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Sohail Khan, Seema Khan file for divorce after 24 years of marriage

Sohail Khan, Seema Khan file for divorce

BOMBAY TIMES (May 14, 2022)

Sohail Khan and Seema Khan were spotted at the Family Court in Mumbai yesterday. As per reports, the two filed for divorce after 24 years of marriage. The couple is yet to release an official statement, however, they have been living separately for some time now. Sohail and Seema got married in 1998. They have two sons Nirvan (20) and Yohan (11).

Sohail who began his career as a director with Auzaar, also acted in a number of films, while Seema, who is a fashion designer, was recently seen in an OTT show.

Talking about her relationship with Sohail, on the show, Seema had said, “Sohail and I are not in a conventional marriage but we are a family. We are a unit. For us, him and me and our children matter at the end of the day. ”
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The actor-fashion designer couple initiated proceedings at Bandra Family Court yesterday to end their 24-year marriage
Hiren Kotwani (MID-DAY; May 14, 2022)

On Friday, actor-producer Sohail Khan and fashion designer-wife Seema Sachdev Khan filed for divorce at the Family Court in Bandra. The two had tied the knot in 1998 and are parents to Nirvaan, 22, and Yohan, 11. The couple reached the court around 12 noon, appearing before judge Maqdoom on the fourth floor to initiate the verification process that is required for their application. They have yet to finalise the terms and conditions of the divorce that will be granted after a minimum of six months. The duo, who share a friendly equation, left separately after completing the paperwork.

The development comes after years of the two living separately. While the actor stays at Salisbury Park in Pali Hill, Seema and the kids live a stone’s throw away. The two had met when Khan was working on Pyaar Kiya Toh Darna Kya (1998).

A friend of the Sachdevs says, “Soon, they fell in love and wanted to get married. Seema’s mother was against the match, so they eloped and tied the knot. The Khans had whole-heartedly welcomed Seema into their fold, and Seema’s mother too warmed up eventually.”

Whispers of all not being well between the couple had surfaced between 2016 and 2017. The source continues, “It was then heard that Salim saab had sat Sohail down, advising him to resolve his differences with Seema.” Recently, on an episode of Fabulous Lives Of Bollywood Wives, the fashion designer had admitted to having an “unconventional marriage”, while emphasizing that they were a family at the end of the day.

After party: Karan Johar and Kareena Kapoor's building sealed; more cases found

kareena kapoor

Richa Pinto (THE TIMES OF INDIA; December 15, 2021)

Mumbai: The Mumbai civic corporation’s H-West ward on Tuesday sealed four buildings in Bandra including those of actor Kareena Kapoor and filmmaker Karan Johar after Kapoor tested positive for Coronavirus.

Johar’s building in Union Park at Bandra was sealed as a precautionary measure, said Brihanmumbai Municipal Corporation (BMC) officials, as a party is believed to have been held in Johar’s home on December 8 where one of the guests was carrying the infection. Some of the others present at the party, in turn, caught the infection.

The civic ward also sealed actor Amrita Arora’s building on Kane Road in Bandra and star wife Seema Khan’s home in Pali Hill. Seema Khan is actor Sohail Khan’s wife. Along with her, two more persons from her residence including her son have tested positive for the virus. Another star wife who tested positive on Tuesday was Maheep Kapoor, the wife of actor Sanjay Kapoor. Maheep Kapoor is currently in home isolation.

Vinayak Vispute, BMC assistant municipal commissioner for the H-West, said four buildings have been sealed in the area which are private residences of these celebrities.

“We held an RT-PCR testing camp on Tuesday at each of these buildings all through the day where, apart from residents, the staff including drivers and maids were also tested. We don’t want to take any chances, so till the time the results of the tests are out we will continue to keep the building sealed,” said Vispute.

While BMC guidelines require over five persons to test positive for a building to be sealed, officials said they were sealing the buildings in this case as a precautionary measure.

K-West ward assistant municipal commissioner Prithviraj Chavan confirmed to TOI that Maheep Kapoor had tested positive in the Covid list on Tuesday morning and that the BMC will following further course of action by getting names of her close contacts to get them tracked and tested to contain the spread.

Madhu Poplai, a resident of the area and member of the Pali Hill Association (PHRA) said that in order to avoid any panic among residents of the area where the buildings were located, a message was sent out by PHRA.

The message read, “Dear members, just to keep everyone updated that Kiran Towers on Pali Hill has been completely sealed. This is due to 3 cases of Covid 19. All members, service staff are currently going through RTPCR to be doubly sure that there are no cases. There is no need of any panic as BMC medical staff are just doing their duty.”
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Don’t blame Kareena, says spokesperson

HINDUSTAN TIMES (December 15, 2021)

After BMC officials confirmed actors Kareena Kapoor Khan and Amrita Arora tested positive for Covid-19 and that they flouted norms by attending parties, Khan’s spokesperson told IndiaToday.in they contracted the virus at a private dinner. “Among that group, there was one person who seemed unwell. This person should have been responsible enough to not attend the dinner and put others at risk…It is not fair to put the blame on Kareena,” said the spokesperson. Her father, Randhir Kapoor, shared her health update, saying she had fever and body ache. Khan is currently on home quarantine. Meanwhile, actor Sanjay Kapoor’s wife, Maheep Kapoor, and actor Sohail Khan’s wife, Seema Khan, have also tested Covid-19 positive.

Many from film families haven’t made it big, including my husband-Seema Khan

Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; January 6, 2021)

She never wanted to join films, even though she married into a family where almost everyone is associated with the film industry. Fashion designer Seema Khan found herself in the limelight when she starred in the recently released OTT show, Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives.

Wife of actor Sohail Khan, she emphasises that she’s a very “private person”, but her problem wasn’t that she wouldn’t open up in front of the camera. “I don’t know when to hold back. When I decided to do this show, I was sure that whatever I do, I’ll do a 100% and won’t make anything up. I’m not an actress and have never faced the camera. It was definitely a little daunting. The only thing was I wasn’t going to be insensitive to anyone,” she says.

And Seema certainly was herself on the show. No holds barred is how she talked about her personal life, and even termed hers and Sohail’s marriage as “unconventional”.

What also got talked about is how all the star kids — her sons Nirvaan and Yohan, Sanjay Kapoor’s kids Shanaya and Jahaan, Shah Rukh Khan’s daughter Suhana Khan and more, were featured on the show. People thought it was like an audition showreel. Seema has a clear take on this. “It’s a reality show about our lives. These children are our lives. The biggest part of any woman’s life is her family and children. To not have them would be going completely against reality!” she quips.

So tomorrow, will she be okay with her sons getting into acting and the nepotism debate that will follow them? “Talent has to speak. We have actors in the industry, who’ve hailed from big film families, who haven’t made it, including my own husband. Nepotism doesn’t mean you’re going to make it,” concludes Seema.

On The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives, we are women who multitask, like every woman out there-Bhavana Pandey

The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives features Seema Khan, Bhavana Pandey, Maheep Kapoor and Neelam Kothari
That's what four famous Bollywood wives with fabulous lives will have the audience believe with their new slice-of-life digital show
Aastha Atray Banan (MID-DAY; November 29, 2020)

Along with an attack on our health, this year saw an assault of another kind, equally discussed. The attack on Bollywood royalty. Superstars were "shown their place", say critics, especially on social media, as the aam junta questioned their entitlement, the power of privilege that comes with being someone important's someone.

Ironically, a new digital show that's been at the centre of much chatter, discusses and celebrates this very privilege, as it puts four wives of Bollywood stars—Neelam Kothari (married to Samir Soni), Seema Khan (Sohail Khan), Maheep Kapoor (Sanjay Kapoor) and Bhavana Pandey (Chunky Pandey; is mother to Ananya Panday)—in the spotlight. The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives promises to offer entry into filmi families, which have been at the vortex of the nepotism debate recently. "People will finally know that our lives aren't glamorous 24/7. And, that we are not perfect!" says Khan, wife to Sohail Khan, brother to Bollywood's biggest superstar Salman Khan and daughter-in-law to veteran scriptwriter Salim Khan. Kothari argues that they may look perfect, but that doesn't mean, "they don't have their insecurities".

Whatever the protagonists may say, the audiences are going to watch for a glimpse of the perfection and glamour that defines, even if erroneously, Bollywood. What is going to come as a surprise though, is the candidness with which the show is presented. Khan confesses that she is obsessed with the Kardashians, while actor Samir Soni discusses Neelam's fear of facing audience judgment with a return to screen after years. And Pandey laughs about her love of "water bras". And they all have real jobs. Kothari and Kapoor are jewellery designers; Pandey runs a fashion brand called Love Gen; Khan is a fashion designer. But as Kapoor says, their kids come before career. Pandey adds, "We will be in super important meetings, but when your child calls, it means you have to put them before anything and everything."

The show, produced by Karan Johar, is full of real, and some hilarious moments. Some of it is over the top, yes, but all of it, entertaining.

When we get on a Zoom call with the four, they seem to be a bunch not too concerned about challenging any odd perceptions you may have. Pandey, who comes across as the most grounded, says, "Honestly, this show was not intended to challenge misconceptions. We are not trying to prove anything. We are behaving the way we would ordinarily—we are women who multitask, like every woman out there." Kapoor says they are an emotional bunch. They've known each other for 20-odd years, and that's what people will see. "That's close to 25 years of relationships and friendship. I am hoping women will connect with us."

Interestingly, the four weren't very keen to put themselves out there when the idea was presented to them. Kothari says different triggers set each of them off, and all of them lost their cool at some point while shooting. But it was the kids who got them to see its relevance in perspective. As Kapoor says, "It was very nerve-racking to put ourselves out there. But our kids made us see the light—life is short, who says no to Dharmatic [Johar's Dharma Productions] and Netflix! Tell your stories. And suddenly, we all said, 'why not, we must!'"

Rapid Fire

Did you worry about being branded elitist?
Kothari: That's the misconception in any field. You have to work hard to get where you are. You will never see success if you don't work hard.
Pandey: We are privileged, and we are blessed. But, there is everything else that comes with it. We experience the emotions you do—we are happy and sad. Ours is like any other family.

Were you apprehensive about doing the show?
Kapoor: Very! Neelam was like 'hell, no!' Seema said yes, and Bhavna was thinking about it. Did we want people to judge us, and give so much access? No.
Pandey: I had been planning—okay, I will be controlled, and I will say this, and do that. But after a while, we went back to who we were. How long can you pretend?
Khan: I was fine till the shoot started. Then, when the cameras were in our house, we panicked a bit.
Kothari: I think what helped was that we had known each other for 25 years.

How are "normal" women going to relate to you?
Kapoor: We are very possessive mothers. That will resonate for sure.
Pandey: We all multistask like everyone else, especially like everyone has during the pandemic!

Which Sex and the City character are you?
Khan: Maheep is obviously Samantha, and Neelam is very much like Charlotte. I think Bhavana and I oscillate, and have a bit of both Miranda and Carrie in us.

The Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives

Neelam Kothari, Bhavana Pandey, Seema Khan and Seema Khan
Neelam Kothari, Bhavana Pandey, Maheep Kapoor and Seema Khan

Image: Chunky Pandey's daughter Ananya looks stunning in this pink lehenga

Ananya Pandey
MID-DAY (March 9, 2017)

Chunky Pandey's daughter Ananya is all grown up and looks gorgeous in her recent pictures! Seema Khan took to Instagram to share a snapshot of Ananya in a pink lehenga and she looks breathtaking!

While sharing the photo, Seema Khan wrote, "How pretty does @ananyapandey look in this printed organza lehenga specially made for her for a recent wedding...."

Meet Sonakshi Sinha's friend Bunty Sajdeh, the man Bollywood loves to be seen with

Bunty Sajdeh. Pic/Yogen Shah
What you may (or may not) want to know about Bunty Sajdeh
Shaheen Parkar (MID-DAY; November 7, 2016)

Over the weekend, Sonakshi Sinha was yet again spotted with rumoured ‘special friend’ Bunty Sajdeh. The two sent paps into a tizzy outside a restaurant at Bandra-Kurla Complex. It has been a while since the actress has been linked in the press with Bunty, who runs a celebrity management company. His clients include star-cricketer Virat Kohli.

Bunty and Sonakshi have been spotted together off and on at public places, fuelling speculations over their relationship — whether true or not, one of course doesn’t know. Neither has publicly spoken about the other.

The Khandaan connect
Buzz is Sonakshi met Bunty through Salman Khan when she was shooting for Dabangg 2 (2012). Bunty’s sister is Seema, Sohail Khan’s wife. Sources state the actress and he hit it off well and he began handling her endorsements.

Things went quiet on their front later. Over a year and half ago, there was again buzz about them being a twosome. They began stepping out together throwing caution to the wind.

With Sonakshi in BKC on Saturday
Special friendship
Sonakshi’s presence at Bunty’s mother’s 60th birthday bash earlier this year set tongues wagging about her proximity to his family. Snapshots of Sonakshi making merry went viral. As did Bunty’s presence at Sonakshi’s birthday bash in June this year. Last December, when cricketer Rohit Sharma married Ritika Sajdeh (Bunty’s cousin, who also is part of his company), Sonakshi is said to have been the mainstay of the wedding festivities.

No personal posers
Sonakshi guards her personal life zealously. Though gossip columns have been eloquent about the two, the Akira actress has kept mum. As reported, ‘People shouldn’t be given the liberty to talk loosely about anyone’ (hitlist, Oct 30) , the actress preferred a no-comment stance when asked about Bunty: “I get spotted with so many people, so why pick on one particular person?”

The ex file
In 2009, Bunty Sajdeh wed Ambika Chauhan in a lavish wedding in Goa with a bachelor’s party in Bangkok. But the marriage went kaput a few years later. After their split, it is said, Ambika, who was also his partner in the company, severed professional ties with the South Mumbai boy as well.

Bunty Sajdeh and Dia Mirza
B- Town girls link ups
What’s interesting is how, in the past, Bunty has been linked with a host of B-Town heroines from Sameera Reddy, Dia Mirza, Neha Dhupia to Sushmita Sen.

Blame it on his work which throws him in with Bollwyood beauties? There was talk about him and Dia circulating in the gossip press, over a decade ago. Like Sonakshi, she had apparently met him through the Khandaan. But in 2004, they went their separate ways.

Then there was also buzz about him and Neha Dhupia, and in 2007, snapshots of him holding hands with Sushmita Sen did the rounds as well. Their relationship of course had a professional touch — he was handling Sush’s product endorsement deals at the time. Our efforts to get in touch with Bollywood’s cool Bunty for this story went unattended.

Bunty Sajdeh and Sushmita Sen from back in the day

I don't share my private life even with friends-Sohail Khan


Sohail Khan, at his candid best, insists he's doing Kabir Khan's next just so he can learn from brother Salman and the director, insists he wants his son to understand that stardom isn't for keeps before entering the industry, admits golf has taught him the virtues of patience and dismisses rumours about liaisons saying there's always two sides to any story
Sanyukta Iyer (MUMBAI MIRROR; July 29, 2016)

On Thursday, Sohail Khan kicked off the first schedule of Kabir Khan's 2017 Eid release, Tubelight, in the mountains of Ladakh. Set in the '50s, the emotional drama has Sohail playing Salman Khan's mute, younger brother.

Speaking to Mirror just before he jetted off, the filmmaker-actor had seemed excited about having finally landed a great acting gig. “I am only doing Tubelight so that I can be around Kabir and Salman bhai, there is so much to learn from them. I'll be shooting until February so I'll only start thinking of my next script by mid-next year,“ he informed, admitting candidly that he knows that he's not a saleable actor. “But I can play a great character role, I don't even care if it's just a guest appearance. I was getting rubbish roles anyway, thank God I had a production house that I could fall back on so that I could produce and direct films.“

In 2014, when Sohail had been toying with the idea of making a sports film, while in Delhi, he visited one of the capital's best golf courses. He thought it would be a boring day on the course, but he had a blast, hitting the ball everywhere but into the hole. “The only person safe from my swings was the man standing behind me,“ laughed Sohail who on his return to Mumbai, began writing a story about Ali, a mohalla boy who visits a golf course to extort some money, gets hooked to the rich man's sport and becomes an inspiration to lower-middle-class kids who believe tennis, squash, billiards are out of their reach. Nawazuddin Siddiqui plays Ali. The actor had played a Pakistani journalist in Kabir Khan's earlier film, Bajrangi Bhaijaan. The day after the screening, Sohail narrated the story of Ali to him and told him that if he was interested, he'd re-work the character keeping him in mind. Scripting continued for the next four months. During this time, Arbaaz joined the cast as the quirky goon. Actor-turned-fashion maverick, Jas Arora, was roped in to play a royal reigning golfer and Amy Jackson as an international sports agent.

“I've been practising the game for the last one year and golf has taught me the virtue of patience. MS Dhoni, Sachin Tendulkar and even F1 racers are playing the sport today to stay focussed,“ Sohail pointed out, delighted to have wrapped up the film in 40 days with shoots in Mumbai, Delhi and Pune and within a certain budget. “My father (scriptwriter Salim Khan) told me to be practical and stick to a plan. This is the first time my production costs run into single digits,“ he said.

He's also got rid of his temper and, with elder son Nirvaan introducing him to new shows on streaming sites like Netflix, he insisted he has evolved. “The audience has moved from Yo Yo Honey Singh to Badshah and I don't want to be caught listening to Daler Mehendi,“ he reasoned.

Meanwhile, the senior Khans have decided that the generation next--Sohail's sons, Nirvaan and Yohaan and Arbaaz's son Arhaan - should explore the world before stepping into the film industry. “My 14-year-old son wants to be an actor but I want him to finish his basic education and travel first. He must understand that income and popularity fluctuate so one shouldn't get carried away by stardom,“ he asserted.

He recalled a man outside a restobar who asked him for a selfie, then retorted, “Kyun, you think you are a bada star!“ On another occasion, a customs officer asked him not to take the green channel and not act pricey because “Tu bhai nahin hai“. Today, after these rude jolts, Sohail has shut the doors to his life not just to the paparazzi, but also his close buddies. “Even they don't know who the real Sohail Khan is today and what he is up to because I no longer share anything private even with my friends,“ he admitted.

Of late, there's been plenty of buzz about a liaison which reportedly caused ripples in his 18-year marriage with Seema Sachdev Khan. He argued that for someone to pick up the newspaper every morning, there has to be something controversial and intriguing. “Everyone's inquisitive and wants a piece of the celebrity-pie. That's okay, but when they become judgemental and start forming perceptions, it becomes worrying. There's always the other person's side to any story, even celebs are normal guys, even we have parents and family, spare us please!“ he entreated, adding that his father had asked all his kids to pick up a hobby like Salman that would bring them peace. “Salman bhai's not obsessed with being No. 1, he's happy with his films, his charity, his TV show and his painting. He's not in the rat race. In the last five years we've seen that he no longer runs behind anyone, it's success that chases after him. We are watching him and learning how it all falls in place,“ he signed off with a smile.

Images: Sonakshi Sinha rings in 29th birthday with close friends


MUMBAI MIRROR (June 3, 2016)

Sonakshi Sinha, who recently returned from a work trip in New York, ushered in her 29th birthday with gal pals Seema Khan, Maheep Kapoor, Bhavana Pandey and designer Laila Motwane at a private bash on Wednesday night. While Sona and Seema turned up in colour-coordinated whites, the girl gang danced the night away on some of their fave tracks. The group was later joined by Sona's close friend, Bunty Sajdeh. On Thursday, Seema sent birthday greetings to Sona on the social media with snapshots from the bash. 

Meanwhile, the actress kicked off the day by sharing a teaser of her next, the coming-of-age drama Noor which is based on Pakistani journalist-writer Saba Imtiaz's 2014 novel, Karachi You're Killing Me!, in which she plays the titular character. The film rolls in Mumbai, this July. “I can't wait to begin this journey. It's already on such a positive note. Thank you all for the overwhelming response. That's been the best birthday gift so far,“ Sona posted online.

Here's wishing Shotgun Jr many more gloriously happy returns of the day.

Is Sussanne Roshan jeopardising her partners’ chances of getting their media due?


BOMBAY TIMES (February 13, 2014)

Right at the onset, let’s make one thing clear — there’s no major discord between Sussanne Roshan and her two partners, Maheep Kapoor and Seema Khan. However, sources say there is a minor cause for concern.

Just days before Sussanne entered a business deal along with Maheep and Seema, her husband Hrithik Roshan announced that Sussanne and he were separating.

Naturally, at the launch of their business enterprise, journalists were more interested in Sussanne’s “personal” life. This kind of marred the atmosphere.

Now, there are umpteen offers from media houses to feature the three enterprising Bollywood wives. However, an insider says, “Sussanne is not too keen on being in the limelight because she fears that some journalists may cross the line and slip in queries about her crumbling marriage.”

And while she takes her time to decide when she wants to face the media, her partners are reportedly grudging the fact that they can’t get their due either — because, whoever has shown interest in the Bollywood wives, wants all three together.

We give respect not because people deserve but because we want it back-Sohail Khan


Priya Gupta (BOMBAY TIMES; January 23, 2014)

Sohail Khan, 43, much like his father, is a people’s person, but happy in his small world consisting of his family and close friends. He is understanding, thinks before he acts and loves his sleep. Unlike his brother Salman, who works every single day, he is proud of times that he is not working and just spending with his family. He is not a package guy who takes a 15-day break after working for three years. He takes his time and enjoys the process. He is a big fan of Raju Hirani, loves his dad the most and is extremely protective about his sister Arpita, with whom he shared a room before getting married. Be it his wife Seema, his friends or himself, the one commonality is that they all have a small world. Director of the most anticipated film, Jai Ho, he talks to Bombay Times about the caring Salman, the Parsi Arbaaz and the commonality between them all. Excerpts:
 

Why did you think of directing Jai Ho?
I am a big Rajkumar Hirani fan. When you see a Raju Hirani film, there is great entertainment, but you also come back being a better person. When I heard the script of Jai Ho, the idea of each one helping three people was very noble and I felt I could contribute to it as director. I felt it could change a few lives. If you intend to make a good film, you will make good money. But if you want to make good money, you will not make a good film. My dad said, ‘Achhi film banao, be sincere about it, don’t worry about yeh kitna paisa banaegi. Make a good film, money will follow.’
 

Who are you most attached to?
My dad. He is a very easy guy. The good thing about him is that he has no agenda. He doesn’t want to please this one or that one. Even though Salman Bhai is such a big star, my dad will give unconditional love to all of us equally. When you go out sometimes, even your own friends will ask you, ‘How is Salman?’ before they ask you about you. I love Salman Bhai and am so proud of him but it’s great to have a father who treats you equally as a human being. Of course, Salman Bhai is the first child and so dad loves him the most. Dad always told me, ‘Your hands are for a certain reason, your legs are for a certain reason and your brain is for a certain reason. You are supposed to think with your brain’. He said, ‘We all react with anger and panic, but if you have the time, think about it. Put yourself in that position, do your due diligence and find out the truth.’ He will always say, ‘Kal baat karte hain.’ I have learnt to take decisions after sleeping over them for a night. And many a time, when I wake up, I thank God I didn’t do that. ‘Diplomatic’ is considered to be a bad word, but in reality it is good. There is no need to hurt others with your opinion. My father has a lot of friends. He once told me, ‘Beta when people were making money, I was making friends’. He is not working for a very long time but when he picks up the phone, people respond. He has always been close to Kishore Lulla even though we did not work together for a long time. Once I met Kishore and said, ‘I am really sorry. My dad calls you many times and asks you to get work done for so many people. I hope you don’t feel bad?’ He said, ‘Sohail, I will always do it for your father. Have you noticed? He has never called for his work. It’s always for somebody else. When he can make that effort, who am I?’ That’s when I realise what he means by saying invest in people. He always says, “Achha karo, achha hoga.’ My father says, ‘You can trust a person who has old friends and servants.’ My dad is somebody in general who will sort you out. If you have done something wrong, he will tell you, you can’t run away from it, you have to correct it, rectify it and do something good to compensate it. He will not just comfort you. Nobody is perfect and if you have unintentionally made a mistake, apologise.
 

Who are your friends in the industry?
Anna (Suniel Shetty) and Riteish Deshmukh. Past 22 years that I have known Anna, he has been consistent with me. Whenever he enters the room, I will stand up. I respect Sachin Tendulkar not because of how good he is as an athlete but the way he has conducted himself with dignity in his life. Ijaz, our physio, tells us that Sachin has played only 50-60% of his calibre as he did not want to get injured. He did not put in his best as he wanted to be consistent. I have never seen Anna change. Riteish belongs to a very powerful political family and yet, he is so normal and humble.
 

What is Salman like?
Like mine, even his world is very small. Everyone wants to interpret his behaviour and attitude. People who know him feel he is always being misjudged. He is emotional, impatient and impulsive, but has understood that and is growing each day. There have been moments of his life that have been vulnerable and have been taken advantage of. When I am told that he is Salman Khan, that’s why he has got away with it, I say, ‘He is Salman Khan, that is why he has got stuck in it.’ As a brother, he is how he is supposed to be. That’s why I call him bhai, not just because he is my older brother, but he takes great care of you. What I love about him is that you can depend on him and he is there for you. He works every single day and now lives at the farm. He considers me to be a friend’s friend. He knows that I have more time in my hands and knows that I would have always thought out something before I say it, so if he wants to know something about the family, he will consult me. He gathers information and knows he will get an unbiased answer.
 

How different are you from your brothers Salman and Arbaaz?
For me, there are no extremes. Neither do I panic nor do I get excited. I go with the flow. I trust everyone and don’t judge the person and will judge only the circumstance. Usually, people say things in an outburst and then they regret it the next day as they may not have meant it. So when you are calm about it, people think you are cold as you are not reacting. Actually, I am cold as I am concerned but not reacting. I am very emotional and sensitive but that’s why it gets misinterpreted by even closed ones. I will rationalise it and talk about it when I can have a conversation about it. I don’t like crowds, so people could think that I am snooty as I will take a corner and sit down. I have my family and only go out with them and my close friends. I meet everybody but I am not a socialising factor. For me, the smaller the world the happier it is. Arbaaz Bhai is a Parsi. He is very correct and his world is smaller than even me. I am a little more understanding than him. He takes everything at face value. For instance, sometimes, in formality, you talk to someone about doing a film together. I will understand that he is saying yes, but in reality, he doesn’t want to do. Arbaaz Bhai will take that at face value and will wait till the person formally says no. Both Salman and Arbaaz bhai trust people immensely. But what is dissimilar is Salman bhai is impulsive and impatient and Arbaaz bhai is black-and-white. But one thing we all three have a problem with is if someone does batameezi with us. We only give respect not because people deserve it but we want it back. We are extra nice to people, but some people respect it when you call them ‘Sir’ and some people get carried away and say, ‘idhar aa.’ Then you have to tell them, ‘We don’t call you Sir so that you can say ‘idhar aa’.’ The same thing with our dad. My dad is the nicest person in the world and he will give everyone respect. Once I asked him, ‘Daddy, why are you nice to everyone?’ He said, ‘Beta, it’s not that he deserves it. I want it back.’ We all caught on to that. So, we are scared of any provocation.
 

How did you meet your wife Seema?
I met her at Chunky and Bhavana’s wedding in Delhi and started dating her. Her dad met me after four months and in his first meeting, told me, either you get married to her or we will get her married off. I went to the toilet, washed my face and reasoned out with myself that I would not be able to get a girl like Seema and agreed to marry her immediately. What I liked about her was that her world again was very small like me. So, I knew if she is a part of my life, we will fit into each other’s worlds well and we did. My parents and brothers make all the wives in our family extremely comfortable. Before calling me up, they will call Seema. We live separately, but we will have one meal together mostly at dad’s house. We don’t have a pretentious family and we spend quality time with each other any time of the day.