Showing posts with label Arbaaz Khan interview. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Arbaaz Khan interview. Show all posts
I am excited about embracing fatherhood again-Arbaaz Khan
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Vinay MR Mishra (BOMBAY TIMES; June 11, 2025)
From the electric thrill of falling in love again, embracing fatherhood with wide-eyed anticipation, to weathering harrowing threats that sought to shake his family’s foundation, actor Arbaaz Khan address all the topics for once and all in an exclusive chat with us.
'If you fall in love once, you can fall in love again'
Arbaaz, who has started filming his next film Maine Pyaar Kiya Phir Se, admits the script seemed interesting to him. “It seemed a little fresh and new. I always look for something that is a little challenging, sometimes a little different from what I've done in the past,” he tells us. Interestingly, the film’s theme of falling in love again mirrors a chapter in Arbaaz Khan’s own life — after his separation, he found love anew with makeup artist Sshura Khan, whom he married.
Ask him about giving love a second chance, and he explains, “If you fall in love once, you can fall in love again, because you have love in you. If you have love in you, you can keep giving love. I am not of the principle that if you've loved once, you can never love again. Why should that be the case? You have whole life to lead. Are you really going to worry about the fact that you loved somebody in your early years and then the rest of your life you're supposed to sit down in some kind of anticipation. You should be hopeful, and you should be happy with loving coming in your life at whatever stage. If it continues with the same person, great. If it doesn't and you receive it from somewhere else, sometime else, be very open and willing for it. Loving something or someone is never a problem. Hating somebody and doing wrongful things is a problem. Why should loving somebody be a problem?”
He adds, "Everybody should have a chance and second shot at falling in love. There's nothing wrong in loving again."
'I want to keep the sanctity of my relationship'
The actor admits he has “always been very private”. “I've become more public now,” he says, adding rhetorically, “You cannot put your entire life out. Where is the compulsion? Then might as well live in a Bigg Boss house or a Truman show, have camera everywhere and let people know what the hell you're doing from morning to evening.”
He continues to stay mum about his marriage with Sshura to maintain the sanctitiy of the relationship. “Of course (I want to keep the sanctity of my relationship). Why not? You should be able to choose what you need to let people know, unless it's required. I think most celebs don't like to talk about their personal lives. Why me? I'm not some exception. It's now just become the pressure that the public wants to know. But it's in our hands how much we would want. I want to keep my personal life private, as much as I can. When I step out, people see us, then that's a different thing,” he explains.
Arbaaz and Sshura’s videos are quite a hit amongst the paps. He confesses, he has never called them nor paid them. “I've never paid for anything in my life... We have now accepted that. We've got no complaints with anybody for that matter. We're just happy that the way they've taken a liking towards her in particular. They've been very nice, affectionate, polite, respectful and kind towards her,” he adds.
'The pregnancy is giving me a new sense of happiness or responsibility'
The two got hitched in 2023 and the couple is expecting their first baby. For the first time, the 57-year-old confirms the pregnancy, adding, “Yes, it is there. I'm not denying that information because right now it's something that is out there, my family knows about it. People have got to know about it, and it's fine. It's pretty evident also. It's a very exciting time in both our lives. We are happy and excited. We're going to welcome this new life in our life.”
Ask him if he is nervous, he replies, “Everybody tends to be nervous. Any person would feel (the nerves); I'm also getting into fatherhood now after some time. It's a fresh new feeling for me all over again. I'm excited. I'm happy and I'm looking forward. It's just giving me a new sense of happiness or responsibility. I'm kind of liking that.”
Arbaaz has been a father to Arhaan, ask him what kind of parent he thinks he will be, and he states, “There are no categories. You just have to be like a parent who is good. A good parent is someone who's around for their child, who's attentive, who's probably caring, loving and is doing the best to provide to the child. That's all that I want to be.”
'We've always been a very tight knit family'
On the subject of his family’s safety and security, the last one year has been tough for the Khans, with brother Salman receiving repeated death threats leading to heightened security in their Bandra home. He addresses the issue, “We've always been a very tight knit family. We've always been together in each and everybody's highs and lows.”
Salman's brother Arbaaz Khan has consistently emphasized Salman's unwavering support, especially during challenging times. In an April 2024 interview on his son Arhaan Khan's podcast 'Dumb Biryani', Arbaaz stated, "We are together when there is a crisis and that is the time when people run away from each other. Salman, me and him may not meet or communicate that often but when he realises that there's some kind of a problem, that man is not going to hesitate."
This highlights Salman's reliability and commitment to his family, showcasing his willingness to stand by them no matter the circumstances. Arbaaz also noted in an October 2024 Times of India interview that he draws inspiration from Salman's "dedication."
In the face of threats, he refuses to bow to fear: "There's nothing about being scared or not. We can only take the necessary precautions. Otherwise, there is nothing to. Who knows what's going to happen next. What are you going to do? Shut yourself in a goddamn room and sit."
It became trendy to go after celebs due to the brainwashing by certain media channels-Arbaaz Khan
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Kavita Awaasthi (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 17, 2021)
While the pandemic has affected everyone in various ways, trolling of celebs on social media went to another level. Arbaaz Khan, who too has often been bullied online, admits he doesn’t take it seriously as his peace of mind is important.
“There was a big section of people, like a wave, who trolled celebs. It became trendy to go after celebs because of the kind of brainwashing that happened due to certain media channels. It was a pandemic in its own way. It was fashionable to go after celebs, who are achievers or even ones who aren’t doing much. It was all so disturbing. Some handled it gracefully, some lashed out, others were upset and some ignored it. It was unfortunate and taught us a lot,” says the actor, who feels sometimes certain things happen to teach us a lesson.
“Last year taught us the magnitude of social media and how it affects lives. It is no more about posting fun pics, about dining or travel. We are all accountable for whatever we do online. There is a sense of responsibility as well,” shares Khan, who is currently busy with his chat show.
He admits that during the Coronavirus pandemic, lockdown and unlock phases, most celebs were not affected as much as others, but says everyone felt the brunt in some way. “We were all taken aback and disturbed in the larger sense, more for others than for ourselves. For people like us, to whom God has been kind, we could take it and it was a much-needed break. But we didn’t enjoy the break as the suffering around affected us too. We tried to help as many people as possible. On the other hand, even we had bills to pay and things to take care of. We felt the crunch too, but of course, it wasn’t the same like many others who suffered, whose daily lives were affected,” he says.
Emphasising the need to get vaccinated, Khan adds, “There was lack of beds, medicines, oxygen among others. Thankfully, things are better now and getting jabbed is the only way out.”
I enjoyed playing Makkhi this time-Arbaaz Khan
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Arbaaz Khan on taking the Dabangg franchise forward; rubbishes rumours of an impending wedding
Hiren Kotwani (MUMBAI MIRROR; December 13, 2019)
Arbaaz Khan’s relationship with Dabangg began as the producer and a pivotal character, Makhan Chand Pandey. After directing Part 2, he is back with the franchise in the original capacities. He attributes this change of guard for the third instalment, which is a bit of an origin story of its hero, Chulbul Pandey, to the makers’ collective urge to “explore something new”.“There’s been a big gap between Dabangg 2 and Part 3 and lots of things happened in the interim. Since we needed a fresh perspective for the third film, we thought, ‘who better than Prabhudheva’. His association with Salman (Khan) has been successful; he’s known for his commercial potboilers,” he explains.
Since Dabangg 3 is a prequel, will we also see more of Chulbul’s younger brother Makkhi’s character graph? Arbaaz says, “I’m happy with the way my character has developed, there’s a lot more for me to do; it’s got all the flavours now, in that it’s a lil’ bit funny and there are emotions and drama as well. I enjoyed playing the role this time around.”
There’s also a new girl in Chulbul’s life, played by debutante Saiee Manjrekar, whom the Robin Hood cop met much before Sonakshi Sinha’s Rajjo. According to Arbaaz, the addition was in line with the idea of giving the audience something new with each instalment. “Sonakshi and Salman are synonymous with the franchise. We can’t break that pairing. Chulbul is not the kind of guy who’d two-time, either. So, we created the scenario of someone else before he meets Rajjo,” he shares.
Arbaaz goes on to add that since the Pandey family remains the same, the team had to establish a new premise, in a new location, with a new problem and a new villain. “At the same time, the audience must feel like they are watching a ‘Dabangg’ story. With a franchise, you can’t deviate too much, otherwise, you will lose your audience,” he reasons.
Speaking of introducing new characters, Kannada actor Kiccha Sudeep, who was recently seen in Pehelwan, looks like a worthy antagonist for Chulbul Pandey. Arbaaz informs that the team was looking for someone who would be a good match for Salman, as an actor and in stature on screen. “Lots of names popped up, which I won’t reveal. Sudeep rang a bell. He’s a big star down South, it helps to pit two stars against each other. He is a great guy, too,” he says, adding that a film can sometimes take up to a year to go from planning to release so they wanted to work with someone they would enjoy collaborating with.
Next up, the actor has several projects lined up. “My first Malayalam film, Big Brother, with Mohanlal sir, opens in January. It’s huge to share screen space with such a legend. The film is directed by Siddique, who helmed Bodyguard,” Arbaaz informs. He’s got some Hindi film offers too, and is also working on some subjects to produce.Salman recently told Mirror (Dec 12) that the script of the fourth instalment is already complete. “I can assure you, the fourth instalment will happen in three-four years,” he promises.
There has been a lot of buzz around his personal life, with reports suggesting that girlfriend Georgia Andriani and he will tie the knot next year? “Who says that? My driver? My aunt? My brother? My girlfriend? My best friend? I won’t respond to questions based on hearsay. When I get engaged or married, dhol peet ke bolunga.”
Salman Khan was sure that Saiee Manjrekar fits the bill perfectly-Arbaaz Khan
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Arbaaz Khan on Chulbul’s new love interest in Dabangg 3; reveals that Irrfan Khan, Randeep Hooda were first choices for Robin Hood cop
Himesh Mankad (MUMBAI MIRROR; July 23, 2019)

Mirror was the first to report (July 16) that Mahesh Manjrekar’s younger daughter Saiee (left) is being launched opposite Salman Khan in the third instalment of his cop drama Dabangg. The actress plays the love interest of the 20-something Chulbul Pandey in the prequel scenes with Sonakshi Sinha as his better half Rajjo in the present day. “Salman has known Saiee for a while. He was sure she fits the bill perfectly as an innocent young girl and after seeing her perform, we know she’s exactly what we wanted for Dabangg 3,” asserts producer Arbaaz Khan.The Dabangg franchise kicked off in 2010 with Abhinav Kashyap as the director. “When Abhinav narrated the script to me, I asked him why he wasn’t offering me the role of the Robin Hood cop. But more than Chulbul, he saw me as Makkhi, which was an extension of my role in Jaane Tu... Ya Jaane Na. He was looking to cast Randeep Hooda or Irrfan Khan as the lead then but neither of them had been finalised. I offered to produce the film for him and asked him what if we got Salman on board as Pandey ji. He was instantly excited and things quickly fell in place,” Arbaaz reveals.
Seven years after the sequel, Dabangg 3 rolled on April 1 this year, and Arbaaz points out that the moment Salman gets into uniform and glues on the moustache, he is Chulbul Pandey come to life. “The character fits him like a glove. Even Makkhi has evolved and is integral to the narrative, with different shades in the prequel and the present,” he says, refusing to divulge more.
Arbaaz has been quietly shooting for Priya Varrier’s upcoming film, Sridevi Bungalow, in which he has a special appearance. His character is a lot like who he is in real life. “I play an actor who comes to Priya’s rescue with an action sequence unlike any I have done before, designed by a stunt team from Thailand,” he exults. Prod him on the wink sensation and he says that while he was aware the clip featuring Priya had gone viral, he met her for the first time on the film set and found her to be a hard-working, focused girl. “That wink was a magical moment which got her noticed, but to have a career in this industry, she will have to do some interesting work,” he observes.
Meanwhile Dabangg 3, directed by Prabhudheva, has been on the floors for almost 70 days now. “We are only 60 per cent through. Shooting will wrap up by September end leaving us with three months for post-production,” the maker informs. Quiz him on the surprise element this time and pat comes the answer, “Sudeep (the Kannada actor who plays the antagonist).”
There might be another leading lady in Dabangg 3-Arbaaz Khan
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Arbaaz Khan says while Sonakshi Sinha ‘will be part of Dabangg 3’ there is room for one more actress
Sarita A Tanwar (DNA; April 11, 2017)
Dabangg is perhaps Salman Khan’s most successful brand. And unlike Ek Tha Tiger, it is homegrown. His fans are eagerly awaiting their Pandeyji. There is a lot of speculation on whether it will be a sequel or prequel, if Sonakshi Sinha will feature in Dabangg’s third instalment and if Malaika Arora will return to do an item song. While Dabangg was directed by Abhinav Kashyap and the sequel was directed by Arbaaz Khan, it is unclear who will direct the third part of the franchise. Here, Arbaaz Khan clears the air. Read on...
What’s the status of Dabangg 3?
It will happen. I’m going to sit down with Salman, ideate on a few things. This year, we begin with pre-production and preparation. Next year, we start work on the film. It will take up an entire year.
There are rumours that it might be a prequel?
There will be a portion of it that will be a prequel, but it won’t be a prequel completely. There will be a back-and-forth scenario.
Do you intend to direct it?
I am still contemplating whether I want to direct it or not. There would be too much on my plate, were I to take it up. Right now, it’s just a possibility that I will direct the film. I will see how everything goes. If I feel comfortable, if I feel there is not much pressure on me because I’m acting, producing, directing, handling Salman, there is a good chance that I will still do it. It’s equally possible that if I can find somebody, who I feel is competent enough, I will bring him in.
That’s worked for the Dhoom franchise. Different guys have directed it.
Yes. Like Dabangg was directed by Abhinav, D2 was directed by me and D3 could be directed by somebody else. The brand remains where it is. There is no pressure that I have to direct the film. I will do it only if I feel there is something new I want to tell. I have done Dabangg 2, maybe another director will have a different view of it. We can guide him. Salman and I are always there with whoever directs it. We are going to give our full support.
Will Sonakshi be a part of it?
She should be a part of it, but there might be another leading lady in the film because you have got to add some amount of newness. You cannot change everything, but you can add a few characters... But it is not as though Sonakshi’s role will be non-existent.
Other franchises have not repeated heroines.
We are more on the lines of the Rocky series. You will see the supporting cast being retained
Will Malaika return to do an item number?
I have no clue. We could manage to get her a small part in D3.
Names like Amy Jackson and Waluscha D’Souza come up in connection to D3.
Nothing is finalised, so I have no clue....
Who is going to write Dabangg 3?
Dilip Shukla is the chief writer and he also wrote for the first two films. Also, Salman himself is making several writing suggestions as he has ideas on the direction Dabangg 3 should take. Much of the writing credit for the franchise should go to Salman, that’s another matter. Any contribution Salman makes to the script is going to be big.
I am dating, but I feel single-Arbaaz Khan
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Arbaaz Khan on ties that bind — family, films and ‘friends’
Sarita A Tanwar (DNA; March 29, 2017)
In the last two years, Arbaaz Khan has been in the news more for his personal life than anything else. His marriage of 18 years came undone. And if he was coming undone with it, he did a bloody good job of hiding it. In most troubled marriages, one person wants out, while the other wants to fix things. And though he has never talked about it, it has been amply clear that Arbaaz was the one trying to save his marriage. A guest on the 100th episode of Koffee With Karan, one expected him to shy away from talking about his broken marriage. Instead, he laughed, made jokes on himself and his single status, and endeared himself to everyone who watched that episode.
But that episode was about the Khan brothers and not just Arbaaz. I felt he had so much more to say than he did then. It can’t have been easy, but he has handled this unforeseen bump in his life with quiet strength and dignity. Here, AB, as his sister Alvira calls him (short for Arbaaz Bhai) talks about coping with his newfound single status, about dating and why he doesn’t see himself committing again anytime soon. Read on...
What is your state of mind currently?
I am in a good space at this point in time. Everybody has their scenarios, challenges, ups and downs, happiness and disappointments... I am not saying that any of those are completely washed away. There will always be a sense of things you want to achieve, where you want to be, a sense of disappointment, a few regrets here and there. Those are always going to linger. How you cope with them and how you move on is what your life is about. Right now, I am in a better space because I am able to cope with whatever challenges are thrown at me.
There is a perception that you are the most sensitive Khan in the family, and everyone is protective of you. Is that true?
I don’t think so. We are all pretty similar. I am as sensitive as my brothers and other members of my family. Salman, too, is pretty sensitive. Being sensitive means caring for your own feelings as well as those of others. Sometimes, being sensitive is being affected by certain things...
Somehow, you seem mild-mannered.
I have both sides to my personality. I react to things that I don’t like. I am pretty vocal. Probably less vocal now than I used to be because I sometimes feel that saying things to people is ineffective, like water off a duck’s back. And sometimes your opinions come to bite you. I have realised that you have to feel what you feel and cope and deal with it yourself rather than trying to express it because sometimes nothing comes out of it. People do not listen, they don’t care, they do their own thing. And whether it is professionally or socially, sometimes, taking a stand or giving any justification is too much of an effort. Sometimes, you feel like you should just let it go.
Who are you closest to in your family?
In terms of having to share anything, I’m closest to my dad. I go to him without any hesitation. And I know I might not always get to hear what I want to hear, but it will still be a very honest opinion. Salman, I have always admired and he is in many ways like my father. If there is anything I need, he won’t even ask what, where, why or how and just do it. Dad is there for advice and guidance, and Salman is always there for anything you need.
How do you brothers all manage to stay so close when you all live separately?
That’s because of our parents. They have inculcated that culture in us and I hope that, God willing, it stays forever. My parents are old now — God give them a long life — but we have to maintain this forever. When our kids are also grown up, we should not lose that and feel that only our parents are binding us together. They are not the only reason, but they make a big effort. It is great we are a close-knit family and always there for each other. Despite the fact that we do our own thing.
Please continue...
We do manage to spend a lot of time in terms of lunches or dinners or on the farm. We also don’t interfere in each other’s life. We give each other the freedom and the right to take our own decisions. But if there is the need, we rally around each other. No questions asked. Today, if I tell Salman, ‘I want this to be done,’ he won’t bat an eyelid and will do it. He has done a lot for us, he has done a lot for his family.
Any of you would have done that if you were in his position.
Yes. Also, none of us has never tried to misuse his name or connection or the fact that he is family, and he knows that. He has done a lot, even for people who are not his family. And all of us, woh responsibility leke acha kaam karne ki koshish ki hai like Sohail did Pyaar Kiya To Darna Kya, Baby did Bodyguard with him and I did Dabangg. It is not that we have got the opportunity to have him in the film and let him down.
You are doing more work now than you have in the last few years. Is that a conscious decision?
When you are younger, there is pressure on you to play the main leads or the hero roles. But now, there are more opportunities for actors like me at a particular age. There are a lot of character roles where I could fit in. You know... whether it is a cop’s role or an elder brother’s role or a gangster’s role. Whichever roles are there, I am ready for them and I can experiment since I have not been completely typecast in any slot. It is a good chance for me to experiment with the kinds of roles I want to do.
You have played negative characters very early on in your career (like in Daraar), but you didn’t get typecast.
I have done my bit of negative roles and all for a long time. That transition many actors have made from negative to positive to comic. I am looking more for the serious or the negative roles I have done. I think I slip into those characters pretty easily.
You are pretty good in funny roles too. Hello Brother comes to mind.
Doing funny roles is something I enjoy as I am like that in my personal life. As much as like you would like to believe that I am a serious or no-nonsense guy, I am quite a funny guy and I have friends who are funny, I want to translate that onto the screen.
In your interview in Koffee With Karan, you said that perhaps you haven’t reached Salman’s stardom because you did not put in as much effort as Salman put into his work.
I was trying to deduct. It may not necessarily be that. It has got to do with your ability, talent, acceptance and the luck factor. Not everybody gets that lucky, not everybody is that talented or gets the right break at the right time. I put in the effort, maybe it was not good enough. But sometimes certain things don’t work for you. Maybe you are destined to do other things. So if I had made a transition — to producing and directing films — sooner, maybe I wouldn’t have suffered the agony of looking for where my next film was going to come from, every day, though I have done a decent body of work. So many of my contemporaries who I started with, are not even around. I have done over 50 films, that’s a lot. People cast me for me. There was no PR machinery working, no begging for work or anyone making recommendations. I have done my own bit of my own assessment. I have not been able to put a finger on why exactly my career would not have taken off the way I would have expected to, as an actor. I don’t want to dwell too much on it. I know there are certain things that could have been done and changed, but that time has passed.
What are you working on presently?
I might have three releases this year. Some films are complete, one or two are on floors. Some have released — Freaky Ali, Jeena Isi Ka Naam Hai and one film in Telugu. I have three more films releasing sometime this year. For me, it was important as an actor to keep myself engaged and busy. These are not necessarily films with very big banners, but they are films with people who seem excited about making a good film and they had a role to offer me. I am also doing a film called Jack and Dil and Tera Intezaar with Sunny Leone. There is a film I have done with two youngsters, one is Endreata from South, and with Vikas Verma, the guy who was in Yaariyan. It’s a thriller, a murder mystery.
Why did you take the big break from acting?
In the last three or four years, Dabangg and Dabangg 2 came close to each other. While I was producing and acting in Dabangg, I had grown a moustache. Post that, I got a signal that Dabangg 2 might also happen. So for those four years, I did not take up any work. I also ended up directing Dabangg 2. Actually, it just happened out of circumstance. I had offered the film to Abhinav, in spite of our little professional differences, (they were insignificant ones), but he had other plans. He didn’t want to do a sequel. Then, I felt, who else would do it? Certain names popped up and then I told Salman realistically, I have been born and brought up in the film industry and I have been acting for such a long time, I started my career as a director, I have been closely associated with Dabangg, so I could do it.
I always thought Salman pushed you into direction.
No, he was very accepting when I suggested that I wanted to direct Dabangg 2. He was very fair. He said, ‘You feel confident and feel good about it, then do it. I am there to support you.’ I had been closely associated with Dabangg’s music, casting, scripting and pre-production, so I understood the project better than any new person that would’ve come on board. It was important for me to deliver as a director and I am grateful that we had a successful film and it got the kind of recognition and appreciation it did.
What role have you enjoyed most: actor, director or producer?
I like the behind-the-scenes scenario right now. Maybe if you asked me this 20 years ago, I would have said, ‘I want to be an actor.’ At this stage, I want to tell stories, I want to have a little bit more of creative control. As an actor, you tend to be restricted. But as a filmmaker, your creativity is much higher, you pick your own scripts and actors and locations and costumes, you pick your technical team. You are more involved in the decision-making scenario, which is something I enjoy more.
Is it difficult to go back to being an actor after you’ve been a filmmaker?
No, it’s not. I kind of like it. I feel good and though I have had one or two directors who felt that ‘Now that he is a director, maybe he might interfere or give his suggestion’. I don’t advise or suggest anything to my directors. I believe in two things: if somebody knows his job you should not say anything and if somebody doesn’t know his job, you should definitely not say anything. If they ever do ask me what I think of a situation, I do give my opinion, but not otherwise.
What are your strengths and weaknesses?
I am quite meticulous and extremely punctual — those are my best traits. I am lazy when I get down, so that’s my bad thing. I need to be pushed. But when I get on to something, I am a stickler for details and good at getting things right. Punctuality is like a disease with me. I will go to my dubbing, my previews, shootings and even casual meetings on time. It comes from my father. I don’t need anybody to remind me. My person, who is managing my work, has to just send me one SMS. ‘On the 16th, there’s this or that on the 17th and say that this is at 8 o’clock, this is at 10 o’clock, this is your flight here and this is your ticket.’ After he has told it to me, no boy or secretary has to remind me.
You don’t like depending on people?
I do depend on people. I am dependent and I don’t know anybody who is not, but people like to believe they do not need anybody for anything, it’s not true. Everybody needs somebody for some reason. Coming back to my relationship, I had come to a stage where I needed Malaika in my life.
You mean, like your spouse becomes a habit?
No, not in a negative way. Needed her in a way like you need water. It’s not whether you like it or not, you need it, like air. If I don’t get it, I’ll die. So, there comes a point in your life that somebody in your life — your parent, brother, sister or colleague — you need them like that and you should never look at anyone like that. You give someone the importance that they become so valuable in your life. Imagine somebody taking water or oxygen away from you, how would you feel? That’s almost what I felt for a while. Of course, you get used to it. Life goes on, you move on, and you have to make sense of what’s happened and you somehow find that. You cannot always get answers. I look back and see 22 years of togetherness — five years of courtship and 17 years of marriage and a child. And I wonder why this and why that and what could have been corrected. And if there were mistakes from my end or her side. We just couldn’t work around it. We did our bit of counselling... What I am saying is that you should never be embarrassed when you say you are dependent on somebody. I am talking about a genuine need where you feel good/bad/ugly, I cannot do without you. If the air is bad, will you not breathe it? If the water is dirty, will you not drink it? Somebody creates a scenario; you try and live with that. I was in that space where Malaika was somebody I couldn’t live without, under any circumstances. You know, I can never completely deal with it.
Sometimes you have to let go.
You have to just let go, what do you do? It is not easy. We are on good terms. For a while, I wanted her to stay away from me. When you live together and are not together and yet you are together in so many ways, it gets complicated. I said, ‘Just live your life.’ I wanted a gap. The first year, it was, aise nahi ki itna gap de do ki, genuinely, she or I don’t want it.
So you moved out of your house.
Initially, I moved out. Now, she has moved out of our house. She has got her own place and stuff. I am living in this whatever — you know, usika hai jo bhi hai — jab mera nayaa ghar hoga, main shift karunga.
Do you feel like a bachelor now?
Not a bachelor, but I feel single.
Are you in a relationship?
I am not in a relationship. As of now, I am like...
There is speculation about you dating the woman in the pictures on your Instagram account.
Which one? If you are talking about Yellow, she is just a friend. She is somebody who I meet when I go to Goa. She owns a restaurant.
Is she Romanian?
No, that’s another girl — Alexandria. That’s my friend. I am dating, yes. But we are not... As of now, there is still a long way to go.
Most people after being married for long, don’t want marriage a second time and are happier in casual relationships. Agree?
(Smiles) I feel there is a time and an age for sowing your wild oats. I had that phase before I was 26 when I met Malaika. Before that, I was playing the field. I was not in committed relationships, I had a number of girlfriends. When I met Malaika, I felt the need to get married and after four years of dating, we got married when I was 30. I really don’t know whether I have it in me at this point to go through the entire scenario of commitment and giving it everything. The mindset right now, is that if somebody comes in my life, I will see it then…. Maybe even let it go on the way it is, rather than making any promises or commitments.
You have managed to maintain good relations with her family. Comment.
My association with Malaika’s family is as long as my association with Malaika. We have a child together, and there are the grandparents, uncles and aunts. And whatever the reasons for our parting, they have never influenced our equations with the families. They have kept it to themselves as this is the personal decision between the two of us. They have not asked us to get back together...
Any chance of you two getting back together?
I feel, if we had to get more time, we would have got back by now. The fact that we haven’t, means it is not meant to be. I wouldn’t want to speak for her. I kept my option open despite us parting ways, and I gave it a little time, whether it was a year or two years before I moved on in certain ways. Even as far as dating somebody is concerned. So I guess if that was to happen it would have happened in the first six months, or one year. It didn’t and it’s been almost three years now...
How did your son take the separation?
He is quite smart. He turns 15 this year. He is a great boy. In fact, in the years that we have been apart, my son has focused on his studies, on his health, athletics and whatever else he is doing. Which is very credible because he could have very well used our separation as an excuse and said, ‘I don’t feel like studying’ or got into bad company. My son has excelled in everything. We have realised that he knew that there was a situation in the family and he put his focus into his activities and full credit to him. There is a parenting that still happens and we are more careful with him. He has got into great hobbies, has started doing card tricks, he learned them on YouTube. He is very good at cards and some tricks have taken him eight months to master. That is very impressive.
What does he want to do when he grows up?
I have no clue. As of now, there are a lot of things we keep discussing. Sometimes, he gets excited about doing business. Then because he sees his family in the glamour world and everybody telling him that he is a nice-looking boy and probably grow up to be a nice handsome boy, maybe he’ll want to be in films. Whatever he does, we will support him. Acting as a career is not a secure profession. Even if you are a star, you have to go look for your next work and it is Friday-to-Friday. I want to prepare him. Here, every week, every year is a struggle.
While making it big, everyone doesn't become a Salman, Aamir or a Shah Rukh-Arbaaz Khan
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He may still look like the
strict, no-nonsense 'bade bhaiyya' of Pyaar Kiya Toh Darna Kya, but when
you meet him, you realise that he has long shed that image. Arbaaz Khan
is calm and chilled out despite the flurry of activity at the
producers' office ahead of his Friday release, Jeena Isi Ka Naam Hai. In
an exclusive chat with BT, he gets candid about work, divorce and the
apple of his eye, son Arhaan. Excerpts...
Having completed over two decades in the industry, what is your criteria of choosing a film now?
As an actor, I ensure that I play a range of characters. It doesn't necessarily have to be the lead role. I am not an extremely bankable actor, people cast me when they think I am suitable for a role. I'm a director's actor; if a role comes my way, I don't go completely by my judgement but the director's. If he thinks he can mould me in some way , it'll interest me. Usually, as an actor, one tends to play it safe and take up roles that suit his image, but I try to experiment. So, I do three-four films a year.
Your roles in films like Daraar and Pyaar Kiya Toh Darna Kya created the image of a serious, intense person. Did that limit the kind of roles offered to you later?
Yes. For a long time, many people didn't think I could do something lighter. There were some directors who took a chance, like Priyadarshan, who gave me Malamaal Weekly and Hulchul, and Madhur Bhandarkar, who made me play this suave and sophisticated character in Fashion. My roles in Dabangg, Freaky Ali and Kis Kisko Pyaar Karoon were also liked by the audience. In Jeena Isi Ka Naam Hai, I play an NRI businessman and philanthropist. These roles give me plenty of scope to experiment. I'm happy with the space I am in as an actor, and I think these are good times.
The industry has undergone a huge change...
Cinema has changed over the years. There is no black and white, no 'this-is-hero-and-this-is-villain' scenario. The lines are blurred; you don't necessarily have to play a hero to get accolades. Earlier, everything was designed to make the audience root for the hero. Today, every character is equally well-etched. I am happy that I've passed that stage when I need to dance around trees with heroines.
Going by the promos, Jeena Isi Ka Naam Hai looks like a female-centric film...
Yes, the protagonist is Manjari (Fadnnis) and all other characters are entwined with hers. I play an interesting character, who encounters her in the course of the story. To be honest, I like to work. I look for a few things - an exciting project, good team, sound script, well-defined character, good money... if these are in place, I am fine. I've done small, medium and big films; I'm not so goddamn picky. At the end of the day, who knows what will work or not?
How does it feel taking directions from a newcomer, considering the fact that you're a producer and director yourself?
I'm absolutely fine with it. I've been an actor for the longest time, I became a producer-director only in the last five-odd years. I'm very non-interfering and follow what the director wants. If a director is clear about what he wants, there's no need for you to interfere. And if he lacks clarity, then you shouldn't interfere (smiles). It's not fair on my part to interfere as I may see things in isolation, while the director has been working on the script for years. If a script is given to five different directors, they will all interpret it differently. Also, it would be embarrassing if tomorrow, an actor tells me to take a shot in a particular way.
Given your family background, comparisons and expectations will always be there. Do you think it's unfair?
Expectations are going to be there in every field. In cricket, if you score a century in one innings, you will be expected to repeat it in the next. But if you bow down to pressure, you won't be able to do much. Success and recognition came to me late in life, when I produced Dabangg and directed Dabangg 2. You don't know when you will get your time under the sun or as what - actor, director or producer. So, you've got to keep your options open. I have a very holistic view of life. While making it big and becoming successful is great, everyone doesn't become a Sachin Tendulkar, Salman Khan, Aamir Khan or a Shah Rukh Khan. As long as I'm honest and happy with the work I'm doing, I'm fine.
What is the most important advice your father, legendary writer Salim Khan, has given you?
My father has always told us that if you look the character, half the job is done. So, when a director is narrating the story, I try and figure out if I will look the part - be it the garb, gait, body language or diction.
On the production and direction front, talk is that you've silently started Dabangg 3...
We're still ideating. We'll start work on the script by the middle of this year and will roll by early next year. But yes, Dabangg 3 will be my next as a producer and director.

Even as your marriage with Malaika Arora Khan has hit a rough patch, there are often reports of you bonding with her family...
My association with Malaika's family is as old as my association with her. My equation with her mother, sister and father won't be affected just because as partners, matters haven't been fine between us. In fact, I get invited to their house for dinner every other day. I still respect Malaika and she is the mother of my son, Arhaan. He is still young, so a certain decorum has to be maintained. Even if there are differences, they have to be set aside; the child has to be given the right care and attention. Malaika and I did attempt to get back for a long time, but unfortunately, we couldn't find middle ground. However, we are on good terms and will continue to be so. Let's see what life holds for us.
Celebrity break-ups are always in the spotlight. Was it tough explaining matters to your son?
Arhaan is sensible. He was 12 when it happened, now he is 14. His focus is on studies and athletics. When a couple hits a rough patch in their marriage, it's easy for their children to fall into bad company and lose focus, but my son is doing better now than before.
In the interim, there were reports of your link-up with Goa-based restaurateur, Yellow Mehra...
That's all bullshit. She is just a friend. I visit her when I go to Goa, maybe to have a meal. It's really frivolous journalism to make a story based on a picture I posted. The next time I want to post a picture with a friend on social media, I'll be afraid of a link-up. She could be someone's girlfriend, wife...
Having completed over two decades in the industry, what is your criteria of choosing a film now?
As an actor, I ensure that I play a range of characters. It doesn't necessarily have to be the lead role. I am not an extremely bankable actor, people cast me when they think I am suitable for a role. I'm a director's actor; if a role comes my way, I don't go completely by my judgement but the director's. If he thinks he can mould me in some way , it'll interest me. Usually, as an actor, one tends to play it safe and take up roles that suit his image, but I try to experiment. So, I do three-four films a year.
Your roles in films like Daraar and Pyaar Kiya Toh Darna Kya created the image of a serious, intense person. Did that limit the kind of roles offered to you later?
Yes. For a long time, many people didn't think I could do something lighter. There were some directors who took a chance, like Priyadarshan, who gave me Malamaal Weekly and Hulchul, and Madhur Bhandarkar, who made me play this suave and sophisticated character in Fashion. My roles in Dabangg, Freaky Ali and Kis Kisko Pyaar Karoon were also liked by the audience. In Jeena Isi Ka Naam Hai, I play an NRI businessman and philanthropist. These roles give me plenty of scope to experiment. I'm happy with the space I am in as an actor, and I think these are good times.
The industry has undergone a huge change...
Cinema has changed over the years. There is no black and white, no 'this-is-hero-and-this-is-villain' scenario. The lines are blurred; you don't necessarily have to play a hero to get accolades. Earlier, everything was designed to make the audience root for the hero. Today, every character is equally well-etched. I am happy that I've passed that stage when I need to dance around trees with heroines.
Going by the promos, Jeena Isi Ka Naam Hai looks like a female-centric film...
Yes, the protagonist is Manjari (Fadnnis) and all other characters are entwined with hers. I play an interesting character, who encounters her in the course of the story. To be honest, I like to work. I look for a few things - an exciting project, good team, sound script, well-defined character, good money... if these are in place, I am fine. I've done small, medium and big films; I'm not so goddamn picky. At the end of the day, who knows what will work or not?
How does it feel taking directions from a newcomer, considering the fact that you're a producer and director yourself?
I'm absolutely fine with it. I've been an actor for the longest time, I became a producer-director only in the last five-odd years. I'm very non-interfering and follow what the director wants. If a director is clear about what he wants, there's no need for you to interfere. And if he lacks clarity, then you shouldn't interfere (smiles). It's not fair on my part to interfere as I may see things in isolation, while the director has been working on the script for years. If a script is given to five different directors, they will all interpret it differently. Also, it would be embarrassing if tomorrow, an actor tells me to take a shot in a particular way.
Given your family background, comparisons and expectations will always be there. Do you think it's unfair?
Expectations are going to be there in every field. In cricket, if you score a century in one innings, you will be expected to repeat it in the next. But if you bow down to pressure, you won't be able to do much. Success and recognition came to me late in life, when I produced Dabangg and directed Dabangg 2. You don't know when you will get your time under the sun or as what - actor, director or producer. So, you've got to keep your options open. I have a very holistic view of life. While making it big and becoming successful is great, everyone doesn't become a Sachin Tendulkar, Salman Khan, Aamir Khan or a Shah Rukh Khan. As long as I'm honest and happy with the work I'm doing, I'm fine.
What is the most important advice your father, legendary writer Salim Khan, has given you?
My father has always told us that if you look the character, half the job is done. So, when a director is narrating the story, I try and figure out if I will look the part - be it the garb, gait, body language or diction.
On the production and direction front, talk is that you've silently started Dabangg 3...
We're still ideating. We'll start work on the script by the middle of this year and will roll by early next year. But yes, Dabangg 3 will be my next as a producer and director.
Even as your marriage with Malaika Arora Khan has hit a rough patch, there are often reports of you bonding with her family...
My association with Malaika's family is as old as my association with her. My equation with her mother, sister and father won't be affected just because as partners, matters haven't been fine between us. In fact, I get invited to their house for dinner every other day. I still respect Malaika and she is the mother of my son, Arhaan. He is still young, so a certain decorum has to be maintained. Even if there are differences, they have to be set aside; the child has to be given the right care and attention. Malaika and I did attempt to get back for a long time, but unfortunately, we couldn't find middle ground. However, we are on good terms and will continue to be so. Let's see what life holds for us.
Celebrity break-ups are always in the spotlight. Was it tough explaining matters to your son?
Arhaan is sensible. He was 12 when it happened, now he is 14. His focus is on studies and athletics. When a couple hits a rough patch in their marriage, it's easy for their children to fall into bad company and lose focus, but my son is doing better now than before.
In the interim, there were reports of your link-up with Goa-based restaurateur, Yellow Mehra...
That's all bullshit. She is just a friend. I visit her when I go to Goa, maybe to have a meal. It's really frivolous journalism to make a story based on a picture I posted. The next time I want to post a picture with a friend on social media, I'll be afraid of a link-up. She could be someone's girlfriend, wife...
I have always been on good terms with Malaika’s family-Arbaaz Khan
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Sonil Dedhia (MID-DAY; January 9, 2017)
Despite their split, Arbaaz insists his equation with Malaika's family has remained unchanged. "My association with Malaika spans over two decades. So, I have always been on good terms with her family. We celebrated special occasions earlier too. If things haven't gone well between us, it doesn't mean that the equation with the family changes. They still have a lot of love and affection for me and I have respect for them. Malaika wasn't with us on New Year's, but was there a few days before that. But, that's not the point. We are very amicable," he says.
The two do not want their teenage son, Arhaan, to be affected by their separation. "We are responsible parents and don't want our child to get affected. We want him to grow up in a healthy atmosphere rather than be worried if his parents will confront each other when they meet. Malaika and I are mature individuals and don't want anyone around us to be affected," he says.
On the work front, Arbaaz is busy wrapping up his next film, Jeena Isi Ka Naam Hai, which is scheduled to release in March: "I am at a stage in my career where I take up something if it seems interesting and keeps me occupied. I don't think whether the film has a relatively new cast or a new director. This film has a story about various aspects of life, including love and failure. I play an interesting character and I felt it would enrich me as an actor."
Arbaaz, who turned producer with Dabangg in 2010 and later directed the sequel in 2012, has no qualms in admitting that he is a better producer than actor. "As an actor, I got work, but it never propelled me to stardom. I probably didn't have it in me to be a successful actor. But as producer, I could take charge of myself and my career. Acting will always remain my first love. Producing and directing take time and I can't sit idle for two-three years. I have got a home and office to run and also maintain a certain kind of lifestyle," he explains.
At this point of time, Malika Arora Khan & I are separated-Arbaaz Khan
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Arbaaz Khan on wife Malaika, brothers Salman, Sohail, and Dabangg 3
Natasha Coutinho (MUMBAI MIRROR; August 17, 2016)
Will Munni, Malaika Arora Khan, who was an unforgettable part of Dabangg, be back? “She wasn't there in Part 2, it was Kareena (Kapoor) doing a “Fevicol se“. Change is important,“ he retorts. And what's their relationship status, following rumours of a split, an imminent divorce and a reconciliation, after sightings of them meeting for dinner and reports that they are willing to give their marriage a second chance? “At this point of time we are not together, we are separated, and that's about it,“ he shrugs.
Right now the actor-producer-director is gung-ho about brother Sohail's upcoming sports drama, Freaky Ali, in which he plays a significant role. He points out that all the three brothers, including bhai Salman, have their own production companies now so they can back subjects they believe in. “All three of us want to tell different stories. Maybe I wouldn't be confident producing a Freaky Ali even though I like it. Ditto Hello Brother and Pyaar Kiya Toh Darna Kya. Sohail made them, maybe I wouldn't. If we worked under one banner there would have been a lot of resistance. Sometimes you have to back your own vision,“ he reasons, admitting he consults dad Salim Khan and Salman on scripts since they have the experience. “They give their opinions but don't influence me. I may still go ahead with a project and they don't have a problem with that. It's better than consulting others.“ The Khan-daan is known to be extremely close-knit and Arbaaz gives credit to his parents for having imbibed this feeling of togetherness. “We give each other space, we don't interfere or intervene. If Salman is in trouble he doesn't have to say it, I'm there to give him emotional support, that's all one needs,“ he says, adding that bhai getting a clean chit after a decade-long legal battle has come as a respite.
Recently, Salman complained he wanted to be in Freaky Ali too but they didn't take him on board. Arbaaz laughs, “Sometimes he wants to do certain things that won't justify his presence. He's too big a star to play random characters. We'd rather he do a full-fledged role with us but we involve him in the making of every film.“
He goes on to praise Sohail as a focussed, dedicated and hungry director who's mounted a small film in a big way with good technicians. “In the past we had Salman as a safety net, he brought in the audience. This is Sohail's chance to prove himself with an underdog film,“ he asserts, raving about 'hero' Nawazuddin Siddiqui. Arbaaz who plays Nawaz's mentor, sidekick and friend, says he got interested in golf after doing it. “I'm a cricket buff, I follow tennis and English Premiere League football. But now I understand golf which needs skill, patience, accuracy and temperament. When I used to watch it on TV I thought it was a boring old man's sport,“ says Arbaaz who is planning a film, Lorrywala. “Whether I produce it or not I'll decide after figuring out the budget and the cast.“
And is Salman tying the knot soon with girlfriend Iulia Vantur? “We've been hearing about his marriage since his first year in films, he'll get married when he has to,“ Arbaaz says shortly.
Yes it’s true that we are separated-Arbaaz Khan & Malaika Arora Khan
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Malaika and Arbaaz clear the air about the state of their marriage for the first time
Upala KBR (DNA; March 28, 2016)
With rumours about an impending divorce swirling
around Malaika and Arbaaz Khan’s marriage, speculations flew thick and
fast about the current nature of their relationship and the reasons
thereof. The couple has exclusively issued a joint statement to dna
AfterHrs, clearing the air about what really is going on between them.
Here it is, in their own words...
Enough is enough
“We have maintained a dignified silence till now but it is causing us too much confusion and is disturbing for our families. To put all of the speculation to rest, we are giving out this statement. People claiming to be our friends and sources have been speaking on our behalf giving out wrong, malicious information. They have maligned us for long and we have kept quiet and not said a word as it’s a personal matter between us. We have got a child and our families are involved, but just because we have not said anything till now, it doesn’t give anybody the license to speculate on any rubbish about us.
What lawyer?
We know that there will be speculation, but it is disturbing to read that Malaika has approached a random divorce lawyer she doesn’t know at all. Nor has this lawyer got in touch with us ever. Whoever this person is, can lose their licence as it’s irresponsible to talk about people who are not your clients.
On a break
The truth is, we have taken a break, but that doesn’t mean people can presume, assume and speculate things of such malicious nature. We are taking out time to figure out our lives... Yes, it’s true that we are separated, but where our lives go and what transpires between us, it is for us to decide. Wherever it goes from here, we will talk about it when we are ready to.
No third person
We are not separated because of a third random person, like there were stories of a friendship between a businessman and Malaika. Nor was it about his family disapproving of her lifestyle, nor does she feel that her husband is not financially stable. She is not crying on her brother-in-law Salman’s shoulders, asking him to help. They are our family, so please don’t talk about them like that. We deeply respect each other’s families. We want to put to rest all these articles which are complete rubbish. Till then, please respect our privacy and do not drag our respective families and our child into it.
Give us our space
Everything that has been carried till now is completely baseless.. Everyone is taking our silence as a sign of weakness. When we are ready to talk, we will. It’s a tough and difficult time for us and we will appreciate it if you can please give us our space.
We have and hold immense respect for each other and hold each other in the highest regard. Ultimately we will do what’s best for our child, us and our family. Please understand what we are going through. We urge the media not to speculate and kindly do not believe whoever your said sources are, unless you hear from the people concerned.”
I'm afraid of losing Malaika Arora Khan now-Arbaaz Khan
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Arbaaz Khan gets candid about his relationship with wife Malaika in the wake of reports of an imminent split
MUMBAI MIRROR (March 2, 2016)
Barely a month after reports of Arbaaz Khan and his wife Malaika Arora Khan's 17-year-old marriage hitting troubled waters (Mirror, February 2) surfaced, the couple made an appearance on a TV show and put up quite a united front, with the actor-filmmaker speaking candidly about their relationship.
"When you achieve something or someone, you don't want to lose them. I love Malaika but I'm possessive about her," Arbaaz said on the TV show Yaar Mera Superstar as Malaika looked on.
"It wasn't like this when she was younger or when the relationship was new. It has happened now. She is very precious to me. I love her more than anything else in the world. I'm afraid of losing her now," he revealed, adding that he has started listening to her more than ever before now.
"I think with time, you don't have an option. The power has shifted now and has gone to Malaika. I also feel that after a certain age, women take control of things," he said.
The couple's previous joint TV stint, with the reality show Power Couple, was marred by speculations when Malaika stopped making appearance just a few episodes in, leaving Arbaaz to steer it alone as the host. The makers however cajoled her into reuniting one last time with her husband for the finale.
There are films that have fared better in the second week than in the first one-Arbaaz Khan
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Meena Iyer (BOMBAY TIMES; January 30, 2015)
Arbaaz Khan's Dolly Ki Doli
has put a smile on the face of the audience as well as the producer. He
candidly admits that the collections were modest on the first day.
However, the audience's appreciation for this Abhishek Dogra-directed film has grown with each passing day, as have the box-office numbers.
“Saturday saw more footfall than Friday. More importantly, everyone who saw Dolly... said that it's a sweet and entertaining film. It has been a gratifying journey because it has reinforced my faith in cinema of this kind,“ says the filmmaker of blockbusters like the Dabangg franchise.
He adds, “When you back a new director and make a film with a relatively fresh cast, you often question whether the gamble will pay off. In this case, it has been a step in the right direction. Sonam Kapoor, Rajkummar Rao, Varun Sharma and Pulkit Samrat along with the rest of the cast have delivered.Whether it is the audience or the critics, everyone has had a good word to say about Dolly...“
Being an integral part of the movie business, Arbaaz understands that there are runaway hits like Dabangg and there are others like Dolly Ki Doli that need nurturing. Hoping that it will make steady headway in the weeks to come, he says, “I'm a patient producer. I've put a product out in the market because I believed in it. I'm sure there will be an increase in footfall because of the uniform positive feedback that I've received. There are films like Queen that have fared better in the second week than in the first one.“
“Saturday saw more footfall than Friday. More importantly, everyone who saw Dolly... said that it's a sweet and entertaining film. It has been a gratifying journey because it has reinforced my faith in cinema of this kind,“ says the filmmaker of blockbusters like the Dabangg franchise.
He adds, “When you back a new director and make a film with a relatively fresh cast, you often question whether the gamble will pay off. In this case, it has been a step in the right direction. Sonam Kapoor, Rajkummar Rao, Varun Sharma and Pulkit Samrat along with the rest of the cast have delivered.Whether it is the audience or the critics, everyone has had a good word to say about Dolly...“
Being an integral part of the movie business, Arbaaz understands that there are runaway hits like Dabangg and there are others like Dolly Ki Doli that need nurturing. Hoping that it will make steady headway in the weeks to come, he says, “I'm a patient producer. I've put a product out in the market because I believed in it. I'm sure there will be an increase in footfall because of the uniform positive feedback that I've received. There are films like Queen that have fared better in the second week than in the first one.“
I have always gone by my gut for my major decisions in my life-Arbaaz Khan
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Priya Gupta (BOMBAY TIMES; December 13, 2014)
Arbaaz Khan, 47, has always
taken all major decisions of his life based on his own gut without
consulting anyone, be it the decision to debut as a villain at 29, get
married to Malaika at 30 or turn director for Dabangg 2 at 43. Only time
will tell whether his latest decision to release his production Dolly Ki
Doli with the Akshay Kumar-starrer Baby was good or bad, but for now,
Arbaaz seems happy and confident. Over a quick coffee, we
grill the good-looking producer on his latest decision. He doesn't duck
any of our questions Excerpts:
So far, smaller films have chosen to avoid coming on dates when big star films are coming. Yet, you have chosen to come with Akshay Kumar's Baby.
Date of release of a film is just as important as the quality of the film. So everyone looks for an ideal release date. As far as I am concerned, I am still learning on what is a good time and what is not, but there are 4 holidays in a year when there is a certain spike in the collections. These dates can absorb 2-3 films. Realistically, there are only 52 weeks and thus, given the number of films we make, the chances of having a solo release might become more and more difficult. Dolly Ki Doli is a fun, young film, substantially different from Neeraj Pandey's Baby. It has enough commercial value for the single screens, and the aesthetics and freshness for the multiplex audience. Also, given that December and January are great months for weddings, the film should do better in this period. Post the first weekend, Monday determines the final boxoffice numbers for a film, based on how the film holds on Monday. Given that Republic Day (January 26) this time is coming on a Monday, the film gets an automatic boost, improving the chances of it doing well. Had my film been the same genre as Baby, it would have led to a divide, but given that we are looking at only approximately 1,200 screens and Baby, about 2,500 screens, there is space for both to come healthily. If films of two big stars come together or if two similar films are coming together, they will eat into each other's box office, as there is only that much box office to capture, but Dolly Ki Doli and Baby are very different films. We have also seen in many cases that a solo release also does not guarantee a box office. Only time will tell whether coming with Baby was a good decision or not, but weighing the pros and cons, we felt we should come.
Baby seems to be another outstanding film of Neeraj Pandey. Why do you feel that the audience should choose to see Dolly Ki Doli?
You should see both the films if both are good films.
Given the expensive ticket prices today, which one film would you recommend?
I can't shove biryani down your throat if you like chola bhatura. Baby and Dolly Ki Doli are very different films and you should see what you would like to. Dolly Ki Doli is very fresh and entertaining.
Your first two films Dabangg as a producer and Dabangg 2 as a producer-director were both with Salman Khan. Why did you choose to make a smaller film this time?
I did not have a film that I could have taken to Salman or any other big star. Amongst the few scripts that I heard, Dolly Ki Doli got me excited despite it being a smaller film without a big star, but also that it is a woman-centric film. But I believe in mainstream cinema and even though Dolly Ki Doli may not be a Dabangg, it has a main stream approach. It may have taken much more effort to bring it to the silver screen, but I am pretty happy and confident about it.
Do you take a second opinion from anyone in your family before you take your decisions?
No. I have always gone by my gut for my major decisions in my life. Abbas Mustan had initially offered me Akshay's role in Khiladi as my debut film, but since I was pre-committed to another film which did not finally happen, I could not do Khiladi. A few years later, I met Abbas-Mustan in the middle of the road while driving my car and they literally stopped me and said, 'Ek picture hai. Tum second half mein aata hai. Tumhara negative role hai. An edge-of-the-seat thriller, karoge?' And I immediately said, 'Karoonga.' That was the only narration I got from them for my role in Daraar. By that time, I was frustrated and was looking for work. Now I was debuting in a negative role, but it was my decision. Had I gone back home and asked daddy and Salman, I may have got confused. Like Sohail did once. He woke up in the middle of the night and said, 'Daddy , this is the girl I am marrying.' And daddy (Salim Khan) said, 'Okay beta.' So sometimes, you have to take the decision and say, 'This is my girlfriend, this is my wife, this is the movie I have signed, this is the director.' If you engage with too many people for your decision, it only confuses your head, especially when it is people whom you love. For the very, very important decisions in my life, I don't allow people to take that for me.
Which were the most important decisions of your life that you took yourself?
Apart from the decision of my debut film, the decision of my marriage to Malaika and the decision to turn director in Dabangg 2. I had met Malaika on an ad shoot. We started dating and had a courtship of about 5 years before we got married. She was anxious and so, unfortunately, she didn't allow me to pop the question to her. She asked me when we will get married and I immediately told her, 'You decide the date and place and I will be there.' I was 30 and she was 23 then.
Even when it came to the decision to direct Dabangg 2, I had been involved in the first Dabangg in every aspect of the film. So when Abhinav decided to opt out of Dabangg 2, after considering so many big directors as options to direct it, I realised that I knew the film as well as anyone else could and took the decision to direct it.
Is Dabangg 3 a part of your future plan?
There are commitments Salman needs to honour to other films that he has signed for. So while there is no hurry, Dabangg 3 will definitely happen. It is a brand and a character both Salman and I respect and we will make it once we know what we want to do with the character.
How was your experience working with Sonam Kapoor?
She was excited about doing the film and has given it her all. She is hassle-free, down to earth and does not have any star tantrums. For instance, there is no protocol to her. You can speak to her directly, without necessarily going through her managers. Some stars want that, but she does not give that impression. On a tightly-budgeted film like Dolly Ki Doli that does not have the luxury of extending shooting days due to costs, it was imperative for Sonam to come on time as the entire shoot was dependent on her. There were days when she needed to shoot long hours and she did that without any stress. She would always come on time and there was not even one occasion when the unit had to wait for her. Women take time to get ready and on top of that, she was dressed as a dulhan, that needed more time. So, if she would come late and take time to dress up with limited shooting hours, we would have a lot of pressure, but nothing of that kind happened. There were times when she had a viewpoint on the film, but unlike some other stars, she would put it across very beautifully and say, 'I don't feel comfortable about it. What do you think?' And not like 'I won't do it.'
How important is the success of this film for you?
It's extremely important. Much as people like to think that now you prove yourself without Salman, the fact is that a lot of people have failed despite having big stars. It's not that I have not contributed to Dabangg and Dabangg 2, but people are watching to see, 'Ab dekhte hain that Arbaaz kya karta hai.' Many people have had opportunities to work with big stars, but not all have made Dabanggs. It's easier to do it with a star and this might be tougher, but the success of this film determines my life as a producer in the future. The success will allow me to make films without big stars or directors.
What would be Salman's point of view?
Salman will be happy that I have been able to deliver a movie minus him. Salman has been an elder brother, an inspirational factor and a guiding force in our life and he wishes well. Whether he is there or not, his support is always there. He feels that he has done so well for himself and wishes well for his siblings. He saw the first look and called me to say how he loved it. Dolly Ki Doli's success will also give me a sense of confidence and respect in my ability to make a movie on my own. It will allow my production to grow and allow me to tell stories that I want to tell, without being dependent on very big stars. And I am pretty confident that it will happen.
Which of the factors made you choose Malaika to do an item song in your film - that she is your wife or your lucky charm or just the best dancer?
A bit of all, the least her being my wife, except for the fact that it just makes it easier for me to get her to do this. But the most important reason was that she is the best person for the item song.
Do you feel possessive when your wife is so glamorous?
Not really. You ask anyone in college, how would you like your wife or girlfriend to be? No one wants the ugliest girl in the world who no one wants to look at. Out of 100 people, all 100 will say that I want the most beautiful woman in the world. Somebody that everybody desires, somebody who loves me and is with me. And I have this woman. After that, if you get possessive, then it's not on. You wanted the most desirable and beautiful woman, you wanted everyone to say how lucky you are and I wish I had a woman like that and when you do, then why would you worry yourself sick about it.
So far, smaller films have chosen to avoid coming on dates when big star films are coming. Yet, you have chosen to come with Akshay Kumar's Baby.
Date of release of a film is just as important as the quality of the film. So everyone looks for an ideal release date. As far as I am concerned, I am still learning on what is a good time and what is not, but there are 4 holidays in a year when there is a certain spike in the collections. These dates can absorb 2-3 films. Realistically, there are only 52 weeks and thus, given the number of films we make, the chances of having a solo release might become more and more difficult. Dolly Ki Doli is a fun, young film, substantially different from Neeraj Pandey's Baby. It has enough commercial value for the single screens, and the aesthetics and freshness for the multiplex audience. Also, given that December and January are great months for weddings, the film should do better in this period. Post the first weekend, Monday determines the final boxoffice numbers for a film, based on how the film holds on Monday. Given that Republic Day (January 26) this time is coming on a Monday, the film gets an automatic boost, improving the chances of it doing well. Had my film been the same genre as Baby, it would have led to a divide, but given that we are looking at only approximately 1,200 screens and Baby, about 2,500 screens, there is space for both to come healthily. If films of two big stars come together or if two similar films are coming together, they will eat into each other's box office, as there is only that much box office to capture, but Dolly Ki Doli and Baby are very different films. We have also seen in many cases that a solo release also does not guarantee a box office. Only time will tell whether coming with Baby was a good decision or not, but weighing the pros and cons, we felt we should come.
Baby seems to be another outstanding film of Neeraj Pandey. Why do you feel that the audience should choose to see Dolly Ki Doli?
You should see both the films if both are good films.
Given the expensive ticket prices today, which one film would you recommend?
I can't shove biryani down your throat if you like chola bhatura. Baby and Dolly Ki Doli are very different films and you should see what you would like to. Dolly Ki Doli is very fresh and entertaining.
Your first two films Dabangg as a producer and Dabangg 2 as a producer-director were both with Salman Khan. Why did you choose to make a smaller film this time?
I did not have a film that I could have taken to Salman or any other big star. Amongst the few scripts that I heard, Dolly Ki Doli got me excited despite it being a smaller film without a big star, but also that it is a woman-centric film. But I believe in mainstream cinema and even though Dolly Ki Doli may not be a Dabangg, it has a main stream approach. It may have taken much more effort to bring it to the silver screen, but I am pretty happy and confident about it.
Do you take a second opinion from anyone in your family before you take your decisions?
No. I have always gone by my gut for my major decisions in my life. Abbas Mustan had initially offered me Akshay's role in Khiladi as my debut film, but since I was pre-committed to another film which did not finally happen, I could not do Khiladi. A few years later, I met Abbas-Mustan in the middle of the road while driving my car and they literally stopped me and said, 'Ek picture hai. Tum second half mein aata hai. Tumhara negative role hai. An edge-of-the-seat thriller, karoge?' And I immediately said, 'Karoonga.' That was the only narration I got from them for my role in Daraar. By that time, I was frustrated and was looking for work. Now I was debuting in a negative role, but it was my decision. Had I gone back home and asked daddy and Salman, I may have got confused. Like Sohail did once. He woke up in the middle of the night and said, 'Daddy , this is the girl I am marrying.' And daddy (Salim Khan) said, 'Okay beta.' So sometimes, you have to take the decision and say, 'This is my girlfriend, this is my wife, this is the movie I have signed, this is the director.' If you engage with too many people for your decision, it only confuses your head, especially when it is people whom you love. For the very, very important decisions in my life, I don't allow people to take that for me.
Which were the most important decisions of your life that you took yourself?
Apart from the decision of my debut film, the decision of my marriage to Malaika and the decision to turn director in Dabangg 2. I had met Malaika on an ad shoot. We started dating and had a courtship of about 5 years before we got married. She was anxious and so, unfortunately, she didn't allow me to pop the question to her. She asked me when we will get married and I immediately told her, 'You decide the date and place and I will be there.' I was 30 and she was 23 then.
Even when it came to the decision to direct Dabangg 2, I had been involved in the first Dabangg in every aspect of the film. So when Abhinav decided to opt out of Dabangg 2, after considering so many big directors as options to direct it, I realised that I knew the film as well as anyone else could and took the decision to direct it.
Is Dabangg 3 a part of your future plan?
There are commitments Salman needs to honour to other films that he has signed for. So while there is no hurry, Dabangg 3 will definitely happen. It is a brand and a character both Salman and I respect and we will make it once we know what we want to do with the character.
How was your experience working with Sonam Kapoor?
She was excited about doing the film and has given it her all. She is hassle-free, down to earth and does not have any star tantrums. For instance, there is no protocol to her. You can speak to her directly, without necessarily going through her managers. Some stars want that, but she does not give that impression. On a tightly-budgeted film like Dolly Ki Doli that does not have the luxury of extending shooting days due to costs, it was imperative for Sonam to come on time as the entire shoot was dependent on her. There were days when she needed to shoot long hours and she did that without any stress. She would always come on time and there was not even one occasion when the unit had to wait for her. Women take time to get ready and on top of that, she was dressed as a dulhan, that needed more time. So, if she would come late and take time to dress up with limited shooting hours, we would have a lot of pressure, but nothing of that kind happened. There were times when she had a viewpoint on the film, but unlike some other stars, she would put it across very beautifully and say, 'I don't feel comfortable about it. What do you think?' And not like 'I won't do it.'
How important is the success of this film for you?
It's extremely important. Much as people like to think that now you prove yourself without Salman, the fact is that a lot of people have failed despite having big stars. It's not that I have not contributed to Dabangg and Dabangg 2, but people are watching to see, 'Ab dekhte hain that Arbaaz kya karta hai.' Many people have had opportunities to work with big stars, but not all have made Dabanggs. It's easier to do it with a star and this might be tougher, but the success of this film determines my life as a producer in the future. The success will allow me to make films without big stars or directors.
What would be Salman's point of view?
Salman will be happy that I have been able to deliver a movie minus him. Salman has been an elder brother, an inspirational factor and a guiding force in our life and he wishes well. Whether he is there or not, his support is always there. He feels that he has done so well for himself and wishes well for his siblings. He saw the first look and called me to say how he loved it. Dolly Ki Doli's success will also give me a sense of confidence and respect in my ability to make a movie on my own. It will allow my production to grow and allow me to tell stories that I want to tell, without being dependent on very big stars. And I am pretty confident that it will happen.
Which of the factors made you choose Malaika to do an item song in your film - that she is your wife or your lucky charm or just the best dancer?
A bit of all, the least her being my wife, except for the fact that it just makes it easier for me to get her to do this. But the most important reason was that she is the best person for the item song.
Do you feel possessive when your wife is so glamorous?
Not really. You ask anyone in college, how would you like your wife or girlfriend to be? No one wants the ugliest girl in the world who no one wants to look at. Out of 100 people, all 100 will say that I want the most beautiful woman in the world. Somebody that everybody desires, somebody who loves me and is with me. And I have this woman. After that, if you get possessive, then it's not on. You wanted the most desirable and beautiful woman, you wanted everyone to say how lucky you are and I wish I had a woman like that and when you do, then why would you worry yourself sick about it.
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