age difference before eventually falling for her enchanting beauty, innocence, and devotion for him. Unlike today’s high-profile destination weddings, the legend of Indian cinema, Dilip Kumar, married a young Saira Banu in a homely ceremony in Mumbai. “So many gatecrashed our wedding that we ran out of food,” chuckles the actress. On her wedding anniversary, she looks back at her real-life fairytale. Excerpts…
Your life has been no less than a fairytale. Dilip Kumar was the heartthrob of our nation when you married him. What did that feel like?
I wanted two things in life. I wanted to marry the man of my dreams and I wanted to be a film star like my mother Naseem Banu. Both my dreams were fulfilled. I couldn’t have asked for more. My mother wanted me to study further and become a lawyer, as she couldn’t do that. She never wanted me to be an actor, but I wanted to be like her. As far as Dilip sahib is concerned, I was obsessed with him as a teenager ever since I saw his film ‘Aan’ (1952) in London. I studied there at the time. I fancied men like James Dean, Rock Hudson and Elvis Presley. I had their photos on my wall. Calling Dilip sahib a crush would be wrong. I was head over heels in love with him. I was smitten to the point that I envied Vyjayanthimala because one of the promotional stills of Madhumati (1958) had Dilip sahib almost kissing her forehead. That pose was way too intimate and bold for those times. I remember taking a pair of scissors and cutting her out from that photo (laughs). I became a fan of hers later. I call her akka (elder sister) and she calls me an angel. We got closer over the years. She was pleasantly amused when I recounted this incident to her.
How did this teen idol worship translate into a romantic relationship?
Our families knew each other and had common interests like music. His younger sister was close to my mother so we would often have these get-togethers. I returned from London and met him for the first time at a dinner party hosted by the legendary filmmaker Mehboob Khan (known for ‘Mother India’) and his wife, who I fondly called Akhtar aunty. He was dressed in a plain white shirt and trousers. He was so simple and humble despite the fame. There was this luminous aura around him. A girl like me, who was shy and introverted, would retire to my room as soon as someone knocked on our door, something changed. As soon as I saw him, I went up to him and blurted, “Aap mere saath kaam kijiye.” He had seen me as a little girl, so showing me his grey strands, he replied with a smile, “Kya tumne mere grey baal dekhe hai?” I told him they make him look distinguished. At the dinner table he added, “I eat like a pig.” He refused to work with me even after Junglee (1961) became a hit, as he was conscious of the age gap. The part played by Mumtaz in Ram Aur Shyam (1967) was initially offered to me, but he said she is too young to work with me. I kept saying, “I am big enough to work with you.” That’s when he realized I was serious about him.
When did he propose marriage?
The day was August 23, 1966, and it changed my life. My mother had invited him for my birthday at our new Pali Hill residence. He was shooting in Chennai for Ram Aur Shyam and flew all the way back just for my birthday. ‘You have grown into a beautiful girl,’ he said that evening. I was dying to hear those words for years! The man was finally attracted to me. For the next few days, he travelled from Madras to Bombay every other night and had dinner with me. At the end of 10-11 days, he said, ‘I am constantly flying in and out. Will you consider one thing? Will you marry me?’ Thrilled but a bit surprised, I asked, ‘How many girls have you said this to!’ He was the most eligible bachelor of that time, and I had barely acted in films for four years. When he approached my grandmother and asked for my hand, I knew he was serious. The media and public were equally puzzled, I guess.
Unlike today’s high-profile Bollywood weddings, yours was a simple ceremony at home. In hindsight, did you want it to be an elaborate affair?
Not at all. It’s a real-life Cinderella story. It felt like sharing a throne. I got Dilip Kumar! I would have married him in rags if need be. Uss Zamane mein tailor hua karte the. My bridal outfit was simply stitched. No fancy jewellery either as we planned the wedding in 3 days. Security was not so high as it is today so there were gatecrashers. We ran out of food on our wedding day, so people had to go fetch more.
What made him so special beyond the great actor that he was?
Ours was a great love story. We would exchange notes through the air hostesses when he would be obliged to go sit with someone else for some time. I wrote to him that I missed him and wanted him back beside me. If he was away for a week, I would leave 7 notes under his folded shirts in the bag so he could wake up to that each day. He was a gracious man who never spoke ill of anyone including the ones who wronged him. He wasn’t judgmental and always spoke the truth. He encouraged me to see the good in people. The age gap didn’t matter because I learnt so much from him. We loved sports… Tennis, Golf, football. He was extremely fit.
He was linked to some beautiful women including Madhubala. How did you deal with that aspect of his life that tends to follow immense stardom?
I never gave credence to these girlfriend theories. I was the wife. He never spoke about his past girlfriends. I never asked either. Unki merese shaadi ho gayi. Mujhe duniya mil gayi. I didn’t care about the linkup stories as the media can be irresponsible. I was also linked to a dashing cricketer, who was the Indian captain. I won’t take names, but I had never seen the guy in my life. The first time we saw him was at Wimbledon.
A marriage as eternal as yours is rare and precious in today’s world of hookup culture and dating apps. What would you tell those who are sceptical about believing in ‘happily ever after’?
I hope your generation gets to see what he was like as a person. I made my Instagram debut for this purpose. Koi bhi shaadi ya relationship mein, ‘Sabar aur adab’ (patience and respect) ki bohot zaroorat hai. If sahib and I had an argument, it wouldn’t last for more than ten minutes. You must communicate. He was the one who never raised his voice but his silence was unbearable. I, with my own choice, would be the first to apologize. He wasn’t the man who had ego or would throw his weight around. To me, marriage is a perfect union based on love, faith and immense unspoken understanding. If you make a mistake, you should have no shame in saying sorry.

Dilip Kumar will remain the greatest actor ever of Hindi cinema
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One of the greatest legends of Indian cinema, Dilip Kumar, passed away at the age of 98 due to a prolonged illness. Dilip Kumar started his career in just before Independence in 1944 with JWAR BHATA and had a defining career of around 55 years and a film count of only 56 films.
His first film JWAR BHATA released in 1944 and success was not too far away as films like JUGNU (1947) and SHAHEED (1948) scored at the box office after which there was no looking back. Although these things are always arguable, the fact is that Dilip Kumar is the greatest actor that the Indian screen has ever seen. The biggest actors who have come after have imbibed from him and even the actors today who may not even be aware that they are being inspired by Dilip Kumar but who they think they looking up to was in all probability inspired by Dilip Kumar. Basically acting in India all started from this man.
There was a phase in the late 40's and early 50's that his films were working only because the audience was coming to see his acting. These slow films which we can call towards the dark side were working just because of the histrionics of Dilip Kumar as no one before had seen such acting. The masses were lining up in cinemas across India to see films which may not be offering huge entertainment but they did not care as all they wanted to see was the histrionics of Dilip Kumar. This was the period where Dilip Kumar got the tragedy king tag. This has never happened with any other actor as they had to be backed by a genre or more commercial elements to pull through and this holds till today.
These films were becoming HITS due to the histrionics and then there were the BLOCKBUSTER films like AAN, AZAAD, INSANIYAT, NAYA DAUR, MADHUMATI, PAIGHAM and KOHINOOR which were more in the commercial element of those times and smashed box office records. These films created Dilip Kumar the Superstar The likes of AAN, AZAAD and INSANIYAT also set the precedent for that big budget Hindi commercial potboiler which was to dominate Hindi cinema for years and still does.
The peak of the career came in the early 60's with films like MUGHAL-E-AZAM (1960) and GUNGA JUMNA (1961) which created history and remain today among the biggest BLOCKBUSTERS of Hindi cinema. The performance in GUNGA JUMNA is also probably the greatest ever by an actor in India. The workload slowed after that though the big HITS still came with RAM AUR SHYAM (1967) and GOPI (1970) but it was difficult now to fit into that traditional hero format due to age.
Dilip Kumar took a break for a few years and then did something that no actor ever managed to do before or after as he returned as more of a character actor. But this character actor was the main lead of these films and drove those films to huge success. Films like KRANTI (1981), VIDHAATA (1982), KARMA (1986) and SAUDAGAR (1990) all were were BLOCKBUSTER films and all driven by Dilip Kumar despite playing older characters. There were others like DHARAM ADHIKARI and KANOON APNA APNA which also saw average success. This was the part of his illustrious career which sets him apart from all other actors as no one else has managed to get such success as a character artist. It has to be said that you have to be a Dilip Kumar to get such roles without being the hero and there has only been one Dilip Kumar.
Simply put Dilip Kumar will remain the greatest actor ever of Hindi cinema unless we see some miracle over the next 100 years.
There can be no one like Dilip Kumar-Vyjayantimala
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Renuka Vyavahare (BOMBAY TIMES; July 8, 2021)
Dilip Kumar and Vyjayantimala, who worked together in films like, Devdas (1955), Madhumati (1958), Naya Daur (1957) and Ganga Jumna (1961), will go down in history as one of the most iconic screen couples. Stories of alleged ego clashes between the two superstars made headlines for a while, but what stayed after and real was an undying mutual respect and admiration. Not to forget a collective body of work that will be cherished by cinephiles for generations.
Talking to Bombay Times, the legendary actress remembered the doyen of Indian cinema, who passed away in Mumbai yesterday at 98. Unable to control her tears as she spoke over the phone from Chennai, she said, “I am absolutely shattered. I have no words. I feel honoured that I got to work with a legend like him, my most favourite actor and wonderful costar. We made several successful films together. As Saira ji always tells me, ‘Akka, you and saab made the best films.’ As actors, we understood each other. While it’s a great loss for the film industry, it’s a personal loss for me. I knew him and Saira ji so well. Whenever I came to Mumbai, I would go to their house and chat for hours. Over the years, my angel as I call her, Saira ji took over the role of a mother to him and she dedicated her life for his care. I admire her with all my heart. As soon as I can move around, I will go and see her.”
Dilip Kumar’s method acting and dedication to his craft was widely admired. Vyjayantimala shared, “I was in awe of him when I came to Mumbai. He was a superstar and a rage across the country. I was then just a dancing queen or a dancing star as they called me. I became an overnight success right after my first Hindi film Bahar (1951) because of my dance.”
Vyjayantimala said, “No one talked about my acting or referred to me as an actress until I worked with him in Devdas. That was my first film with Dilip saab and it transformed me as an actor. It paved the way for me. How to understand a character is what I learnt from him. Though he was a superstar and I was a relatively new actor, he didn’t treat me like one. He was helpful, polite, courteous and a thorough gentleman. If I made a mistake, he would help me rectify it without making a noise. I was a South Indian girl who had to speak Bhojpuri in Ganga Jumna and it was tough for me. He recorded the lines to show me where to stress and how to get the tone right.”
Stories of ego clashes between the two had surfaced and the veteran actress clarified, “That was all rubbish. I was in awe of him, and he was extremely helpful. There was no question of any ego clashes. He was multitalented. On shoot, he would hum various raags, spoke several languages and was socially aware. We did eight films together and each was equally beautiful. Films like Madhumati, Naya Daur, Ganga Jumna and Sunghursh (1968).”
Raj Kapoor, Dev Anand and Dilip Kumar, the remarkable trio of Hindi cinema is no more. While the actress nodded in affirmative on the sentiment, she added, “They all were great no doubt, but there can be no one like Dilip Kumar. I would never put anyone along with him. He was a unique, standout performer. He will continue to live in my memory forever.”
Dilip Kumar always used his voice effectively, modulating it to the situation-Vyjayanthimala
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Priya Menon (THE TIMES OF INDIA; July 8, 2021)
Vyjayanthimala Bali, who was cast opposite the thespian in four of his landmark films – Devdas, Madhumati, Naya Daur and Ganga Jumna – says working with him was an education and an experience that forged a lifelong association.
“When Bimal da asked me to play Chandramukhi (for Devdas), I was in awe because I would be acting with the Tragedy King. But he made it very comfortable,” says Vyjayanthimala, who at 86 continues to pursue her passion for Bharatanatyam.
The first scene she enacted with him was simple enough. “The line was ‘Aur mat piyo Devdas’ (Don’t drink anymore, Devdas). I had to say it when Devdas walked in drunk. The camera was to capture Devdas and then follow him and turn its focus on me when I spoke that line with an expression of anguish and helplessness.”
She thought it would be easy. “As the technicians announced readiness to shoot and Bimal da looked at me to know if I was ready, I realised Dilip sahab was not on the sets. An assistant told me he was taking brisk rounds of the studio to get that tired, weary look and he had instructed them to start the camera when he would stagger in with beads of real sweat on his brow and a look of exhaustion.”
Vyjayanthimala says that was the precise moment when she began to panic. “Here was an actor who took so much trouble to endow realism and here was me who had not done any preparation and was all set to face the camera. When it started and I saw the incredible perfection of Dilip sahab’s performance, all I could do was helplessly speak the line: ‘Aur mat piyo, Devdas’. The helpless look on my face was what Bimal da wanted.”
In ‘Madhumati’, he hears a voice and goes in search. A girl’s face emerges from the fog and he asks: “Who are you?” She replies, “Madhumati.” The scene was brilliant in the way it was conceived and performed, recalls Vyjayanthimala. “Dilip sahab always used his voice effectively, modulating it to the situation and the best moments in ‘Madhumati’ showed how well he used the texture of his soft voice to enhance the suspense and mystery.”
For him, she says, it was all about timing. “He said interaction is more important than action, ie, the way you react to the other character. And that the timing of any gesture – even a nod of the head – matters. I was able to do it because my Bharatanatyam foundation helped me emote and have quick reflexes,” she says.
Vyjayanthimala left the industry, but continued to share a bond with Saira Banu. She remembers the time when she met them in 2017. “I went to Mumbai with my son Suchindra to receive an award. Saira sent a car, and I visited Dilip sahab. He had attendants around him and Saira tried to coax him awake, saying, “See who has come, Dhanno (Vyjayanthimala’s character in ‘Ganga Jamuna’) has come. He opened his eyes, it was just a flicker. Saira asked me how he looked, and I said he looks as good as he did in ‘Madhumati’. I met them again in 2019 but he was very quiet.”
(Includes excerpts from Dilip Kumar: The Substance and The Shadow by Udaya Tara Nayar)
Balraj Sahni would come for shoots with cops, returning to the Arthur Road Jail after pack up-Amrit Shah
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Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; May 10, 2018)
On December 14, 1961, Rabindranath Tagore’s birth centenary (he was born on May 7, 1861), Bimal Roy’s Kabuliwala, based on a short story by the Nobel Laureate, opened in the theatres. I watched the film as a teenager, on Doordarshan, and it was made unforgettable by Balraj Sahni who lent warmth and dignity to the Kabuliwala who in Kolkata befriends five-year-old Mini, who reminds him of the daughter he’d left behind in Afghanistan. There’s a heart-breaking poignancy in the Pathan’s story as just before he is to return, he gets into a scuffle with a neighbour who ows him money, and accidentally kills him. After an eight-year jail term, he comes with dry fruits for Mini, to find her in wedding finery, all set to go off to her father-in-law’s home for real. He realises then that even his daughter, whose palm imprint he carries, must be all grown-up too. It is at this crucial point, that Mini’s father decides to give the money kept aside for lights and a band, to the kabuliwala so that he can go back home to his own daughter.
On Tagore’s 157th birth anniversary, when I quizzed Amrit Shah, Roy’s long-time associate, about Sahni, he revealed that he’d first made the actor’s acquaintance at the Communist Party Headquarters he’d go for his meals where as a student council member. “After the party was banned, he was arrested and would come for shoots with cops, returning to the Arthur Road Jail after pack-up,” says Shah, who on Sahni’s request, let his Bengali director-friend, Prabhat Mukherjee, share his apartment for a couple of years. “By the time he started working on Kabuliwala, he was a big name.”
Shah adds that when the film was nearing completion, as was his habit, he went to Roy with a proposal to send to distributors asking for advance (Minimum Guarantee). To his surprise, the producer insisted they sell it on a simple commission, as they were flush with funds thanks to the overflow they were getting from Madhumati and Sujata. “There was no arguing with Bimal da so I informed the delighted distributors that they’d only have to pay for print and publicity,” he says.
Buzz is, after seeing the rough cut, Roy reshot certain scenes directed by Hemen Gupta, perhaps because he wanted his tribute to Tagore to be perfect and true to his craft. Shah won’t comment on this but acknowledges that the film was a failure commercially and cost their company big money. “Bimal da was unperturbed, moving on to his next project,” he marvels.
Roy’s son, Joy, who was around six then, recalls a hideous apparition from a dream sequence and two little boys playing the tabla. “They were Nikhil Ghosh’s (Padma Bhushan tabla maestro) sons, Nayan Jyoti and Dhruba Jyoti,” he smiles. Sonu, who played Mini, was his neighbour who lived in the bungalow across and came to play with him. “One morning, baba came down and whispered something in her ear and Sonu raced home. Five minutes later, she was back with a “Yes”. I presume he’d offered her the film and she returned with her parents’ consent. That was the only film Sonu ever did, moving away after some years,” Joy flashbacks, adding that by a strange coincidence a week ago, he made the acquaintance of her young nephew at his gym and learnt that Sonu was living in the US. We tried getting her to share her memories with us but she stayed out of reach.
However, Gulzar saab, who penned “Ganga Aaye Kahan Se, Ganga Jaye Kahan Re” which with its philosophy of universal acceptance, informs that he landed this opportunity after a song by his friend and the film’s original lyricist, Prem Dhawan, was rejected by Roy. Since they were recording the songs first, they needed an immediate replacement. “I was assisting dada by then and he asked Salil da (composer Salil Chowdhury) to get me to write one. I’d penned “Mora Gora Ang Lai Le” for Bandini aur mera reputation ban gaya tha. I demurred, even calling up Prem who begged me to do it or else Bimal da would stop him from going off on a tour with IPTA,” he narrates.
Gulzar saab had seen Rajen Tarafdar’s 1960 National Award-winning Bengali film, Ganga, and suggested to Chowdhury that they do something along the lines of his composition “Amar Dubaili Re”. The music director who was playing ping pong in the bedroom listened absentmindedly till the sound of Roy’s station wagon had him scurrying upstairs. The filmmaker watched him playing the piano silently from the door and Chowdhury nervously blurted out that he was wondering if they could do something on the lines of “Amar Dubaili Re”. Roy responded sardonically, “Dubane ke liye itna nahin sochna padta hai, gana banao,” and walked away.
“Salil da continued playing till he heard Bimalda’s car drive off, then told his assistant Kanu Ghosh to write the song with me and went back to his ping pong. 'Ganga Aaye Kahan Se' was on the same metre as the earlier song and five decades later, reminds us of a Kabuliwala and his story that still strikes a chord,” says Gulzar saab.
Films were sold on Dilip Kumar's name; in certain cases, he had no option but to intervene-Amrit Shah
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Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; January 11, 2018)
Cinema was an integral part of my growing up years. My mother would drag
me to the theatres to see Roman Holiday, Quo Vadis and Spartacus. And
on Sunday evenings I was allowed to park myself in front of the TV and
catch a Hindi movie and Doordarshan was my introduction to Navrang, Hum
Dono, Chalia and Devdas. Thereafter, every time I met Dilip Kumar, I’d
remember him as Devdas slurring drunkenly, “Kaun kambakht hai jo
bardasht karne le liye peeta hai, main to peeta hoon ki bas saans le
sakoon.”Amrit Shah, filmmaker Bimal Roy’s manager however reveals that while the actor was always in character through the making of the 1955 film, he never saw him inebriated. “Devdas might be drunk but Dilip Kumar never was,” asserts the nonagenarian, who goes on to recall how on the day of the film’s premiere in Kolkata, while the press was watching the tragic love story, Roy rushed Dilip Kumar and Suchitra Sen to New Theatres Studio where he shot a scene of Parvati returning home after her nuptials with a zamindar years older, to learn that Devdas has been drinking heavily. Since she still loves him, when they run into each other on the staircase, she stops for a brief chat, hoping to wean him off alcohol. “Even though the film was on the verge of being unveiled, Bimalda felt that the connecting link between two scenes was missing and when he got his actors together, he grabbed the opportunity to shoot it. It went by in a flash but he still incorporated it into the film later. That is the kind of meticulous director he was,” narrates Shah who’d joined Bimal Roy’s production company just six months before and remained close to the family even after his death on January 8, 1966.
During Madhumati which was filmed in Ranikhet
and Ghorakhal in the Nainital district, Shah and Dilip Kumar lived under
the same roof, in adjacent six-by-eight-feet rooms with a cordoned-off
bath. The village was devoid of amenities, including bare necessities
like electricity, tea, milk and even water. But there were no airs or
starry tantrums from the leading man when he was asked to bathe rather
than shower with a bucket of hot water or given a stringed ‘khatiya’ to
sleep on. “He would eat meals with the unit, never missed his call time
and after shooting, we’d often sit together and chat about everything,
from cinema to religion,” narrates Shah, recalling how once, with the
boldness of youth, he had quizzed the actor on rumours of his
interference on the sets and how he had ghost-directed some of his
films. “Yusuf bhai asked me if I had ever seen him give Bimal da
instructions or even suggestions. But he admitted that in certain cases
he had no option but to intervene if unsatisfied with the director,
because films were being sold on his name and as the ‘hero’ he couldn’t
afford to disappoint his fans.”That shoot was an eye-opener for Shah. He flashbacks to a drive from Delhi to Nainital, that took them past a famous temple. They had to drive across a river over a sheet which served as a makeshift road. Halfway down it, the car slipped and stalled. Dilip Kumar’s fans instantly spotted him inside and crowded the car. Even as visions of mob violence flitted through Shah’s mind, he stepped out and spoke to the star-struck devotees. While doing so, he casually rested his hand on the car and tried to push it. Instantly, everyone around gave him a hand and car was back on track. “Smiling at his fans, Yusuf bhai got into the car and we crossed the river. But after about 100 metres, he asked the driver to stop and reasoned that pilgrims came to the temple and to the river every day to pray and we were passing by without stopping,” narrates Shah. To his surprise, the actor got out again, walked down the river bank, and scooping up some water washed his hands and feet, closed his eyes and prayed before proceeding to shoot for his paranormal romance drama with Vyjayanthimala playing three characters. Madhumati bagged nine Filmfare Awards, including best director for Bimal Roy.
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