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After two failed attempts, Vaishali Malahara and I are finally married-Cyrus Sahukar

‘After two failed attempts, we are finally married’

Tanvi Trivedi (BOMBAY TIMES; April 20, 2022)

VJ-actor Cyrus Sahukar tied the knot with his longtime girlfriend Vaishali Malahara on April 15 in Alibaug. The actor has been in a relationship with Vaishali, a model, actress and director, for around eight years. The couple had to postpone their wedding once due to the Coronavirus pandemic. The marriage took place in the presence of some of Cyrus’ best friends, including Maria Goretti, Mini Mathur, Samir Kochhar and Gaurav Kapur, among others.

Cyrus says, “I consider marriage to be a blessing and I am glad I finally tied the knot with Vaishali. We had planned to get married in February, but we postponed the wedding due to the pandemic. Finally, we decided to tie the knot on April 15 and got married at Alibaug among close friends and family members. My Punjabi friends made the entire event extremely memorable for me. I can say that my guests were the hosts. Everyone was dancing and enjoyed the festivities.”

The couple had first met at a party many years ago. Cyrus shares, “I had gone to a party at one of the rooftop eateries in Bandra where I saw her.”

Cyrus adds, “Vaishali was extremely pretty and I ensured that my friends introduced us. Later, we connected as friends and then gradually started dating. It has been eight years of knowing her and being in a relationship. In my head, I was already married to her. I am glad that I have entered this new chapter of life with Vaishali, who is very bright, beautiful and independent.”

Cyrus, a former VJ, who has also been part of films like Khoobsurat, Aisha, Delhi-6, Rang De Basanti and is currently doing OTT shows, says, “I don’t feel any different now that I am married. I feel happy that I have a companion to share my life with. I was never someone who would announce my wedding date on social media. It is a private thing. Weddings are now far smaller and more intimate and I like that. Also, the couple decides when they want to get married and how they want to do it.”
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Sugandha Rawal (HINDUSTAN TIMES; April 20, 2022)

After dating for eight years, actor Cyrus Sahukar married his girlfriend, Vaishali Malahara, last week. They had an intimate wedding in Alibaug (Maharashtra), with their families and close friends in attendance. “We had planned the wedding for February and were disappointed when we had to cancel it because the Covid-19 rage was a bit too much at that point. But after two failed attempts, we are finally married,” he tells us.

Sahukar adds, “We have been together for eight years. Both the times [when we planned to get married], [the] Covid-19 [situation] knocked us out of the park. Now, it felt like we needed to take the blessings of the people whom we absolutely adore. That’s exactly what it (the nuptial) was.” But the Potluck actor was keeping his fingers crossed this time, as he mentions, “Cancelling a wedding means you go back to the drawing board. I am so glad my friends took charge this time, and did it all.” He admits that it was actor Mini Mathur who took charge and said, “Let’s get you married.”

For the 41-year-old, his wedding was two days of fun. “I have never received so much love in my life. Our buddies came from all over the world. The two days were made of love and madness. We were walking around, surprised by everything. They (the photographers) said, ‘Yahan khade ho, yahan smile karo’. And I was just happy,” he laughs.

For him, going the low-key way for his big day was the best option. “Intimate weddings are magical, because we all get to know each other,” shares Sahukar, recalling stories that his parents told him about lavish ceremonies, where “the couple was always tired”.

Mini Mathur and Cyrus Sahukar team up for a show on urban relationships

Mini Mathur and Cyrus Sahukar team up for a show on urban relationships
Aastha Atray Banan (MID-DAY; June 2, 2019)

"We are in a happy marriage, but are constantly living under fear," says Mini Mathur, as she throws a glance at Cyrus Sahukar, who is sitting across her. "We feel that if we don't work on our relationship, we might end up like our friends, who are divorced. And so, we seek therapy." Mathur is talking about Amazon Prime Video's new original, Mind The Malhotras, adapted from the Israeli show La Familia, releasing this Friday. She and Sahukar play the onscreen couple, Shefali and Rishabh Malhotra, who have three kids — twin girls and a boy.

Directed by Sahil Sangha and Ajay Bhuyan, each episode deals with a different kind of issue that the Malhotras put in front of their therapist — from sex-life problems to Rishabh's annoying mother to dealing with the kids. "It's written in a smart way, and talks of all the pillars of a relationship. What I like about our characters, is that they are regular people. They have all the colourful selfishness, niceness, and weirdness of normal human beings," explains Sahukar.

We are chatting with the two on a hot afternoon at the chic Soho House in Juhu over tea and avocado toast, and it's easy to see their camaraderie. It's VJ/presenter/emcee Mathur's first outing as an actor, and she has long-time friend Sahukar along for the ride. "We came to Mumbai on the same flight decades ago, when we both got a job at MTV. I have known Cyrus since his 17th birthday, so when I heard he was going to play my husband, I had to say yes. When we tell each other, do it this way, there is no malicious intent. It's about making it better for each other."

Sahukar is no stranger to comedy, especially if you remember his avatar as Semi Girebaal. He, thus, became a perfect fit for Rishabh, who he describes as the good guy. "He doesn't really get his family, but he wants to. He wants to do the right thing. Mini was a perfect Shefali, because she is a doer in real life, and in the show as well. If you can marry character to a personality like in her case, there's nothing greater than that," he says. Mathur adds, "It was so good to have him around. One day, someone shouted loudly before a shot, and I was flustered. I asked him 'how do I get back to being in a 'funny' mood now?' He wasn't even bothered! I had to step out, breathe and come back."

The show also offers a funny take on modern marriages. "When the therapist tells them to talk, they figure that they have very little to talk about," says Mathur. "It's like 'I like you, but I have nothing to say'. I don't think it's even about marriage, it's about every relationship. It's the anxiety a couple is faced with, when a TV series they have been watching together, ends," says Sahukar with a deadpan face, as we all crack up.

Ask them what they brought to the show from their own personal experiences, given that Mathur has been married for 21 years and Sahukar has been in a serious relationship for six years, Mathur says, "One of the reasons I jumped at the idea of playing Shefali was because she is so relatable. I asked the makers 'have you put a CCTV in my house?' We did extensive readings of the characters and we have actually put our own filters there. I have said 'I don't think Shefali will react like this'. We are not exactly the same people, but we tried to make it more real and 3D."

But is the show going to make sense to a society, which is constantly getting put off by the idea of love and marriage? In a cynical world, it could be hard selling a story of two people trying to work it out. Mathur is a firm believer in marriage, and says, "I feel there is a merit in love, and that's why the show is so special. Nobody is made for each other, but it's constant understanding. It's not easy, and I have seen people who are lonely, and that's no fun. It's always nice to be in a symbiotic relationship."

Sahukar immediately interrupts, "Of course, it's going to be difficult. You can't even like yourself all the time. How will you like someone else for 50 years?"  In the end, all they want is for the show to find resonance with the audience. As Sahukar sums it up, "It's been a lovely experience trying to get it out — like life actually, sometimes it's down, sometimes it's up, and sometimes you get it right!"