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There are a lot of misconceptions about my age. I was only 17 when I shot for my debut film-Divya Khosla Kumar

Divya Khosla Kumar looks fierce in the new poster from 'Satyameva Jayate 2'

Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; October 19, 2023)

Divya Khosla Kumar, who directed ‘Yaariyan’ (2014) and featured in a couple of films in the last few years, is now excited about ‘Yaariyan 2’, which has her playing the lead along with actors Meezaan Jafri and Pearl V Puri. The film, directed by Radhika Rao and Vinay Sapru, will be released tomorrow. In a conversation with Bombay Times, she talks about her challenges as an artiste and how she is now focused on her acting career. Excerpts:

‘Yaariyan 2’ is probably the first Hindi film to capture the bond between cousins’
Talking about why she didn’t follow the trend of quickly making a sequel to her successful directorial debut film ‘Yaariyan’, she says, “I don’t take on a project just for the sake of it. The subject has to ignite passion in me. Until directors Radhika Rao and Vinay Sapru presented me with this unique and entertaining story based on yaariyan between three cousins, I hadn’t found a suitable story that could do justice to the brand. ‘Yaariyan 2’ is probably the first Hindi film to capture the bond between cousins on screen.”

‘As an actor, it is crucial for me to trust my director and surrender to his vision’
Divya had complete trust that the director duo would do justice to the project and was never tempted to tell them how to handle the film. She shares, “When I work with a director in the capacity of an actor, it’s crucial for me that I trust their vision, surrender to it, and never question their judgment. The character, Laadli, has been written keeping my real self in mind. The directors know me personally and my goofy and witty nature. So, while my co-actors had to work hard to get into their character, I just had to be myself (smiles). ‘Yaariyan 2’ is important to me because my character is beautifully etched out. The audience will get to see me in a full-fledged role for the first time in a Bollywood film.”

‘At the moment, I am concentrating on acting’
Having dabbled in both acting and direction, what’s closer to her heart? “I am the happiest and creatively alive on a set. Both acting and direction give me a lot of creative satisfaction. However, I must admit that direction is way tougher than acting because one has to manage so much. At the moment, I am concentrating on acting. I also feel it’s a great time for actors with the kind of content that is being generated. Content is king today,” she replies.

‘I have learnt on the job and grown, especially behind the camera’
Divya’s journey in showbiz is marked by long gaps – from her film debut with ‘Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Saathiyo’ (2004) to getting married and returning to acting with ‘Satyameva Jayate 2’ (2021). “I have been constantly working. It’s just that when you are working behind the camera, it often goes unnoticed. I have learnt on the job and grown, especially behind the camera. I have neither assisted any director nor has anyone been my teacher, guide, or support. After directing ‘Sanam Re', when I decided to get back to acting, I had to start with music videos for industry people to see my work and approach me. That’s how I was cast in ‘Satyameva Jayate 2’.”

‘An actress’ age is always under scrutiny’
Talking about how there is unnecessary focus on an actress’ age, while male actors don’t have to deal with similar scrutiny, she says, “There are a lot of misconceptions about my age. I was only 17 when I shot for my debut film and got married after that. I am 35 now. An actress’ age is always under scrutiny. Most actresses are in their 30s, so why do people create hullabaloo about my age? An actor should be judged for her ability to play a character, be it an 18-year-old or 60-year-old, and I can pull off both.”

John Abraham told me that I should concentrate on being an actor and not look back-Divya Khosla Kumar


Onkar Kulkarni (BOMBAY TIMES; November 17, 2021)

After directing and producing films, Divya Khosla Kumar is now back to exploring her creative side as an actor. While she has been a part of many music videos and the short film Bulbul in recent years, her last full-fledged Bollywood outing was Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Saathiyo, which had released in 2004. Now, Divya returns to the big screen in Satyameva Jayate 2 directed by Milap Milan Zaveri. In a conversation, Divya speaks about the shift in focus on the career front and how John Abraham, as a co-star, has been hugely supportive. Read on...

The last time the audience saw you, as an actress in a feature film, was in Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Saathiyo (2004). How did it feel to be facing the camera once again in a full-fledged role in Satyameva Jayate 2?
It didn’t feel new or unusual because I have been on a set for the past many years. Either I was a part of music videos facing the camera or working as a director and producer behind it. As a creative person, for me, it was most important to grow in life. When I first landed in Mumbai, I had no idea about how Bollywood works. The first Hindi film I did gave me an opportunity to work with the bigwigs of B-Town like Amitabh Bachchan, Akshay Kumar and Bobby Deol.

Then through music videos, I worked with prominent people in the industry. I have never stopped learning. Steadily, I began to gain knowledge about cinematography and direction. I directed a lot of music videos. The positive response only gave me the confidence to direct movies, and that’s how Yaariyan (2014) and Sanam Re (2016) happened. I am extremely thankful to the audience, who gave me a lot of love and support. After my last directorial, I felt it was time for me to face the camera in a full-length feature film again.

What was it about this role that prompted you to give a nod to this project?
After Sanam Re, I was getting a lot of amazing opportunities to direct films that boasted of a top-notch star cast. I said no to those because I didn’t want to go against my heart. It wasn’t easy though. It wasn’t like maine soch liya aur film mil gaye. I wasn’t happy with the work that was coming my way as an actor. It took three years of my life to land the correct project. However, it took more time because things went for a toss due to the pandemic. I have a lot of hunger as a creative person, and I have a lot of untapped potential, which makes me fidgety because until that isn’t tapped, you don’t feel satisfied. I am happy that director Milap Milan Zaveri saw my work in the short film Bulbul and approached me for this part. I opened up about my concerns, and I cross-checked with him that the role he had in mind for me had substance. He promised me that he would write a good character for me. I like the way he has presented me in this film — as this strong Indian woman with so much dignity. I wish I get to portray such great roles on screen. Earlier, people had not seen my work as an actor, so there was hardly anyone who would approach me. I am sure people will reach out to me after watching this film. I couldn’t have imagined myself in a role like this.

You play a politician in the film. What’s the prep you underwent to essay the part, especially when you say that you couldn’t visualise yourself in that part?
Not only do I play John’s love interest in the film, but also a politician. So, it was important for me to understand how a politician functions and carries herself. I had to put in a lot of hard work. To look the part, I had to gain a few kilos, and I am someone who doesn’t gain weight easily. Just to get the feel of the character, I saw a few prominent female politicians’ speeches. I also went through references to see what they wore in terms of the costumes. Also, Milap had asked me to watch Sanjeev Kumar and Suchitra Sen-starrer Aandhi (1975). However, in the end, it was important that I bring in some personal touch and feel to the part so that it looks very natural. I hope the audience likes what I have presented on screen.

This is your first film with John Abraham. What is it like to share screen space with him?
I think John is a fabulous actor. He was fully prepared when he came on the set. He is an amazing human being. I think we just struck this friendship, and things became so easy. That worked for us. After watching my performance in the film, he told me that I should concentrate on being an actor and not look back. He loved my work and has only motivated and inspired me. We both are so giving as actors that our chemistry also came out very well on screen. He left me impressed with his punctuality and dedication.

You are focusing on acting now, but you are a filmmaker, too. Did you ever find it difficult to hold back the director in you while facing the camera?
When I am on a film set as an actor, I turn off my directorial instinct. I think if I mix up the two, then it would get very complicated for me. I feel direction is way more difficult than acting. I want to direct in the future, but right now, I am completely looking at acting opportunities. See, at heart, I am just a creative person who is passionate about cinema. A film set is a happy place for me. I love comedy. I feel I am very good at pulling off comedy. There is a little bit of comedy in this film... some lighter scenes and comedy between John’s character and mine. I feel that I can do justice to a brilliant comic film. I hope it comes my way.

A woman’s marital status doesn’t determine her career now-Divya Khosla Kumar


Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; November 16, 2021)

Filmmaker-actor Divya Khosla Kumar marked her acting debut with the Hindi film, Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Saathiyo (2004). Almost 17 years later, she is all set for her second feature film, Satyameva Jayate 2 (SMJ 2). But she is not worried about the long break.

Kumar says, “This is a great time to be a female actor in the industry. Some amazing roles are being written.”

According to her, female artistes witnessing a dearth of acting offers post their marriage is passé: “We’ve moved beyond the perception that one’s marital status determines the course of their career. The success that Deepika (Padukone) and Kareena (Kapoor Khan) have achieved is a testament to that.”

The director of Yaariyan (2014) and Sanam Re (2016), Kumar doesn’t plan on directing herself in a film. “My headspace, as a director, is very different. I’ve never seen myself as a part of the world that I envision as a filmmaker. Hats off to Ajay Devgn and Aamir Khan, who have directed themselves. It’s a very difficult and strenuous job.”

As she gears up for the release of SMJ 2, she admits that she’s more excited, than nervous. “I wasn’t nervous on the first day of the shoot either. I never lost touch (with acting), because I acted in a few music videos. Being on a set gives a lot of creative satisfaction and I truly believe that I belong there. I would say that a set is my happy place,” Kumar ends.

John Abraham and I take anti corruption stand in Satyameva Jayate 2-Divya Khosla Kumar


Divya Khosla Kumar discusses Satyameva Jayate sequel, says ‘Bharatiya naari sab par bhaari,’ defines her role in the film
Himesh Mankad (MUMBAI MIRROR; February 13, 2020)

Divya Khosla Kumar, who plays John Abraham’s leading lady in writer-director Milap Zaveri’s Satyameva Jayate 2, insists that while the first part was “more of a cat-and-mouse chase”, the sequel tackles a larger issue. “It’s about the country and John and I take a strong stand against corruption in the film. Milap is shedding light on an important topic,” she shares, adding that her character is different from her real self. So, attending reading sessions came in handy.

While part one was all about John’s heroism, Divya assures that the new film has plenty of scope for the female protagonist, too. “I got a solo poster and Milap has written the line, ‘Bhartiya naari sab par bhari’ for me, which speaks a lot about my role,” she asserts. Moving forward, the plan is to take up more acting jobs. “I hope exciting stuff comes my way and I get to do different characters,” she beams.

After making her acting debut with the Akshay Kumar-starrer Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Saathiyo, Divya stepped away from the limelight, only to return 13 years later with a short film, BulBul. She followed it up with the music video, “Yaad Piya Ki Aane Lagi”, and is now gearing up for a big screen comeback with Satyameva Jayate 2.

But she doesn’t think of it like a comeback. “I was always here. After Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Saathiyo, I wanted to learn about things like cinematography and editing. The hunger to learn drove me towards the technical side of filmmaking,” she explains.

The actress turned director with Yaariyan and followed it up with Sanam Re. She is now prepping for her acting turn, which goes on the floors in April. “I feel there is a lot of untapped potential in me. This is a brilliant time to be an actor in the industry as it’s not just about the stars anymore, but the concept. Talent is being recognised,” she shares.

In the early 2000s, the actress appeared alongside Salman Khan in the music video “Honey Honey”. More recently, she was on his reality show, Bigg Boss 13, to promote her single. “Salman is my childhood crush; ever since I watched Maine Pyar Kiya. My cheeks go red whenever I see him. Even today, he calls me ‘Honey Honey’ after the song we did,” she blushes.

Divya is one of the producers on the Ajay Devgn-starrer Bhuj: The Pride of India with husband Bhushan Kumar. How excited is she for the film? “Firstly, I am so proud to see where Tanhaji: The Unsung Warrior has reached because Ajay sir and his team worked hard to make the spectacular vision a reality. I am sure even Bhuj will be a big one,” she says.

Her husband is one of the busiest producers in the industry, with over 20 films lined up for release. “He has worked extremely hard in life. The banner was his father’s (the late Gulshan Kumar) dream and he has taken it so far. It was possible only because of the emotional connect between them. Both of us are middle class at heart,” she says.

Divya and Bhushan are parents to nine-year-old Ruhaan. Ask her if he aspires to enter Bollywood as well and she says, “He doesn’t know anything about the industry. He is an intelligent kid and wants to be an astronaut.” As a parting shot, she confirms there are no plans to return to direction right now. “It’s difficult to juggle acting and direction. I keep hearing scripts. I’d direct something in the future, but I am focused on acting for now.”

I am concentrating on acting now-Divya Khosla Kumar


Nishad Neelambaran (HINDUSTAN TIMES; November 30, 2019)

After a break of almost two years, actor, director and producer, Divya Khosla Kumar made a comeback in the music video of Yaad Piya Ki Aane Lagi. The song, which is a recreation of Falguni Pathak’s ’90s hit, Chudi, has garnered more than 64 million views on YouTube. Divya, who featured in the video, says that it was truly amazing to be part of the recreation of this iconic song. “It is coincidental that it was directors Radhika (Rao) and Vinay (Sapru), who got me into the industry. They had selected me from an audition with over 1,000 girls in a Falguni Pathak video in Delhi. And now that I am beginning with acting again, I am working with them in another Falguni Pathak song,” she says.

Divya, who has directed movies such as Yaariyan (2014) and Sanam Re (2016), says that she is in a completely different frame of mind while acting. She says, “Though I have donned multiple hats, my frame of mind while acting is completely different from my frame of mind while I am directing. As an actor, you have to trust your director and their vision. It is the director who is the captain of the ship and I don’t believe in interfering in that.”

So, was it a conscious decision to stay away from acting for the last two years? Divya says, “It wasn’t a conscious decision. I am a workaholic and I love working in this industry. I am very passionate towards this field. I was getting a lot of offers to direct, but I always felt that I should focus on acting. I was waiting for the right opportunity to come my way. Nikhil Advani, Monisha Advani and Milap Zaveri saw Bulbul (short film that she directed) and they offered me Satyameva Jayate 2. I am very excited to be on board for that project and I hope it won’t be so long a wait further on. And whatever I get, if it’s good, I will take it. I am concentrating on acting now.”

About how things have changed due to digitisation, she says, “I think people only watch songs or movies on digital platforms. Digitisation has changed the rules and it is also good because if anyone wants to show their talent to the world, they can just upload it on these platforms and you never know, it might just get viral. It has made things much easier and it has brought the world closer.”

Divya, who will next be seen opposite John Abraham in Satyameva Jayate 2, says, “I am super excited to be working with him. He completely amazed me with his performance in Batla House.”

Divya Khosla Kumar chats about life in showbiz


MUMBAI MIRROR (August 3, 2016)

Divya Khosla Kumar dons many hats ­ director, social worker, model, actress, wife and mother. After her last film Sanam Re, featuring Pulkit Samrat and Yami Gautam, she has already started work on her next, a contemporary movie still in the initial stages. “Casting will begin once the script is complete,“ Divya says. After that, an announcement is expected in September. Shooting shall commence next year. “I'm just out of two movies. Direction is extremely challenging. I wanted a little break,“ says Divya who recently returned from a trip to Austria.

She is known to give breaks to newcomers, having cast several in her directorial debut, Yaariyan and the relatively new Yami-Pulkit in Sanam Re. But her next film will be different. “The character I'm writing is layered so I'm not sure if a newcomer can pull it off,“ she says. She is happy modelling too. “I started as a model in Delhi. I recently walked the ramp at the India Couture Week. I'm modelling again so I guess life has come around a full circle. When I started, I was still learning. It is my first love,“ she says. Divya performed an item number, “Humne Pee Rakhi Hai“ in Sanam Re and isn't against facing the camera again. “I've got offers before but I couldn't accept because I was busy with my own films. If the role is good, I don't mind acting,“ she says.

Divya is also big on philanthropy. She's one of the brand ambassadors of Smile Foundation. “I'm very happy to be associated with them. The organisation looks after kids' education and nutrition. Life is so fast paced that if you don't do your bit for society, you eventually lose all happiness. Success is not enough. I feel enriched by doing something for the society,“ Divya confides.

She may be a career woman but marriage and motherhood haven't taken a backseat. “It was believed that a girl's life and career got over once she's married but I'm driving my career even more fiercely after marriage. When I was getting married I was told my career will be over. But I'm happy to have proved them wrong,“ she says, adding, “Women are finally coming of age in India. I believe in gender equality. After marriage, it's very important for a woman to get her husband's support for whatever she does. Working makes you feel more fulfilled,“ she says.

Talking about husband Bhushan Kumar Divya says, “In a relationship everyone needs their space. If I would've just sat at home waiting for him, I would've driven him crazy! I think it's equally important for me to be independent and creative. It's fun when you don't consider your work as a job.“

Having dabbled with so many roles Divya doesn't want to be limited to epithets like director, actor and model. She likes to refer to herself as, “An Indian woman. I cherish that role and want to give my 100 per cent to everything. You get one life and you need to do your best. I work hard every day and try to realise my potential. There's so much more to do and I feel my best is yet to come,“ signs off the pretty woman.

Like me, Divya doesn't smoke, drink or party & is a vegetarian-Bhushan Kumar


Bhushan Kumar, 38 & Divya Khosla Kumar, 31

Excited about their upcoming 11th wedding anniversary, the producer-director duo talk movies, melody and the meeting of hearts
Roshmila Bhattacharya (MUMBAI MIRROR; February 7, 2016)

They met during a music session of her 2004 debut film, Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Saathiyo. And almost immediately, Bhushan Kumar, the chairman and managing director of T-Series started plying the film's heroine, Divya Khosla, with messages. "I answered a few and then backed off. I belonged to a conservative Punjabi family and I didn't want to get too close to a rich boy who drove fast cars," reminisces Divya. The texts continued, four-five a day, and eventually, Bhushan's cousin, Ajay Kapoor, arrived in Delhi to find out why Divya wasn't replying to them. She pointed him in the direction of her parents. As soon as he left, she got another message from Bhushan, "What did she say? Did she say yes?" She figured it was for Ajay, sent to her by mistake.

The 27-year-old music magnate had just moved to Mumbai and was driving a new car every day, reportedly with a new girl by his side. Bhushan admits to his fascination with cool wheels ever since his father, the late Gulshan Kumar, had bought him a Toyota Sienna with wing doors when he was in Grade 11, followed by three Ferraris and a Lamborghini. "I was too possessive of my cars to take a girl in them. I only drove around with friends," he laughs off the rumours. But his family wanted him to settle down. Before his mother fixed a match, he sent her with a 'rishta' to the Khoslas who coaxed Divya. "Everything was on track in two months," he reminisces.

On February 13, a day after the release of Divya's second directorial, Sanam Re, the two will raise a toast to 11 years of wedded bliss. Over the years, she's accepted her workaholic husband who's on call even on holidays and who she waits till midnight to have dinner with. And he's learnt to give her the creative space she wants, supporting her through an anti-piracy film, music videos, a feature, Yaariyan, and now another. "Initially, I was nervous, worrying about the insult if the wife of a successful businessman failed. But I appreciated that like me, she didn't smoke, drink or party and was a vegetarian. She only wants to do something creative," he reasons. So when Divya approached him with two options, he greenlit Sanam Re after telling her the dialogues needed more work. On her part, she didn't burden him with her problems, even sorting out permission issues in Canada on her own. "People think it's easy with a producer husband, but I've always relied on my talent. I am a hands on director," she asserts.

At 19, after his father's death, Bhushan inherited his business empire and the ability to work hard and an ear for music. Today, his company is rumoured to be valued at Rs 500 crore, although he won't confirm. "I can't compose but I can select good music," he asserts. In 1999, two years after taking over, he released a non-film album, Deewana, a collaborative effort with composers Sajid-Wajid and lyricist Faiz Anwar. Bhushan was involved in everything, from the lyrics to the sound design.

But starting out wasn't easy. Top singers turned away, as he didn't inspire the confidence his father did, and moved to Tips, Venus and Sa Re Ga Ma. They'd pick up a Subhash Ghai or a Rakesh Roshan film and sell 10,000 cassettes on the first day itself. Even Sonu Nigam, his father's protege, had second thoughts about dubbing the songs of Deewana, only agreeing after Magnasound gave him the go ahead. Still, he refused to shoot for even one of the eight videos. "He complained that the songs were too slow and raved about the peppy tracks he'd recorded for Magnasound. Deewana is Sonu's best pop album, he still sings those songs," claims Bhushan who went on to experiment with a film, Tum Bin, Jagjit Singh ghazals and Punjabi pop, decimating the competition with a 95 per cent track record. He insists a music company can't be run by employees and that you have to be a hands-on boss with a finger on the audience's pulse.

Nothing fazes him. During the copyright controversy, when composers and singers moved away, he built up new talents like Mithoon, Amaal and Armaan Malik and Ankit Tiwari. The endeavour continues through singles which revive and recreate classics for Gen X. But aren't they also, dheere deere se, wiping out memories of Rahul Roy and Anu Aggarwal's Aashiqui and music directors like Nadeem-Shravan who once ruled on hoardings? "If it's a star like Aamir or Shah Rukh Khan, the memories will remain," Bhushan argues, informing that during Shoojit Sorcar's Madras Cafe an Ormax survey revealed that 25 per cent of the respondents didn't know who Rajiv Gandhi was. "If they don't remember a former Prime Minister how do you expect them to remember a music director after 25 years?" Touche!

I came to Mumbai to achieve something in life and not to get married-Divya Khosla Kumar


Priya Gupta (BOMBAY TIMES; December 8, 2013)

Divya Khosla Kumar, 32, considers herself more talented than pretty and uses her spectacles to hide her looks. She is simple, sensitive and strong, but loves being pampered by her husband Bhushan Kumar. She is inspired by the women in her life, be it her mother or mom-in-law and would like her hard-working husband to give her more undivided time. She is a dedicated mother to her two-year-old son Ruhaan and considers him the real producer of her upcoming film Yaariyan more than her husband, as he was always on the set with her. Over an hour-long conversation with Bombay Times, she talks about her strong mother, her empathising mother-in-law and why she and Bhushan never talk about his father. Excerpts:
 

How did you become an actor?
I was born and brought up in Delhi. My mom was a teacher and my dad owned a small printing press where we printed visiting cards. They have their own house now, but until I was in the 10th, we lived in a rented place. I was always very studious and intelligent. I once remember coming back and telling my mother that there was not even a single book left in the library that I had not read. Even though we were middleclass, my parents always got me what I wanted. The only regret I have is that I would always tell my papa to get me a cycle and he did not, so I don’t know how to ride a cycle. I was very innocent and seedha-saadha and would never go out for parties and never had any boyfriends,
even though half my school boys were after me. I was always clear that I did not want to let down my parents. I would get a lot of blank calls in my house and some boys would write letters in blood. I used to enjoy it, but my parents would feel bad. I was popular amongst boys, so girls never liked me. While doing my B.Com Honours, I started modelling at 18 for print ads. My mom, being from an army background, was okay with me modelling, even though my dad was not that comfortable. I was 20 when, despite everyone advising her against it, my mom allowed me to shift to Mumbai all alone. Even though I did not know a single person in Mumbai, I packed my bags and came here. My mom had this confidence that I would never do anything wrong in life. In my first year of living in Mumbai, I travelled in trains and changed seven PG accommodations as I had some very fast girls sharing my PG. Within my first year, I got a music video with Salman Khan. I also did a video with Abhijeet Bhattacharya. I first got a South film and auditioned to get my Bollywood break with Anil Sharma’s Ab Tumhare Hawale Watan Sathiyo with Akshay Kumar, Bobby Deol and Mr Bachchan. That film released in December 2004 and by February 2005, I had got married to Bhushan Kumar.
 

How did you meet Bhushan? I met him at Anil Sharma’s house as he was doing the music of that film. He started messaging and hounding me. Sometimes, I would get four messages before going into the shower and by the time I came out, there would be four more messages. He invited us for his sister’s wedding in Delhi. My mom met him and liked him instantly for his humility and pushed me to get married to him. Despite his achievement, his innocence reflected on his face and I too liked that and I agreed to marry him.
 

Talk about Bhushan? He is a very down-to-earth person, practical and very hard-working and I really admire the fact that he has dedicated his whole life to paying tribute to his father. He keeps so busy that till date, we have never had lunch or dinner together. Sometimes I tell him, ‘Why can’t you take an off?’ As a wife, I am very adjusting and want to give him his freedom and let him live his life the way he wants to. I don’t like that he doesn’t take me on a holiday. I would like him to be more loving towards me. For instance, when we are at home, he will only talk about Yaariyan even at 11 at night and that irritates me. He will tell me, ‘But it is your film I am talking about.’ Even though it is my film, I cannot discuss it anymore. He is emotional, but will not show it. He is strong and I have never seen him cry till date. I cry at the drop of a hat though he doesn't like it. He has a temper, but the good thing is that he will make up soon after and will say, ‘I am so stressed, so please understand.’ I also don’t like to stretch things too far. If he is rude, it hurts me. On Karva Chauth, I was fasting for him and he said something very rudely to me in his room and it hurt me. I cried, but I’m adjusting. He will never continue a fight and that is his quality. I think he likes my innocence, my honesty and simplicity.
 

Talk about your mother? My source of inspiration are the women in my life. My mom has faced numerous adversities, but she is brave and I look up to her for the way she handled it. The kind of faith she has in God is amazing. My nani was an army man’s wife and ran her own jewellery business from home. I get my creativity from her. I also respect my mom-in-law a lot. She comes from a normal middle-class family and despite the fact that she did not know a word of English, she has risen so much and now she handles T-Series in Delhi. I like her more than I like Bhushan. As a woman, she is understanding and I discuss all my issues with her. I always tell her, ‘You understand me more than my husband.’ It’s difficult to find mom-in-laws like that. I have always been a good daughter and try to be a good daughter-in-law and always listen to whatever she says. Both my mom and mom-in-law are strong women. I am too sensitive and have a long way to go vis-a-vis them.
 

Who are you most attached to? My son. I can sleep without Bhushan, but I can’t sleep without my son.
 

Does Bhushan ever discuss his father Gulshan Kumar with you? His father was a genius and it is not possible to be like him. Bhushan is nowhere close to his father. Post his father’s death, when he was 19, he changed his lifestyle and worked extremely hard. He doesn’t talk about his father or show his feelings. And I don’t touch upon it as it is a sensitive topic. I don’t think he discusses it even with his mom. If there is something coming on TV about his father, I immediately look at his face and get troubled. His father was a visionary. His vision was also to grow T-Series into films and reach every house and that is what Bhushan wants to do and is his tribute to his father.

Why did you take to direction? I came here to achieve something in life and not to get married. I came here to satisfy my creative thirst. And I am really proud that I have made this film without assisting any director. It’s a fact that the industry is shellshocked seeing my trailer and they will be more shell-shocked when they see the film. My husband is also flying these days as he has seen the film. If he didn’t like it, he would not promote it. Sometimes I feel very bad when people say, ‘Oh, she is Bhushan’s wife and it must be so easy for her’. But I want to say that it has been eight years since my marriage and had it not been difficult, it would not have taken me this much time to make a film. It’s been a long struggle. After I married Bhushan, I felt that the best way to channelise my creativity would be to make a film. I did a course in cinematography from Mumbai because he did not want me to go away to New York, as he would then have to stay without me. Also, he did not want me to assist anyone, so I started doing editing at our office. One day I told him, ‘Give me a music video. I want to direct it.’ He gave me Agam Nigam’s video (Sonu Nigam’s father) and I did it and it became a blockbuster hit. I then did many videos and landed up doing 20 of them before I got trained in direction and production.

How was it to work with Salman?
Salman was very nice to work with. He is a very sweet person. He has gone through so many ups and downs that has made him strong and deep. He is a very good human being.

What does Yaariyan mean to you?
I am ambitious. And more than pretty, I consider myself talented. I would often hide my looks behind my specs. My son Ruhaan was on the set with me and he was just one when I started directing. Bhushan came for only four days during the shoot. So I feel that my son is the true producer of the film. It’s difficult to be a mother and even tougher to be a director. I was doing both together. If it succeeds, it will not just be the success of the film, but of the principle that a girl without stooping down and compromising on her morals, keeping her dignity intact, can do it in this man’s world. And that if you are intelligent and talented, every woman can reach where she wants to. We women are stronger than men and need not feel insecure. Even if it takes longer, your destiny will always come to you. I consider myself God’s child. I came to Mumbai to achieve my destiny and I have to achieve it with this film. There is no other way.