Showing posts with label Boman Irani interview. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Boman Irani interview. Show all posts

Because of my speech disorder, people laughed every time I spoke-Boman Irani

Boman Irani: People have found a weapon in writing

Divya Shree (BOMBAY TIMES; April 30, 2025)

Actor Boman Irani, known for his standout roles in Munna Bhai MBBS, 3 Idiots, and Don, was in Hyderabad recently to speak at an event organised by the Young FICCI Ladies Organisation (YFLO). Addressing the theme “Knowledge – The Compass for Life’s Journey,” Irani shared deeply personal stories of his early struggles with learning disorders, speech issues, and anxiety, and how the encouragement of his mother and his passion for cinema helped him rise above them.

‘People laughed when I spoke – now I’m never at a loss for words’
Diagnosed with both dyslexia and dyscalculia as a child, Irani recalled how he was often dismissed, even by his own family, as “Bichara Boman.” He struggled with speech, stammering through sentences, which often made him the target of ridicule.

“I was anxious as a child,” he said. “People used to laugh every time I spoke. Even my family members used to feel sorry for me.”

To improve his speech, he turned to music and speech therapy. “I used singing to improve my speech and practiced with pebbles in my mouth,” he said. “It helped me find fluency and confidence.” Today, Irani has acted in over 100 films and is known for his powerful dialogue delivery. “I debuted in films at the age of 41. Now, I’m never at a loss for words,” he shared.

‘My mother never called me a fool – she told me I was a storyteller’
Irani credits his mother with recognizing his potential early on. “She never called me a fool. She understood I was different. She saw that I grasped performance and storytelling,” he said. He recounted a moment that solidified his love for cinema: “A family friend, who was blind, visited our shop and my mother encouraged me to take him to a movie playing at Novelty Theatre. I gave him a running commentary of the entire film. Afterward, my mother told me, ‘If you can narrate a movie to a blind man so beautifully, you can be a filmmaker.’ That was the day I knew where I belonged.”

‘I still get room numbers wrong – but I’ve made peace with it’
Though speech therapy helped him overcome dyslexia, Irani shared that dyscalculia still affects him. “During the shoot of Don, I forgot the locker code in a scene,” he said. “Even now, I can’t remember hotel room numbers. Sometimes I go to the wrong room. It reminds me that something’s always a little off – but I’ve made peace with it.”

‘We gatecrashed a wedding to shoot the final scene of Munna Bhai’
One of the most beloved films in Indian cinema, Munna Bhai MBBS, was a turning point in Irani’s career. “None of us took money until the film earned,” he revealed. “We didn’t have the budget to shoot the final wedding scene. Our set designer joked about crashing a real wedding, and that’s exactly what we did. We sat behind the flower arrangements, took the shots, and left. That’s how that iconic scene was filmed.”
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"Not everyone is a genius in maths like Shakuntala Devi, sings like Lata Mangeshkar, or plays cricket like Virat Kohli. Every child has their own gift. Children need to be nurtured, not labelled as fools"

In our last meeting, Shyam Benegal scolded me, 'Where the hell is the script you've been writing?'-Boman Irani

'I cherish my London trip with Shyam sir'

Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; December 26, 2024)

Actor Boman Irani feels that some of his life's fondest memories have been with filmmaker Shyam Benegal, who died on Monday at the age of 90. The two had collaborated on the film Well Done Abba in 2009.

“I have never left a film set in my life sobbing. I did, from this one (Well Done Abba), shamelessly. I knew I would never get this experience again,” the 65-year-old shared, adding, “[Through this project] I found a wonderful man who was one of the greatest conversationalists that I know. I am not even exaggerating! From a mere design on a tile, he can tell you where the tile originated from. He could talk about it at length. The knowledge that man had was beyond ordinary. He can make his actors feel special.”

Well Done Abba had made rounds at several film festivals, and one of them took place in London. Irani reveals that he made sure to travel with Benegal for it: “The festival had offered only one ticket for him because he was the director. But I wanted to come along and be on the same flight. I remember we sat together and later, roaming around London like two kids. I cherish my London trip with Shyam sir.”

Recounting their last meeting, the actor continues, “The last time I met him was at a wedding. He scolded me, 'Where the hell is the script you've been writing?' He had one of the sweetest chuckles a grown man could have.”

Boman Irani on directing The Mehta Boys at 64: "I don’t follow time frames for anything"


Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; November 19, 2024)

Boman Irani, who stepped into direction with the film The Mehta Boys recently, shares that directing a film was not a spur-of-the-moment decision, but a dream that he harboured since childhood. Clearly, life at 64, is turning out to be yet another adventure for the veteran actor, whose film premiered at the Chicago South Asian Film Festival. Staying relevant, Boman clarifies, are not the magic words that drove him to explore uncharted territories like directing a film.

“How do you even define ‘relevant’? Being in the news? Being active on Instagram? Or having continuous films coming out one after the other?” he asks, adding, “All I know is that I am passionate about my craft – whether it is acting, writing, directing or teaching screenwriting.”

‘If you want to direct well, you first have to learn how to write’
Boman was certain that he would become a director one day, long before acting was on his radar. “I always knew I was going to be a director, even as a kid,” he reflects, adding, “However, I also knew it would take time because I was not trained for it. Sure, watching films, reading scripts, and devouring books helps, but at the end of the day, if you want to direct well, you first have to learn how to write. Directing is not just about taking a shot, swinging the camera from left to right or guiding actors. It is about understanding the anatomy of a script and the story it wants to tell. You have to know why you are telling the story and how it will resonate with people from the writing stage itself. The moment you grasp that, you can finally decide you can be a director.”

‘What matters is that your mind is active and there is passion inside of you’
Like his acting career, Boman’s directorial debut came later in life. Ask him if there is such a thing as ‘too late’ to follow your passions and he replies, “Yes, I started acting later in life, but that’s the way I am. I don’t follow time frames for anything. I believe you have to feel ready. If your heart does not tell you are ready, there is no point diving in just because you are 45 or because the clock is ticking away. What matters is that your mind is active and there is passion inside of you.”

‘I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to handle both roles effectively’
His initial apprehensions about not being able to juggle both acting and directing turned out to be his biggest asset, pushing him to give his all. He admits, “I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to handle both roles effectively. However, that fear worked in my favour. We spent three months meticulously prepping for every scene, shot and camera angle because I did not want to leave anything to chance.”

My understanding of fatherhood is shaped by what my mother showed me-Boman Irani

 THE ONLY WAY TO GO ABOUT LIFE IS  TO MAKE EACH OTHER LAUGH: BOMAN

Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; June 23, 2024)

There’s a lot of buzz - that’s the first impression you get when you enter the Irani home. Brothers Danesh and Kayoze are having an animated conversation with their father Boman Irani, about who among them is the best at video-game soccer, and mumma Zenobia is having a hearty laugh as the three men continue their banter. It takes us a moment to realise that the brothers are referring to their father when they keep calling him ‘Boms’.

‘Everyone should have their own views, otherwise, it will be a boring house’
Boman is quick to clarify that even though they call each other by quirky nicknames, it doesn’t mean they have any less respect for each other.“We are one boisterous family - we talk, laugh, eat ,and celebrate together,” says the actor, as he tells us about his equation with his sons.

“It is not that this home is devoid of friction and arguments, but they happen in a healthy way. Everyone should have their own views; otherwise, it will be a boring house,” he shares.

‘My understanding of fatherhood is shaped by what my mother showed me’
Today, the Irani household is predominantly male, a stark contrast to Boman’s upbringing where he was surrounded by his mother and three sisters. He says, “We pick on Zenobia (his wife) a lot. Jokes aside, she is the main force that holds everything together. Let’s make no mistake about it.”

The actor’s father passed away six months before he was born. He was raised by a single mom, did that influence his approach to fatherhood? “My understanding of fatherhood is shaped by what my mother showed me. I don’t have clear references for what fatherhood is supposed to be. I think it’s instinctive. Just when I thought I had it all figured out after Danesh, Kayoze came along, and it wasn’t the same pattern because they have different personalities. In trying to get the upbringing right, you can either be too lenient or too harsh. I have aimed for a mid-level intensity,” he replies.

Meeting our parents never feels like a duty: Kayoze
Although Danesh and Kayoze live separately, they are regular at their parents’ house. Actor-director, Kayoze says, “We both (brothers) love to come home to spend time with our parents, it never feels like a duty. We sit in the living room, chat, have dinner together, and play video-game soccer. We share our emotions and feelings quite openly in this house. We don’t leave this house without telling everyone, ‘I love you’. Mom has a rule that no one is allowed to leave the house angry. If there is an argument, we resolve it the same night. It’s a part of who we are. Friendship is the first relationship we share with parents.”

‘The only way to go about life is to make each other laugh’
Years before Boman entered showbiz, the family struggled to make ends meet. However, they never let their children feel the pinch. Danesh, who is involved in film production and content creation, shares, “Things haven’t really changed much since those days. It’s just that when we got things, we truly appreciated their value. There was a phase when we weren’t financially very comfortable, but we never felt it because we laughed our way through it.”

Boman adds, “The only way to go about life is to make each other laugh.”

‘The trust and respect you earn are the true legacy, not your bank balance’
Boman stresses the importance of a strong value system over anything else. He says, “Zenobia and I follow one principle: You can’t tell people what to do. You have to lead by example, and they will follow. Of course, I am happy when someone says, ‘Oh, your son has made a great film’, but how they treated people while making it is more important to me. The trust and respect you earn are the true legacy, not your bank balance.”

Rajkumar Hirani takes years to write a movie. This man believes what he writes is the Bible-Boman Irani

Yeh dosti hum nahi todenge,  ft. Boman Irani and Raju Hirani

Sundas Jawed (BOMBAY TIMES; May 2, 2024)

You know the auditorium will echo with laughter and lessons when you have director Rajkumar Hirani and actor Boman Irani together. The duo who treated audiences to Munna Bhai franchise, and 3 Idiots, were in town on Monday for a talk show organised by the Ladies Study Group, titled All izz well. They spoke about their camaraderie, their hits and misses in showbiz and more. Excerpts...

A defining moment of Boman’s life
When asked about the defining moment of his life, Boman shared an interesting incident. “When I was eight or nine years old, I met a wonderful artiste who was a family friend and whom I sang for. She told me that I’d performed reasonably well. She also advised me to be unique as there couldn’t be anyone like me. This advice I took really seriously and honoured it. That artiste happens to be Usha Uthup.”

‘Some scenes from 3 Idiots are INSPIRED from my life’
At the event hosted by the Ladies Study Group, Hirani said he wanted to be an engineer and then went on to study chartered accountancy upon his uncle’s advice. “The scene from 3 Idiots where R Madhavan tells his father he wants to be a wildlife photographer, that is one scene out of my life. I gathered the courage and told my father that CA was not my calling and he asked me to join him with his work. I can’t tell you the joy and relief I felt. That’s when I started working with my father in the morning and doing plays in the evening,” Hirani exclaimed.

Found confidence on stage, my mom sensed it: Boman
For Boman Irani, it was his mother who helped him find his passion and empowered him. “My mom really empowered me. I used to struggle with studies and rarely spoke because of a speech problem but I found confidence on stage and my mom sensed this,” said Irani.

“One day we had a customer at her shop and he wanted to know which movie was running in the nearest theatre. My mother asked me to take him to the theatre. This man was blind and my mum told me to narrate the story as the movie played. I can’t express how empowered I felt as a child,” said Boman.

On student life
Hirani shared the kind of curriculum he believes in. “Education should be in a particular way, where we let children do what they like. They should be allowed to do things that they are not just passionate about but are also obsessed with.”

Youngsters today want to be famous yesterday: Boman Irani
Speaking about the need for tenacity, Irani said, “We should hang on to people who chose to do or write what they believe in because such people are rare.” The actor went on to add, “Youngsters today want to be famous yesterday but they should learn not to compromise on their worth.”

He advised people to learn to hang on to the ones who believe in every word they write and portray a character the way they have written it, because they know what they are doing. “Latch onto them because the journey will be worth it and one that you will forever cherish,” the actor concluded.
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'I make funny films but life at home is drama and action. My wife is a pilot. When people ask her to quit, she tells them that she’ll quit the husband, not flying' – Rajkumar Hirani

'All of Raju’s films are personal as they originate from his belief system. He takes years to write a movie. This man believes what he writes is the Bible' – Boman Irani

'Ones who write what they believe in are rare' - Boman Irani

Indian parents should get over obsession with marks-Boman Irani

Happy Birthday Boman Irani: Actor shares his journey from being waiterto a star

In this excerpt from ‘Raising Stars: The Challenges and Joys of Being a Bollywood Parent’ by Rashmi Uchil, the Bollywood veteran talks about his own journey from waiter to actor, and the lessons he learnt
THE TIMES OF INDIA (December 3, 2023)

The other day I met a girl at the airport and she asked me for advice. She wanted to get into scriptwriting and was asking me how to go about it. I told her “Go the long haul. Invest time and effort in getting an education. Go back to the drawing board and pay your dues.” I learnt very early in life the importance of paying your dues.

After passing from school, I went to the Taj Hotel to get a job as a waiter. A Parsi gentleman Sam Bhada interviewed me. He asked me, “What kind of job do you want?” I replied in style, “Food and beverage.” He said, “Idiot, the whole hotel industry is about food and beverage. Which department do you want to work in?” I replied, “Rendezvous”. He snorted, “Rendezvous, the French restaurant, right at the top. Go to the basement. Start with room service.” He taught me a lesson for life — PAY YOUR DUES. I started with room service and worked my way to the top. Ultimately, I reached ‘Rendezvous.’

Einstein has said that every child is a genius. However, if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, the child will always think of himself to be dumb. I was not good at math in school. I did not have a head for numbers. That part of my brain was not working at all. However, the other part of my brain was working overtime. I knew more about cinema as a kid than Steven Spielberg knew as a kid. That gave me a lot of confidence. I took solace in the movies, and read about directors, from Hitchcock to K Asif. As a child, I was crazy about the movies. I became a student of cinema.

I have seen the movie ‘Funny Girl’ 42 times. The usher at the cinema hall would tell me, “Roj roj aata hai picture dekhne, tere ko kya samajh mein aata hai?” My mother recognized my interest in movies and encouraged me to see a movie every day. My grandmother would tell her, “You are spoiling the child rotten,” but she was firm. She insisted going to the movies was an education.

I have watched ‘Pyaasa’ a million times — once for the poetry of the lyrics, once for the cinematography, and once to watch how Guru Dutt delivers dialogues. From the age of 11, I have been making notes, writing scenes, and enacting them. I remember telling Naseer Saab (Naseeruddin Shah) that I regret not going to drama school. He said, “You do not need to regret that. You are a sponge. You have been educating yourself since you were a child. Sitting at your potato shop, you have been observing people. I have seen how you observe people.”

I have learnt my technique through books and I have learnt my craft through people. We did not have internet those days. We did not have many resources at our disposal which I think worked to an advantage. When you have very little, you suck out the most from what you have as much as you can. When you have all the tools available, you do not know which ones to choose.

To be honest and hardworking is always very important. If I am giving a shot and the director says, “Great”, I should not leave it at that. If I know within me that the shot could be better, I must give another take. That’s ethics. What is your conscience saying about any situation you are in? Are you doing the right thing? Did I go home with the knowledge that this is the best shot I could have given? That is ethics. I am very happy that I am dissatisfied. There is a lot I have to do. I am working at it very hard. When parents lead productive lives, children are inspired to do so too.

Everything begins at home. If your child is being sloppy, rude, and arrogant at home, as a parent you need to get him in line. If you let it pass, later in life it will adversely affect his career and relationships. 

Gender equality begins at home. In my house, there is no gender bias at all. My son is a totally hands-on father. He changes diapers, and goes with his wife to the doctor to give the baby vaccination shots. Parents need to share responsibility. If the mother is taking up lessons in history and English, the father needs to teach math and science. Dumping everything on your wife is just not fair.

Kids nowadays are under a lot of parental pressure. When it comes to education, parents push their kids to score more marks. The child has scored 92% in math and the parent says, “92 se kya hota hai, math mein 96 lana chahiye.”

Not all kids will be good at math. If your child has scored 76% in math in the final exam that is the best they can do. Accept that. Parents tend to brag, “Pata hai mera beta class mein first aaya.” It boils down to ego. Focus on what the child is good at. Find out the child’s interests and strengths. What does the child have a flair for? Which subject interests him the most? Find out what he is brilliant at. Get over this obsession with scoring 96% in math. Ten years down the line you see people who did score 96% in math in professions not even remotely connected to math. Marks are not the yardstick of intelligence.

One parenting advice I’d like to give is — don’t scream at your kids. Children do not listen when parents scream. If you want to put your point across, do it at the right time and space. Wait for a quiet moment, look the child in the eye, and then convey your message. You must put your point across in a rational manner. Shouting does not help.

Excerpted from ‘Raising Stars: The Challenges and Joys of Being a Bollywood Parent’ by Rashmi Uchil with permission from Fingerprint! Publishing

It is very pleasant to watch an actor like Ajay Devgn grow to become a skilled director-Boman Irani

Boman Irani, Runway 34
Tanvi Trivedi (BOMBAY TIMES; April 26, 2022)

“If a role is not challenging, it’s no fun, so I believe in making it challenging,” says Boman Irani, who has always stood out in the variety of roles he has played over the years.

In the past few years though, the senior actor has slowed down. This, he admits, was a conscious decision because he wanted to spend more time with his grandchildren.

Boman says, “I used to work 365 days a year and was part of several interesting films. But when my grandchildren were born, I realised that I needed to pull my leg off the accelerator and focus on them. I decided to do fewer films and be around my grandkids. Children grow up so quickly and had I continued shooting at my earlier pace, I would have lost the opportunity to be around them. So, I decided to go a little slow.”

Boman says, “Now, however, I am back in action in Runway 34 with Ajay Devgn and Amitabh Bachchan. I have two-three more films lined up this year.”

The film, which has been directed and produced by Ajay Devgn, and also has him playing one of the lead parts, is a drama-mystery based on a real-life incident in the aviation industry.

Sharing his experience of working with the actor filmmaker, Boman says, “It is very pleasant to watch an actor grow to become a skilled director. Ajay is a superb director and very technically sound. He knows the best camera angles and has shot the film beautifully. It was a delight to see him act and direct the film. It is an interesting subject and my role was challenging. I enjoy roles that are demanding and give me the satisfaction of a job well done.”

While he doesn’t share a lot of scenes in Runway 34 with Bachchan Sr, Irani says that it was a delight to observe the legendary actor on the sets. He says, “I’ve done five films with Amitabh Bachchan over the years and it has always been an enriching experience. There are a few courtroom scenes in the film where I am seated in the audience and watch him in action. He is a powerhouse performer and you realise this not only when he performs, but also when he is prepping for his scenes. The way he starts working on his dialogues and scenes and then goes on to shoot them is such a great learning experience.”

Recent years have witnessed a number of films emerging as pan-India hits and the rise of alternate platforms has only widened the opportunities for actors and filmmakers, he says. Talking about the digital medium, he shares, “If there is interesting work happening in the OTT space then that has happened because many makers from films have moved to other platforms and made interesting films or shows. I don’t think there is any competition between theatres and digital platforms or that filmmakers need to up their game. In fact, I feel OTT has resulted in more opportunities and redefined viewership patterns. Films and other mediums will thrive together because the same actors and makers are exploring different platforms.”

The actor, who is also a passionate photographer, plans to direct a film soon. He says, “I have been working on my script for the last one year. It is almost ready and if things fall into place, I will start my directorial venture soon.”

There is no escape from Rajkumar Hirani's films; I will do them as long as I live-Boman Irani

The actor’s debut directorial venture is something he has written and always wanted to work on
Juhi Chakraborty (HINDUSTAN TIMES; February 16, 2022)

He started his acting career late, at the age of 41. But actor Boman Irani doesn’t want to delay his plans to turn director. While he has many acting projects lined up for this year, he has his eyes set on his role behind the camera.

“My first directorial venture is something that I have been thinking to do for a while now. I have written it myself. I am hoping that I get to start it by mid-2022,” the actor tells us.

But before venturing out as a director, he wants to wrap up all his acting commitments. “I have a whole slate of releases this year. There’s Jayeshbhai Jordaar, which I am really looking forward to. There’s also Detective Shergill, then (actor) Ajay Devgn’s film, Runway 34 and (filmmaker) Sooraj Barjatya’s Uunchai,” says Irani, adding, “As soon as I finish Uunchai, I will start (director) Raju (Rajkumar) Hirani’s film. There is no escape from his films... I will do them as long as I live.”

The pandemic may have played spoilsport for many actors, but for the 62-year-old, it’s a completely different story.

“I have been extremely lucky because I like being busy. And, I have been very busy, probably busier than pre-lockdown and pre-pandemic days. I have been fortunate to get constant work and I’m glad that’s how things have been because I don’t like sitting at home” he explains.

Irani is also looking forward to making his OTT debut with a web series this year, which he enjoyed working on. “I will debut in the digital space with a web series. I shot that in Chandigarh. It (the schedule) was really hectic and (demanded) a lot of hard work. But, the days just flew by and I enjoy that the most. I hate days where we have to keep looking at the clock and be like, ‘Why is the needle not moving?’,” the actor ends.

Earlier, mom would make a big deal out of Parsi New Year and now Zenobia’s following suit-Boman Irani


Titas Chowdhury (HINDUSTAN TIMES; August 16, 2021)

Boman Irani will be spending this Parsi New Year shooting. And while he isn’t the biggest fan of virtual phone calls, he agrees that it’s the only way to spend some time with his family. “Unfortunately, I’m not at home today. The worst way to celebrate the day is via a video call but it’s also the only way since it has become a part and parcel of our lives now,” the actor says.

Ask him about his fondest memory of celebrating the Parsi New Year and he shares, “We used to get new clothes. I also remember the food very fondly. Thankfully, none of that has changed. Earlier, mom would make a big deal out of it and now Zenobia (Irani’s wife) is following suit.”

So what are his prayers for the new year that begins today? “I’m looking forward to a new era, the post-Covid era. Every religion and community is hoping for prosperous, peaceful and healthy days ahead. And I’m sure that they are also looking forward to come together as families and celebrate festivals. We’ve lost a few people and I hope that we slowly limp back to normalcy,” says the Made In China (2019) actor.

Irani looks at the silver lining and believes that the ongoing pandemic has brought families closer. “During the pandemic, we’ve spent more time with our families than we could have ever imagined. It’s important to realise that family is number one,” he remarks, adding, “Festivals were designed to bring families together. We travel to each other during festivals. I might be working today but I am still close to my loved ones.”

An elaborate Parsi spread completes the auspicious occasion for him. “My favourite is the saas ni machchhi, patrani machchhi, and pulaao daal. I will miss them this year but the day I land in Mumbai, Zenobia will have them prepared for me,” he concludes.

My mother put me on the stage to help me overcome my shyness-Boman Irani


The actor fondly reminisces about his mother Jerbanoo Irani, who passed away recently at the age of 94
Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; June 27, 2021)

“When I grew up a little and began to understand the world around me, I saw a queen in my mom!” That is how Boman Irani remembers his mother Jerbanoo Irani, who passed away recently at the age of 94. The 63-year-old actor’s heartfelt tribute to his mother that he shared on Instagram touched a chord with many.

Boman says, “My idea was to celebrate her life. So many have lost their dear ones during the second wave of Coronavirus, I didn’t want to add to that sadness. I made sure that what I wrote was inspiring rather than tragic. No matter what your age is, when you lose your mother, it’s going to be difficult, but what a wonderful life she has had. She lost her husband and daughter, yet she was all about the spirit. She exuded an attitude of ‘Okay, let’s get this done’. My mother took care of everything — handling children, business, day-to-day problems and to top it, giving us a good time. I don’t know where she found the resilience to do that.”

For someone who was not well-versed with banking work, the prospect of taking up the responsibility of a business and bringing up four children single-handedly must have been terrifying. But the actor says that’s exactly what made his mother tick. “She became a hero not because she was fearless, but because she was afraid of what was going to happen to her four children after her husband’s death,” he says.

Boman calls himself an extension of his mother, especially when it comes to their shared love for cinema and the arts. “She would make me write down the names of movies she had seen and encourage me to watch them, too. She helped me break out of my shell of shyness, by putting me up on the stage, where I had to act and sing. She was thrilled when I joined theatre and later, on cloud nine when my film Munnabhai MBBS (2003) released. That was pretty late in our lives. I became an actor when I was 44 and she was in her 70s. She came for almost every performance of mine in the play I’m Not Bajirao, which ran for 10 years,” he recalls.

There is one piece of advice that always stayed with the actor when he entered showbiz. His mother would often tell him, ‘You are not an actor for people to praise you. You are an actor, so you can make people smile. Make people happy’. Boman says, “We tend to get caught up in our own talent. But talent is a gift and what’s the gift for? It’s not for your ego to be fanned, but it’s to be put out there as part of the entertainment. It is that simple, but profound!”

I’m happy for my mother as she lived a good life-Boman Irani


Kavita Awaasthi (BOMBAY TIMES; June 22, 2021)

Earlier this month, Boman Irani’s mother, Jer, 94, passed away. In a heartfelt Instagram post, the actor gave her a beautiful send off,while sharing glimpses of his mother’s life. Irani admits it’ll take some time to get better but “in my own way I’m happy for her as she lived a good life.”

“My mum’s passing on was not as sad or tragic, as other (death) cases have been. I wanted to inform others about her, and spread a message which wasn’t gloomy. We wanted to celebrate her life... The message was of a happy realisation of life,” he says.

Irani, 62, calls his mother an unbelievable spirit who handled many responsibilities as a young widow. “She fed four little kids, including me, who was unborn when my dad passed away. She wore the hat of a father, mother, provider, and later was an inspiration urging us to follow our dreams,” shares the actor, adding that he feels more for his wife, Zenobia, as she has lost a good friend. “Both of them enjoyed each other’s company,” he explains.

Amid warnings of a third wave, Irani feels that being prepared is the best way forward. “I feel terrible to hear young people dying and the way things were a couple of months ago. We’ve vaccines and we should all get them ASAP. Getting vaccinated and following protocol is the way ahead. We must be prepared as worrying doesn’t help, action does” he ends.

Misery is the base for most comedy; we find it funny when someone hits their head, or falls somewhere-Boman Irani



Hosts of a new comedy reality show where stand ups have to crack up the rest but not break into a guffaw, Boman Irani and Arshad Warsi, discuss their seed of humour
Aastha Atray Banan (MID-DAY; April 25, 2021)

Getting actors Boman Irani and Arshad Warsi on a Zoom call means you are in for a 20-minute laugh fest. That Warsi hasn’t managed to get his morning coffee doesn’t seem to affect him. And Irani is his usual professional, warm self, who remembers the last time we spoke to him and asked if this writer was related to Acharya Atray. The two have come together once again because they are going to host a Bigg Boss equivalent with standup comics. 

Amazon Prime’s LOL - Hasse Toh Phasse that releases on April 30 will see 10 of India’s well-known comics locked in a house. Their only mandate is to make everyone laugh, but never laugh themselves. Whoever cracks up, leaves the house. 

The host pair is apt given that they are two of Bollywood’s most-recognisable funny voices. Irani has played the grouchy authoritarian with perfection although he is far from that in reality, and Warsi can play anything from a tapori to a confused lawyer with witty elan. They have shared screen space in the Munnabhai series and Jolly LLB, but their association goes back longer. “I remember choreographing this song for Alyque Padamsee’s 1995 show, Roshni, and Boman once came on stage and did something that only he could do. He was so funny! I got off stage and fought with the producers, who were arguing that Boman was stealing the show. But I wouldn’t have any of it,” Warsi remembers. 

As we talk, both share the opinion that comedy can’t be taught. “You either have it or don’t”. But we probe. Is it genetic, or are you inspired by the uncle who came home every week and cracked jokes about the mohalla? Irani says, “My mother is really funny. She is 92, and still sometimes gives it off. But most of her wit emerges when she is telling stories from her past. She was a young widow—she would tell us about a customer she met at a shop and her narration would leave us in splits. Most of the stories stem from misery, which interestingly is the base for most comedy. We find it funny when someone hits their head, or falls somewhere. Even in a show like Friends, they are not trying to be funny, you find comedy in their everyday misery.” 

Along the way, Irani admits to have found inspiration in comics like Johny Lever, and Mehmood. “I have observed Johny Lever — he made comedy out of miserable situations. For me, comedy is all about misdirection. You take a person down a certain road, and then the slap comes from a different side. It’s all about the surprise element.”

For Warsi, who was a fan of Charlie Chaplin, the one movie that made him see comedy in a new light, was Sai Paranjpye’s 1981 romantic comedy Chashme Buddoor, the story of skirt-chasing friends who have to accept that their nerdy buddy lands the girl. “The concept of comedy was turned on its head. Nobody was trying to be funny, but the situations were hilarious,” Warsi says, adding that he finds humour in tragedy.  “I won’t advise anyone to behave like I did. But when my mother passed away many years ago, Maria [Goretti, his wife] came up to me and said, ‘I am sorry’. And I said, ‘Why are you sorry? It’s not your fault!’ So, it’s [humour] everywhere.”  

For now, they are waiting for the show to offer respite at a time when the country is once again grappling with grim times. “It’s a whole new format of humour, and very exciting. And these comics have really made us laugh,” says Warsi.

One could have a blockbuster, but if you aren’t happy, then what is the point?-Boman Irani

Kavita Awaasthi (HINDUSTAN TIMES; December 3, 2020)

Boman Irani’s mantra in life is to be happy and to find joy in everyday life. The actor, who turned 61 yesterday, shares that one should have something to look forward to in life. “As long as I am happy, age is nothing but a number. Emotionally, I am sharper, more alive and excited than ever, even if physically, I can’t do things that a 25, 45 or 55-year-old person can,” says Irani, who visited his sisters in Pune for his birthday.

Having been in the industry almost two decades now, the Munna Bhai MBBS (2003) actor applies his mantra at work, too. “One could have a blockbuster, but if you aren’t happy, then what is the point? There could be obstacles in life but you have to learn to be happy. For me, enjoying myself while making a movie is success. If I was miserable making a hit film, the success won’t give me joy... I believe if I am not happy, I am not successful. No amount of money, box office returns or awards can ever match up to internal happiness,” he says.

This year, besides the pandemic, mental health was one topic that received a lot of attention, and Irani admits that it needs to be talked about. “We have to hold it together. We have to keep an eye on each other and be there for friends and family... Today, more than ever, we need to spread the message of hope, that everything will be fine,” says the actor whose rendition of The Wizard Of Oz (1939) song, Over The Rainbow, with a group of girls from a choir, went viral recently.

With two movies, Jayeshbhai Jordaar and '83 ready to release, Irani is excited about 2021. “I love to plan. Be it travel, the movie that I am writing and directing, the screenplay classes with budding writers, which I have had 200 sessions so far, all of these energise me. I am also in talks for three new films, which should be fun,” he shares.

Write about something that moves you, and not just something that will sell-Boman Irani

Boman Irani
Actor and aspiring screenplay writer Boman Irani has been using every day of the lockdown to mentor young writers in a novel learn-some, teach-some experiment
Aastha Atray Banan (MID-DAY; October 4, 2020)

When you hear the name Boman Irani, you think, ace actor. Although a late start in the movies at age 44, he held his own from his very first film, the 2001 indie venture, Everybody Says I'm Fine!

And yet, it's in fact screen writing that he says, that has held his fancy from the start. "I had always wanted to write my own screenplay. When you do movies, and want to do something different, sometimes, you end up helping with the writing, here and there. But when I started to write a screenplay, I knew I needed to reinvent myself. Working in the industry as an actor doesn't automatically make you qualified to be an actor-director. You have to work at it."

And so the prep began. For the last eight years, Irani has been studying screenplay writing; researching the subject, and working with 2014 Oscar winning screenplay writer Alexander Dinelaris, who wrote Birdman. "I met Dinelaris when he hadn't yet written Birdman, and we became friends. He has been helping me with the craft since. I speak to him every day. In 2019, when I launched my production house Irani Movietone, I decided that instead of having a party, why not fly him down for a huge writing workshop. So many screenwriters, and students attended. It was a great time. And then just when we were going to start filming, the lockdown began."

Pandemic or not, the participating writers weren't about to leave him alone. Requests from amateur screenwriters poured in, so one day, he collected a bunch on Zoom.

Ever since, in the last six months, Irani has been holding a daily free screenwriting masterclass, called Spiral Bound. He has gone through 160 sessions with over a hundred students. Irani is helped by his nephew, novelist Anosh Irani, who the actor says, is his partner in crime. "He helps distill everything I say, and sometimes makes it more comprehensible."

Alfred Hitchcock once said, "To make a great film you need three things—the script, the script and the script". But what should the script centre around?

For Irani, it's all about the hero, or the central character. "Don't tell me a story via the plot. Tell me a story through the hero's journey. We have to get to the heart of the lead character. The story is not about incidents. It's about the anguish and challenges that the hero faces." He's certain that every good movie has almost always been about the central character's journey and struggle. "Lagaan is not about the British rule and a cricket match. It's about a man who dared to rebel, and then had to rally the troops. What's your favourite movie?" he asks this writer.

"A Few Good Men."

"Right. That film is not about a fight between a lawyer and an army officer. It's about a young man who has to rise beyond the shadow of his father. This is such a fun game! Every good movie ever is about the character."

Irani also corrects us when we say that the focus on the script is a new development in Bollywood. "No, think of movies like Anand. It's not about a man who has cancer. It's about his attitude and his passion for life depicted in every scene."

Other than the main character, he places importance on structure. "The structure starts from the moment you say the story will end," he says. And, it's all about dividing the script into three parts. "Act 1 is setting it up. The day he accepts a challenge, that's when Act 2 begins." It's here where he gets the most questions from students. "They want to know what happens in this empty marshland, the space between Act 1 and 3. How do they write it? We have been watching movies to get a hang of it. We have to start the journey, start working around the obstacles, maybe there is a new obstacle. We all fall into trouble in that marshland."

From his own career, he remembers the scenes from Khosla ka Ghosla, written by Jaideep Sahni, as magical. "The scenes in this movie are so tight and correct in how the action rises from each moment."

The sessions have also seen some big names from the industry pop in as guest lecturers. Other than Denelaris, Rajkumar Hirani, made an appearance. "With Raju, we all went on a journey. He said when he wrote Munnabhai, he would go and sleep with his friends who worked at the hospitals. He saw the real patients. So he said, observe life around you, and make it personal. Write about something that moves you, and not just something that will sell."

With Dinelaris, the focus was on keeping the conflict alive in each scene. "He spoke about the character surprising you as a writer. He said, 'Yeah, the character gave me the line. He spoke back to me'. That's truly fascinating."

Irani also sees the workshops as a bonding exercise, especially in the times we live in. "Apart from learning, we are sticking together as a family. The circumstances we find ourselves in have been debilitating. And this has helped us know we are all in it together."

Want to attend a session? Drop a mail to yash@iranimovietone.com 

I find a teacher every day; It could be the guy you meet in the lift-Boman Irani


Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; September 5, 2020)

Actor Boman Irani’s journey so far has a lot to teach us — for instance, where you are today doesn’t mean you have to be stuck there tomorrow too. It was at the age of 44, when he made his acting debut with Darna Mana Hai (2003), and went on to deliver memorable performances in Khosla Ka Ghosla and Lage Raho Munnabhai (both 2006).

He’s also played two of Bollywood’s most memorable teachers in recent years — Dean Asthana (Munnabhai MBBS; 2003) and Viru Sahastrabudhhe (3 Idiots, 2009). On Teacher’s Day today, we ask him about his life’s most influential teacher and he says, “I find one every day. It could be a kid. When I go abroad and sit in taxis, I get wisdom from taxi drivers. They’re dying to talk, they meet so many people every day, are listening to radio all the time so they know politics as well, and about human behaviour.”

In fact, the 60-year-old’s early life experiences, as a wafer shop owner, involved meeting many people. “I began going there since I was a kid, and would sit in the shop from 1979-94. I learned a lot from my customers, I’d see a character here and there. Teachers in real life can come from any quarters. It could be the guy you meet in the lift, who’d give you a perspective on the world you never imagined! My mother has been a wonderful teacher. It doesn’t have to be a famous guy,” he says.

And he agrees that his character, of a principal, in 3 Idiots is perhaps everything a teacher should not be! “I had to be everything Rancho (Aamir Khan’s character) was not. The theme of the film was ‘Chase excellence success will follow’, I had to play the opposite, chase marks and numbers, and look at the other guy as competition. He did not go for excellence. Had he gone for that, he would have been another Rancho,” Irani adds.

All my photography came out of lack of equipment-Boman Irani


Etti Bali (HINDUSTAN TIMES; August 19, 2020)

Actor Boman Irani started off as a waiter, went on to take up photography after buying a camera with his savings, and at the age of 35, became an actor. Now, he is planning his directorial debut. Today, on World Photography Day, we take a look at his journey.

Photography was a natural choice for Irani, whose father was a photo-grapher. “I never met my father, so it (few cameras and some negatives) was the only physical memory of him,” says the 60-year-old actor.

Although he took up photography when he became a father, he had read a lot of books on it before that, and it soon became an outlet for expression. He says, “Photography taught me patience. It was a stepping stone to what I eventually wanted to do. Everything I want to express started from photography.”

Counting legends such as Raghu Rai, Pablo Bartholomew and Henri Cartier-Bresson among his inspirations, he says, “These are the real disciplined gurus who devoted their lives to the craft. There’s nothing flashy to what they do, but it’s outstanding. You don’t have to read anything about them. You just have to see their photographs and you understand what went into it.”

This opens the field for the age-old equipment vs vision debate. For Irani, it was a lack of means to afford equipment that helped him hone his craft. “I’m not saying equipment is not necessary, but all my photography came out of lack of equipment. The moment I feel I am being stunted if I don’t have an additional lens, I am finished. At that point in time, I never had the notion that I would increase my kit. Then, you rely on vision, expression, creativity. Even though specific kinds of photography would need equipment, never be stunted by it,” he advises.

With the Coronavirus pandemic, has it become difficult to go out and click? “I now look forward to the photograph to come to me. Don’t feel stunted just because you’re at home. You are only stunted by your own lack of creativity,” he opines.

Less people on a set means less people employed-Boman Irani


Nishad Neelambaran (HINDUSTAN TIMES; July 24, 2020)

“The Coronavirus lockdown has been difficult on everybody, but it’s about how people are coping with it which is more important,” says Boman Irani. The Munna Bhai M.B.B.S (2003) actor says that “it has been less hard on us — people with hard roofs and three-square meals everyday as compared to ones who don’t”. “I don’t think we are in any position to grumble. We should be grateful. Yes, it does get a little frustrating. But this is what it is and we have to just get along with it. The more you grumble, the worst it is going to be for you,” he opines.

Ask him about shoots resuming in the country, and he says, “Honestly, I don’t know and I don’t think I am in a position to talk about when shoots will begin. It is a conjecture. But it depends on a lot of factors. When the time is good, the shoots will begin.” So, does he think shooting with less people on the sets will be a challenge? “Adapting to situations like we are doing today and doing stuff from home, we will find our way to do newer things. I don’t think it will be a challenge,” she shares.

However, Irani has another concern when it comes to fewer people on the sets. “Less people on a set means less people will be employed. That hurts me more. Of course, that will be a greater challenge than making movies with a thinner unit,” he says.

About people preferring to watch films on OTT platforms than in the movie theatres in the future, he says that “all of this is temporary”. “I don’t know how long it will take. People have been watching movies on OTT platforms and they will continue to do so. (However) There is restlessness among people. And I think when the waters are safe and the sharks have all swam away, people would like to go back to the theatres. With trepidation, of course, but once things are safer the theatres will fill up again,” adds Irani.

Personally, Irani agrees that it might not be the right time to start shooting. “Not now for sure. But if it has to be done, it has to be done with extreme caution and manic hand washing and sanitising. If that will be the method people are ready to follow in a regimental way like it’s an army rule, then there will be a slow infiltration to the studios. There will be a great amount of discipline required,” he signs off.

My learning from this pandemic is to never take our freedom for granted-Boman Irani


Neha Maheshwri (BOMBAY TIMES; June 3, 2020)

Ever since the lockdown was implemented more than two months ago, Boman Irani has followed a simple mantra — keep busy and spread positivity. So much so, the actor has steered clear of the deluge of WhatsApp forwards, which, according to him, does nothing but incite panic. He says, “Take charge of what’s in your control and spread positivity in your family and community. As long as you do that, you have done your job.”

Now that there are no shoots and events happening, how does he keep himself occupied? The senior actor replies, “I am conducting screen-writing sessions, which start at noon and go on till about 2 pm. Then there are the photography sessions that I moderate, asking questions to a panel of photographers, which go on till 5.30 pm. It’s in the evening that people tend to feel really low. So, that’s when I reconnect with people that I haven’t talked to in a long time. For example, a video call with my school friends, whom I haven’t met since 1975! The remaining time is reserved for the family. At night, I watch movies, and decide which one can be broken down into a model screenplay for the next day’s session. So, sharing, learning and smiling are on my agenda on a typical day.”

Boman says that his favourite part of the day is the morning. “I love enjoying morning chai with my mom. These are simple things you miss out on when you are shooting,” he shares. Talking about family, he adds, “It’s like a big fat party. I dance with my grandkid — he shakes his body, I shake mine and everybody joins in and we have a bit of a jig. We also play board games together. When was the last time we played games with our families?”

The actor feels that the lockdown has helped humankind re-evaluate their priorities. “My learning from this global crisis is to never take our freedom for granted. Also, we should respect the resources we have more. Today, we are feeling grateful even for basic supplies, things we had taken for granted till now. The Coronavirus pandemic has changed our perspective towards everything — life, relationships and the value of money. Besides strong biological immunity, we need to build strong psychological immunity as well. For a lot of people, it has been extremely difficult. All I can say is, ‘hang in there’,” he signs off.

Sunil Dutt saab confided that he was a nervous wreck-Boman Irani


As told to Ankita Chaurasia (MUMBAI MIRROR; February 25, 2020)

It was during the editing of the short film, Let’s Talk, shot on a handycam, that Vidhu Vinod Chopra, who was cutting his Mission Kashmir at the same studio, noticed me. He called me for a meeting and said that he wanted to work with me in his next. I asked him which film it would be for and he said he didn’t have any at the moment, but whenever he made one, I’d be in it. Eight months later, I got a call. He wanted me to play the antagonist, J C Asthana, the dean of a medical college, in a film titled Munnanhai MBBS, to be directed by his editor Raju (Rajkumar Hirani). The name was weird, but after a narration, I was convinced.

My first day on the set was the first day of the film’s shoot as well, which meant it was Raju’s first day as a director. My first shot was with Dutt saab (Sunil Dutt), who was facing the camera after 16 years. So, in a way, it was his first day too. You can imagine the nervous energy on the set.

As soon as I walked into the set, Dutt saab ushered me into his vanity van for rehearsals and started calling for tea. I offered to get it for him, but he insisted on doing it himself, confiding that he was a nervous wreck. Here I was sweating because my first shot was opposite the legend I’d grown up idolising. And he tells me he is nervous!

Going by my get-up, he thought I was older than him and started addressing me as ‘Doctor saab’. When Sanju (Sanjay Dutt) dropped by, he saw me hanging out with his father and I became his ‘uncle’. I wanted to tell him that, at 44, I was four months younger to him but I was just so happy being around such established actors in my first film.

In my first shot, I bump into Dutt saab’s character, Hari Prasad Sharma, while buying nariyal pani after attending a laughter club at the park. Happy at this chance meeting with an old friend, Dr Asthana is dumbfounded on learning that Sharma’s son, who he had dismissed as a good-for-nothing boy was now a doctor and ran a hospital. Simultaneously, he is irritated because the nariyal pani wala (Rohitashv Gour), planted there by Munna, keeps interrupting them. He shouts at him, then, laughs out loud. I fumbled and forgot my lines the first time. Even Dutt saab wanted another take because he thought he could do better than the first.

The script had the words ‘laughs’ pencilled next to my dialogue. Dutt saab assumed it would be a short laugh. The surprise on his face when I broke into a full-throated guffaw was real. Raju told me we’d shoot one take with the laugh and one without it. After a while, we figured the laugh added to Dr Asthana’s quirks and finally stopped shooting a scene twice.

At the film’s premiere, when I walked up to Dutt saab, he greeted me with a cursory smile and hurt, I wondered where had all the warmth disappeared. When I told him I was ‘Doctor saab’, he looked lost, asking me which hospital I worked for. It was then that I realised he didn’t recognise me because I was sporting a full head of hair and he had only seen me with my bald pate. We had a good laugh over it.

People didn’t recognise me; I’d walk into any lecture-Boman Irani talks about 10 years of 3 Idiots


Rishabh Suri (HINDUSTAN TIMES; December 25, 2019)

High on laugher, content, star value and the message it sends across, 3 Idiots remains one of the most relevant films of our times and even after a decade of its release. Revolving around the Indian education system, the 2009 film starred Aamir Khan as the quirky Rancho/Phunsukh Wangdu, who aims to prove that one needs to chase excellence, and success will follow. He locks horns with the ruthlessly competitive dean of his engineering college, Viru Sahastrabudhe played by actor Boman Irani.

Virus (as the 60-year-old is still referred to) is as far removed from Boman in real-life as it could. Rude, insensitive, arrogant — he is anything but this!

“The first scene I shot as Virus was in Shimla, when my daughter (played by Kareena Kapoor Khan) is getting married. The team had just had a harrowing escape from the blizzard in Leh-Ladakh. They were pretty shattered when I met them. Luckily, we could help them deal with the tension,” he says.

But that’s after Virus became a changed man. As for the original, mean character, he got to play it at IIM Bangalore, where the college scenes were shot. Reveals Boman, “Every morning, I’d get dressed in the velcro shirt, with the hook tie, even if I wasn’t shooting, and cycle around the campus. People didn’t recognise me and thought I was a professor. I’d bark and snarl at everybody, leaving them wondering, ‘Who the hell is this guy?’ I’d walk into any lecture, the professor would stop talking, thinking maybe I was a new appointee. I’d look around the room, say ‘Carry on’ and go. I just wanted to own the place! My character was one who had been there for 20-30 years. One masterstroke was that we all stayed in the campus, in the staff quarters. All the boys — Aamir, Chatur (played by Omi Vaidya) Sharman (Joshi) and Maddy (R Madhavan) felt part of it.”

Boman received acclaim upon its release, and the film ranks among the highest-grossers of Indian cinema. Though Boman expected the film to work, he didn’t have any idea about the cult status it would achieve. “I’m still surprised. When it released, we thought it’d be a nice film… I realised it had become big when I got calls from people who I hadn’t heard from in years, about the film. I was on a vacation, and when I returned, we went on a victory tour. We would stand on the terrace of the theatre, and there would be a sea of people on the streets! I never thought Virus would capture (attention),” he smiles.