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We don’t consider ourselves celebrities. Ours was a regular middle class wedding-Vikrant Massey
8:09 AM
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Renuka Vyavahare (BOMBAY TIMES; March 26, 2022)
Vikrant Massey speaks about his recent hush-hush wedding with actress and long-time girlfriend Sheetal Thakur in Himachal Pradesh, their prior live-in relationship and his career. Excerpts…
You had an intimate wedding in Himachal Pradesh last month. It is a beautiful choice of destination for a wedding, but any particular reason why you chose that place?
I was born and raised in Mumbai. We got married in Himachal as Sheetal’s maika is there and my father was born in Shimla. My paternal side is from Shimla, too. We got married in Sheetal’s ancestral village called Jhabola, in Bilaspur district in HP.
Closely guarded celeb weddings have been following a certain pattern lately — similar designers picked for the outfits, candid photography, social media announcements, phone ban for the guests present and the works. You didn’t resort to it though.
We don’t consider ourselves as celebrities, so I didn’t even think on those lines. I feel very awkward when someone calls me a celebrity. I know my reality. I know of these massive celebrity weddings, but ours was a regular middle-class wedding. Last minute tak tayari chal rahi thi. Our families took all the decisions aur humne shaadi karli. Shaadi mein kaafi faltu kharche hote hai. Hum woh sab cut karke ghar jaisi shaadi hi chahte the.
An intimate wedding in the mountains, minus all the fancy stuff and elaborate planning. Recently, Yami Gautam and Aditya Dhar, also tied the knot in a simple low-key style. So, is this what you always desired your wedding to be?
The idea was always to have only people who are really important to us present on our wedding day. It was a complete family affair. Yami (Gautam) also hails from Bilaspur district of Himachal. She got married there as well. Humara bhi wohi idea tha. We had decided a couple of years ago itself that shaadi jabhi hogi, toh ghar jaisi hi hogi. Both of us wanted it that way and we both chose her ancestral house for a reason. Sheetal’s grandmother is 108 years old and she cannot travel. Hum amma ke yaha hi shaadi karna chahte the, hence, the ancestral house. And it’s always good to take a break from the city.
Did you and Yami exchange notes on your respective weddings?
Yami is a dear friend. She knew about my wedding pehle se. Unko sab pata tha. Unhone tips bhi diye the. She was happy that shaadi Himachal mein hone wali hai, aur ghar mein hone wali hai. Now there are two Himachali brides around me. One is Yami and the other is my wife Sheetal.
Sheetal and you have been together for seven years before you decided to tie the knot. What binds you both the most and what makes this relationship tick?
I think it’s the common value system and worldviews that bring two people closer. This is in the beginning. Of course, later on, other factors also come in. She is someone I can talk to; she is down to earth and also keeps me grounded. She has been my biggest support system, the light of my family and my life. I can go on and on about it. Above all, the love we feel for each other draws us closer. Love supersedes everything, but I strongly believe that our value system binds us together. She makes the world a better place.
Did living in together help the relationship and the process that eventually led to marriage?
Yes! That was one of the best decisions we’ve taken. We decided to live in to get to know each other better. We decided to spend time together and that led us to marriage. We lived in for six years before tying the knot. It makes you responsible towards yourself, your actions as well as the other person who is sharing that space and life with you. There’s so much of personality growth that happens. Companionship is a constant roller-coaster going to be good and bad days.
After living in for six years, what made the two of you feel that now it is time to take the pheras?
Yehi cheez saal do saal pehle bhi ho jaati. But my priorities were different back then. Why not now? Our life is going great and we wanted to build our life together. Both of us and our families always wanted us to spend our lives together, so why not? There is no such thing as the right time. Aisa tha ki ab karni hai toh kar hi lete hai. There was no point in delaying it because not once did we ever have together. So, we decided chalo shaadi kar lete hai.
Moving on to your professional life, are you content with the roles coming your way?
I couldn’t be happier. I am living my dream. I always wanted to work in cinema, tell good stories and work with like-minded people. Woh ho raha hai. Results are not in your control. The stupidest thing one can do is set out on a journey hoping iska result yeh hoga. All you can do is set targets and work towards them. Whatever comes out of it is a blessing. I hope to challenge myself as an actor as there is this innate fear of being typecast. There is an effort to swim against the tide and chart new territories. Every film changes something for you, but A Death In The Gunj changed a lot for me. My TV shows have also contributed immensely to my growth. Be it Balika Vadhu or Baba Aiso Varr Dhoondo, had I not done those TV shows, I wouldn’t be here. Platform or medium is not important, content is. One thing always leads to another.
Besides dance, we would also help the kids in Kamathipura with their studies-Vikrant Massey
8:20 AM
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As told to Avinash Lohana (MUMBAI MIRROR; July 23, 2019)
I had joined the Summer Funk course at Shiamak Davar’s dance institute (left) when I was around 16. I had a blast and even won an award after being adjudged one of the best dancers. Unfortunately, the trophy broke while I was returning home from the performance hall. Now, that was heart-breaking. But I guess I must have caught the eye because soon after, I was selected for a special potential batch and started assisting an instructor by the name of Kunal.We were given two options: we could teach at one of Shiamak’s commercial classes or as a part of an initiative, train the kids of sex workers in Kamathipura. I chose the latter and worked as an assistant instructor with them for almost a year. Besides dance, we would also help them with their studies. It was an incredible experience and life back then was hectic.
I remember I would catch the 5.50 am local train from Andheri to Grant Road. On the way, I would grab a samosa-pav and Rooh Afza-laced milk. The class would go on for an hour or so after which Kunal and I would go to an Irani bakery for breakfast. Then, I would leave for college while he would head towards a work commitment. In the evening, all the instructors would meet again for training. Our day never ended before 10 pm, sometimes even 11 pm. I was one of the youngest instructors, VJ Manish Anand was one of my colleagues, and I have fond memories of the time we spent with those kids.
I earned my first salary from a school assignment. Some people had flown down from New Zealand and were working on a catalogue. They needed a still photographer for their project and zeroed in on me. I was paid Rs 200 for those pictures and I used the money to play video games.
While I was dabbling in all this, I knew deep down that I wanted to be an actor but the plan was to get into it after completing my education. But when I was 17, I was working at the dance institute where I met this producer who offered me a TV show. It was Diwali night. I grabbed the offer and shot for it, waiting impatiently for the show to air. But because of some legal issues between the producers and the broadcasters, it was stuck. It finally released after six years in the 2 am slot. And my mother would stay awake to watch it.
However, while I was waiting for it, I worked in the same producer’s office for two-three months as an assistant in the creative team. I would conduct auditions. After that I tried but since no offers were coming my way, I joined a coffee shop in Juhu. I was the cleaner-cum-worker. The idea of starting work at such an early age was to support myself and my family in whatever way I could. I worked at the coffee shop for six to seven months. My job included monitoring the restrooms to see that they were cleaned every few hours. I had to check if the soap and the tissue paper were there, among other things. Sometimes my friends would show up and order a cappuccino, leaving behind a Rs 10-Rs 20 tip for me.
Occasionally, I would see people giving me the ‘look’, wondering why a well-spoken guy like me was working at a coffee shop. One of my seniors there knew I had acting aspirations and would encourage me a lot. He called me “sundar ladka” and believed good things were in store for me.
I hung on to my acting dream and eventually Dharam Veer (below) happened in 2008. This TV show was a fictional story of two princes set in 13th century Aryanagar with me playing the righteous and dutiful Dharam and Rajat Tokas as Veer. This was followed by Balika Vadhu a year later, followed by other TV shows like Baba Aiso Varr Dhoondo and Qubool Hai, followed by my big Bollywood break in Lootera in which I played Ranveer Singh’s friend. I have just wrapped up Meghna Gulzar’s Chhapaak with Deepika Padukone.

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