Showing posts with label Rubina Ali interview. Show all posts
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I don’t watch Slumdog Millionaire, it’s embarrassing-Rubina Ali
8:14 AM
Posted by Fenil Seta

Former child star Rubina Ali on life after leaving Mumbai streets ten years ago to attend the Oscars when the film went on to win eight awards
Daily Mirror (BOMBAY TIMES; February 20, 2019)
On Oscars night next weekend, all eyes will be on Olivia Colman, the 45-year-old British actress being tipped for Best Actress glory for her role as Queen Anne in The Favourite. It will be a remarkable night for Colman, but nothing compared to Rubina Ali’s experience on the Hollywood red carpet ten years ago.Slumdog Millionaire star Rubina was ten, when she left India and her tiny shack of a home in the Mumbai slums, to go to the 81st Academy Awards in Hollywood, where all eyes were on her as Danny Boyle’s film won eight Oscars.
A decade on, instead of rubbing shoulders with the stars in LA next Sunday, Rubina, 20, will be watching it on TV in her one-bedroom flat in Bandra West, just across the railway line from the Bandra East slum where she was born.
Rubina says, “The Oscars was just unforgettable. It was one of the most amazing days. But sometimes it feels like a dream — I was so young. I was very happy to meet all the Hollywood stars and to experience the red carpet. I never imagined that would happen in my life.”
Wide-eyed Rubina played the young Latika, who falls in love with Jamal, played by Dev Patel. Recalling her trip to LA, Rubina, now a student and part-time office worker, says, “I remember I didn’t like the US food. Dev Patel used to feed me with his hand — pizza and burgers — but I like Indian spicy food, I didn’t like the continental food.”
‘SLUMDOG STOLE MY CHILDHOOD’
Rubina was living in a tiny brick-and-corrugated-iron hut in the slums with dad Rafiq, stepmum Munni, two brothers and two sisters, when a friend heard that US film producers were looking for slum children for a Hollywood film.
Rubina, whose biological mother, Khushi, had walked out of the family home when she was four, was paid an upfront fee equivalent to around £624 now, a huge figure compared to her father’s £110-a-month wage as a carpenter.
Danny Boyle later formed the Jai Ho Trust to help Rubina and Azharuddin Mohammed Ismail — the only other slum kid in the film — and pay for a good education and a flat for each of them.
She says, “Uncle Danny has been wonderful. He has supported me so much. He paid for my education and came to visit me every year. I’d go to visit him at his hotel and he’d ask me about my life. He has helped me a lot. He is very kind and loving to us. I love him too.”
The two children went to an English school in plush Bandra West, and when they turned 18, they received an undisclosed sum from the trust plus the deeds to their flats.
Speaking to the team as she revisits the slums where she once lived and where the movie was filmed, Rubina says, “I grew up much quicker because of Slumdog, though. The film stole my childhood. My mother and father didn’t know much, they’re not educated so they had no idea how to handle the fame and attention. It was too much for them.”
She says the film also brought her ‘fake friends’ as she found herself to be a target for opportunists, who tried to take advantage of her success. She and her family were offered free food and clothes, but when the interest in the film started to subside, so did the offers. Rubina says, “Everyone wanted to be my friend after the film. People would buy me gifts and clothes and feed me, but then they disappeared. Before Slumdog there was no one, then there were so many people and then, there was no one again. They wanted to be famous because I was famous.”
‘SOME PEOPLE STILL RECOGNISE ME, BUT NOT AS MUCH AS THEY USED TO’
Rubina’s 15-minutes of fame took a toll on her already-strained family. There were stories of her mum fighting with her stepmum, she fell out with her father and even moved in with her aunt and uncle for a while. Rubina says she saw a lot of ‘deceit’, but refuses to elaborate. Her brush with Hollywood fame has left her guarded, struggling to trust people.
She says, “Now I live a simple life. I don’t have many friends and I don’t drink alcohol. I saw a lot of fake people soon after Slumdog, so I am very wary of people. I don’t like being with a lot of people, I’m not very trusting. I’m alone quite a lot and I quite like that. I don’t want people to use me and harm me.
“Some people still recognise me, but not as much as they used to. Soon after the film, everyone used to call my name and sing Jai Ho at me, but not as much these days.”
It’s a sad statement for a young woman of 20. But Rubina has been on a rollercoaster few could imagine.
Her first home in the slums was destroyed to make way for a railway line the year the film came out and her second home was burned to the ground in 2011, the fire destroying all her Oscar memorabilia and the baby blue dress she wore on awards night.
She moved into the flat at the age of 13, where she now lives. Many of her family still live in the slums, and as she shows us the area where she once lived, she admits that, despite the atrocious conditions, she misses the community spirit she once shared.
Rubina says, “I often go back to the slum to see my uncle and family. It looks different now, so I don’t feel emotional when I go there, but it was once my home. I miss how it was, the home I had. I loved my neighbours and close family nearby. We were a close community —everyone was so nice, but it’s gone now.”
Of course, the film has given her plenty of opportunities, too. She now studies art and literature at Mumbai University and works parttime in an office.
‘I LIKE BOTH HOLLYWOOD AND BOLLYWOOD, BUT I DON’T WANT TO LIVE OVERSEAS’
Rubina, who was a runner on the 2013 movie Belle, still wants to be an actor and insists that, overall, the Slumdog experience was wonderful. She says, “It’s my dream to be an actor and I want to make it come true. I know my family is very proud of me.”
She says, “I like both Hollywood and Bollywood, but I don’t want to live overseas. I want to stay in Mumbai, so I guess Bollywood will be my future. If I become a successful actress as an adult, I now know to be careful with people. I’m prepared for the fame now. Once you get attention, people appear out of nowhere.”
She wants to share the same advice with other young stars, like Sunny Pawar, who was 11 when he went to the Oscars after starring with her old friend Dev Patel in Lion (2016). Rubina says, “I’d tell Sunny to make sure his family have guidance to make the right decisions and make the most of the opportunities. All the fame, that world, it’s very different from our normal lives.”
Rubina had a lot of that support from Danny, a lifeline she will always be grateful for. But while she still looks forward to his visits, she admits she hasn’t seen Slumdog in a while. Speaking of the film that changed her life, Rubina says, “I don’t watch it, it’s embarrassing. I play the role of a beggar, so it’s quite embarrassing to watch. I laugh when I see myself.”

If my family had stayed together, I think my life would have been even better-Rubina Ali
8:12 AM
Posted by Fenil Seta
Thanks to Danny Boyle's Jai Ho Trust, Rubina Ali has a shot at a better future, even if the past still bristles
Tariq Engineer (MUMBAI MIRROR; March 5, 2017)
It's enough to make anyone's head spin and yet Rubina seems to have her head screwed on just fine. We met her at a McDonalds in the suburbs a few weeks after she turned 18. Dressed in a white top and blue jeans and sporting dark glasses, she looked every inch a modern young lady. The only thing that hasn't changed about her is her smile. It is still as bright and charming as it was in all the pictures in which she is clutching her Oscar. The movie business is replete with stories of child actors who have succumbed to the pressures of fame, but Rubina has escaped that fate, though there has been collateral damage.
“When they [my parents] were in my life, they did not look after me so well,“ she says. “They would fight over me and whatever I was getting. They would pull me this way and that way. I have told my family, you are happy in your lives, let me be happy in mine.“
She is able to be independent thanks to the Jai Ho Trust, which was set up by Boyle, or Danny Uncle, as Rubina calls him, to provide for her and Azharuddin Ismail, her fellow Garib Nagar slum resident. It was through the trust that Rubina was enrolled in school. “The Trust has supported us in a very good way,“ she says. “It seems like they want the best for me. They think mostly about my education because even if I don't make it in acting, education means I can do anything in life.“
The importance of education has been drilled into her by Boyle, who comes to visit the two of them about once a year. Rubina has told him she wants to act in movies and asked him to cast her in his next movie. According to her, Danny Uncle has agreed but he has told her that for now she needs to think about her education first. “From my heart, I can say Danny Uncle is like a father to me,“ Rubina says. “He has given me so much. Even my own parents have not done so much for me. Normally, once a movie is over, people forget about you. I think if it was anyone else, none of this would have happened.“
Boyle also arranged for the Trust to buy her family a flat, though her dad and stepmother currently occupy it and are refusing to leave, something that bothers Rubina. “If it is in my name and I am not living there, then you need to leave,“ she says. Danny Uncle has been an influence on her attitude here too.When he found out about her family trouble, she says he told her, “`if your family is like this, you don't become like that. You stay positive and don't think negatively. Even if someone does something bad to you, stay positive. If you start thinking negatively, it will overwhelm you and you will become negative too. You are not like that so don't become like that.'“
Rubina talks wistfully about the time immediately after Slumdog, when she drew worldwide attention to Garib Nagar. It's clear that she misses the adulation. “If Slumdog hadn't happened, nobody would be interested in me and nobody would be saying Rubina, Rubina, Rubina,“ she says. “That time there was such a big crowd. When I left the house, everyone would know. Now, of course, it has cooled off but people still recognise me and know about me. That makes me feel very good. When I know people are talking about me, it is a different kind of feeling.“
The other constant in her life has been Islam. She performs namaz five times a day, reads the Koran and fasts. “I want Islam and my lifestyle,“ she says. “It can't be that I will give up namaz to do a movie or that I give up movies for namaz. I can manage both. I don't like the idea that one should only live a particular life. Everyone should be free to lead their own lives. Why should anyone judge anyone else?“ She's also glad to be independent, even if she didn't expect it to happen so young. “It feels good because I am doing things on my own and nobody is there to judge me and tell me not to do something. I have learned a lot over the last few years about how to manage things in my life and to read people.“
Before you think she sounds too grown up, Rubina reveals she is obsessed with selfies. So much so that it is the only feature on a cellphone she cares about. In fact, she wants to upgrade to the latest model of her cellphone because it takes better photos. “My friends tease me a lot, especially when I post photos on Instagram because all I do is take selfie, selfie, selfie and upload them,“ she says with a laugh.
In hindsight, the fire that burned down her house in Garib Nagar foreshadowed her clean break with the past. She even lost all the copies of her biography, which was published in 14 languages. She thought about asking for more copies but says “I don't have that much interest in reading my own story so why get more copies?“ Now that she has turned 18, Rubina's portion of the Trust will be dissolved in a few months and the money handed over to her. When that happens, she will be completely independent for the first time in her life. Nirja Mattoo, one of the Trustees, believes Rubina is ready to take control. “We have been counselling and mentoring her all this time and now she has become very strong emotionally,“ Mattoo says. “Nobody can shake her up and take her for granted.“
While Rubina's future appears brighter than she could have imagined, and she has plenty of friends, there is still a part of her that craves what she has lost. “If I am honest, then there is a little part of my heart that feels the absence of my family,“ she says. “When I see other families who are happy, then I wish my family was like that. If my family had stayed together, I think my life would have been even better. But there is nothing I can do. I can't change my life.“
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