Showing posts with label Gopalganj. Show all posts
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We used to not burst firecrakers on Diwali as it used to scare cows and other animals-Pankaj Tripathi
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Actor Pankaj Tripathi, who was born and raised in a village in Bihar, fondly recalls the simple, heartfelt Diwali celebrations of his childhood, worlds away from the raucous city festivities
Yashika Mathur (HINDUSTAN TIMES; October 13, 2025)
He may be one of the most sought-after actors in the industry today, but Pankaj Tripathi remains deeply rooted in his small-town upbringing. As Diwali approaches, the actor reflects on the simple, heartfelt celebrations of his childhood in Belsand, Gopalganj (Bihar).
“In the village we used to have mitti ke diye with cotton wicks. It used to be an organic and peaceful Diwali,” the 49-year-old tells us.
Unlike the city’s high-decibel Diwali celebrations, firecrackers were never a big part of the festivities in Pankaj’s village. “Humare yahan pataakon ka chalan nahin tha zyada aur kaaran ye tha ki tez awaaz se gaaye, pashu darr jaate the. Iss wajeh se darwaze pe hum pataake nahin jala paate thhe. To sirf fuljhari and mitte ke diye,” shares the actor who will next be seen in Mirzapur: The Film.
He continues, “Hum apne ghar mein diye laga ke, dur se jaa ke dekhte thhe,” finding a special joy in seeing the home lit by diyas. According to him, “Bijli ki jhaalarein wo sukh nahin deti jo diye dete thhe,” and there was also a sense of responsibility, “Aur usko jaalaye rakhne ki bhi duty hai,” that made the tradition meaningful.
For this year, the actor, who now lives in Mumbai, has left the planning to his wife and daughter and says, “Unke plan mein main bass shamil ho jata hun.”
Pankaj Tripathi opens a library in honour of his late father
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Pankaj Tripathi has opened a library in honour of his late father, who placed a lot of ‘importance on education’
Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; September 11, 2023)
August was bittersweet for Pankaj Tripathi, who lost his father, Pandit Benaras Tiwari on August 21 and just three days later, he won the National Film Award for Best Supporting Actor for Mimi (2021). “Life aisi hi hai; ups and downs chalte rehte hain. Babuji baahar nahin dikhenge par meri yaadon mein hain. Unke values hamesha saath hain. We have to live by them,” he gets emotional.
While the loss is still fresh, work doesn’t stop and the actor has got back to his professional commitments. But, to keep his father’s memory alive, the actor and his family have started a library at a higher secondary school in his home town, Gopalganj, Bihar.
The 46-year-old says, “This was a family decision. We have adopted a school in our village and helped improve its infrastructure. My elder brother and I asked the kids, who said they were eager to read more. My father placed a lot of importance on education and we wanted to build a library in his name.”
The OMG 2 actor recalls how his father sent him and his siblings to Patna for their higher education: “He was progressive and believed that change only happens with education. Inaugurating a library in his memory is the perfect tribute to babuji.”
For Tripathi, this library, is his contribution to the future generation. He says, “I hope to instil a lifelong love for knowledge and literature in the hearts of the students. Education is the greatest gift we can give to our future generations.”
Depiction of rural India needs to go beyond the caricaturish portrayals for comic relief-Pankaj Tripathi
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Pankaj Tripathi, whose next Kaagaz is set in rural India, believes Hindi cinema has failed to present villages authentically on screen
Mohar Basu (MID-DAY; June 11, 2020)
With several big projects — including Gunjan Saxena: The Kargil Girl, Ludo and '83 — under his belt, it is surprising when Pankaj Tripathi says that he holds Kaagaz closest to his heart. But the actor has his reasons — he believes that in telling the real-life story of Lal Bihari, the Azamgarh-based farmer who was declared dead on paper, the Satish Kaushik-directed film wonderfully captures the earthiness of rural India. While Bollywood films have discovered the charm of small-town stories in the recent years, Tripathi says that the industry has yet to wake up to its rural counterpart.
"There's a large part of India, and a beautiful one at that, which remains unexplored on the big screen. There needs to be a better depiction of rural India; it needs to go beyond the caricaturish portrayals for comic relief. There are many underdog stories of relentless work and perseverance waiting to be told," argues the actor.
He is proud that Salman Khan recognised the merit of the narrative and agreed to back it. "Kaagaz was a journey that took me back to my time in Gopalganj [his village]. I hope the film will mark the beginning of many such stories," he adds.
Whenever my batteries get drained due to work pressure, I go back to my village-Pankaj Tripathi
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Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; November 17, 2019)
It has been a chock-a-block year for actor Pankaj Tripathi with multiple releases and shoots such as ’83 alongside Ranveer Singh, Gunjan Saxena: The Kargil Girl, Panga, Dhaka and the second season of Sacred Games for an OTT giant. Next up, he will kick off Mimi along with Kriti Sanon. The team was already in the midst of workshops over the last few weeks, after which the shoot kicked off in Rajasthan last week. But, before work sucks him in, Pankaj decided to unwind by spending some quality time in his family home in Bihar.
Born in a farmer’s house, the Bareilly Ki Barfi (2017) actor prefers detaching from the hustle and bustle of the fast-paced life in the city and retreating to Belsand, a village in Gopalganj district of Bihar.
Pankaj says, “When I’m home, I do not think or talk about work. I spend a few days with my parents every now and then, without any distractions, to feel peaceful. I meet the people of the village and hear about their problems and lives. Whenever my batteries get drained due to work pressure, I go back to my village. It is like getting a recharge. I like to cut off from the busyness of everyday life, stay away from my phone and calls to reconnect with my inner self and what triggered me to become an artiste.”
Pankaj Tripathi to set up a creative hub in his village Gopalganj for artistes to pen stories, films
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Mohar Basu (MID-DAY; May 25, 2019)
His artistic nature aptly deciphering the needs of creative minds, Pankaj Tripathi knows it's hard to be innovative when stuck in the hustle and bustle of the city. In order to give writers and filmmakers a fitting ambience to explore their imagination, he plans to set up an outlet of sorts in the natural habitat of Gopalganj, Bihar.
The actor tells mid-day, "I plan to acquire the land soon. I am going to make an organic jungle by sourcing water from a small pond to create a habitat. I want aspiring writers to visit this place to write new stories, and filmmakers to use it as a backdrop, if suitable. The idea is to have a rural studio where stories of the land can be written, alongside a small spot, where farming can be practised, simultaneously." Tripathi intends to allocate a spacious 25 acres to his dream project, even though he says he doesn't intend to reap monetary benefits from it. "Film-making is my dream. While I'm not sure if that will be realised, I can make a [promising space for existing creators]."
Despite making a mark in the city of dreams, Tripathi often loves to elope to his village to return to an organic lifestyle. He says he has always desired owning land in his hometown, and now plans to take his dream further by giving wings to this project. He also reveals that he aims to create a film-making studio, where aspiring actors and filmmakers can groom themselves.
Pankaj Tripathi to spearhead cleanliness campaign in his hometown Gopalganj in Bihar
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Pankaj Tripathi has been chosen to spearhead the cleanliness campaign in his hometown of Gopalganj in Bihar
Natasha Coutinho (MUMBAI MIRROR; April 6, 2018)
Pankaj Tripathi, who rose to fame with his spirited turns in Anurag Kashyap’s Gangs of Wasseypur and, more recently, Amit Masurkar’s critically acclaimed National Award-winner Newton, has been chosen by district magistrate Rahul Kumar as the face of Swachh Bharat Abhiyan and will take the cleanliness campaign to his village of Gopalganj in Bihar.
“I guess it’s because I’m really popular in Gopalganj and the youth there are inspired by my talks as they have a connect with me. Not every home in my village has toilets. Water, electricity and roads are also issues that need attention and we are looking to bringing some changes there in the coming months,” says Pankaj, adding that Rahul and the other residents have also shot a video with him to spread the message at local events.
What else would he like to take forward in his new role in the public domain, you wonder, and Pankaj says he hopes more celebrities will come forward to spread this all-important message of cleanliness. “As celebrities, we have a social responsibility too, besides entertaining people. We must make the audience think. I come from a theatre background, so I give more importance to social building than body building.”
On the work front, the 41-year-old actor is currently filming Stree with Rajkummar Rao and Shraddha Kapoor. “We are shooting in Chanderi and Lucknow. I will soon start filming for Anubhav Sinha’s Abhi Toh Party Shuru Hui Hai as well,” he signs off.
Pankaj Tripathi goes back to jail, but this time for an interactive session
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Sanyukta Iyer (MUMBAI MIRROR; March 19, 2018)
Last week, Pankaj Tripathi, the critically acclaimed actor of Newton and
Bareilly Ki Barfi, returned to his hometown, Gopalganj, in Bihar, for
some family time. While he was there, his friend, IAS officer Rahul
Kumar, invited him for an impromptu interactive session with 300
convicts at the Chanawe prison to be overseen by jail superintendent
Sandeep Kumar and Pankaj accepted immediately.“Rahul is one of the best officers in Bihar, instrumental in transforming the social life in Gopalganj district by building 11,000 toilets in the area. He is young, dynamic and fond of literature and cultural arts. Apart from farming and fishing, he has also started a film club inside the jail and will be screening Nil Battey Sannata this week,” informs the 41-year-old actor who played the earnest principal Srivastava in the Ashwiny Iyer Tiwari directorial.
While talking on inspirational subjects with the prisoners, including the freedom movement, Pankaj recalled how he had served a seven-day term in Patna jail for being a part of the aggressive student union protests in 1993. “There was nothing to do inside but read books. I finished every classic the prison library had to offer and after I was released, I quit the student union to take up literature,” he narrates.
Going back to jail was an emotional experience as he interacted with women prisoners too, including one with a two-year-old child. “There are also highly educated men inside who have watched the best of films. It made me wonder about their life behind bars today,” the actor sighs.
Last month, Mithun Chakraborty binged on my dabba-Pankaj Tripathi
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As told to Sanyukta Iyer (MUMBAI MIRROR; March 12, 2018)
The art of cooking is a lot like acting in that both require passion, creativity, concentration and patience. When you’re reading a script, you imagine yourself as the character and work towards it. In the same way, while cooking a meal, you sort and clean the vegetables, chop and marinate the meat, decide on the right amount of spices all with the dish in mind. It requires a little judgement and lots of practice. Overcook your ingredients and the dish is ruined. Similarly, overact and the scene is ruined.
In 1997, after failing the medical entrance examination twice and flushing my father’s dream of seeing me as a doctor down the drain, I invested my entire savings of Rs 27,000 in buying 10 samples of fancy shoes from a Kolkata manufacturer. I was supposed to pitch them to showrooms in Bihar. Simultaneously, I also partnered with a real estate agent to sell a plot at two per cent commission. For six months, I pitched both to every potential customer but could sell neither. Finally, I distributed the shoes among friends, taking whatever little they were willing to pay for them.
By the time, I’d moved from my village of Gopalganj to the city of Patna where my chachaji pointed out that there was a huge demand for desi chefs abroad and suggested I enrol in a cooking school. I signed up for a two-year course at a popular hotel as a kitchen assistant.
All I did for the first month was peel onions and potatoes for eight hours a day. To keep myself entertained, I started watching plays in my free time and yearned to discuss theatre with the people at work too but the other cooks were not even remotely interested in literature, music or film. They saw cooking as a full-time job, for me it was a means to connect better with family and friends. Food was for people to talk and laugh over and it frustrated me that there were no like-minded people in my kitchen. So, in my second year, I switched to the night-shift and started working with a theatre troupe during the day. I was at the hotel from 11 pm to 7 am but the managers still had a problem because I was always late coming in. When I was getting yelled at once, I told the chef off, saying, “Dekh lena, I will become an actor one day and come to this hotel to eat, and you will serve me!”
During the time, I decided to privately cater for weddings and birthday parties. It seemed like easy money but I was put off by the disrespect for food and chef. At one event, a woman wanted to meet the cook and when they presented me to her like I had presented my Gobi Manchurian, I realised she had only wanted the recipe. I told myself that day that I’d never try catering again. By the age of 24, I had quit my pursuit of professional cooking and was doing theatre full-time. Today, when I look back, I realise that destiny had its own plans for me.
At 41, my sauteed vegetables in black pepper and butter is a hit on every film set. Last month, Mithun da (actor Mithun Chakraborty) binged on my dabba. When we were filming Newton in the jungles of Chhattisgarh, I used to go out and pluck spinach, brinjal and other vegetables and cook meals at a dhaba close to our hotel. My co-stars Rajkummar Rao and Anjali Patil, along with the director Amit Masurkar, ate them every day, licking their fingers. And watching them I realised that cooking is similar to acting in another way. The joy you see on someone’s face after savouring a hearty meal equals witnessing a positive response to your film.
I saw Mahesh Bhatt's name flash on Truecaller, and was taken aback-Pankaj Tripathi
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How actor Pankaj Tripathi’s story changed after Newton, India’s entry to the Academy Awards
Sanyukta Iyer (MUMBAI MIRROR; October 15, 2017)
Over the past three weeks, Pankaj Tripathi has, despite being not too familiar with Twitter, has encountered the pseudo pleasure of a blue tick; started using earphones “because the phone gets uncomfortably warm when you repeatedly take calls”; and has, perhaps, after over a decade of being wedded to their daughter Mridula, finally banished his in-laws’ doubts about her choice of husband.
“That night was something else,” says Tripathi, about the time he watched Newton, India’s entry at the Academy Awards, with his in-laws at a Malad theatre, seated on the second row. The man seated next to Tripathi recognised him and asked him whether he, too, featured in Amit Masurkar’s black comedy which revolves around an election at a remote polling booth in Maoist-hit Chattisgarh. “I said ‘no, I’ve just come to watch it’.” When the movie ended, Tripathi — and his in-laws — had to make their way a scrum of admirers.
I am at Tripathi’s spacious but simple rental in Malad. The tiny apartment he first stayed in when he came to Mumbai over a decade ago is visible from the large windows of his current home.
Tripathi, a tall man with piercing brown eyes, speaks with a gentle, elegant cadence — it’s almost as if his speech were italicised — about Gopalganj, near Gorakhpur, where he grew up; studying and acting at the National School of Drama in New Delhi; the years he spent working in stultifying television serials in Mumbai; and about his precisely calibrated portrayal of Aatma Singh, the CRPF officer in Newton, a man unused to being disobeyed and who is the State in a region in which it’s just a notion.
When Tripathi first read Newton’s script, he thought Aatma Singh was too much of a bad guy. “So I told Amit ‘yaar, let’s add some grey to this character’. We are all neither good nor bad, just in between.”
Tripathi’s portrayal of the CRPF officer — both an instrument and a victim of the State — is among the stand-out performances in an exceedingly brilliant ensemble cast. But he rates his performance as the ruthless Kehri Singh in the dystopian Gurgaon as his most accomplished yet. “I’ve always believed that my job as an actor is to engage the audience. With Kehri Singh, I didn’t have many tools to do it, and I had to make the best of what I had.” Tripathi might have marked himself out with the portrayals of Kehri Singh, Rangeela (Anaarkali of Aarah), Principal Srivastava (Nil Battey Sannata), and Sadhyaji (Masaan), but Newton, he says, is a kind of new dawn, a breakout film for him. “I can feel it. I even got calls from Dantewada, and how often do people like Mahesh Bhatt call up someone to appreciate their performance? I saw his name flash on Truecaller, and was taken aback. What touched me was his mention of how even in sequences that were wide angles, or where Aatma Singh was out of focus, I stayed in character.”
With Newton, though, Tripathi, who has been besieged with offers, says he is starting on a clean slate, and certainly doesn’t want to do Bihari roles. “Our industry makes you a stereotype overnight. All ‘baaps’ and villains have the same traits. I have a major problem with Bihari clichés, so it’s a daily fight. The Biharis you see in Hindi films don’t exist in real Bihar, just as ‘balle balle-wale’ Punjabis and ‘dhokla-undhiyo’ Gujaratis too, don’t exist.”
Plus, he says, he has to be more careful about the kind of roles he plays. “I was jogging near my home last week, and a few youngsters came up to me and started appreciating my work. They didn’t know my name and neither did they ask me for a selfie. They just kept referring to me as Mishraji, Panditji (from Fukrey) and Sultan (Gangs of Wasseypur). It was an eye-opener. I told myself, ‘main kuch bhi bakwaas kaam nahi karunga’.”
Tripathi says he has also been examining the illusion of success since Netwon released. “Sometimes, I’m astounded, especially when I am invited to inaugurate malls — in Bihar — or attend Navratri events, both of which have happened recently. I tell them (invitees) that I will be out of place there. I can’t mimic anyone; I’m not a ‘shayr’ — why can’t they invite a social worker instead? I don’t think actors are as important as they are made out to be. There are several other people who are more significant as far as society goes.”
Tripathi, 42, will be seen in several movies over the course of the next year. He will make his Tamil debut with Pa Ranjith’s Kaala Karikaalan, in which he plays a Maharashtrian police officer, alongside Rajinikanth; he’s getting all spiffy for Karan Johar’s Drive, which also stars Sushant Singh Rajput and Jacqueline Fernandez (“for the first time in 15 years, I had a hair stylist!”); there’s Fukrey Returns at the end of the year, and Mirzapur, a 10-episode mini-series in which he plays the lead.
Filmmakers, he says, have finally begun to see him for more than just a Bihari. And, he plans to make the most of it by remembering a couple of things. One, is his guru B V Karanth’s advice about “creating maximum through minimum”, which refers to economy of gestures and expressions, and the other is to act as if he were simply living his character’s life. “That’s the ultimate aim,” says Tripathi. “Act as if you are living someone’s life, and there is somebody capturing it.”
Over the past three weeks, Pankaj Tripathi has, despite being not too familiar with Twitter, has encountered the pseudo pleasure of a blue tick; started using earphones “because the phone gets uncomfortably warm when you repeatedly take calls”; and has, perhaps, after over a decade of being wedded to their daughter Mridula, finally banished his in-laws’ doubts about her choice of husband.
“That night was something else,” says Tripathi, about the time he watched Newton, India’s entry at the Academy Awards, with his in-laws at a Malad theatre, seated on the second row. The man seated next to Tripathi recognised him and asked him whether he, too, featured in Amit Masurkar’s black comedy which revolves around an election at a remote polling booth in Maoist-hit Chattisgarh. “I said ‘no, I’ve just come to watch it’.” When the movie ended, Tripathi — and his in-laws — had to make their way a scrum of admirers.
I am at Tripathi’s spacious but simple rental in Malad. The tiny apartment he first stayed in when he came to Mumbai over a decade ago is visible from the large windows of his current home.
Tripathi, a tall man with piercing brown eyes, speaks with a gentle, elegant cadence — it’s almost as if his speech were italicised — about Gopalganj, near Gorakhpur, where he grew up; studying and acting at the National School of Drama in New Delhi; the years he spent working in stultifying television serials in Mumbai; and about his precisely calibrated portrayal of Aatma Singh, the CRPF officer in Newton, a man unused to being disobeyed and who is the State in a region in which it’s just a notion.
When Tripathi first read Newton’s script, he thought Aatma Singh was too much of a bad guy. “So I told Amit ‘yaar, let’s add some grey to this character’. We are all neither good nor bad, just in between.”
Tripathi’s portrayal of the CRPF officer — both an instrument and a victim of the State — is among the stand-out performances in an exceedingly brilliant ensemble cast. But he rates his performance as the ruthless Kehri Singh in the dystopian Gurgaon as his most accomplished yet. “I’ve always believed that my job as an actor is to engage the audience. With Kehri Singh, I didn’t have many tools to do it, and I had to make the best of what I had.” Tripathi might have marked himself out with the portrayals of Kehri Singh, Rangeela (Anaarkali of Aarah), Principal Srivastava (Nil Battey Sannata), and Sadhyaji (Masaan), but Newton, he says, is a kind of new dawn, a breakout film for him. “I can feel it. I even got calls from Dantewada, and how often do people like Mahesh Bhatt call up someone to appreciate their performance? I saw his name flash on Truecaller, and was taken aback. What touched me was his mention of how even in sequences that were wide angles, or where Aatma Singh was out of focus, I stayed in character.”
With Newton, though, Tripathi, who has been besieged with offers, says he is starting on a clean slate, and certainly doesn’t want to do Bihari roles. “Our industry makes you a stereotype overnight. All ‘baaps’ and villains have the same traits. I have a major problem with Bihari clichés, so it’s a daily fight. The Biharis you see in Hindi films don’t exist in real Bihar, just as ‘balle balle-wale’ Punjabis and ‘dhokla-undhiyo’ Gujaratis too, don’t exist.”
Plus, he says, he has to be more careful about the kind of roles he plays. “I was jogging near my home last week, and a few youngsters came up to me and started appreciating my work. They didn’t know my name and neither did they ask me for a selfie. They just kept referring to me as Mishraji, Panditji (from Fukrey) and Sultan (Gangs of Wasseypur). It was an eye-opener. I told myself, ‘main kuch bhi bakwaas kaam nahi karunga’.”
Tripathi says he has also been examining the illusion of success since Netwon released. “Sometimes, I’m astounded, especially when I am invited to inaugurate malls — in Bihar — or attend Navratri events, both of which have happened recently. I tell them (invitees) that I will be out of place there. I can’t mimic anyone; I’m not a ‘shayr’ — why can’t they invite a social worker instead? I don’t think actors are as important as they are made out to be. There are several other people who are more significant as far as society goes.”
Tripathi, 42, will be seen in several movies over the course of the next year. He will make his Tamil debut with Pa Ranjith’s Kaala Karikaalan, in which he plays a Maharashtrian police officer, alongside Rajinikanth; he’s getting all spiffy for Karan Johar’s Drive, which also stars Sushant Singh Rajput and Jacqueline Fernandez (“for the first time in 15 years, I had a hair stylist!”); there’s Fukrey Returns at the end of the year, and Mirzapur, a 10-episode mini-series in which he plays the lead.
Filmmakers, he says, have finally begun to see him for more than just a Bihari. And, he plans to make the most of it by remembering a couple of things. One, is his guru B V Karanth’s advice about “creating maximum through minimum”, which refers to economy of gestures and expressions, and the other is to act as if he were simply living his character’s life. “That’s the ultimate aim,” says Tripathi. “Act as if you are living someone’s life, and there is somebody capturing it.”
Till date, I haven’t seen any of our heroes get acidity in the films-Pankaj Tripathi
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Harshada Rege (DNA; October 7, 2017)
It’s been a great year for Pankaj Tripathi. From playing small roles in serials and movies to winning critical acclaim and applause from the audience for four films, he sure has come a long way. His brilliance as an actor can be seen in the varied characters he has played in Anaarkali of Aarah, Gurgaon, Bareilly Ki Barfi, and Newton, all of which hit the screens within a short span. He is very much in demand for strong character roles, but he is in no hurry to sign on anything that comes his way. He has a great backstory. Read on for excerpts in which he talks about his humble beginnings, to working as a cook and then finally his journey into the world of acting (and everything in between).
Do you remember the day you came to Mumbai to pursue acting?
Yes, it was on October 16, 2004, at 7.30 am by the Paschim Express.
You did a few TV shows...
Yes, I used to do TV shows. I have played an inspector in one, a lawyer in another for seven episodes. It was enough for survival. My wife was a teacher. Ghar chal jaata tha, par dukan nahi chal paati thi. But, I hadn’t come here to become a hero. In fact, if someone would have offered to put their money on a film with me, I would have told them to forget it and instead get some relative of theirs to act in it. A lot of independent people come, too. The producer is new and so is the nephew. The thing is, in India, once a man has everything, all the basic infrastructure, then he wants to make a film because every man has a story that he wants to make into a film.
With all the struggle, did you ever think about giving up?
I didn’t think of doing anything else. I am also a cook. Just the other day, I got a call when I was cooking for my daughter. A journalist from Karnataka called to talk to me about Newton getting selected for Oscar, I couldn’t even have a conversation because I was so emotional.
Your marriage has an interesting back story...
I was in 10th standard when I had decided that I will have a love marriage. Nobody in my village had done it. I had my heart set on it. I didn’t know what I was going to do in my life, but this was the one thing I was certain about.
You had girls in your school?
That was a big tragedy. I come from a village. In eighth, ninth and 10th standard, there were about six girls, who would come in after the teacher walked in and were asked to leave before the teacher exited. They even sat separately. In four years, we didn’t even ask them their names. That led to different kinds of complexities. When I went to drama school in Delhi, I often found myself unable to talk to girls. I was shocked when I came to Delhi. Bahut hichkichahat hoti thi. I would hide at times to avoid talking with women. A bit of that hesitation is still there.
So how did you meet your wife?
My sister was getting married, but the in-laws wanted to make a toilet before she started living there. This was much before Toilet - Ek Prem Katha. My friend had gone to their village to oversee the construction. He saw a girl there, came back and told me about her. He said she is beautiful, she walks like a doe. I heard all that praise and was lost. Around 11 years later we got married. We were seeing each other from 1993 to 2004. During that time, I went to the drama school. It was a different kind of time because there were no cell phones and we couldn’t write letters in case anyone in the house opened them. When I went to NSD, there was a phone there and she had a landline in her house. We decided that every day at 7.30 am and 8 pm, we’ll talk to each other. That went on for some time.
How did you think of getting into acting?
I am from Gopalganj, Bihar. We have a river near our village on the other side of which is Manoj Bajpayee’s village, Champaran. Somewhere, he had a hand to play in my becoming an actor. When Satya released, people were talking a lot about him. I was preparing for medical then. Then Shool came. By then I was acting in plays. I felt that if someone from neighbouring village can go, become an actor, probably I can, too. Later, I started working in a hotel in Patna where he was staying during a shoot. I met him there. The next day, while leaving, he forgot his slippers. I asked the hotel people to give it to me. I told them, ‘Woh guru hain, kam se kam unke charan paduka mein toh paer dalunga’. I wore out those slippers. I told him all this when we were shooting for Gangs Of Wasseypur (smiles).
Please continue...
I have a friend, Bhanu Uday, who would call me every day and ask me to come to Mumbai. He told me to come to Mumbai and not get into theatre. Theatre is difficult to survive on, there’s absolutely no money. My coming to Mumbai was about survival. I knew I liked acting, so my only dream was to survive. I was happy as long as there was enough. My only dream was to earn enough to take care of my family and maybe have a small car. For me, it’s important to sleep for eight hours than be a star. I get satisfied very easily. If someone offered me stardom and gave me four hours of sleep instead of eight, I would tell them that it’s a great offer, but I would prefer to be ranked at number four with enough sleep, instead.
Your family didn’t object to your decision of becoming an actor?
No, there was no objection from my family. You know what happens, middle-class people have a lot of dreams that don’t get fulfilled. Like someone wants to be a doctor, but could only be a clerk, someone wanted to be a pilot, but became a courier boy. Then they want their kids to fulfill those dreams. But as a farmer, my father didn’t want me to be anything else. He was a pandit, and he thought that if I become a doctor that’s good, if not, then there was farming or being a pandit. He didn’t have any balance dreams. He only asked if I would be able to run a house. I told him that I will become a professor and teach acting. So, he was happy. It was just an excuse, but it worked. I do know that I am a good teacher. I may do that in the future.
And is direction on your list?
It is, par abhi acting ki dukan chal rahi toh abhi nahi karoonga.
Which recent films have you liked?
I loved Tithi, Court and Tanu Weds Manu Part I. To tell you the truth, I don’t watch any films. I have seen 50 movies so far in my life, and I haven’t seen any English films.
Why?
I just can’t sit in a place for two hours. I haven’t even seem Sholay completely. I don’t watch all my films. I am not attracted to the glamour of films. The other thing is agar kissi abhineta ki performance bahut acchi dikh jaaye toh mein pareshaan ho jaata hoon, ki aisa kaise kar liya? I do try to explain it to myself that it’s my work and so I should watch more films but....
Do you keep in touch with theatre?
Yes, I do watch plays, I know Kumud bhai (Kumud Mishra) Gopal Tiwari, and Manav Kaul. They let me know when they have something coming up. But I haven’t seen a play for the last two-three years because of my schedule.
Do you think actors like you and Seema Pahwa have brought the other supporting actors into focus, too?
It’s not because of us, it’s because of the audience. Also, it’s about the story. Like, in Bareilly Ki Barfi, the parents are not fillers, who drop in only to create trouble. Nitesh Tiwari ne likha hi aise tha ki the story won’t be complete without them. People are also demanding it because platforms like Netflix and Amazon have come into people’s homes, especially in the urban zones. Newton and Nil Battey Sannata wouldn’t have gotten any theatres 10 years ago. The audience is growing. Even then everything is not perfect. A movie like Gurgaon got just about 80 theatres. So even now, a good film can slip away without getting noticed. But the director of that film was brilliant! I would love to work with him again. It was an enriching experience. He is a very sorted guy. Though the movie was a bit dark and brooding, he’s not anything like that. In fact, Gurgaon was technically, even more, sound than Newton.
Which directors do you want to work with?
Dibaker Banerjee. I don’t watch too many films, but I loved the short tale he directed in Bombay Talkies.
Among actors, there are two schools of thought, one which believes in eating, breathing and living the character like Nawazuddin Siddiqui is doing with Manto, while others like Naseeruddin Shah and Irrfan Khan believe in bringing the character out of oneself. Which of the two do you believe in?
I agree with Naseeruddin Shah. I can’t close a room and stay in it for five days. We have all learnt from various masters, but every actor, eventually, forms his own method of acting. No two actors can use the same method. Even if I don’t become a character, I am thinking about it, and that’s also working on building it.
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Your craft should be such that it is not visible to the viewers. There’s a difference between being effortless and bloodless. Sometimes, while chasing realism, you don’t even realise that you have become boring. I have been a cook, I know how much spice is needed. I make sure that I don’t become boring. At the same time, one has to experiment. In Gurgaon, I had decided to create maximum through minimum. Like, if you are angry, you do certain things like make your eyes big, stare for a long time, or flex your jawline. I decided to not do that and see if I can communicate. And I was successful. So, there is a craft, but I don’t ever give up on being impulsive or spontaneous. I don’t need pin drop silence on the sets or I don’t need my eye line clear. Rajkummar can’t have anyone in his eye line. I don’t need anyone to give the cue. It does make it better if you have someone doing that, but it’s not absolutely important. I don’t lose my concentration.
Do you ever get affected by a character on a psychological level?
That can happen sometimes, if I have adopted a particular physicality. In Mani Ratnam’s Raavan, a role that probably nobody other than me noticed or cared for — I had adopted a body language for a long time. That became a habit. Then you have to work on breaking that habit
Do you ever feel the need to recharge your batteries as an actor? What do you do for it?
I go back to my village. I went there recently and stayed with my parents. I am very connected to my village. I don’t do farming or any work as such, but I meet the people there. My senses are very good because of that, they get affected in mahanagars. You don’t realise what you are watching. You can’t make out the difference between music and noise. I read a lot of Hindi sahitya.
Do you think our actors focus too much on physicality?
Biceps, triceps are necessary. We want our heroes to be like superheroes. Till date, I haven’t seen any of our heroes get acidity in the films. They are perfect.
Which actors do you admire?
Om Puri. I used to like him a lot. Naseer saab’s craft you can make out. Irrfan, ab mujhe lagta hai ki unhone apna comfort zone bana liya hai. But he is a great actor. In India, an actor needs to do a lot to not get repetitive. At the end of the day, you want to become an actor and sell products. I want to save myself. I have earned people’s trust, so I can’t afford to lose it. Though you will see me in a mediocre film soon.
Why is that?
I did it for a friend.
You had said that it is difficult for you to say no to work....
It’s a small industry. Logon ko lag sakta hai ki ego mein aa gaya hai. It’s difficult to say no because people may feel he has become too big for his boots. I have just refused two-three big makers, they might feel that I struggled to meet them and now that they are offering me a film I am refusing it. They might think it’s because of ego. But when I want to refuse a film I meet the filmmaker, even the new ones, I tell them honestly that it is not about money or dates, it’s because of certain other reasons.
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Before this, I used to feel guilty about turning down films because it meant turning down a few lakhs when my father, a pandit used to stay awake all night and earn Rs 2,000. I have seen hard times. There was a time when I didn’t have more than Rs 200 to buy milk for my daughter. I remember, suddenly I got a call from a person who introduced himself as Raghav Pandey. He was related to a lady in my village. He said he was posted at INS Hamla, at Madh, he said you can come and buy things from the army canteen if you need anything. I jumped at the offer. For the next six months, the grocery would come from there because it was half the price. That was the time I was doing theatre. I am not telling you this to gain sympathy, because there has never been a day when we didn’t have dinner. My wife used to earn well.
She doesn’t work now?
Woh ladh leti hai sab se. Just today, she was saying I am going to let go of this driver because he is not good. A few days ago, she was saying that she likes me better when I play roles that have me as a slightly arrogant guy like the one in Newton. A friend of mine told her that’s because I am not like that in real life.
Have you become choosy now?
Yes, I have. I wasn’t till now. I have been refusing people for almost two-three months now. After Gurgaon, BKB, and Newton, I said to myself, ‘Dost, ab ruk jaa’. There have been times when I have done work for friends without thinking whether it was of good quality or not. But now, I have realised that the two are separate and should not be mixed. A friend of mine had come down and he was shooting a music video, he asked me to come on the day of the shoot. I went. Then he told me to get in the frame of a shot. So now there’s a shot of me in some video somewhere (laughs).
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